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I Am Not In Love With My Spouse

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 109 People

    Love?

    A new day,long it will be, he's off of work today and will be completely annoying me.The joy I used to show when cooking breakfast for him is no longer there.The sparkle in my eye when I would see him sitting across the room has faded.The compliments have all ceased,I barely...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 6 Responses May 23, 2008

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    This Is It

    So I woke up this morning (after another night on the couch) with the decision in my head again, that I can not live like this way anymore. I'm really excited and a weight is lifted to even be thinking in this direction, but I know he won't let this be easy. With months of...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    The Sparks Are Gone

    I do notice him prance around the house in his boxers or towel, just out of the shower, wanting me to comment. I do comment, but it is forced. I know the comments make him feel good. He is an attractive man and I did desire him when we first met, but not anymore. The thought...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Am I Wrong

    I married my husband thinking that physical attraction is superficial and not necessary for a relationship to be successful. I was wrong. I care for my spouse greatly but I am not in love with him. Should i stay? That is a question that plagues me. I don't want to cheat him out...
    journey101 journey101 36-40 5 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    5 Years And No Passion

    I'm 24 years old and I met my fiance 5 years ago. I've always felt like he's been more "in love" with me than I was with him. We got engaged after 9 months and never really have planned a wedding. He's always been my best friend, the one I can laugh with and talk to. He used to...
    riley1986 riley1986 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    I have been with my partner

    for approximately 12 years. I used to be really in love with him and couldn't imagine my life without him. Now - with shame - I admit that I don't even want him in my life anymore. I feel like the life I have been living is a sham. No one knows how strongly I have come to resent...
    happiness888 happiness888 26-30, F Sep 19, 2014

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    Love Slipped Away

    It's a harsh reality to face but I am not in love with my husband anymore.I wish that things were different,we used to be happy.He is aware that my feelings have changed and I've stopped trying to do anything to fix things.I am just tired.I remember when I used to wait for him to...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 12 Responses May 22, 2008

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    Why Does This Happan To Me

    we have been with eachother for over 13 years and all thats been going on is that i feel more hate towards him every day.i want to belive that the guy i thought i was in love with put hr changed on me i have been there for him no matter. he  treats me like i am not good enought...
    coyavir coyavir 36-40 3 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Am I Bad?

    I am not a secretive person. In my family, I'm the blabber-mouth. So when I say that what I am about to type is something I haven't told anyone, I mean that it has killed me to not confide in someone...my mom, or my sister, or my best friend. I wonder if I'm terrible, and I don't...
    turtleracer turtleracer 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2010

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    Staying For All The Wrong Reasons

    I have been married nearly 14 years.  I have been with my husband for almost 16 years.  After 5 years I fell out of love with my husband.  He changed soon after we were married, about a year in.  He lost focus on us and became selfish with a goal of his.  It was actually...
    Ascending Ascending 31-35 5 Responses Nov 12, 2011

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    I'm in love with my boyfriend of two years and we've never met in person. I love him with all my heart and we both really want to be together in person but its so hard to get to...
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    seaenbee seaenbee 22-25, F 1 Response 57 mins ago

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    Okay this may come across as weird... I am 19 years old and I work in Retail at a High Street Store (I live in the UK btw and I recently got a job there... I am in love with the...
    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am in love with someone but she is suffering in pain and cuts me out of her life. She doesn't realize I have a need to take care of her and nothing more.
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    I Am In Love With Twodifferent Men At The Same Time I need advice. I am in love with two different men at the same time. I am almost married but have been carrying on an 'on again...
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    Love sucks. I fell for a guy online I only got to see his pictures never heard his voice never hugged him no kiss he made me feel loved and wanted. He promised me happiness, but...
    manymelons46 manymelons46 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    I can honest say that I'm aware of never falling in love with someone. I don't know if it's part of my Asexuality, but I'd love to experience it some day. Perhaps, I have... fell...
    NaomiSoulJourney NaomiSoulJourney 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I didn't choose to fall for him; he tripped me. He somehow got to me fall in love with him... but I don't mind. One day, I was just minding my own business. I was watching some...
    xXKitsuneXx xXKitsuneXx 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    I fell in love with a stranger and his name is ?Pete Townshend? I'm not sure if anyone knows him or has ever heard about him but he is (or was back in the 60s70s) this famous...
    WholeLottaPam WholeLottaPam 16-17, F Mar 5

