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I Am Not Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 161 People

    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    My gf densest care about me no more she cheated

    on me......cant i have someone that loves me for who i am.
    johnmt12 johnmt12 22-25, M Aug 28, 2014

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 Oct 25, 2011

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    I am a target for copper arrows and frostbite.

    Sunrays stake claims on my skin, wind tangles my hair and my veins. Wounds heal as seasons change, but some things cannot be mended. I crumble at your words. I cower at your touch. A seed that has been planted in me has grown into I am not desired, I am not enough
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 3 Responses May 7, 2014

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    This is a hard one to come to grips with.

    The realizing that you are so unimportant that people that once loved you, no longer do. I contemplate this every night, trying to figure out what I did wrong. How is it possible to end up here? I'm not sure I really want anyone else to love me either. What would be he good in...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M May 13, 2014

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    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    Tonight i felt what it was like

    for someone to love me and it made me so happy knowing a real person cared about me. I love you so much. Thank you.
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 18-21, M Aug 21, 2013

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 Oct 25, 2011

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 29 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    As I grow older, I just experience more

    and more people disrespecting me even though I give them all the respect they wanted. Friends are so rare nowadays and to make it worse I can't trust anyone Tired dating but, either Im not pretty/interesting for anyone. Can't believe its been months, close to year and I have...
    appleschairfloor appleschairfloor 18-21 2 Responses Apr 26

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 Oct 25, 2011

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    Lone1y Lone1y 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    I just had to go outside in shorts

    and a tank top when it was freezing to do something my mom wanted. I slipped on the steps and fell face first on the concrete. No one saw me lying there, unconsious for 5 minutes. I came back in, bloody, sore, and limping, and my sister laughed. She said she saw me fall and didn...
    NoOrdinaryDork NoOrdinaryDork 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I just want to feel loved. It's been so long since I actually felt loved, that I don't even remember how it feels.I'm tired of feeling like a burden people have to endure.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I sometimes believe I am not good enough to be loved by those that I love & want to love me back... If my own father could up & walk out of my life without telling me goodbye like...
    chy08 chy08 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't exactly know what love is, I wasn't born to a family that said I love you all the time. Mostly it was actually said on rare occasions. The idea of love terrifies me, the...
    Izzy143 Izzy143 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I was married for 30 years. My husband was always a secretive, touch-me-not person. He criticized me constantly. Divorce except for reason of adultery is forbidden in my church so...
    GrandmaNanma GrandmaNanma 61-65, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I wish I were loved crazily and passionately.... I don't just want to feel like we are playing "grown ups" .... I want things to be spontaneous and wild and strong .... But I don't...
    maybelle001 maybelle001 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I absolutely loved the show V. It was cancelled in the middle of the story. Very sad.
    Marjj Marjj 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    All my life I have been the ugly sister. I never felt accepted or love by my family on my father side. As I grew older I always put on a smile and pretend that it doesn't matter...
    Redhairladee Redhairladee 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 16

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    I just want to feel that I'm loved, that someone really cares about me. He needs to be with me when I have good mood or bad mood, when I'm feeling low or when I love myself...
    JustAnotherGirlOnEP JustAnotherGirlOnEP 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I think my boyfriend is addicted to ****. I noticed he masturbates almost every day but when it comes to sex we barely do it once every 10 days or so on average and when I try to...
    someusername20 someusername20 22-25, F 39 Responses Jul 12

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    And that loved one i lost... was myself. Heroin is a monster and will turn you into the one person you always said you'd never be ... i know i lost it all more than once. Finally...
    SummersGracexo SummersGracexo 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I love my boyfriend he's ignoring me I don't know why I don't know what I did to him I keep texting him and he's ignoring me he used say I love you bea I don't want to lose you I...
    nimco17 nimco17 18-21, F Jul 9

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    This is more of a question/opinions from other people kind of post. I just woke up so hopefully this will make sense. My brother committed suicide on August 4th, 2014. He would...
    aesco53 aesco53 18-21, F Jul 9

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    My heart burns at the thought of you. You were someone to me. You meant something to me. You were more than just a guy I saw at work every day. You were more than a pleasant...
    kisstherainn kisstherainn 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Being with her completes me.. Best feeling in the world.. Feel very Lucky to be loved by an Amazing Angel..
    Chiru04 Chiru04 26-30, M Jul 6

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    Yesterday I was invited to a friend's house. There were about fifteen people there, we spent all day swimming in the pool, laughing, playing games. Today my sister was here with...
    manimalien manimalien 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I always thought I was always loved by somebody but I know it's a lie. No matter how much I try no one would ever love someone so weak,broken ,depressed and dumb like me
    DepressedOtaku DepressedOtaku 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Goodbyes Are So Hard... Its never easy to say goodbye. It hurts when you say goodbye. And it hurts When you didn't get the chance to say goodbye. But take it from me Someone who...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F Jul 4

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    I was the primary caregiver for my wife with dementia/Alzheimer for the past nine years. She was 64 years old when I was no longer able to take care of her. I hired a number of...
    newtonpark newtonpark 61-65, M 8 Responses Jul 2

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    Just for fun, read this description and try guess what famous character this is! I grew up in the 60s, between hippies and racism, I was left to be raised with my lousy, dead...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F Jul 1

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