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I Am Not Looking Forward to My Birthday

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    32 In 7 Months...

    I will have lost so much more than I have gained... starting over without a plan. Turn back time, please... a city, a friend, a love, a concert!
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2009

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    I Can Hardly Say It!

    I can't believe that I'll be 47 years old in July 2009. 
    Francescanolonger Francescanolonger 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2008

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    My Birthdays

    Are always lonely, there's no party as I have no friends, and my manic depressive mother, well lets just say she regrets not getting an abortion. So my birthdays are usually filled with loneliness, being told to go kill myself by my mother, and those extremely long phone calls...
    instantquack instantquack 18-21, F Jan 24, 2013

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    Just Another Day!

    So I'm really not looking forward to my birthday this year (I will be 23). The love of my life is deployed (submariner) and will not have communication until the end of August (my birthday is in July).My grandmother is undergoing surgeries and treatments for lung cancer and...
    AmMo89 AmMo89 22-25, F Jun 29, 2012

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    Not At All

    I am not looking forward to my birthday at all. I will be turning 19 on May 25th. I am not looking forward to it at all. No one will remember it at all, No one has and no one will.   It is also my Mother's birthday. It is Just a day I am not looking forward to.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2008

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    Well my birthday is on the 4th June

    and I already know it's gonna b crap! Why? Last year I had an English language exam on that day, and now I have another! Voice in my head: oh hell, exams could be fun Reality: no they can't, especially if no one remembers it either! I've been to dinners, parties and banquets...
    diegosauns diegosauns 16-17, M Apr 13

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    I'm Gonna Be An Adult! Yay!

    Today my mum and I were talking and she was saying: your birthday is coming up!  Me with a boring voice: ha? Yeah it is! I guess I stopped getting excited about anything! :/  Now I know I’m going everywhere saying that I'm 21 but to be honest I haven't turned yet!  But I'm...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    My birthday is in 2 days.

    I haven't really done anything for my birthday in years. I wish I had friends to celebrate with. I wish I had a reason to be happy about another year of life. I hate being alone on my birthday.
    aqualeaf aqualeaf 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I Used To...

     my birthday is something I look forward to ALL YEAR. Last year, was the first time I dreaded it. I felt like 35 means I'm old.   My birthday - I get one a year. I ask for a CD and a book. A journal , some pencils. All effort is made to give and recieve kindness...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Turning 21

    Between two groups of friends and my own family I will already be going to 3 different bars, 3 different ***** clubs, and 3 different casinos and I haven't even been asked what I want to do yet. I'm not sure why people get excited about turning 21. As far as I can tell it's...
    GreenBabylon GreenBabylon 22-25 2 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    I Was But Now I'm Not

    I wanted to spend a nice time with those I care for. I just wanted to do something together...I don't care if I don't even have cake. I just wanted to experience something shared and joyful because they are happy I am in their lives. That I made it...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 Feb 21, 2009

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    Not Really.

    Today is the 25th or April, my birthday is on the 30th, I've got 5 days left, and I'm not really that excited. So much has changed this year, and I'm very proud of myself for what I've accomplished. But it's just not me to celebrate my birthday, I don't know.. Could be what I've...
    SourPire SourPire 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    Especially Not This Next One.

    I am really not looking forward to my next birthday and as a rule I tried to let it slide by without to much notice. The next one, which is in a couple of weeks, will be one of the big ones, the dreaded 50. My wife has already started planning some big embarrassing thing for me...
    graywolf1107 graywolf1107 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2008

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    I Am Not Looking Forward to My Birthday

    I am not Looking Forward to my Birthday. A week from today, I will be 20 years old. I will no longer be a teenager. I am not Looking Forward to my birthday, because I have a feeling that I am going to be alone, like I usually am, and I have a feeling my family, or anyone else is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 18, 2009

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    I'm Turning 21

    My birthday is on 2-28. It's not really something I'm looking forward to. I don't drink and I could go out and party but it probably wouldn't be much fun for me. I don't have any girl friends or close friends in general, so I guess that'll make my birthday suck even more. But...
    reka105 reka105 19-21, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    It's Just a Reminder That I'm Special, But Not That Special

