I Am Not In Love

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    I haven't been in love with her this entire

    year at least. We aren't together...I don't think...it's difficult to put a name on what we are right now. But I do know with certainty that I don't love her the way she professes to love me. I just don't. Honestly, I don't know if I'll ever feel that way again and I'm not so...
    jjsdaddy86 jjsdaddy86
    26-30, M
    Dec 27, 2014

    You are a kind and giving friend

    but I just can't be in love with you. I don't know what time I'll be ready, maybe some day, maybe never. Just know I'll love you as a friend.
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids
    22-25, F
    Jun 8, 2014
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids
    22-25, F
    Aug 21, 2014


    Yesterday I saw my "old" crush whom I liked when I was back in elementary school, I had a deadly crush on him. He was the older brother of my friend, anyway… My friends and I were hanging out in the caf of our collage waiting for math class (we had to wait two hours). I was...
    JarredRay JarredRay
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2012

    Not Loving You

    I can't feel it so don't say it. You don't want to be disappointed then don't bring it up and don't ask me if I do. Cuz I'm not in love, it's just because you are the best kind of pain I can bring onto myself. You can't walk away from me just in case I might wake up and see...
    LoadedBullets LoadedBullets
    22-25, F
    Nov 30, 2009

    I don't even know if there's a

    such thing anymore. My heart is so hard nowadays. I've been on and off with my current woman for over a decade but I don't think it's love. I just don't feel the spark anymore; been a while since I did.
    jjsdaddy86 jjsdaddy86
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 27, 2015

    No I'm Not In...

    Is love suppose to hurt? Is there suppose to be a tight feeling in your chest when you watch him walk away without knowing that you like him? What about the bitter sweet feeling when he goes out of his way to talk to you? I can't be in love, it takes two to fall in love and hes...
    JarredRay JarredRay
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2011

    I am in lust. And the worst part is

    that I can't ever tell if my feelings are real or if I'm just being my usual obsessive self. I feel like I'll never know what love feels like.
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2015

    I am not in love. Not with you,

    not with anybody else. I know I wrote about you under the group "I Fell In Love With Someone I Met Online" more than a month ago, but I never really fell. I admit, I was about to fall then, but I am definitely more mature now than I was 5 years ago. I can't fall in love with...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic
    18-21, F
    Aug 6, 2014

    Breaking Up

    It's simple, really. My sister set me up with one of her close friends -- a lovely New Yorker with an intimidating intellect, thin lips, and a decent sense of direction in her life. When I say that my sister set me up, I mean to say that she turned to her friend, and in the...
    likeyoumeanit likeyoumeanit
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

    I asked my Heart : Why can't I sleep at night ?

    . . . . . . . . My Heart told me : Because you have already slept in the afternoon. Don't act like you are in Love ...... aww
    sperrow sperrow
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    I am happy to say that i've moved on

    and I have lil crushes on ppl but not in love! So I feel freeeee
    victoriaalvarez victoriaalvarez
    16-17, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    Don't Know That I Ever Have Been, Really.

    there are many people in my life that i love. family, friends, in a platonic way but there's no special someone that i have a personal, intimate relationship with and i'm not at all certain that i did have love with those that i knew in that manner. like, lust, felt affection for...
    jerrica jerrica
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2012

    And Its Nice....

    (so dont forget it, its just a silly phase Im gooooooooooooing throoooooooooooouuuuuuugh) sorry, I had to get that out of my system..... nothing compares to 10CC.....     anyways....... For the first time, in a long time, Im not in love with anyone. Im not thinking...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2009


    I meet cool people all the time. And some of them I really like. But I can't fall in love anymore. I don't know why. I've tried. I'm just incapable of loving. I hate when someone starts liking me too much because I can't like them the back same way. My heart belongs to one man...
    DetachedCitizen DetachedCitizen
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 2, 2011

    I Am Not In Love and I Am Cool About It

     I am not in love at this moment.  I am cool about this.  Ha...  
    winniebree winniebree
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2008

    People say they love me- expecting me to say

    the same in return. I've decided to say "I love you" when someone says so to me....but I don't. I don't love him. I don't love her.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 10, 2015

    No.. I Don't Think So..

    I convince myself I won't try to fall for someone close to me.. coz it would be disappointing.. it's been three years I felt that I should have found someone by now.. [sigh]Gather up your tears ami! save them for when you really need it...gather up your spirits and proceed...
    amejad amejad
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 1, 2011

    "We were lovers, now we can't be friends.

    Fascination ends, here we ago again. I'm not in love." - crystal castles (we are not in love).
    valerietarrina valerietarrina
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015
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