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I Am Not Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 159 People

    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    Lone1y Lone1y 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 18-21, M Aug 21, 2013

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    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F Oct 25, 2011

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    As I grow older, I just experience more

    and more people disrespecting me even though I give them all the respect they wanted. Friends are so rare nowadays and to make it worse I can't trust anyone Tired dating but, either Im not pretty/interesting for anyone. Can't believe its been months, close to year and I have...
    appleschairfloor appleschairfloor 18-21 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F Oct 25, 2011

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    My gf densest care about me no more she cheated

    on me......cant i have someone that loves me for who i am.
    johnmt12 johnmt12 18-21, M Aug 28, 2014

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    I am a target for copper arrows and frostbite.

    Sunrays stake claims on my skin, wind tangles my hair and my veins. Wounds heal as seasons change, but some things cannot be mended. I crumble at your words. I cower at your touch. A seed that has been planted in me has grown into I am not desired, I am not enough
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 3 Responses May 7, 2014

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 29 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    I just had to go outside in shorts

    and a tank top when it was freezing to do something my mom wanted. I slipped on the steps and fell face first on the concrete. No one saw me lying there, unconsious for 5 minutes. I came back in, bloody, sore, and limping, and my sister laughed. She said she saw me fall and didn...
    NoOrdinaryDork NoOrdinaryDork 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F Oct 25, 2011

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    This is a hard one to come to grips with.

    The realizing that you are so unimportant that people that once loved you, no longer do. I contemplate this every night, trying to figure out what I did wrong. How is it possible to end up here? I'm not sure I really want anyone else to love me either. What would be he good in...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M May 13, 2014

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    Honestly, I don't know if she loved me back because I never asked. I'm married and she was seeing other people too. She had warned me that if she got an offer for a steady...
    Rodgers1981 Rodgers1981 31-35, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    It was a good experience. Feeling loved and cared about. Funny how it can disappear so quickly .. lol..
    magicduck magicduck 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    i think every single person wants to be loved but not all get it i dont know when i am gonna get loved all i can say currently still awaiting in the line of people who want...
    Mdesires Mdesires 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really do not get why people treat me the way they do. My kids tell me to **** off when I say I love you, and attack me and call me pervert when I try to give them a hug. My wife...
    EpilepticOne EpilepticOne 31-35, M 1 Response May 2

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    It is funny as I have always wanted to be loved, but I had a difficult time loving back. There are points in my life in which a women would love me, but I wasn't into it. Lately...
    Joshua1325 Joshua1325 26-30, M 1 Response May 5

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    I believe it began in 2007.The year the man that I believed loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me,broke it off.Since that day,I was determined to protect my...
    KAYDUBAU KAYDUBAU 31-35, F May 16

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    To be truly loved by someone.......is something I wish I can experience someday. I grew up in a home where love didn't exist. No hugs, no kisses......no bedtime stories. Because of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 13 Responses May 6

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    It has been 6 years since I have been loved. I feel that I'm not gonna ever be loved again. it hurts not to be approved of.
    weadkeys weadkeys 46-50, M 2 Responses May 11

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    People say it's better to of loved then not.loved at all. I disagree. I have know how it feels and now having not in so many years it just exassurbates how much I miss that feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 12

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    You cannot love someone unless you love yourself. BULLSHIT I have never loved myself, But U, oh God, I loved U so much, I almost forgot hating myself.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F May 14

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    Why do some people seem to find love, or seem to find "the one" so easily while others seem hopelessly destined to be alone? They say there's someone out there for everyone, and...
    pantspooper12345 pantspooper12345 31-35, M a week ago

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    I loved you when I thought you were a homely little raging c.u.n..t living in a hole in the ground in Africa. You made me love your ugly before you showed me your beautiful. You my...
    weirdWorks4me weirdWorks4me 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 29

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    so here's my experience. I'm talking to this guy, we been talking for about 3 months now. Although it sounds crazy, he mentioned he's has manic depression aka, bipolar. When I met...
    vf702 vf702 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4

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    The only thing I need in life... To be held and loved...
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 1 Response May 6

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    After my breakup, i lost my best friend. we didn't work out, and she moved on, and despite having friends, i want to be loved again and have a close person who knows me. :) feel...
    Theixco Theixco 18-21 May 11

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    Now that I've already moved on from that tragic moment in my life, I've realized that I deserve to be loved and appreciated by someone worthy of my love too. :)
    happinessandlove happinessandlove 26-30, F 5 Responses May 12

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    No matter what I do, no matter who I date they're always embarrassed to be seen with me. Today I tried holding my boyfriends hand and he pulled away. Again. My last boyfriend didn...
    justliloleme97 justliloleme97 16-17, F May 12

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    Was still a girl when it was on, but loved Picket Fences... very weird program
    carolenuk carolenuk 31-35, F 1 Response May 13

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    I remember the good times as a child. It was a great time, never anything to worry about. No such thing as haters and no one would ever judge you. I doubt I even knew what a "bad...
    itsLucy itsLucy 16-17, F May 16

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    Today at 10 am my father received a call that his dad passed away unexpectedly. My family is going through such a rough time. Not only did he lose his dad but his father in law...
    PAGuy30 PAGuy30 26-30, M 1 Response May 17