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I Am Not Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 159 People

    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F Sep 15, 2012

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 Jun 7, 2012

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    Hi! My name is Theresa.

    And no one loves me! :D I am going to grow up, old and lonely, and then I'll die and no one will be there for my service. Time to crawl back into a bottle and cry myself to sleep :D
    Taokaka Taokaka 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 18-21, M Aug 21, 2013

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    My gf densest care about me no more she cheated

    on me......cant i have someone that loves me for who i am.
    johnmt12 johnmt12 18-21, M Aug 28

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    I just had to go outside in shorts

    and a tank top when it was freezing to do something my mom wanted. I slipped on the steps and fell face first on the concrete. No one saw me lying there, unconsious for 5 minutes. I came back in, bloody, sore, and limping, and my sister laughed. She said she saw me fall and didn...
    NoOrdinaryDork NoOrdinaryDork 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 19

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I am a target for copper arrows and frostbite.

    Sunrays stake claims on my skin, wind tangles my hair and my veins. Wounds heal as seasons change, but some things cannot be mended. I crumble at your words. I cower at your touch. A seed that has been planted in me has grown into I am not desired, I am not enough
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 2 Responses May 7

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    No Substitutions Please

    My mother had some rough times when I was growing up so I can understand how she was unhappy with the way things were going and wanted to change things.  What I can't understand is why she could never just love me for me.  There was always something she wanted to change about...
    Troubled1atHeart Troubled1atHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 30 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    This is a hard one to come to grips with.

    The realizing that you are so unimportant that people that once loved you, no longer do. I contemplate this every night, trying to figure out what I did wrong. How is it possible to end up here? I'm not sure I really want anyone else to love me either. What would be he good in...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M May 13

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    My heart loved you pretty fast. My love was not a sexual love either, yet it was more than a friend. The love I have for you is just different than any love I have ever felt. My...
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    At my school no one will notice how much i am hurt. Every day i feel lonely more and more and that no one loves me to make me theres. I am 13 and i know many of you are going to...
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    I thought our love was the kind of love that would last. I fell in love with him when I needed love the most. There was an instant spark between us, a genuine interest, and that...
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    I was with a man for almost a year, after knowing him for about 2 years. The first time I met him, I thought he was the cutest thing. His name was Bryan, and if you'd ask anyone...
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    Throughout my life i loved and i cried. No one notice how empty i feel inside my soul and mostly my heart. Yes i love my family but i want to love someone that i can call my...
    ikayla123 ikayla123 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I met a boy when I was seven years old and he would turn out to be someone that I would love without question for close to fifteen years. We were friends and then best friends for...
    little3M little3M 22-25, F 17 hrs ago

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    I've had a few relationships, but only two of the girls I dated I ended up falling on love with. The first was my first love (a bit obvious). The second was my recent ex. I trusted...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M Oct 21

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    Im 17 nearly 18 and my experiences so far about relationships have not done me any good , i have depression and anxiety and night terrors prior to previous relationships . I have a...
    jjj1118 jjj1118 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    By the right person of course... The process we have to go through to find love or you could say the right one is extremely tiring and usually you only end up getting hurt or...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I am something that is often not loved. Nobody likes me and I am alone. I am stronger than I look yet very insecure. I know that I am worth something and I try to brush what other...
    StormianaGraymane14 StormianaGraymane14 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 1

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    A few months ago I lost my grandma. She wasn't the greatest person in the world while I was growing up yes, but still. If she hadn't taken me in when my teenage parents decided...
    MissJessieGurl MissJessieGurl 18-21, F Nov 4

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    List of things girls what guys to do: 1. Touch her waist. 2. Talk to her. 3. Share secrets. 4. Give her your jacket. 5. Kiss her slowly. 6. Hug her. 7. Hold her. 8. Laugh with her...
    dancedesire dancedesire 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    Please remember that there are different forms of love... Everybody deserves to be loved, but not everybody is entitled to every KIND of love. I love my kids because they are...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 Nov 10

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    From my sensual look at life to my spiritual awareness to my ambitions to make more money than expected.... I want to be loved completely.....
    Taurusedi Taurusedi 31-35, M Oct 21

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    I just need to love and be loved! I'm. Romantic affectïonate caring I
    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M Oct 22

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    I know I gotta love myself before a man loves me but its hard to love myself. I even shudder at the thought of it. I realise that I would never be loved cuz i don't love myself...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    I loved the series 'Touch' with Keiffer Sutherland.. The concept & plot behind that series were awesome.. Shame it got cancelled.. ; (
    maktub1 maktub1 26-30, F Oct 23

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    the first woman i ever loved was shot too death held her while she bled out death of someone you love is something that changes you forever
    1bull 1bull 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 26

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    " I want to show him that he has not been loved before . I want him to feel , with one kiss, how I can make love to his soul for eternity "
    Angelofthesilencess Angelofthesilencess 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 28

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    Is that too much to ask for... i just wanna love and to be loved.... don't need anything from you all i need is your love your little time and care... <3
    lovebug19980 lovebug19980 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 28

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    I have been hurt badly by the person i love,and that person is my girlfriend i loved her so much that i was ready to do anything for her.But she never understood the feelings i had...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Oct 30

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    I want to know that I am loved
    Chloe158 Chloe158 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I need to know why am I loved
    Chloe158 Chloe158 13-15, F Nov 2

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