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I Am Not In Love With My Spouse

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    5 Years And No Passion

    I'm 24 years old and I met my fiance 5 years ago. I've always felt like he's been more "in love" with me than I was with him. We got engaged after 9 months and never really have planned a wedding. He's always been my best friend, the one I can laugh with and talk to. He used to...
    riley1986 riley1986 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    Love?

    A new day,long it will be, he's off of work today and will be completely annoying me.The joy I used to show when cooking breakfast for him is no longer there.The sparkle in my eye when I would see him sitting across the room has faded.The compliments have all ceased,I barely...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 6 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Am I Wrong

    I married my husband thinking that physical attraction is superficial and not necessary for a relationship to be successful. I was wrong. I care for my spouse greatly but I am not in love with him. Should i stay? That is a question that plagues me. I don't want to cheat him out...
    journey101 journey101 36-40 5 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    This Is It

    So I woke up this morning (after another night on the couch) with the decision in my head again, that I can not live like this way anymore. I'm really excited and a weight is lifted to even be thinking in this direction, but I know he won't let this be easy. With months of...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    Staying For All The Wrong Reasons

    I have been married nearly 14 years.  I have been with my husband for almost 16 years.  After 5 years I fell out of love with my husband.  He changed soon after we were married, about a year in.  He lost focus on us and became selfish with a goal of his.  It was actually...
    Ascending Ascending 31-35 5 Responses Nov 12, 2011

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    Love Slipped Away

    It's a harsh reality to face but I am not in love with my husband anymore.I wish that things were different,we used to be happy.He is aware that my feelings have changed and I've stopped trying to do anything to fix things.I am just tired.I remember when I used to wait for him to...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 11 Responses May 22, 2008

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    Why Does This Happan To Me

    we have been with eachother for over 13 years and all thats been going on is that i feel more hate towards him every day.i want to belive that the guy i thought i was in love with put hr changed on me i have been there for him no matter. he  treats me like i am not good enought...
    coyavir coyavir 36-40 3 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Am I Bad?

    I am not a secretive person. In my family, I'm the blabber-mouth. So when I say that what I am about to type is something I haven't told anyone, I mean that it has killed me to not confide in someone...my mom, or my sister, or my best friend. I wonder if I'm terrible, and I don't...
    turtleracer turtleracer 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2010

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    The Sparks Are Gone

    I do notice him prance around the house in his boxers or towel, just out of the shower, wanting me to comment. I do comment, but it is forced. I know the comments make him feel good. He is an attractive man and I did desire him when we first met, but not anymore. The thought...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    Just need to ask. If anyone is in love with a loyal, faithfull scorpio. I had my doubts about the man I've been with for the last 10 months. I questioned him, I said what bothers...
    renija renija 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    I met her online. We've been friends for a little over a year now. We've talked about it before and still do a lot. She lives in Canada and I live in the US in the state of...
    kyuubinaruto199 kyuubinaruto199 16-17, M Aug 18

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    I met a guy at work and we started talking about common interests, some time passed when we stopped talking, however, after some time passed we started talking and hanging out. I...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F Aug 20

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    My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years, And the first time I laid my eyes in him in gym class I knew he was the one. It was definitely love at first sight...
    kis96 kis96 18-21, F Aug 22

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    It's been a year. I feel disgusted with myself but then I keep trying to defend myself saying "you can't control your emotions. It's not your fault on who you end up being...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    And I am absolutely head over heels in love with John Legend's, "All of Me." Don't ask me to explain how I fall in love with a song. If I take a step back and analyze it, I...
    1MagicalMystery 1MagicalMystery 31-35, F Aug 23

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    When I was 12, I was helping my friend try to hook up with this girl at church camp but the more I talked to her, the more I started liking her. After camp that year we'd talk 24/7...
    BlondeGhost BlondeGhost 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    i just started high school. my best friend yesenia have been best friends since 7th grade. we were both new so we didn't know anybody and automatically became best friends. the...
    larissa14 larissa14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    I met the most awesome guy,,we became great friends, then I realized I was so much in love with him,,he's so sweet, kind,,sexy,,he's my everything,darling you mean the world to me...
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm in love with my cousin but I have no idea if he likes me or not I hope he does but I'm not for sure cause he has a girlfriend and I would love to take her down but that's not...
    laurenbraun10 laurenbraun10 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    i really don't want to tell the story because i was such an idiot. this is just a warning to people, male or female. do not let a bad man or woman keep u from finding someone who...
    Chulazon Chulazon 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Its a few days before school starts and I've been praying every night that i get my history teacher from last year again. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. i get...
    bellabee25 bellabee25 13-15, F Sep 3

