I Am Not On Ep For Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 777 People

    I've made this account to meet new people.

    I'm rather a shy person and find it hard to make friends. I have a boyfriend who is all I have, it's not that he isn't enough for me but it would be just really nice to have a friend to chat with. I'm not sure even people online will want to be my friends as I see myself as...
    rosierose93 rosierose93
    22-25, F
    Apr 24, 2014

    Love Geo caching it get you out

    and discover our world you might enjoy it and you can go on you own or groups
    1234cardiff 1234cardiff
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    Please don't message me

    for sex, that's all I have to say. Just don't. It makes me uncomfortable.
    bribri590 bribri590
    22-25, F
    Mar 23, 2014

    I am not on EP for sex.

    I am on here to vent and for advice for people who are going through or who have went thru similar experiences. I would actually prefer to only talk to women who can help me. It is very frustrating when only horny men send messages and want sex talk!!
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2014

    See, now it's mostly women in this mofo,

    cause they doont like sex. Oh l only want ti with my man....yeah bulloks....they only do it to get something out of it. Women are lifeless beings. Screw them. Not like that.
    Gerald85 Gerald85
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Mar 8

    Since I've received multiple spammy messages

    asking if I like to be "disciplined" or want to be "controlled" or "want to get down," I figured I should let everyone know I am happily married to a wonderful man and not interested in being propositioned. I'm not here on EP for that. I want to share my experiences and interact...
    rock24of7 rock24of7
    26-30, F
    Feb 23

    It'S Getting Annoying

    I have received way too many messages with guys asking disgusting question , I'm not here no sex chat with anyone and if I ever was to do it wouldn't be here because most of us just want a clean chat. So please stop this with the gross messaging and calling girls ***** for not...
    daisyem daisyem
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    I check the profile of the people

    who wants to send a message. If I see more than 5 experiences related to sex and/or if 40+ men adding 15-25 years old girls, I won't even read the message. I don't understand why looking for people online for it. Go out and meet real people if it's all about one time or short...
    LeahNl LeahNl
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    I Am Not Looking For S3x Of Any Kind On Here!

    I do not understand why people have to be so perverted now days. Why can't people just find a way to have an emotional connection with friendliness and kinship? I am a married woman and I am not looking for sex chat, dirty pictures or offers of the sort. I will block you without...
    lml369 lml369
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2012

    I Am Here For Platonic Relationships

    I am happily married and not looking for a side romance. I am here because in this busy world I find it near I possible to spend quality time with friends, connect with people, or build relationships. Mutually being available the same time and place is challenging. I am here to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 3, 2013

    hell no I don't even care about sex have better

    things to explore and experience,
    Thewingedwolfserpent Thewingedwolfserpent
    56-60, M
    Feb 14

    I'm here for so very much more

    than just sex. If you cannot see beyond just the act of sex then most likely we won't mesh with each other. It's about intellectual cohesion
    Worthyof1 Worthyof1
    41-45, M
    Nov 26, 2015

    There is a difference between being a SEXUAL

    person and looking for sex on EP. I'm a sexual person, I post about sex and tell SOME stories about my sex life but just because I post how much I love to eat ***** DOESN'T mean I want to chow down on yours or especially look for some on EP, I go to other places, physically and...
    DefineLines DefineLines
    22-25, M
    Dec 23, 2013

    I almost feel like I should post on this daily

    so anyone who visits my profile will see this spammed throughout it. Of course the pests don't take the time to do that so it'd be futile. It's a nice thought at least.
    Twichl Twichl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    Not here for sex from men

    or join there craziness circle!!! Just bc I say about me & I AM in relationship, yes I like female & bi! Thanks!
    ncsweetfem ncsweetfem
    36-40, F
    Oct 14, 2014

    Contrary to what I usually join

    and write about, I am not on here for sex. I do enjoy talking dirty and talking about what I like and what the other person likes however, I would like to also have a genuine connection with people and getting to know them beyond their sexual fantisies. I think this is important...
    AryaFairgloom AryaFairgloom
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 30, 2014


    I understand that EP is a place for people to share things about themselves in a safe and relatively annonymous environment, but enough is enough! If most or all of your groups are sexual in nature, I will not add you. If you came up to me in a bar or a coffee shop and told me...
    Fayerweather Fayerweather
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

    No, Thank You

    I may be sharing some stories that have mild sèxual content, but I am in no way up for dirty chat with random strangers on the Internet. Save up your energy and juices. Thanks ;)
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2013

    I can't even repeat the name of this group

    because it contains the s-word. Well I am not here for that! I am also not here so that random strangers can send me pictures of their "throbbing member" (like the picture is really yours anyway!). Let me make this clear for the few trolls that actually read my profile before...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 13, 2014

    I am on here for advice only I do not want to

    meet any men from here thanks
    Aries212 Aries212
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2014

    Don't be showin me your weiner.

