I Am Not Looking For Someone to Fix My Problems

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    Of course not!!  duh.... i'm independent - i like doing everything myself -- but i HAVE learned to share the chores of life and lean on someone at times.  ha ha i even try to learn to do all the fixing in the house because i don't want to have to depend on someone to...
    kylae77 kylae77
    31-35, F
    May 30, 2009

    That Was My Problem....

    That has been my major problem in life.... most of my life.... looking for someone to fix my problems....fix..Me! Now that i am older and wiser... *smile*.... I can care for my troubles in my own way, the best way for me...without anyones help....maybe a tad of help is needed...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

    'Pat' answers are not usually appropriate

    except in multiple choice questions IMO. This means glib answers that don't really get to the root of any question or address it head-on. Both religion and psychology, and probably other sources too, have some glib answers. IMO the Bible was not written for the purpose of...
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup
    36-40, F
    Sep 20, 2014

    No Im Not...

    i am not looking for someone to fix my promblems. I think i can figure that out on my own, hwat i am mainly looking for is someone to listen, and understand, and do what i need them to do....be a friend...that is all...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 1, 2009

    Don't Need Fixing.

    I am full of pride and have never allowed others to help me in my life.  I have never looked for someone to fix all my problems and that is still not what I want now.  I know a lot of men want to do just that but I am not about being taken care of or having my problems...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    6 Responses May 25, 2009

    Thanks

    But uh, I hate to break it to you tiger, I am the only person on this planet who is well qualified enough to deal with the likes of me!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 1, 2011

    Because.

    I don't want someone to fix them - I want someone to love me. I'm sick of lies and bullshit. Of people who claim to be able to be there but break promises in the end. Of people who think I need to be helped. Of patronising idiots. The list goes on and on...Maybe one day, someone...
    lntel lntel
    22-25
    1 Response Apr 7, 2013

    Life Is For My Own

    People may not agree with how i live or want to live life, but that is for me to decide. I won't allow anyone to change my life against my will. Even if i have to die for it. The best thing anyone could do is to realize problems you think i have may not be problems to me. If i do...
    Arorin Arorin
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Oct 1, 2009

    Hell No!

    I am very prideful and hate asking for help, even when I need it. But, as for my problems, they are very deep and stem from events in my awful childhood. I don't expect anyone to help fix them, and the very idea is laughable, unless they are an trained professional. =p So, no...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 20, 2009

    What to Learn From Fixing Things Myself

    Nope.  No way.  If I need help I'll ask (Yeah, right!  Like, when does a guy ever ask for help with his problems?!)  My problems are my own.  I'll fix them or they won't get resolved.  If I procrastinate with something that needs to be delt with, I...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

    Don't Fix Me... Im Workin On It

    Sometimes, people in my life (hey and on line) mistake my venting for a plea to please fix my problems for me.  And hey- i don't mind a friendly suggestion here and there... but other times, it seems more like a person is trying to "save me" rather than toss out a...
    Shierke Shierke
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2009

    Hold Me

    I'm not looking for someone to pack up every broken piece and magically rearrange them to create me again.. I'm not looking for someone to take my pain and hold it on their own sholders... NO.. i am a big girl. this is my life.. i created what i am today.. and i can handle the...
    MiremebeKamaria MiremebeKamaria
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2010

    Simply Because....

     I can fix them myself! hpmh! maybe.....i mean theyre my problem i doubt anyone else can fix them anyways. plus theyre overly complicated and not something anyone but me could fix!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2009

    I'm Just Looking For Someone To Listen...

    I do not want anyone to fix my problems with their ready-made solutions. For some it is a defensive attitude but I'm here just to let things out. I just want people to read, understand and yes, leave a smile or a warm wish or may be just say how can they relate to it; tell their...
    beyondrepair beyondrepair
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Aug 9, 2010

    Don't Try to Fix Things

    I once dated a man who always felt that he had to fix every problem I brought to him. Sometimes I was only venting and needed a listening ear. But while I was talking to him, he was barely listening, because his mind was trying to conjure up some solution to my "problem"...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jul 2, 2009

    I Am Not Looking For Someone to Fix My Problems....

    I am not looking for someone to fix my problems, I know that my problems are for me to fix, and it is going to come down to me fixing them. I am aware of them, yes, sometimes I might want someone to listen to me, when I am having a hard time dealing with a problem or something...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 20, 2009

    Problems

    I have to say I agree. The only person available and capable of fixing me.....is me.However input from others as to whats wrong or suggestions on how maybe to make thing better are always appreciated.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2011

    Nope

    I am not looking for someone to fix my problems, I know that my problems are for me to fix, and it is going to come down to me fixing them. I am aware of them, yes, sometimes I might want someone to listen to me, when I am having a hard time dealing with a problem or something...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 6, 2009

    It Isn't About Fixing

    It's about being. What I may perceive as a personal problem is MY problem.  Therefore, I don't seek other people out to fix it for me.  I am open to suggestions and support, but not them doing my thing for me.  I wouldn't turn down an option to go to a...
    hisloverface hisloverface
    22-25, F
    Apr 7, 2010
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