    My family acknowledges my birthday and tells me the usual command, "Have a Happy Birthday!" But I hardly ever do. My husband asks me months in advance what I want for my birthday, every year I tell him I want to be with him intimately as much as I want for a whole 24...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Today It Was..

    and it wasn't anything special... not that i'm complaining.. it is ok and it is fine :) i once had a great birthday.. back in 2006... a lot of nice things were happening at the same time... i'm thankful that i lived to see a day like that... and it doesn't matter if it happens...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2010

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    This is actually the most loneliest time of the year for me.
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    Haven't done for about thirty years. Always overhyped,over expensive,just not worth the trouble.
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    My birthday is next Tuesday and I am not looking forward to it. In fact I have been thinking of ending my life not celebrating my life all month long. I have not received any...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    My birthday is in 12 more days. And idk y but I'm not really looking forward to it I'm just. Ehhhm😕😕. And I kinda want to be alone on my birthday. I don't want a birthday...
    jellohellomello jellohellomello 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I'm not really looking forward to my birthday which is next week and everyone wants me to make a small party like what for? Most of my friends would ask can I bring my girl as I...
    kayboo44 kayboo44 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Oh yeah...I am still looking....Waiting for that lucky charm....someone who's just like me..in the same situation....Angels...Do something. I am so looking forward to connect with...
    platonix platonix 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Just looking for friends, easy to talk to, kind, and a good listener. Looking forward to meeting you! :) Please no one over 27, thanks!
    BattleAxe32 BattleAxe32 26-30, M Jul 15

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    Yes the one, most of the time Im embarrassed because im an NBSB. I'm 24 and dont know much about love or dont even really know what it is, how it feels or how will it change you...
    fosselfuel fosselfuel 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Hey , i live in saint paul MN . Looking forward to make new friends .
    Alimax11 Alimax11 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Happy birthday Mick Jagger.
    kolga kolga 56-60, F 1 hr ago

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    Yesterday was my 21st birthday.. and nothing happened. My friends are usually on vacation this time of year so I usually end up spending it with my parents and their friends which...
    bluemoon93 bluemoon93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Yesterday was my 21st birthday.. and nothing happened. My friends are usually on vacation this time of year so I usually end up spending it with my parents and their friends which...
    bluemoon93 bluemoon93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    so my birthday was today and my mom woke me up at 6 AM on a saturday. she was going jogging and couldn't find her phone. i had used it the night before because my phone was dead...
    hunhan hunhan 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk to as I try to find my way through this. To get some of...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk to as I try to find my way through this. To get some of...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F Jul 17

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    So, i chat to a lot of people and also read a lot of experiences on here. I have noticed how many people are still haunted about their past. Whilst i do understand how hard it is...
    Callis78 Callis78 31-35, M Jul 2

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    July 16th anyone? I'm looking for a birthday buddy
    katfish10192 katfish10192 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I hate how people talk about their birthdays and how great it's gonna be and how the light is focused on them for that day and such. It's probably selfish of me to say that, but...
    Izuka Izuka 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    so yesterday July 6th was my 20th birthday. I am a very sentimental person that tends to go all out on special occasions to make someone happy. isnt it so funny that on my...
    deepnessWITHIN deepnessWITHIN 18-21, F Jul 7

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    Hey birthday twin are you there? I'm looking for ya. February 17 anyone? :)
    akirayuuki akirayuuki 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I was thinking to day, hmmm what would our circle of friends like to see in our pictures folder. So since my wife owes me a massive late birthday present i was thinking there'd be...
    Discovery06 Discovery06 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Birthday - By the Beatles "You say it's your birthday It's my birthday too--yeah They say it's your birthday We're gonna have a good time I'm glad it's your birthday Happy...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    PoetrynMotion... Exactly what you are. My dear friend. My dear sister. A very loving person who has helped guide me through many doors, for which I am eternally grateful. A...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hello ! Today i found out that i'm going to celebrate my 18 th birthday in a ophthalmological place . I was in a good mode , but my mom came happily at me and said this with a big...
    MistyOff MistyOff 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I have never felt worse about myself, so I came on here. I just want someone to hear me. Anyway, this is what happened. I am a tall, awkward shy girl. I am very nice and loving. I...
    dancekatie93 dancekatie93 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago