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I Am Not Loved

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    My gf densest care about me no more she cheated

    on me......cant i have someone that loves me for who i am.
    johnmt12 johnmt12 18-21, M Aug 28

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 Jun 7, 2012

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    I just had to go outside in shorts

    and a tank top when it was freezing to do something my mom wanted. I slipped on the steps and fell face first on the concrete. No one saw me lying there, unconsious for 5 minutes. I came back in, bloody, sore, and limping, and my sister laughed. She said she saw me fall and didn...
    NoOrdinaryDork NoOrdinaryDork 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    No Substitutions Please

    My mother had some rough times when I was growing up so I can understand how she was unhappy with the way things were going and wanted to change things.  What I can't understand is why she could never just love me for me.  There was always something she wanted to change about...
    Troubled1atHeart Troubled1atHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F Sep 15, 2012

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    Hi! My name is Theresa.

    And no one loves me! :D I am going to grow up, old and lonely, and then I'll die and no one will be there for my service. Time to crawl back into a bottle and cry myself to sleep :D
    Taokaka Taokaka 18-21 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 18-21, M Aug 21, 2013

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    This is a hard one to come to grips with.

    The realizing that you are so unimportant that people that once loved you, no longer do. I contemplate this every night, trying to figure out what I did wrong. How is it possible to end up here? I'm not sure I really want anyone else to love me either. What would be he good in...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M May 13

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I am a target for copper arrows and frostbite.

    Sunrays stake claims on my skin, wind tangles my hair and my veins. Wounds heal as seasons change, but some things cannot be mended. I crumble at your words. I cower at your touch. A seed that has been planted in me has grown into I am not desired, I am not enough
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 4 Responses May 7

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Oct 25, 2011

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 30 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    It's funny you know.. No being able to choose who you fall in love with. I wish I could of prevented the feelings I had for him. He was my best friend (funny how every story starts...
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    I was with this boy for almost a year...and then he told me he only wanted sex and never cared about me said all the right things said he wanted to marry me and have a family and...
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    Well that's what I used 2 think while growing up. My parents showed subtle, yet overt (my pov) favoritism between us siblings, what I believed @ that time was my parents loving...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M Oct 7

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    I would of rather loved and lost then to have never loved at all.
    hugsandkisses26 hugsandkisses26 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 22

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    In my 22 years long life, I never loved anyone except my parents. I never had a real friend to whom I coul'd tell my feelings and stories. I never loved any guy. I can tell he is...
    VelynaGiesa VelynaGiesa 22-25 1 Response Sep 23

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    I just wanted to be loved. Is that so bad? Be loved from a stranger. After hooking with random guys I met online and losing my virginity. I start realizing how can I be so stupid...
    DiaryOfAGayTeen DiaryOfAGayTeen 16-17, M Oct 3

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    This is part 2 from my another post (I kissed a girl and I liked it. (http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Kissed-A-Girl-And-I-Liked-It/122501) So I came back from my trip. And...
    Amanesama Amanesama 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    10/12/14 I am very loved. I adore all the compliments I have been given over the years. Two of my favorites are still the best. He: HONEY, I LOVE YOU BETTER' THAN A CAT LOVES...
    minimeowz minimeowz 61-65, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    A 3month old lioness Karmita. The most lovable and loving thing. I'm heartbroken. Deeply saddened. Broken. I wish I could've just done something. we all loved you. Love and prayers...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Is there anything wrong with that? I just want someone who isn't fake or manipulative. I don't want someone who makes me feel like I am worth the air I waste then turns around to...
    bmsartwell bmsartwell 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    A nod, a quiet hello. That's all i get from people. All because I'm different. We were so different when we were young. So understanding, not caring about what others looked like...
    Ferality417 Ferality417 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've had a few relationships, but only two of the girls I dated I ended up falling on love with. The first was my first love (a bit obvious). The second was my recent ex. I trusted...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    You're all beautiful! You might not be able to believe it ATM but trust me when I say we all have greatness inside just waiting to be released and expressed through your creativity...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    I just want to be loved for who I am, not what I have. My friends in high school all they wanted was what I had. I learnt my lesson! Peace and Blessings
    SexuBio SexuBio 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    Loved ones, liked ones, and people I'm meeting for the first time:-) I love baking more so than cooking. The only downfall to that is the fact that so many of my friends always...
    Kikiface22 Kikiface22 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I started crushing on my friend a year after we met. High school approached and it made my life drop. I began falling into the deep darkness of the world. He would ask why I was so...
    CurvyBones17 CurvyBones17 16-17, F Sep 29

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    Not to sound needy, but I just wish I could be embraced more. Feel loved more, and feel wanted more. Even though I have a boyfriend and a best friend I still feel lonely. I just...
    justagirleli justagirleli 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    For the first time in a while I feel loved and happy and it feels really good to know someone loves you . And it's all thanks to one special person who holds my heart (: <3
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    You know here I was taking a relaxing bath, I was curious when a few of my favorite shows should return, I didnt know that the cw cancel my Carrie dairies and the new show star...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 3

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    I am afraid of never being loved I have never even had a girlfriend I am still single and a virgin but I guess that's my fault
    jon200547 jon200547 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I'm a in abusive relationship. And now all i can think about is being loved by someone else having the kind of love that is kind and true. Someone who will never make me cry and...
    Elibabe303 Elibabe303 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I am loved by not only my family, but the love of my life, my world, my everything...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Oct 6

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    i love someone so much...but she cheat me...after that i think dont want any relationship...but i m lonely.. alone..now i have move on...need intimacy...want to fall in love again...
    abinpash abinpash 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 7

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    am old but have loving heart love to be loved
    lonelywaheed lonelywaheed 61-65, M Oct 8

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    I always mess things up. I lost everything I cared about. I don't deserve to be loved, I only deserve loneliness.
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 9

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    If you have read my other story that I posted in this experience, you would know I lost a lot of important people throughout my life, people who I love dearly, I posted that story...
    Secret179688 Secret179688 18-21 Oct 10