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I Am Not Judgemental

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    Like People For Who They Are

    I am not a judgemental person... I enjoy people for who they are... For who they really are, and not for the person they feel the world needs to see... I prefer to see what is behind the mask.... It is easier to build friendships on honesty and sincerity... and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 23, 2009

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    LOV3L33 LOV3L33 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Let God Judge

    I don't like it when others judge me before they get to know me. I am a very nice person I get along with lots of people. I may not have the fanciest house or fanciest car or fancy clothes but I am me. Don't judge the book by it's cover ok?
    guitargirl guitargirl 46-50, F 1 Response May 12, 2009

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    No Judge Of Others Business

    For christians, the Bible says we "rightly divide the word of truth" judging the correctness of teaching and our understanding, "judge yourself so the One from Heaven doesn't have to" But never do I see it say Judge your neighbors or your coworkers,or the lady down the street. It...
    februarydays februarydays 51-55, F Feb 4, 2011

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    I am not a judgemental person.

    I accept people the way they are, and I believe that just because a person has a shady past, doesn't mean that they'll have a shady future. The saying goes "don't judge a book by its cover" And I believe it to be true. Sometimes a book has an not so beautiful cover but the...
    SilverReece SilverReece 22-25, F Jan 26

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    It's Not Me.

    My dad is judgemental, and every time I brought somebody home, he'd automatically hate them because--surprise, surprise--they were friends with a GAY PERSON. I hated the way he treated everyone who wasn't just like him. But I've met so many amazing people by just accepting them...
    StrippedxPride487 StrippedxPride487 18-21, M Jul 13, 2011

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    I can't understand why people have to be

    judgmental. If somebody else's life is working for them, and it's not hurting anybody else, then who cares? Why is gay marriage illegal? Who is it actually hurting? Why is polygamy illegal? Who is it hurting? Why are white people racist against black people? Why are black people...
    Bluebutterflywings Bluebutterflywings 26-30, F Jun 15

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    I Am Not Judgemental!!!!

    I am not judgmental...who am I to do that? what makes me better than anyone else to even do that? nothing....does not matter if you have all the money in the world, or the poorest person in the world, it does not make anyone better than anyone to pass that onto anyone. It is not...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    I don't believe in Judging people

    because no one is perfect and everyone has their own problems. Also due to my faith I don't believe its my job to judge anyone.
    xXRobynXx xXRobynXx 13-15, F Jan 12

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    I hate people who judge others my looks

    or what they've heard from others (things that are lies). I've been judged like that before and it's no fun. Like going into my new school there was a girl that didn't like me and so when she found out I was coming she made rumors and lies about me and got everyone to already...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Church

    i used to be judgmental of everyone even my family. but then i found church. through church i have found god. he has helped me be kind to everyone and not judge. now i am friends of different colors and sexuality.
    dlovato4life dlovato4life 56-60 Sep 19, 2011

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    "do Not Judge Others Lest Ye Bejudged"

    it is not any ones role to judge anyone else be it for good or ill. in my opinian ery one has the right of freee expression and e/ryone must be treated as an indi/idual. Also if we judge others they will judge us and a prejudice is a /ery poor first impression alot of the...
    Littlefurkiara Littlefurkiara 22-25 Apr 9, 2012

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    Why I Am Finally Happy Again

    For the first time in 18 years, I am happy again. I made a decision last Tuesday night that I can no longer be an Evangelical. I am now just a Christian. What that means for me is that I don't have to carry the party line anymore. I don't have to believe in hell anymore. I don...
    InquisitiveShadow InquisitiveShadow 36-40, M Jun 23, 2013

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    I have knee jerk reactions toward people who judge the mentally ill but are completely ignorant about mental illness. I try to explain things to them but sometimes I just wanna...
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    But make no promises. Because my gut rules my mouth.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 21

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    I would like to share an experience but EP is not allowing me to give any detail. Open minded women I would like to talk about it
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    Anything and everything....never judge...never shocked...always accepting.....even if I am not into it there's no reason to close your mind to new experiences because you never...
    daddymax45 daddymax45 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    My friend is 32 years old and married. She looks really young for her age because she is short and I guess just has good genes? She looks about 18-20 years old. She has a wonderful...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    What we have here is a failure to communicate! I read many stories of teens on here being upset with some posts to their stories. Here's an idea lets have a split of EP members for...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Sep 1

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    Just because I say bout stupid things doesn't mean I'm gonna do it
    acrehood acrehood 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    ...Selfies after 30... O.o
    Rzrbldksss81 Rzrbldksss81 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know I'm probably going to come across judgemental but anyone who knows me would know I'm far from judgemental. I have this Facebook friend who all she ever posts is comments...
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 11

