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I Am Not In Love With My Spouse

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    A new day,long it will be, he's off of work today and will be completely annoying me.The joy I used to show when cooking breakfast for him is no longer there.The sparkle in my eye when I would see him sitting across the room has faded.The compliments have all ceased,I barely...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 6 Responses May 23, 2008

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    The Sparks Are Gone

    I do notice him prance around the house in his boxers or towel, just out of the shower, wanting me to comment. I do comment, but it is forced. I know the comments make him feel good. He is an attractive man and I did desire him when we first met, but not anymore. The thought...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    5 Years And No Passion

    I'm 24 years old and I met my fiance 5 years ago. I've always felt like he's been more "in love" with me than I was with him. We got engaged after 9 months and never really have planned a wedding. He's always been my best friend, the one I can laugh with and talk to. He used to...
    riley1986 riley1986 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    I have been with my partner

    for approximately 12 years. I used to be really in love with him and couldn't imagine my life without him. Now - with shame - I admit that I don't even want him in my life anymore. I feel like the life I have been living is a sham. No one knows how strongly I have come to resent...
    happiness888 happiness888 26-30, F Sep 19

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    Why Does This Happan To Me

    we have been with eachother for over 13 years and all thats been going on is that i feel more hate towards him every day.i want to belive that the guy i thought i was in love with put hr changed on me i have been there for him no matter. he  treats me like i am not good enought...
    coyavir coyavir 36-40 3 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Am I Wrong

    I married my husband thinking that physical attraction is superficial and not necessary for a relationship to be successful. I was wrong. I care for my spouse greatly but I am not in love with him. Should i stay? That is a question that plagues me. I don't want to cheat him out...
    journey101 journey101 36-40 5 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    Love Slipped Away

    It's a harsh reality to face but I am not in love with my husband anymore.I wish that things were different,we used to be happy.He is aware that my feelings have changed and I've stopped trying to do anything to fix things.I am just tired.I remember when I used to wait for him to...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 12 Responses May 22, 2008

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    Staying For All The Wrong Reasons

    I have been married nearly 14 years.  I have been with my husband for almost 16 years.  After 5 years I fell out of love with my husband.  He changed soon after we were married, about a year in.  He lost focus on us and became selfish with a goal of his.  It was actually...
    Ascending Ascending 31-35 5 Responses Nov 12, 2011

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    Am I Bad?

    I am not a secretive person. In my family, I'm the blabber-mouth. So when I say that what I am about to type is something I haven't told anyone, I mean that it has killed me to not confide in someone...my mom, or my sister, or my best friend. I wonder if I'm terrible, and I don't...
    turtleracer turtleracer 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2010

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    This Is It

    So I woke up this morning (after another night on the couch) with the decision in my head again, that I can not live like this way anymore. I'm really excited and a weight is lifted to even be thinking in this direction, but I know he won't let this be easy. With months of...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    Well, obviously I'm still in love with him. We literally broke up just last night. It hurts so bad..I don't understand how to cope with losing someone that important to me. Not...
    Brookiesayseyoo Brookiesayseyoo 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I think I'm in love with my best friend. It hit me when I wasn't prepared. And I have a feeling that she knows about my feelings, however, there's this aura around her that I think...
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    My best friend is lesbian and she is in love with me but I'm straight..
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    He's the answer to all of my problems. He's the key to the whole in my heart. I don't care what anyone says. I love him. I love him with everything I have. You don't have the...
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    Fell in love for the first time 20 yrs ago with a man who thought I was much older than I was. I lied about my age. I really liked him but we only saw each other off and on for a...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    Ive been in love with my bestfriend since freshmen year. We have been soo close but he doesnt love me back.. We have been through soo much together.. He used to like me but then...
    believexo believexo 16-17, F Sep 21

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    Well can I really call it love? I did have feelings for my best friend last year, but they slowly faded. Before that, I was crazy in love with her. I always imagined her as my girl...
    LocalArtist LocalArtist 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I'm going to start this off by saying - I'm not sure if I'm in love, but I don't what else to think with the thoughts I hold in my mind or the feelings I hold in my heart. I know...
    luciddreamer94 luciddreamer94 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    I'm going to start this off by saying - I'm not sure if I'm in love, but I don't what else to think with the thoughts I hold in my mind or the feelings I hold in my heart. I know...
    luciddreamer94 luciddreamer94 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    OMG guys!! I have some news !!I have just got home from school but i couldnt wait to tell you everything! ! So, today on his class , i had already finished my lessons so I went to...
    Ollyecleo Ollyecleo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    This is a somewhat lengthy story, but a very true and loving story. This started when we were both kids, over 40 years ago. I am just over 50 and she will be 50 next year. We...
    honoluludave honoluludave 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Okkkay here's the thing I'm in love with my music teacher, at first it was just a crush but then I started to love him more and more. His eyes, his face, his music oh God his music...
    HopeIdk HopeIdk 13-15, F Sep 23