    If I want weiner, I'll get it from my amazing husband.. Who you perverts don't hold a CANDLE to.
    mrsdavid1975 mrsdavid1975
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    Maybe It Needs To Be Said?

    I am new to EP and in the process of finding my way around I have been open to communicating with anyone who has reached out to me. I am a friendly person by nature and as a single mom of four kids don't get much adult interaction. I was excited to hear from others and then I...
    coffeemom73 coffeemom73
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2013


    MrCheatedOn MrCheatedOn
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    My picture doesn't mean what you think it does.

    I want to be as honest as possible but I need anonimity. That's why I'm here. Don't assume anything about me. Ask
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 4, 2014

    I will appreciate people

    who actually want to have a nice conversation and decent intentions on getting to know me personally as a bicurious. I am not here to fulfill anyone's pleasurable desire for making love out of nothing. I'm here for emotional exploration to my bisexuality.
    EmJustCurious24 EmJustCurious24
    26-30, F
    Apr 19, 2014

    please don't message me

    if your looking for sex, sexting, showing off or flashing, or nude photos., I'm not on ep for that u will be blocked and reported so please save your time and mine.
    dove9 dove9
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Aug 24, 2014

    Please Read

    I am a sex-positive person. I am polyamorous and I'm currently involved in two committed, long term relationships with my two wonderful boyfriends. I love sex and don't mind if you have a somewhat sexually oriented profile, BUT, I am not here to find men to have cyber sex with...
    Fayerweather Fayerweather
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2012

    Though I enjoy the odd joke,

    mention and such, I'm not here for sex. What I find hilarious is women assuming that's what I'm after. Not being rude or anything, but hell no. Not interested. Don't mind talking about it but I've found that women these days are too egotistical and narcissistic. Not nearly worth...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 30, 2015

    If you strike up a conversation beginning with

    lewd remarks, I will not be kind and I will most likely block you. And probably report you as well. This is not a site meant for you to throw your sexual tensions at me. I don't owe any of you anything especially a sexual experience. So please let's all be civil and act like...
    LadyBlueBear LadyBlueBear
    22-25, F
    Dec 7, 2013

    Pretty much all I have to say.

    I'm okay with talking to new people etc, but as soon as it gets sexual, I'm out. Soz not soz, this isn't a dating site. Sanx
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    Please, please, please,

    perverted guys and girls who are too old for me, pleeeeeease stop messaging me. I am here for companionship, self-discovery and expression, and I would love to talk to you if you want to process things or talk about mutual experiences. However, I am NOT here for sex!!! and as a...
    Lithium619 Lithium619
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 28, 2014

    But after reading these stories.

    . I just lost track. Lmfao
    bjcx bjcx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2014

    Please don't send me messages.

    I am not interested.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 17, 2014
    Eleni1982 Eleni1982
    31-35, F
    Oct 30, 2015

    Jesus. Is nothing sacred?

    You know nothing of me and you want a PM just because I'm young and female and almost certainly have both a vagina and a pulse. Check me if I'm overreacting, but don't expect any PM's from me.
    anationsaysbloom anationsaysbloom
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 5, 2014

    You can amend your settings

    so that you can press Ignore when someone not in your circle sends you a message. Means you don't have to read it at all. I've done this and managed to ignore all the idiots trying to contact me inappropriately.
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2015

    Before you message or add me to your circle,

    please be aware that any attempts at such discussions will end up going down a philosophical or religious pathway. Worse still, I will try to psychoanalyse you and attempt to solve all your problems. Spare yourselves the agony.
    GypsyMiss GypsyMiss
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    ATTENTION!!! Fellas n yes women too.

    .... I am not here for sex, I'm not here to hook up, I'm not here for ppl to inbox me asking me sexual questions. Last time I checked this was a site to vent and don't they have other sites for your sexual needs ? Plus I know there is women who don't mind getting aroused by talk...
    IloveLife14 IloveLife14
    31-35, F
    Jan 16, 2014

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