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I Am Not Judgemental

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    I hate people who judge others my looks

    or what they've heard from others (things that are lies). I've been judged like that before and it's no fun. Like going into my new school there was a girl that didn't like me and so when she found out I was coming she made rumors and lies about me and got everyone to already...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F Jan 31

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    I don't believe in Judging people

    because no one is perfect and everyone has their own problems. Also due to my faith I don't believe its my job to judge anyone.
    xXRobynXx xXRobynXx 13-15, F Jan 12

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    Like People For Who They Are

    I am not a judgemental person... I enjoy people for who they are... For who they really are, and not for the person they feel the world needs to see... I prefer to see what is behind the mask.... It is easier to build friendships on honesty and sincerity... and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 23, 2009

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    Church

    i used to be judgmental of everyone even my family. but then i found church. through church i have found god. he has helped me be kind to everyone and not judge. now i am friends of different colors and sexuality.
    dlovato4life dlovato4life 56-60 Sep 19, 2011

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    I Am Not Judgemental!!!!

    I am not judgmental...who am I to do that? what makes me better than anyone else to even do that? nothing....does not matter if you have all the money in the world, or the poorest person in the world, it does not make anyone better than anyone to pass that onto anyone. It is not...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    It's Not Me.

    My dad is judgemental, and every time I brought somebody home, he'd automatically hate them because--surprise, surprise--they were friends with a GAY PERSON. I hated the way he treated everyone who wasn't just like him. But I've met so many amazing people by just accepting them...
    StrippedxPride487 StrippedxPride487 18-21, M Jul 13, 2011

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    I am not a judgemental person.

    I accept people the way they are, and I believe that just because a person has a shady past, doesn't mean that they'll have a shady future. The saying goes "don't judge a book by its cover" And I believe it to be true. Sometimes a book has an not so beautiful cover but the...
    SilverReece SilverReece 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Let God Judge

    I don't like it when others judge me before they get to know me. I am a very nice person I get along with lots of people. I may not have the fanciest house or fanciest car or fancy clothes but I am me. Don't judge the book by it's cover ok?
    guitargirl guitargirl 46-50, F 1 Response May 12, 2009

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    No Judge Of Others Business

    For christians, the Bible says we "rightly divide the word of truth" judging the correctness of teaching and our understanding, "judge yourself so the One from Heaven doesn't have to" But never do I see it say Judge your neighbors or your coworkers,or the lady down the street. It...
    februarydays februarydays 51-55, F Feb 4, 2011

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    Why I Am Finally Happy Again

    For the first time in 18 years, I am happy again. I made a decision last Tuesday night that I can no longer be an Evangelical. I am now just a Christian. What that means for me is that I don't have to carry the party line anymore. I don't have to believe in hell anymore. I don...
    InquisitiveShadow InquisitiveShadow 36-40, M Jun 23, 2013

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    I am a very judgmental person and hold nothing back. I judge based on everything; your looks, your behavior, and your intellect. I am very critical and am not ashamed. I get a lot...
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    People are too quick to put someone down or be nasty just because they have different opinions or act differently. What differences does it make to them what that person does. It's...
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    The funny thing is people who scream looks don't matter 24/7 can be the most shallow and judgemental people of them all.... All I have to say is I'm often prejudged as superficial...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Well i guess it doesn't matter where you go for support. I guess always going to be some judgemental ***** out their. No wonder the world is a depressive suicidal place with people...
    Taz1995 Taz1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    At this point in my life I'm not interested in relationships. I'll be honest about what I do look for. I want intimate friendships preferably online and separate from my offline...
    SmashedUpSanity SmashedUpSanity 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Every time I try to do the right thing for someone they think I want something in return. I've always tried to be a good person to others. Yes I've been judgemental toward other...
    goombata72 goombata72 41-45, M Mar 20

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    I just don't understand the purpose of my life. I just can't figure out things. So I am a 19 year old in love with a 41 old married man. "MARRIED" yes !. The first thing u would...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Let me tell you about my sister. She is 3 years older than me, was very jealous of me as a child, was a bully to me until I left home before her and has always been a broody type...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 1 Response Mar 22

