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I Am Not Loved

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Oct 25, 2011

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    No Substitutions Please

    My mother had some rough times when I was growing up so I can understand how she was unhappy with the way things were going and wanted to change things.  What I can't understand is why she could never just love me for me.  There was always something she wanted to change about...
    Troubled1atHeart Troubled1atHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 Jun 7, 2012

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    I Am Not Loved By Anyone

    Its just those moments when you know what you dont have...what you never had...what you might never have. When things happen that are just unbearably painful and there is nobody there. When people hurt you because they can. When no one ever ever ever makes sure your ok. My...
    MyNameItIsNothing MyNameItIsNothing 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 29 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F Sep 15, 2012

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Oct 25, 2011

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 18-21, M Aug 21, 2013

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Oct 25, 2011

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 18-21, F Mar 1

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    There was is guy jordan and we meet 2 year ago i had always like him as we got to know each other more i really liked him then one day i said to him i love u and he said well sorry...
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    Its easy to say, that I am hard on myself, I always have been. Some say that I may be a bit too hard on myself, and that may be true too, but something that I am learning as some...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    You cross my mind still, and I wonder if you really loved me. It's been years now, and I wonder if you really loved me. You're married to her now, and I wonder if you really...
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    I hateeeeee when people just say I love you just to say it or to get what they want! If you don't genuinely love that person, don't say it. I had an ex say he loved me and could...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    My damn heart don't understand that he is not the one for me!!! Here I'm talking about a guy, my prince, my sweetheart and the one to whom i love more than my life!!! It all...
    whyonlymewhy whyonlymewhy 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    It's not that I didn't feel loved it was just because I wasn't loved by that person so if you don't feel loved then it's probobly best to leave that relationship there's nothing...
    edgarr edgarr 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    For any Demisexual people out there, you probably understand where I'm coming from when I say I've only truly loved someone once. I'm a Demisexual; and I can't fall in love without...
    SavedByMCR SavedByMCR 16-17, F Apr 10

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    same story as told before time was counted I suppose LOL.. been with him for 13 years, this year would have been 14.. i loved a man who taught me that not every man cares about...
    sister11 sister11 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I don't need it per say. Thought it would be amazing. Everybody I've been with, genuinely hasn't cared about me at all. Why's is so hard to find somebody like me who isn't selfish...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I met her when I was only 12 years old (I'm 24 now). Meeting her was the best thing that could have happened to me. I had "dated" (if that's what you want to call it at that age...
    karma61613 karma61613 22-25, F Apr 2

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    No matter how hard it is to love someone, regardless of their flaws or of some kind of pain they have caused unto you, i believe that everyone deserves to be loved. No one should...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    When we met, sparks flew and my heart would skip beats at the mere thought of you. I thought the world of you, and when I was with you I realised that nothing could make me...
    pensive1029 pensive1029 26-30, M Apr 9

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    I want that feeling of being loved not just how a family or friend loves you but love from a person when I can just wake up next to them and feel that sense of safety and happiness...
    Dreamsarepoison Dreamsarepoison 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I don't think I can sit here and describe how I felt about her, I don't think I can sit here and go through the sea of memories, of everything we had, everything we were, relive...
    Rodleo Rodleo 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I lost my best friend who I was like in love with back in 2010 to a drunk driver. To lose someone you love is to alter your life forever. You don’t get over it because ‘it...
    krorenae krorenae 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I meet this girl who I got so close to I began to breath the air she breathed. I wanted to be so close to her all the time and when she went out with her friends I use to get so...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm not crying out for attention, I'm not a little kid in a fight with her parents. I'm 33. My mom died when I was young and was the only one that supported and loved me. I was...
    enltguy enltguy 31-35 Mar 29

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    I rode my motorcycle for 3 years but sold it 2 yrs ago or so, i really loved it, felt free, the wind blowing my clothes, i could go anywhere. I had to sell it cuz mom was worried...
    Donotletmego Donotletmego 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    But it's not supposed to hurt. Dissonance between the person I loved in my head and the real person who made me feel like I meant nothing at all. The end.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Apr 1

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    I am fat. I am short. I have a dark complexion. Curly hair, crooked teeth. In other words I am not beautiful. Says who? Says a guy who I thought was a friend. I am not on the...
    spilledinklove spilledinklove 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I don’t want someone to love me like Edward loves Bella. I don’t want someone to love me like Romeo loves Juliet. I don't want someone to love me like a fat kid loves...
    KellysMyName KellysMyName 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm fat so I don't deserve to be loved.
    niamandthings niamandthings 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    My grandparents loved me unconditionally. She's my angel now. My grandfather fought in the Second World War. He was gone for 5 years. I miss them everyday.
    Sonny02 Sonny02 41-45, F Apr 9

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    My name’s John, and on January 2nd, 2014, I met the guy of my dreams. Yes, I said guy. Yes, I am gay. I’ve told quite a few people but haven’t really got around to announcing...
    hallasholm101 hallasholm101 18-21 Apr 11

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    I still remember the way it felt when i woke up with my wife in my arms and knew she loved me. I would move and she would turn to me and kiss me before cuddling up against me and...
    caer caer 31-35, M Apr 14

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    i was twelve, and was coming up to my first year in high school. i was absolutely dreading my first day at a new school, because i had never been the new girl before. the only...
    eviemay6 eviemay6 16-17, F Apr 15

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    I'm not asking for much. I just want to know what it feels like to be loved back. What do all of my friend have that i don't? I seem to lack something, but it's impossible to tell...
    WhiteRiceWithChicken WhiteRiceWithChicken 16-17, M Apr 15

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    oh dang. I'm looking at this picture of that person. I realized I hecka loved him. I don't think I do anymore because my emotions seem to have calmed down but there's a part of me...
    wackywoman wackywoman 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    She was my dearest friend and I loved her like I love all my close friends. We did everything together. She was like a sister to me. It still hurts me to know that while I'd have...
    engarde12 engarde12 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    More correctly, loved and desired as much as I love and desire them. Physical intimacy and affection are of paramount importance to me; it borders on the verge of physical need. I...
    roMANtic14 roMANtic14 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I absolutely love being passionately loved by my husband. On the other hand, I passionately love my husband as well. We both believe in lots of foreplay in our lives so both of...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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