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I Am Not Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 161 People

    By A Significant 'other' At The Moment...

    Sure..I'm loved by my family, even though at times they've said or maybe done things (cuz we are human and we all have done something in our past to make someone feel less...even if we didn't know we did or realize we did!!!)...but I honestly don't feel I'll EVER be loved by...
    RebeccaJeanine71 RebeccaJeanine71 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    I am a target for copper arrows and frostbite.

    Sunrays stake claims on my skin, wind tangles my hair and my veins. Wounds heal as seasons change, but some things cannot be mended. I crumble at your words. I cower at your touch. A seed that has been planted in me has grown into I am not desired, I am not enough
    KristinaBeena KristinaBeena 18-21, F 3 Responses May 7, 2014

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    Tonight i felt what it was like

    for someone to love me and it made me so happy knowing a real person cared about me. I love you so much. Thank you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 29, 2015

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    This is a hard one to come to grips with.

    The realizing that you are so unimportant that people that once loved you, no longer do. I contemplate this every night, trying to figure out what I did wrong. How is it possible to end up here? I'm not sure I really want anyone else to love me either. What would be he good in...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M May 13, 2014

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    Hatred Or Something Like It.

    "I AM NOT LOVED". Simple quotation like that can break many heart, and can touched other heart that have time to listen to. I know, my own father doesn't  love me. I know from what have he done, he show that he doesn't ever look at me twice, or be proud of me. I...
    LisaWiserLiser LisaWiserLiser 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Dupsie

    I want you all to know that Jesus Loves you more than any human being ever could. Accept His love today and your pain will give way to euphoria! John 3: 16.
    Dupsie Dupsie 31-35 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    By A Guy

    Isn't it normal to want to be held and comforted. And wouldn't it hut to know they look at you and laugh? Well thats me the girl who can't be loved, I will never be good enough. I used to turn to anger, then chat sites to fill the loss but that was just nasty and that had to stop...
    cookie285 cookie285 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    All Alone

    Im always by myself. my family is always off doing bigger better things and they leave me behind. i want nothing more then to b able to be with some one who loves me deeply and wants to be with me as much as i want to b with him. Im not strong enough to hold my own shoulder. I...
    PunkCowgirl PunkCowgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    By My Father.

    This one really hurts. Because I loved this man dearly. My father was my fucken hero. He was the man I knew had my back. But he crushed me. So hard. I grew. And he learned to hate. Everything about me was flawed. The other day while I slept, he came into my room, kissed my cheek...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    Dumped

     I am not loved and I love this man.Been in a relationship with a man for 25 years; we have two college daughters. He just left me for another younger woman. He never wanted to get married .I feel so bad. I'm too old to start over.
    spinister spinister 51-55, F Nov 26, 2007

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    By My Brothers.

    They try. But they are ashamed to be seen with me in front of others. They're at that age. And when I fight with them, it doesn't feel like they care. My youngest brother worries. When i'm ill. He gets upset. My other brother, he thinks I'm a faker. But they can't love me...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 Oct 25, 2011

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    Well Idk

    i might be but sometimes its nice to hear it from other people besides that same guy
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F Jul 16, 2008

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    By My Mother.

    This one doesn't matter.She was emotionally unavailable.She cared. But she could never love. Her soul, it wasn't made out to have such strong such emotions for others.So naturally, she could not love me. Ever. But she cared, in her own way. At least, she was always real and never...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 Oct 25, 2011

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    Lone1y Lone1y 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 9, 2015

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    Naive Expectation, Stupidly Depressed

    The girl of my life, someone i love so deeply, made me cry so damn badly. I love her with all my heart. I think about her every single moment. I reply her text immediately. i come up with surprises to make her happy. I Try my best to understand her and then cater the best for...
    ZackJS ZackJS 22-25, M Aug 21, 2013

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    I Feel Nobody Loves Me

    It's hard to feel loved when the people who should love you are always abusing you and never protecting you from the other people who are abusing you and no one shows the slightest interest in your wellbeing and they say that they care less for you than you care for them, which...
    ForeverAlone ForeverAlone 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2007

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    I'd Like To Know Why

    I'm just curious is all... What makes me such a bad person? What makes me so gross to look at? What makes me so unwanted? Why am I not loved? Tell me, please?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 28 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Never Have Been Never Will Be

    My own mother didn't/ doesn't  love me who else is going to???
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 29 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    My gf densest care about me no more she cheated

    on me......cant i have someone that loves me for who i am.
    johnmt12 johnmt12 22-25, M Aug 28, 2014

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    Did I Did Something Wrong?

