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I Am Not Loved

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 29 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F Sep 15, 2012

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 18-21, M Aug 21, 2013

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    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Oct 25, 2011

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 18-21, F Mar 1

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    I am a target for copper arrows and frostbite.

    Sunrays stake claims on my skin, wind tangles my hair and my veins. Wounds heal as seasons change, but some things cannot be mended. I crumble at your words. I cower at your touch. A seed that has been planted in me has grown into I am not desired, I am not enough
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 5 Responses May 7

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 Jun 7, 2012

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Oct 25, 2011

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    No Substitutions Please

    My mother had some rough times when I was growing up so I can understand how she was unhappy with the way things were going and wanted to change things.  What I can't understand is why she could never just love me for me.  There was always something she wanted to change about...
    Troubled1atHeart Troubled1atHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    I Am Not Loved By Anyone

    Its just those moments when you know what you dont have...what you never had...what you might never have. When things happen that are just unbearably painful and there is nobody there. When people hurt you because they can. When no one ever ever ever makes sure your ok. My...
    MyNameItIsNothing MyNameItIsNothing 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    This is a hard one to come to grips with.

    The realizing that you are so unimportant that people that once loved you, no longer do. I contemplate this every night, trying to figure out what I did wrong. How is it possible to end up here? I'm not sure I really want anyone else to love me either. What would be he good in...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M May 13

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Oct 25, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I used to hate myself. I took blame for everyone else's pain and mistakes. I thought that I was scum of the Earth and how could anyone like me or care about me. And I often felt...
    hazy6 hazy6 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    My heart has been broken so many times and I never believed I would ever become a person I am today, no matter how hard I try it seems to never be good enough. I just want to be...
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I may not truly know what love is at this age, but the feelings I got thinking about us and how happy she made me, how I would be happy just seeing her smile. Love, she loved me...
    JerryTheFish JerryTheFish 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    For months at this college i went to, there was this girl. And she was brilliant. A genius, a writer, and the first person I ever opened up to. period. we got along really really...
    badgerman42 badgerman42 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 29

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    i want to be loved without any limitations, for what's on the in and the outside. i want to be loved wholeheartedly, for the good and the bad about me. i want to be able share...
    WistfulSigh WistfulSigh 70+, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    All our lives we've been believing in that when you're loved, you're loved unconditionally. Till we grow up. When realize that when you love, you're not loved back, you are used...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    We're all loved passionately by God and family if we have any. I know there are some that say that there is no God. But I do know different. It's time for me to simply fall in...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    If I was only loved by her and no one else in the world (which is what it sometimes seems) I would still be the most loved person on earth because she loves me in a way I didn't...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 1

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    I thought I was loved once, but he decided he didn't want to be with me and threw me away after 4 years. I worry I'll never be truly loved.
    karabeara123 karabeara123 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    and ive never loved another human, (besides my kids), like I loved him. Now id like to introduce him to my chipper vac
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F Jul 8

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    The piece You are an element singular You are the forgotten merry Deep inside or the exterior No one cares for the limited Believe that you possess nothing For her sorrow bears...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M Jul 11

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    Right now I'm unmarried. No bf. a single mom of one kid. In my dream I was married and very happy & contented. My husband had a job and ride a horse to work. I remember feeling...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Why does everyone want me to change, why do I have to be something else to be loved or even liked? Does it mean that I am worthless as I am not worth being loved or liked?
    Charliee4 Charliee4 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This goes hand-in-hand with the sexless marriage thing. My wife does not like to deal with emotions and so we rarely are able to communicate well and work through our problems. I...
    myguitarisbusted myguitarisbusted 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    Yeah I was hurt badly by the only one I loved. I love him with all my heart he was the only thing I cared about. Then one day I turned around and stabed him in the back.
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I feel like I don't deserve to be loved because I'm sick. I will always have this condition and I don't want to put someone else through the ups and downs of it. How could anyone...
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    Funny how when you give advice, you actually end up giving yourself advice. I've read some stories on EP and have sought after answersvto my own problems currently in the zone of...
    defconfigueroa defconfigueroa 22-25, M Jun 29

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    I have lost the most important woman in my life, my mother, 5 years ago. It's still the most painful event in my life. Losing her unexpectedly, when everything seems okay after...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I said bye to the only one l loved without expecting anything. I know it was a lost cause yet I can't stop it. I know no one can fill this gap. Should I Give Someone A Chance? Do...
    lonelyheartbroken lonelyheartbroken 26-30, M Jul 5

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    I hate how im overly protective, and overly jealous. I get too attached and i end up ******* things up. I loved too much and now i know they felt like i was taking their life away...
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    i told my friend that i love her in the romantic way, but she is straight, which SUCKS. but she loves me in a sisterly way. i wish she loved me in a romantic way.
    bicurious68 bicurious68 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    People always say I love him/her. I roll my eyes and smile and say good for you sweetie. Inside however I tell myself love is a myth an urban legend, like Bigfoot or Slenderman. I...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    He used to tell me I was the love of his life and he loved me more now than ever. But it's all faded a year has gone by, I feel more faint and weary I need that love again.
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F Jul 8

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    I was there last month. In Amsterdam. Going from Ireland to Amsterdam, a small culture shock for obvious reasons. But with those reasons aside, it's an amazing place! The...
    arandomleprechaun arandomleprechaun 18-21, M Jul 8

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