I Am Not Married Or Engaged

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    Not Even Close!

    first...one would have to have someone to be engaged or married TO.  i do not have this lol  the closest i have come to that is a 5yr relationship with my daughter's father which ended over 2.5yrs ago.  since then i've been enjoying my new found freedom of being...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2009


    Im not married or engaged either but cant say Ive never been married. 3 bad ones and single since 1990
    silvercoins4 silvercoins4
    70+, F
    Jul 9, 2008

    You Won't See a Ring On My Finger

    I'm single.  Never been engaged or proposed to, either. But a certain someone says he misses me and I've been missing him too.  Every single story I've written on here about missing someone was about him  
    yoyy yoyy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2008


        This man that I love is not my husband or my fiance. He is my special someone that i am choosing to spend my life with. Another thing is that I am only 16 and you may see that and think that I am absolutely foolish, but you would be wrong.  We share a...
    Beenhead Beenhead
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2007

    Young and Single

    I have never been married or engaged. I'm still pretty young, you know. But I do hope to get married someday, after achieving everything I want for myself. :D
    beryllium beryllium
    18-21, F
    Jun 8, 2009

    Why the Rush?

    It seems like everyone is in such a rush to get married so young.  It is not uncommon to see some girl get knocked up and married before the age of 21 now days.  9 times out of 10 these marriages fail. I think a lot of people are brainwashed into thinking that they...
    Fade81 Fade81
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2009

    Thank goodness I have my freedom!

    My freedom is the most precious thing I am having! I prefer to live my life in freedom and not to go back into the prison of marriage.
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    My sister had her friend over

    and she asked me if I'm getting married and I said no and she looked really disappointed. I asked her why she thought that and she said its cause I have a diamond ring on my ring finger. But ya see I don't wear it on my left hand soooo IM NOT GETTING MARRIED or at least not...
    AngelWithASecret2 AngelWithASecret2
    18-21, F
    May 26, 2015

    So I posted while back

    that I had gotten engaged at the age of sixteen. And now, at age seventeen, I realize how stupid I was. I lied to myself about the way I felt just because he was a nice guy. And now, after breaking it off some several months ago, I've lost a really good friend. Even though I don...
    Riomi Riomi
    18-21, F
    Mar 13, 2014

    earlier a post was made

    that I am married but I am not
    courtneymonkey courtneymonkey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2014


    But am very happy as I am at the moment. Way too busy running around trying to do things, very important things, that I am yet to have gotten into any serious relationship. But, as I said, I am happy, that is all that matters to me.
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    Feb 15, 2008

    If You Are, Good For You, But If Not...

    That is OK too -  and, if you need a friend, I will be here to talk to.
    deleted deleted
    May 5, 2009

    I Want To Get Married

    well I am 33 and still never been married i want to find a good man that wants to get married i live in TN and love it here is there any man out there that wants to get married I need a man that loves children  and dogs I want someone to love me for me I looking for someone that...
    marriage4me marriage4me
    36-40, F
    Feb 24, 2013

    Not Interested

    I've never been married nor engaged.  It's something I've never really been interested in.  When I got a place of my own I was happy to be living on my own, to do what I want when I want.  I can't say I will never get married or be engaged since I don't know what...
    Morgause Morgause
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2008

    God Is Teaching Me Patience While Waiting For Bf To Propose....

    Another day on Facebook, another day of me witnessing another one of my Facebook friends get engaged or married or having babies. I'm happy for them, I'm overjoyed that they have finally found that special someone to spend the rest of their days with and start a family with...
    dsinlove12 dsinlove12
    26-30, F
    Oct 22, 2012

    I Am A Widow

    I am not married or engaged, I am a widow.  Which is in a class all by itself.  People look at me a little differently than if I was just simply single.  I am still addressed as Mrs., but what good is a Mrs. without a Mr.?  Some people pity me, but please don't do that.  I...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Sep 18, 2011

    I'm Still Living With My Parents

    and don't want it other way round! Men come, men go and my parents are always with me. As for sex, I can always meet my bf somewhere else, in a hotel or at his place. We go to restaurants, too. Then I return home, into MY room. I don't have to share anything and have got no...
    EstellaDunH EstellaDunH
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2008

    As Far As I Know I Am Not!!!

    I have never been married ever nor have I been engaged... I have never signed any document with informed consent to say I am married therefore if anyone has tried to fool me into signing anything I can go to a judge and get in "null and void" because I was not informed as to what...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Sep 3, 2011

    Nor Have I Ever Been Either.......

    ~ I seem to be NOT the marrying kind. I don't think he ever really thought about asking me. I just figure I'm not the kind of woman you take home to meet the family, pop the question, & say in front of family & friends that you are pledging to love, honor, &...
    deleted deleted
    May 6, 2009


    So here I am... :)
    deleted deleted
    May 5, 2009

    Often, I think about being engaged.

    I have found the person I want to be with. But we are waiting a couple more years because we are moving next year and want to get situated in our new state. As much as I look forward to being engaged, I also want to work on some personal projects as well before i say I do.
    PhurGirl PhurGirl
    31-35, F
    Jun 27, 2014

    I Quit

    I am 30 and have been engaged twice in four years, I am starting to believe that I will never make it down the aisle and came to a conclusion that I am learning to be alright with that. I just started casually dating 2 months ago and every guy I have gone out with I am either...
    danielleduncan35 danielleduncan35
    26-30, F
    May 31, 2011

    Im Single In Relationship

    i have been going out with someone 4 months or so am definitely not engaged or married. i dont think this is for me.
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    Aug 22, 2008

    Apparently, this is called "man going his own

    way" or something, nowadays. Label for everything.....
    Taurusedi Taurusedi
    36-40, M
    Jan 27, 2015


    I've made a vow to myself not to get engaged/married until I'm at least thirty years old. I know to some of you that seems a little ridiculous, but I want to be a little more sure of my life before I commit it to someone else. This doesn't mean I can't have a very serious...
    SweetbriarPoet SweetbriarPoet
    26-30, F
    16 Responses Jul 9, 2008

    I Can See Me In Your Eyes, I Can See You In My Bed.

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years soon going on 3 in july. We already have a child, an 8 month old son. My boyfriend barely turned 25 this year, i'm 23 going on 24 in january & i'm ready to marry the man i love. I see everyone around me either engaged or getting married...
    MissSpookiness MissSpookiness
    26-30, F
    Dec 20, 2011

    When I was in high school

    or college early I didnt want to children at all, as soon as I held my nieces and nephews which the first was in 06, happening to be in 06, but the four were born in was in 09, I decided at that time I wanted to be a Pop's!!! I cannot help but think, Im missing the best years...
    JjKr88 JjKr88
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 2, 2016

    It Hurts To Wait For Him To Be Ready

    My boyfriend and I have been dating almost three years. I am 22 and he is 24. We are living together and have both finished school. I know we are young, but I really want to marry now. I am tired of this extended adolescence, and I want an adult life. I am a professional respite...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

    Are You Still Waiting For A Proposal?

    Hello I am a journalist and wondered if you could help me locate an ordinary couple who mirror the joy of Prince William and Kate Middleton, his bride-to-be? My intention is to find a young woman living in the UK who is still waiting - after EIGHT long years - for her boyfriend...
    pjaydog pjaydog
    Nov 17, 2010
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