    Why why why? I am just a teen, and you chose this time to tell me I am not loved by both of you. If that is so you both should have just discarded me when I was a baby. Don't say you sacrificed for me a lot more then anyone else do, if you do you wouldn't have hurt me so deeply...
    unwantedchild97 unwantedchild97 16-17, F Feb 10, 2013

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    I just had to go outside in shorts

    and a tank top when it was freezing to do something my mom wanted. I slipped on the steps and fell face first on the concrete. No one saw me lying there, unconsious for 5 minutes. I came back in, bloody, sore, and limping, and my sister laughed. She said she saw me fall and didn...
    NoOrdinaryDork NoOrdinaryDork 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    The saddest people try their hardest to make

    other people happy, because they know what it feels like to be worthless. Iv always been one of these people .... I do not feel loved and I do not love myself. My family dose not love me. Even the man I loved dose not truly love me. I want my heart to stop hurting, god can't fix...
    michellemush22 michellemush22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    As I grow older, I just experience more

    and more people disrespecting me even though I give them all the respect they wanted. Friends are so rare nowadays and to make it worse I can't trust anyone Tired dating but, either Im not pretty/interesting for anyone. Can't believe its been months, close to year and I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

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    By My Sister.

    I remember being 10 or so. And my sister softly brushed her hand against my face. "You have such a pretty face. You would be so much better. If you lost weight." I'll never forget it. Because one of the few times I have ever felt truly loved was by my sister. And even she couldn...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 Oct 25, 2011

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    I had a crush on a girl actually my classmate who was also living besides my house. We use to go to school together study together and every time we were together but in 2007 she...
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    Randomly stumbled across this. Yeah, I too want to be loved. Valentine's Day is not exactly helpful, although I try not to be one of those anti-Valentine people and just try to...
    starling156 starling156 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Every girl or Lets say All of us (Girls) is so sensitive and we admit it. We want to feel loved and appreciated the way we expect. We have a lots of expectations in our mind. We...
    Ughnna1995 Ughnna1995 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am with the love of my life. In 2002 we were good friends, then dated each other for a while, fell in love, only for us to get into a huge argument, part and go our separate...
    MartiniMagic MartiniMagic 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Oh, how my heart goes out to you. If only I could take away your pain. My heartfelt love and prayers go out to all who are experiencing a loss. Hopefully, I might bring you a...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    She threw herself at me. I took things slowly. After a few months, we were official. I was a part of her family's dinners. She was "the happiest they've ever seen her." She treated...
    standardmale standardmale 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    A Neighbor To Us All. Mr. Rogers was one of those children's show hosts I loved as a kid and continue to admire as an adult, even after his 2003 death. I got a kick out of...
    ultrasensitive ultrasensitive 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    Hey So I have been battling with my bipolarity and thus the crashing of depression waves that tear me since the past month. The woman I loved just left me, bleeding my heart out...
    Songsofheart Songsofheart 22-25 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I've talked about him before, but his name was Austin. Although he was my neighbor, it was like he was my younger brother. I realized that today is the 26th...it's his Birthday. He...
    JamesCarter20 JamesCarter20 18-21, T Jan 26

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    Oh, To Be Loved Like This For Who I Am, As I Am. Maybe a futile dream in these autumn days of my life, but hope lives on. And because love battles not just in its own burning...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    I dont know if thats true. I loved her who was wonderful to all but me. She just left.
    isaidenough isaidenough 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I am unloved, but I choose to love deeply. (hopefully a positive tone for those that feel hopeless; and no, this is not a story of a girl who felt like she could never have love...
    notreallyici notreallyici 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    csi Miami I just wish the last episode would have ended a lot better then in a question. I also miss deal or no deal I loved that show...
    MadDog0420 MadDog0420 18-21, M Jan 21

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    Just loved for me and nothing else, sigh.
    Poison89 Poison89 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I've never truly been loved before every time someone has told me they love me its been a lie so I guess I'm probably never going to be loved
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    I no not how it feels to BE loved. My age shows no reflection of being loved, Only the sting, burning of love been denied. I no not how it feels to BE loved, what is it to BE loved...
    wnt2bneeded wnt2bneeded 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Brook pictured above, loved to take his shoes and socks off and air out his picture perfect bare feet every chance he got. Whether it was at school, at home, a friend's house or...
    beachfoot12 beachfoot12 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Well i have never felt good in the sense that i get all i wanted badly. I also have never felt truly free always and i want to feel loved all the time by me only .
    Angelinawhitepromdresseveryday Angelinawhitepromdresseveryday 16-17, F Jan 18

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    i feel so dumb and so unloved i wasted time and effort working my *** of to travel across the country to see a girl i loved and thought loved me but she moved on and we had such...
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 17