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    Hmm, lol I had in my brain exactly what I would write. As soon as I begin, GONE! Must be social anxiety distorting my thoughts. I know I can be dorky more often then not. I guess...
    DuckyGirlHawaii DuckyGirlHawaii 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    Sheangel19 you wanna delete that story you have about me. I do not like it when a filthy useless piece of trash like yourself starts putting s**t like that up. If you do not delete...
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    I am married and love my husband. My question is to the ladies. Do you sometimes fantasize about having sex with other people? I spend a lot of time at home and I sometimed find...
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    Punctuation and gramar.. Call me old fashioned, but what is being taught in schools nowadays? I know that it is taught that content is the most important part of writing, not how...
    OhGwyneth OhGwyneth 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    Once Again Love I was a Reiki master, also conducting courses in Emotional Intelligence , for approximately ten years. Moreover, I was a happy wife and mother, living and...
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    I was 15 years old when I first began following the old ways. My parents were southern progressives, which wasn't uncommon in Georgia at the time, and they supported progress and...
    TheDaken TheDaken 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Hubby has agreed to talk with me tonight about what is bothering me (which is miraculous in itself). lack of sex is causing other problems with us and I feel myself distancing...
    Neverthoughtit Neverthoughtit 46-50, F 20 Responses Mar 28

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    I met someone about 4 months ago. I was single for almost two years. I dated someone for about 7. It was intense and unhealthy, and although I have moved on,I wont lie sometimes...
    allthebeautifulthings allthebeautifulthings 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Happened earlier today, cried as angry as I get at times when I let it happen. It doesn't get easier no matter how many times I hold in my tears and all that it entails. Just wipe...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F Mar 30

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    So people are ALWAYS so critical of how successful others are. Especially if judging is one of your four main personality traits. Eg: I'm an INFJ(J=Judgemental ****). Extroverts...
    ronin17 ronin17 22-25, M Mar 30

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    Well, where to start.... Our relationship is polarised almost to the point of paralysis. We can rarely make a mutually agreeable decision about anything no matter how trivial. I...
    waratah67 waratah67 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    With a little work I could tone back up, but ever since I got pregnant with my son I have had pretty bad stretch marking all over my stomach. I feel like even if I were to be in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 30

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    Some of you have most likely read my experience and will continue to judge me for it. I don't deserve it but i will not bash you for it because i posted it myself and chose to...
    sleepinqwithsirens sleepinqwithsirens 16-17 Mar 30

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    I think or I know grammar Nazi are cruel judgemental peopel. They always assume people like me with sever learning dissabiltys are stupid and lazy. I have lost many friends because...
    bendabuilder bendabuilder 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I'm not that happy with the way people see me. I want to attract attention, I want to be known for something. As a teenager you're either well known or not known at all. I feel...
    tahls4 tahls4 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I must say that i am offended by someone who sent a message in my inbox, accusing me of being judgemental just because I didn't reply his messages. Just so you know, I don't hold...
    KateMiddleton87 KateMiddleton87 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 3

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    And who makes these golden rules? That people are consenting and above the age of consent is all anyone needs to know. The rest is no-one else's business. People are generally...
    gardenofdreams gardenofdreams 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    hey guys. I just want to make new friends lol. I'm not a judgemental person don't worry. yeah so msg or something lol
    questioner16 questioner16 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 9 Responses Apr 11

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    Here is why : There is far too much evidence of another Realm out there to believe Death is Final , from Ghosts to Past Lives. This is no longer just speculation , and anyone...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Venting myself here {EP]is fun & addresing my detracters here is challenging sometimes but rewarding & also fun.I write this to all the self rightous dim wits out there that go out...
    bob350 bob350 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 11

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    gymgirl71 gymgirl71 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I dont really know if I should give up or keep looking or what. I am bisexual, and have been for about 12 years. I am far more attracted to women than I am men. But I have never...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Anyone here who is not judgemental care to chat ?
    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I told him how today made me feel. I was completely honest, against some of you gorgeous ladies advice. I told him today had made me feel insecure and needy, something I haven't...
    hayleysusannah hayleysusannah 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago