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I Am Not Judgemental

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 319 People

    It's Not Me.

    My dad is judgemental, and every time I brought somebody home, he'd automatically hate them because--surprise, surprise--they were friends with a GAY PERSON. I hated the way he treated everyone who wasn't just like him. But I've met so many amazing people by just accepting them...
    StrippedxPride487 StrippedxPride487 18-21, M Jul 13, 2011

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    Church

    i used to be judgmental of everyone even my family. but then i found church. through church i have found god. he has helped me be kind to everyone and not judge. now i am friends of different colors and sexuality.
    dlovato4life dlovato4life 56-60 Sep 19, 2011

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    I don't believe in Judging people

    because no one is perfect and everyone has their own problems. Also due to my faith I don't believe its my job to judge anyone.
    xXRobynXx xXRobynXx 13-15, F Jan 12

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    No Judge Of Others Business

    For christians, the Bible says we "rightly divide the word of truth" judging the correctness of teaching and our understanding, "judge yourself so the One from Heaven doesn't have to" But never do I see it say Judge your neighbors or your coworkers,or the lady down the street. It...
    februarydays februarydays 51-55, F Feb 4, 2011

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    I can't understand why people have to be

    judgmental. If somebody else's life is working for them, and it's not hurting anybody else, then who cares? Why is gay marriage illegal? Who is it actually hurting? Why is polygamy illegal? Who is it hurting? Why are white people racist against black people? Why are black people...
    Bluebutterflywings Bluebutterflywings 26-30, F Jun 15

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    I hate people who judge others my looks

    or what they've heard from others (things that are lies). I've been judged like that before and it's no fun. Like going into my new school there was a girl that didn't like me and so when she found out I was coming she made rumors and lies about me and got everyone to already...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Why I Am Finally Happy Again

    For the first time in 18 years, I am happy again. I made a decision last Tuesday night that I can no longer be an Evangelical. I am now just a Christian. What that means for me is that I don't have to carry the party line anymore. I don't have to believe in hell anymore. I don...
    InquisitiveShadow InquisitiveShadow 36-40, M Jun 23, 2013

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    Like People For Who They Are

    I am not a judgemental person... I enjoy people for who they are... For who they really are, and not for the person they feel the world needs to see... I prefer to see what is behind the mask.... It is easier to build friendships on honesty and sincerity... and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 23, 2009

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    Let God Judge

    I don't like it when others judge me before they get to know me. I am a very nice person I get along with lots of people. I may not have the fanciest house or fanciest car or fancy clothes but I am me. Don't judge the book by it's cover ok?
    guitargirl guitargirl 46-50, F 1 Response May 12, 2009

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    I am not a judgemental person.

    I accept people the way they are, and I believe that just because a person has a shady past, doesn't mean that they'll have a shady future. The saying goes "don't judge a book by its cover" And I believe it to be true. Sometimes a book has an not so beautiful cover but the...
    SilverReece SilverReece 22-25, F Jan 26

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    I Am Not Judgemental!!!!

    I am not judgmental...who am I to do that? what makes me better than anyone else to even do that? nothing....does not matter if you have all the money in the world, or the poorest person in the world, it does not make anyone better than anyone to pass that onto anyone. It is not...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    "do Not Judge Others Lest Ye Bejudged"

    it is not any ones role to judge anyone else be it for good or ill. in my opinian ery one has the right of freee expression and e/ryone must be treated as an indi/idual. Also if we judge others they will judge us and a prejudice is a /ery poor first impression alot of the...
    Littlefurkiara Littlefurkiara 22-25 Apr 9, 2012

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    LOV3L33 LOV3L33 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I have stopped being judgemental, I accept people the way they are.
    Emerald93 Emerald93 18-21, F Oct 9

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    What's the point being being honest and telling someone the truth? Especially if they gonna judge me behind my back. I thought ppl wud have the courage to be honest back. Obviously...
    specialedition1 specialedition1 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 16

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    My husband was judgemental and he thinks that him, his family and their like are the only "saved people" because they are "born-again christian". we always fight about other people...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    In many things, I'm no judge. I am mental! I am curious!!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I will write this Experience/Story in the comments section below! Because the content got blocked the first time I tried uploading it! God I **$&@"-/;/ hate EP sometimes!!!
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I absolutely despise it. Its my life. U can't judge it. U can't change it. So don't try.
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Oct 10

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    Why though? don't get it; ask for confession's and then judge someone for it; why be about experience's and truth. When your going make judgmental remarks!
    KandiDL69 KandiDL69 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I am a free spirit that shows no judgment towards anybody. I am an open book you can ask me anything and tell me anything. I am young but I have lived I have been through a lot and...
    Changeallaround Changeallaround 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There is nothing that annoys me more than judgemental people. In the past I was guilty of looking at someone and making a passive judgement, but in the past year I have come to...
    chels6 chels6 18-21, F Oct 15

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    1. I am loyal 2. I am a jogger and a musician 3. I love writing 4. I struggle with anxiety, which makes me seem like I'm uninterested at times, but this is me trying to deal with...
    Close2You Close2You 26-30, M Sep 24

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    I would like to have a nice and naughty chat with a woman who is not judgemental and is open minded because I want to "take care" of myself. Lol
    Yyntnt80 Yyntnt80 46-50, M Sep 24

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    I'm not gonna sugar coat it. Sometimes my confidence can be degrading in other females' eyes. But it's typical. A hot girl will walk in the room and the guys will pay attention...
    MoniiiBabyy MoniiiBabyy 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 25

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    Why are people so afraid of drugs? i wrote a question about if people would consider dating a person that uses rave drugs such as Ecstasy and LSD. I then understood just how much...
    Titancreator Titancreator 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    It's me been alone for years just the way for me no one gets me so fuckk em I do me don't care what people judgementally Think I don't let many in and when there the wrong I just...
    Clownfacecrack Clownfacecrack 26-30, M Sep 26

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    My parents are very judgemental and in no way do I want to become those people.
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    I was listening to Breaking Free High School Musical. I would like to tell you my interpretation of that song. I think it is about being unashamed of yourself. To pursue your...
    Noobzz Noobzz 18-21, M Sep 28

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    I'm willing to be an online friend to anyone who needs one, just a friendly guy, quite new to all of this ep stuff and looking for some people to fill a lonely void in my social...
    RealJax0009 RealJax0009 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    This is the division of difference.. Is anyone else tired of being here? Is anyone else tired of being not advanced? Is anyone else tired of the reckless, unreasonable, illogical...
    Artimas Artimas 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    I have suffered bouts of crippling depression on and off for around six years now. At the moment I can't work because it's so bad, I barely have the energy or the will to do...
    RealJax0009 RealJax0009 26-30, M Sep 30

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    my parents got a divorce when i was 7 and every since then i have been broken, torn, i just havent been the same and it hurts to see your family split up, i have 5 brothers and...
    brianna7589 brianna7589 26-30, F Sep 30

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    Today a member made a comment about me supporting women going topless. She made a judgement that I support women going topless just so I can see their breasts. VERY JUDGEMENTAL...
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    Most people say I am easy to get along with because I am always nice to people. Well unless they are cruel to me. I am not a judgemental person and I always love to talk about...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I don't understand how the world works, it has become the place for those who plays the game without rules, for those who believe in competition, for those who can tear to the top...
    Moon95 Moon95 18-21, F Oct 4

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    Is that such a lot to ask for? I'd like to add that in return that "someone" if needed could confide in me on any issue at anytime.I have an open mind and am non judgemental.In...
    ziegler123200 ziegler123200 41-45, M 8 Responses Oct 4

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    I just want to let you all know that I've noticed there's a lot of judgemental people on here. I put up a post two seconds ago of my body. And I'm getting abuse for it. I thought...
    sadgurlxo sadgurlxo 16-17, F 41 Responses Oct 4

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    War and Islam. Have patience and probe deep into circumstances.Be not judgemental about things even not about yourself I say.Please, don't underestimate others and yourself.Don't...
    sunshines333 sunshines333 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I realised a long time ago that I really enjoy being there for people who need me. I don't claim to be perfect or a saint, but I do get a lot of satisfaction from helping people. I...
    iamhere4you iamhere4you 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I hate how a good amount of people are very judgemental if you tell them about this fascination. I know the few people I have told jumped to conclusions about my personality.
    Khaleesii Khaleesii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Not the dating kind, just friends xD Most of my friends are guys. I want a open minded, nice, friendly awesome chick I can talk to about anything with and she can talk to me about...
    DeathAngelS300 DeathAngelS300 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    Why is EP so hypocritical. They have deleted 9 of my stories in one go. I have had these stories here for more than a year. Just because some hypocritical, judgemental, asexual...
    rahulblr rahulblr 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    We're all independent, idiosyncratic beings; we're not cans of tinned food. So why the vapid, judgemental labels? The sooner people realise we're not classifiable like food items...
    saltrosed saltrosed 13-15, F Oct 12

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    Online friends, who aren't judgemental and aren't after me for sex. Just to have good conversations with. Anybody?
    ShadowyCheshire ShadowyCheshire 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 15

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    so, my religion teacher (we'll call him Mr. C) is amazing! he is funny and sweet and awkward but in a cute kind of way. the weird thing is that i'm agnostic and normally don't...
    livandletliv livandletliv 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    Somebody who is here for me a lot. And who I can joke around with and feel comfortable around. Somebody who makes me smile and laugh and want to talk to them all the time. Somebody...
    ShadowyCheshire ShadowyCheshire 16-17, F Oct 16

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    The non judgemental way people have responded to my posts
    saphira82 saphira82 31-35, F a week ago

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