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I Am Not Needed

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    Visible Only When One Needs Help And Invisible Then Not Needed - I am getting tired of being 'visible' only when I am needed Most of the people that I met needed my help or...
    isanami isanami 22-25, F Jun 26, 2012

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    No One - I am not a necessary part of anyone's life.  No one.
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    Sorry But You Are All Wrong - Everyone of you is needed, everyone has a purpose and is here to contribute something. Everyone here matters and I am not talking about EP I am...
    humblerider humblerider 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    .. - i don't feel needed. i try to help, and i fail. i try and fix things, and i end up making them worse. i try making things better in my family, and it does nothing but make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Seems So -  i have been invisible.i walk in the room and every body stops talking.i try to help and have been told that it is ok.iam no use to people.so what am i doing here?
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Oct 31, 2009

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    Not Needed - I am not needed. The world goes on. Life continues to live. Time never stops, and in the grand scheme of things I am not needed at all. I might be a "want" for other...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    Lost -      I haven't been on in a long while and that's only because anyone I have come across recently haven't been making me feel so great about who I am or what I go...
    XieryaWolf XieryaWolf 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    At Lest That's How I Feel - I have been told that so many times it's what I believe, so I live my life for others this way I will feel needed. Is that selfish? I may help them, but...
    vetra vetra 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2008

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    Me,needed? Naw Just Here To Be Here. - Im not needed im just here to be seen,nobody ever wants me for anything or needs someone like me. Their just waisting there time. I can be in...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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