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    I am recently divorced twice. I am here to find none judgemental friends to open my feelings too. It always nice to open up things that weigh on your Karma. I am open an Honest and...
    Lharonastus Lharonastus 46-50, M Aug 19

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    I went on ep to meet new people and become friends with them. Not to judge anyone beause i didn't like what i saw or i wasn't impressed by it. I am down to earth and honest. Find...
    GunFinger GunFinger 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    I started down a spiritual path after reading Conversations with God a few years ago. Sometimes in reminded just how short of a way I've come since then and it bothers me. I try...
    ollierosser ollierosser 26-30 Aug 20

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    I want to listen to you, hear your voice, feel your emotions, not be judgemental. Have a lovely fun discussion with you about absolutely anything. I am open minded and discreet...
    ItsOnlyAPaperMoon ItsOnlyAPaperMoon 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    I feel vulnerable. Angry. Dissonant. Surprised. I feel happy, and sad, loved and unloved, and weird. I feel lonely, and busy with life, misused, and lost. But I have a good...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I guess I'm "judging" people because I dislike the way they judge others but I don't understand. I mean, you have people that make it obvious and known that they won't accept...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Is anyone willing to listen? :( please don't be judgemental.
    Brokenwing88 Brokenwing88 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Decency is different for all so I hate judgemental people. I love to help people where I can. I am not a person who will send pictures of my self to strangers(not that it's...
    ImperfectionNo1 ImperfectionNo1 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Well I'm kinda young but I still want to share my experience here. And what I'm about to say is very SHOCKING and I hope some of you may find ways to be respectful and not...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 23

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    Over the past six months or so, my position regarding religion, faith, and beliefs have slightly adjusted. I will always be an Atheist, however I am also a Humanist and a...
    amazingyou amazingyou 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Unlike some of the judgemental people on here. Please instead of judging ask you may find its not what you thought. Please know if you are rude to me it will be returned. Just...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm interested in talking to a woman who isn't judgemental and who will talk with me about the fact that I get so turned on by the thought of getting caught in satin panties and...
    CCstnt45 CCstnt45 46-50, M Aug 26

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    Hi, I know people don't follow me on this site, why should they I am not popular. What I taught that only I felt turns out there are thousands of you guys who are the same as me...
    yashgup yashgup 22-25, M Aug 26

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    I should see if I can get all my experience stories to be about EP... And crosspost them to million places. This is sort of about small talk, starting and carrying on a...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm a good listener and not judgemental :)
    IsleofSophia IsleofSophia 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    MY DAD IS THE BIGGEST MOST RACIST JUDGEMENTAL F****** A-HOLE EVER HE ABUSED ME AND MY SISTER MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY HE DOSENT LISTEN TO ANYTHING I SAY HE CHEATED ON MY MOM AND SHE...
    Simple666 Simple666 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Hi Everyone, I am a 19 year old teen living in Singapore. I have been looking for different forums to share my story and i came across this website, and decided to give it a go...
    anonyny anonyny 18-21, M Aug 31

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    "I tried to kill the pain, but only bled more, so much more." - Evanescence, Tourniquet. So, been offline for a while. Life's been quite. Not much drama. I got five weeks of peace...
    Angel1509 Angel1509 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I always try and understand people, and I'm not judgemental at least I have always made a conscious effort not to be. If you want a chit chat and I'm free I will happily talk to...
    XoxJazzyxox XoxJazzyxox 22-25, F Sep 3

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    Hey my names Alisha :) so i can make friends with anybody because I'm totally un judgemental and accepting, I just love everybody! :) so message me if u wanna have a chat xx
    alishamariexo alishamariexo 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I do and it is usually with some kind of spiritual advice. Now that doesn't mean that I am preaching about the God and Goddess. What that means is I like to help people through...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I am drifting apart from most of my female friends. I just realized that is probably why I feel lonely. I need time with just the girls. I don't have much in common with them...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    So I have never done one of these lists before. This seemed like a good one to start with. What are 25 things that I am not... 1) ANYTHING OTHER THAN HUMAN. I don't identify...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    In response to FAQs: 1. I'm not here for flirting, cybers3x or a relationship. 2. I do not want you to get me pregnant. 3. I have a father. He may hate my guts, but I do not need...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    To be honest, i don't have one. Like for real, now. Lost them i guess. I really really need someone to..well, at least be my friend? If i sound judgemental, i'm sorry. It's just so...
    chuzzwels chuzzwels 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 9

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    Hi, I'm so sorry for bothering you. But I want to talk to someone who's not judgemental and not self centered.
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 7 Responses Sep 10

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