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I Am Not Liked By My Own Family

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    Ever feel like everything that you do in life is never good enough in your family's eyes. I may need some help here and ask that you post your advice for me if it sounds like I am the problem. Throughout my whole life, I lived as a caring and helpful person with some strong...
    HATEDBYFAMILY HATEDBYFAMILY 31-35 Feb 25, 2010

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