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I Am Not In Love With My Spouse

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    Am I Wrong

    I married my husband thinking that physical attraction is superficial and not necessary for a relationship to be successful. I was wrong. I care for my spouse greatly but I am not in love with him. Should i stay? That is a question that plagues me. I don't want to cheat him out...
    journey101 journey101 36-40 5 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    Am I Bad?

    I am not a secretive person. In my family, I'm the blabber-mouth. So when I say that what I am about to type is something I haven't told anyone, I mean that it has killed me to not confide in someone...my mom, or my sister, or my best friend. I wonder if I'm terrible, and I don't...
    turtleracer turtleracer 22-25 1 Response Aug 11, 2010

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    Love Slipped Away

    It's a harsh reality to face but I am not in love with my husband anymore.I wish that things were different,we used to be happy.He is aware that my feelings have changed and I've stopped trying to do anything to fix things.I am just tired.I remember when I used to wait for him to...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 11 Responses May 22, 2008

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    Staying For All The Wrong Reasons

    I have been married nearly 14 years.  I have been with my husband for almost 16 years.  After 5 years I fell out of love with my husband.  He changed soon after we were married, about a year in.  He lost focus on us and became selfish with a goal of his.  It was actually...
    Ascending Ascending 31-35 5 Responses Nov 12, 2011

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    Love?

    A new day,long it will be, he's off of work today and will be completely annoying me.The joy I used to show when cooking breakfast for him is no longer there.The sparkle in my eye when I would see him sitting across the room has faded.The compliments have all ceased,I barely...
    dreamer33 dreamer33 31-35 6 Responses May 23, 2008

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    This Is It

    So I woke up this morning (after another night on the couch) with the decision in my head again, that I can not live like this way anymore. I'm really excited and a weight is lifted to even be thinking in this direction, but I know he won't let this be easy. With months of...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    Why Does This Happan To Me

    we have been with eachother for over 13 years and all thats been going on is that i feel more hate towards him every day.i want to belive that the guy i thought i was in love with put hr changed on me i have been there for him no matter. he  treats me like i am not good enought...
    coyavir coyavir 36-40 3 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    5 Years And No Passion

    I'm 24 years old and I met my fiance 5 years ago. I've always felt like he's been more "in love" with me than I was with him. We got engaged after 9 months and never really have planned a wedding. He's always been my best friend, the one I can laugh with and talk to. He used to...
    riley1986 riley1986 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    The Sparks Are Gone

    I do notice him prance around the house in his boxers or towel, just out of the shower, wanting me to comment. I do comment, but it is forced. I know the comments make him feel good. He is an attractive man and I did desire him when we first met, but not anymore. The thought...
    heather73 heather73 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    Love is like feeling rain when you still see the sun. Love is the last rays of a summer sunset. Love is finding imperfections and calling them "beauty marks". I hate love...
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    I met this girl when I was 12..I was too young to understand what is love.she was 17..I remember clearly how beautiful her back was and the way she walks. I never seen anthing...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 8 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm madly in love with my cousin and not sure if he feels the same we've been in contact for few years now and for the last 6 months we message and call each other from Goodmorning...
    pumpkinn pumpkinn 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Well, I guess this one will be a little hard to relate to, since the character that I'm in love with is one that I wrote. When my friend and I were in sixth grade, we stared...
    DauntlessRavenclaw DauntlessRavenclaw 16-17, F Jun 22

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    I'm in love with my friend she's so nice and she makes me happy when I talk to her she's beautiful I want to tell her I love her but I don't know what she would say
    tyson124 tyson124 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    I'm in love with someone but I have no idea if they feel the same way, I love everything about them and have a million pictures with them. But ever since school ended it's become...
    princess105 princess105 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    There's this guy and we've been talking for almost two months now. And in those two months, we've just became friends in an instant. We talk all day and night 24/7. We tell each...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F Jun 24

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    So I haven't been on here for over a year, mostly just doing a lot of figuring myself out. I also started college last year so that took up most of my time. I started thinking I...
    StephanieEnjolras StephanieEnjolras 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    So I have a best friend. I've known him for years and fell in love with him soon after we started getting close. We go to school together, talk everyday and all that. Over the past...
    Iamevolved Iamevolved 16-17, F Jun 24

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    It's feel good knowing somewhere I can just let all my feelings out. Without embarrassing myself and thinking whether or not I should have said the things I would of said. You see...
    Ihadadream123 Ihadadream123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Alright, okay. I really just need to get this out there, even if it is to a community of strangers. I would also like to apologize in advance for how long this may be. I am deeply...
    7Questions 7Questions 13-15, M Jun 25

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    Six Months Ago, on Christmas Day, at 7:30 PM, Unjusted and I met irl for the first time. It was an awkward meeting. We had chatted extensively online for several months in the...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 25

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    I fell in love with a boy who said he loved me back then left 😔
    daisyjane17 daisyjane17 16-17, F 9 Responses Jun 25

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    I feel in love with my best friend as he confessed to me that he fell in love with some else... A boy.
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I have a huge crush on this guy from the same club as me. We were from the same batch. However he was the secretarial head of the club while I was just a member. Reasons being, he...
    missimperfecttt missimperfecttt 18-21, F Jun 26

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    I have a huge crush on this guy from the same club as me. We were from the same batch. However he was the secretarial head of the club while I was just a member. Reasons being, he...
    missimperfecttt missimperfecttt 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Hello, I know some of you used to enjoy reading my stories so I am sorry that I don't post as often as before. Right now it is summer and I will not see him until september so you...
    Missinghim99 Missinghim99 13-15, F Jun 26

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    Well. I guess this is gonna be the hardest thing I've ever had to do, and I'm thankful that I haven't had to get through many bad things. This is by far the hardest.. Being in love...
    Ihadadream123 Ihadadream123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I've always loved talking to online strangers. There is something about the interaction that I continually craved. The thrill of getting to know someone miles away, the thrill of...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I feel sick. I don't know how I can continue living normally if I continue to be in love with her. Everything she does makes me fall in love with her more and more, I can't stop...
    janedoe1993 janedoe1993 18-21, F Jun 28

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    YOu better choose number two. You would not have fallen in love with number two if you really loved number one....
    tsdia tsdia 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I had my first crush back in the year 2002 (omg :-) its a decade ago), she was my same neighborhood, same school and everything, it all started in the 7th standard. She...
    Anirudhbasutkar Anirudhbasutkar 22-25, M Jun 28

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    "Visions haunt my memory. They hold on. Hold on desperately. You and I were over long ago... Still in love with you. I know I've been lying to to myself. Baby its you. And the more...
    WomanOnAMission WomanOnAMission 18-21, F Jun 28

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    I love a girl who is suffering from a brain tumour. We match in almost every way, even though we live over 4000 miles from each other; she's American and I'm British. We always...
    tommycuffe tommycuffe 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I'm in love with my teacher. She's a lot older than me. But i imagine stuff about us. when ever I see her I laugh and talk about stuff that she would like, and I tell story's to my...
    ihaveasecreate ihaveasecreate 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I am a girl in love with a girl who is not in love with me lol
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm in love with him, we just Started getting close, but I had a crush on him for months now. I finally decided to become best friends before anything. Now we are best friends. I...
    violetviolence256 violetviolence256 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I love gaming. I've always found it easier to hang around guys and I had grown up gaming since I was a kid. I made a Steam account a few months ago and I game on it almost everyday...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    why ct you just open up to me!! why always you have to be the strong unemotional person!! why when i need you to be sweet and supportive you r not and after few hours you just...
    lebanongirl lebanongirl 22-25 Jul 2

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    So I met this girl a few weeks ago and everything I do I want to be with her. I've known about her for a while, but we didn't actually meet till a few weeks ago. She is bisexual...
    BallerNgo13 BallerNgo13 13-15, F Jul 2

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    I have been "in love" with my band director for over a year now and I just recently graduated high school. I graduated without any issues and without a slight feeling of sadness...
    ScreamsOfSilence ScreamsOfSilence 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    my story is weird I know, but I really need help and advice cause no one that knows this story really gets what I'm going through...I hope you guys will :) I've been single for...
    Storyteller1234567 Storyteller1234567 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    That may be that. My wife discovered that I have stayed in touch with my girlfriend. She packed a bag and left. My children are both out of town. I dread Sunday, when I have...
    PC09 PC09 51-55 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I fell in love with a guy 8 hours away and I don't think he loves me back. It bothers me.
    adsila15 adsila15 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm 14 and my teacher is about 25-27 Ok so for geography this year I was supposed to have this teacher that I didn't know yet.. But on the first day of class I walk in and see a...
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    So here's my story so I'm 18 and I fell in love with my ELA teacher Mr.S he's nice and amazing but he just got married and had his first born last year and his wife is pregnate so...
    MyLifeSoundsLikeLies MyLifeSoundsLikeLies 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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