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    This has been killing me for ages. I fall for fictional characters and I have dreams about me with them. Only girls though. I just love fictional characters. Like I read this one...
    minyoungismine minyoungismine 18-21, F Sep 4

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    I have fallen in love with my 2nd cousin and my 2nd cousin has also fallen in love with me too. At first I ignored him and my feelings, thinking they would go away. I was disgusted...
    TheMannGirl48 TheMannGirl48 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I just need somewhere to get this out. I moved house with my family, a long way from where we were, new life started very excited. I started to live, previously I had been very...
    Frankjoon Frankjoon 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    ... I really shouldn't he goes to my school and we talk a lot we always hang out and he's like my best friend. My school went on an all day hike yesterday and I have breathing...
    Karianne6614 Karianne6614 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    So after reading several experiences on this site that somehow involve a TC I have seen remarkable similarities in the responses people receive for posting stories about their TC's...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Sorry guys I'm posting so much today! But I was digging through my email and I still have some of the emails that me (And my now former teacher!) Exchanged while we were both still...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    So long story short , after a divorce , and moving , I have re fallen in love with my first love . He is my best friend . He is my comfort . He is the only man who will not judge...
    kstu1 kstu1 18-21, F a week ago

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    Have you ever felt a deep sensation of isolation when you're in love with a teacher who you can never be with? All the memories and time you've spent with each other were...
    Mayuko Mayuko 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Okay, so I’ve got a problem with this- this girl and I kinda need someone to give me their opinion on it or I’m going to go nuts because I do not know what to do. We started...
    hazydays16 hazydays16 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    She came into my world when I least expected it. I had been in an unhealthy relationship with a guy for 5 years, and it was ending for good this time. I had always dated guys and...
    neverletgo33 neverletgo33 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I fell in love with my cousin last August, right before I left for Korea, where I'm stationed in the Army. She wasn't sure about the whole thing, and we were very conflicted... I...
    Joshyboysoldier Joshyboysoldier 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Okay. So I'm in love with a celebrity. He's not really a big celebrity yet but I believe he will be. I am absolutely in love with Jesse Kinch. Jesse Kinch off of Rising Star. It's...
    ToTo3000 ToTo3000 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    One day i was so bored so I went to Omegle just to chat with people, is a website that you can talk to strangers all over the world, and in that day I don't know how but I tipped...
    Youcy Youcy 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Definition of a best friend; The person you can't be mad at for even an hour because you have something important to tell them... Well if that important thing you need to tell her...
    mhallxcello mhallxcello 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    We've been friends since grade seven and we now just started grade eleven. I've been in love with him ever since we kissed in the seventh grade (on a dare) but there's one problem...
    ajayjordyn ajayjordyn 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    I fell in love with a very distorted image of who he really was. Once I found out he wasn't all that great, instead of moving on, I remained in love with the idea of him. It's been...
    schizofriendly schizofriendly 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I've never dated anyone online, but boy do I have a story to tell... February 2012 this girl met a guy thru an online dating site. She lives in the US and he lives in Africa...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Hi, I am a 17 girl and I'm love with my teacher... He's 36 and he's married. Oh.. And he has 2 children = I really don't know what to do because I am almost sure that he likes me...
    Ollyecleo Ollyecleo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    The person is amazing, and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I have totally fallen in love with her!!!!
    mylo2014 mylo2014 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm a girl, and I'm in love with my best friend's other best friend. My best friend is a girl and we tell each other almost everything. We've been best friends since like 3rd grade...
    malakhkhalil malakhkhalil 13-15, F Aug 17

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    I noticed from time to time, random people venture into this experience group, read our stories, and comment negative things. Seriously, why waste your time reading our stories...
    TheFrozenOne TheFrozenOne 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    In December 2013, I met this amazing and artistic person. I have never felt so strong feeling for anyone... But now I can say that I'm in love with this guy. The only problem is...
    asthas33 asthas33 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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