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    I want to fall in love with someone who will love me in return. I've never been in a relationship and I want to be loved by someone. I get this feeling that someone will love me...
    freckles45 freckles45 41-45, F Mar 5

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    hey guys, Yesterday, he was walking in the hallway, and he saw me (i was with my bestfriend), so he stopped to say hi, then we were laughing and he was teasing me...his laugh...
    glowingdiamond glowingdiamond 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    I've known this girl for a year and a half now . We talk every night on the phone for hours at end and when we don't have school or we're on holiday we would stay up till 7 am just...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    i am tomboy and i do love a girl since i was 16.. we manage to stay together in a room at our hostel.. i felt she is my life n i do love her to the core.. i just will do what she...
    mayshen mayshen 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I originally shared this story in response to an EP question but I think it needs to be added t my stories because it's the saddest story of my life... I lost my father at the age...
    stillinlove2 stillinlove2 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    Starting at the beginning… First off, just letting you know, I am straight to everyone else on the planet, but I know that I am bisexual. This girl Jackie, she is actually...
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    I honestly am in real love with a couple select fictional characters. There's one in particular though, I've cried about the sole fact that he's not real, it makes me feel sick to...
    oeN4 oeN4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I'm in love with my band director. I know it's inappropriate. He's married with kids. I'm one of his favorite students, if not his favorite. I couldn't help it. He thinks I just...
    winmkcanivadfan winmkcanivadfan 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Hey everyone, I'm not sure if you all remember my story. I'm the the Physics girl with the bees. Those who know the beginning of my stories know that I've been writing since 9...
    HelenaMai HelenaMai 18-21, F Mar 15

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    I've been in love with Eren from Attack on Titan for a while now and he's basically all I ever think about. Its so sad because i know he's not real and i cry all the time about it...
    Puppystar74 Puppystar74 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I am in love with Light Yagami from the anime Death Note. It started out as a simple obsession for the show, and then it became more than that. I actually love him. I really look...
    KiraIsGod1015 KiraIsGod1015 16-17 Mar 17

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    I need advice now more than ever. I recently found out that the former teacher I am in love with has a girlfriend (although he hasn’t confirmed this, I am 100% sure). I do not...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    I'm a 16 year old girl who's in love with her chemistry teacher. He's happily married and has two wonderful kids whom he often refers to during class, and I often feel guilty, but...
    unknown1232 unknown1232 13-15, F Mar 17

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    We met 15 yrs ago, fell madly in love, right from the gate! He was married, I was in a serious relationship. He left her, I left my bf..life struggles, bad timing, different paths...
    assholemagnet assholemagnet 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Life upon the internet for the most part is just for entertainment value. This site has offer me many opportunities to interact with many good people.As a single divorced man I...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I fell in love with a woman I met online. She was half my age. I thought her beautiful. Now, did I fall in love with her, did I fall in love with the idea of her or did I fall in...
    MasterofDesire MasterofDesire 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I have been in love with a man for 4 years now..I truly believe it is the only time in my life that I have felt this strongly about a man..we are friends...he knows I love him, he...
    Omhippiesoul Omhippiesoul 51-55, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Its been 2 years. I have tried to get away from him by dating others and for a while it worked. He was the one to break up with me and I hated him for it for the longest time...
    Idealizer Idealizer 16-17, F a week ago

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    He is 59, and I'm 16. He is also happily married and has a kid that is older than me as well. I don't want to be in love with him, but honestly I need him in my life as much as I...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I fell in love with a man in college. When 9/11 happened he got called up active duty for the Air Force and was deployed for over a year. When he returned I felt like he was not...
    naughtyk82 naughtyk82 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm in love with this guy and it's tearing me apart. We were friends, than we added the "benefits" and then he found a girl...a girl he probably doesn't love, but she's his girl...
    Lor97 Lor97 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been in a relationship for about 5 years. I have love for him, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I don't want to be intimate, and I have this 'I don't care...
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