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I Am Not Liked By My Own Family

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    Hated - Ever feel like everything that you do in life is never good enough in your family's eyes. I may need some help here and ask that you post your advice for me if it sounds...
    HATEDBYFAMILY HATEDBYFAMILY 31-35 Feb 25, 2010

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    Title is pretty self explanatory, I don't care much for my family. They will forever be stuck in their judgmental ways. They have never been genuinely nice to me, and I will not...
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    My brother went through nasty divorce ten years ago. I helped him for 18 months preparing paperwork, consulting with his attorney, etc. so his ex-wife wouldn't take him to the...
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