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    Advice? Help? Tips? So I've been in love with my former teacher for almost a year now. I know it sounds really ridiculous, and believe me, before I met him I thought teacher...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yael) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I definitely am! I'll give you more details on who he is later but you can probably read my activity and figure out for yourselves too. In the beginning, I thought it was just the...
    oreocupcake23 oreocupcake23 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I am in love with someone. I can't tell anyone because it's a close friend of mine. He got married over a game and I know it's stupid but it hurts me when they talk. I tried...
    sickinlove57 sickinlove57 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I am in love with someone and I have been for a long time but I don't know if they even like me as a friend anymore because they rarely talk to me or see me now but I used to be...
    Jamesheller Jamesheller 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 25

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    I'm in love with people I dont know yet, places I've never been to. I'm in love with the idea of a bright future yet I fear it when it steadily approaches. I am in love with...
    aprilcatastrophe aprilcatastrophe 13-15, F Sep 26

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    I know he has probably moved on already. Actually I'm almost certain he has, but I'm still in love with my ex. Some days I have hope that maybe he will come back but others I'm not...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    So, yeah, basically I fell in love with my best friends brother, Jay. We met a year ago, and we dated for about five months. I fell in love with him very quickly. I thought we were...
    maddierosee maddierosee 13-15, F Sep 26

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    With each day that I spend talking to Jay, the more I realize what he means to me. It's amazing to me that someone so incredible is mine, and that he loves me as much as I love him...
    maddierosee maddierosee 13-15, F Sep 27

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    i am in love with my best friend's mother one day she said that she developped feeling for me the next day she act like nothing happen we've talk about possibilities about...
    lokiboy1994 lokiboy1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    It doesn't matter that I was 18 when I met you. It doesn't matter that you're only a few years older than me. It doesn't matter that I am hopelessly in love with you. But, do you...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yale) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F Sep 29

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    Being in love is suppose to be easy right? When I met this guy my freshman year of high school I hated his guts. In fact I hated him up until my junior year. He was so cocky and...
    Mystorynotmyname Mystorynotmyname 18-21, F Oct 1

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    I was 13, no guy payed attention to me, I was too innocent in my opinion, then I started talkig to this really good looking guy that I met on xbox, he was being so so so so nice...
    victoriaalvarez victoriaalvarez 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I was 14 years old when I fell in love with a guy I never met. I remember the exact date I met him, 26th January 2009 sometime after 6pm. It was back in the days of MSN. We met on...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 2

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    That's the beauty of online friends, things like looks and age, it just doesn't matter, it's what lives inside their souls that I fall in love with. That is a pure love, and pure...
    SRayne SRayne 41-45 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Me and my bestie have been best friends since we were three years old. We did everything together but we are so different from each other. She is an athlete (she is on a...
    foxyknoxy18 foxyknoxy18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 3

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    To begin with, I'm not really in love with a fictional character. Well I used to, but now that I look back at it. It was more of an infatuation, well a FEW infatuations I must say...
    arhsd01 arhsd01 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I have posted about this many a time before; truthfully I don't even know which category to post this in. Perhaps to get the most feedback I will just post it in more than 1. Is...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Oh hells yea I am! Been that way since last May. Now, I have maybe entertained suicidal thoughts a handful of times. But I had never actually done anything or even gotten close to...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F Oct 8

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    Reading the book Hemlock Grove I just love this character. He's in love with own cousin and is using drugs and booze to numb it. I'm the same I'll say he'd introduced the anti...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    It's been 14 years since we first met. We lost contact for 2 yours, we found each other again, through a number i carved on the underside of my drawer. We fell in love right away...
    DejectedSolitude DejectedSolitude 26-30, M Oct 10

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    I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months. I know it might not seem like a lot, but he was the only guy I ever got this close to. We were deeply in love with eachother. He...
    theanonymouslh theanonymouslh 18-21, F Oct 12

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13