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I Am Not Popular

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    Popularity

    I have many friends but I don't consider myself to be popular. Everyone can have friends but being popular is really dumb. To be popular you have to dress and look a certain way I like to be who I am.
    lionessheart lionessheart 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2012

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    I'venever really been in the popular crowd in

    school but that's fine, I don't care that much tbh.
    Jennyboii Jennyboii 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I love old music 80s 60s 70s & 50s

    and I don't care if people make fun of me cuz I'm just being me!!!
    pinkunicornsparkles15 pinkunicornsparkles15 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 17

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    Not Popular, No Friends

    I do understand the feelings all of you have for I too also felt that way. It's not being popular and having ppl all over you or around you. It first starts being you. That is liking and loving who you are. Thinking positive of yourself. Looking at your great aspects...
    pussyeater1 pussyeater1 26-30 2 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    How I wished I was the popular girl

    which I want to be :( this won't happen . Juz fml🎍
    skull01 skull01 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    The truth is that popularity isn't gonna get u

    anywhere in life,being popular isn't really important;you don't need to be popular to get anywhere in life,who knows maybe when u grow up and become successful some of those "popular" kids will end up working for u.
    crazcat97 crazcat97 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    A lot of people didn't like me in high school.

    But college is way better. The people are much nicer and don't judge you because you are comfortable being who you are.
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    And i dont wanna be!half the girls are just

    ******* i mean they have no common Curtise for others they believe everyone should bow down to them i mean wtf???were all humans we all have problems…so why do you think yours are more important and half the time all they do is use i mean i like being not popular i mean people...
    loveonmyarms1999 loveonmyarms1999 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm Not Hated Either

    I'm a quiet kind of girl. I don't socialize too much, I rarely put myself out there in the social arena. But I'm likable. Many even call me a plain jane. I don't wear makeup and I dress comfortably. I'm just me. nO glits, no glamour, I don't keep up with the latest trends, I don...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    How I wish I was a popular girl in school ,

    having tons of friends instead of having tons of haters .😔
    skull01 skull01 13-15, F 10 Responses Jun 2

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    Miss Lonely

    Its kinda mean but true. I don't care that i'm not popular but what i do care bout is the fact that people start ignoring me after a couple of days of bein my friends. It stings. I should be used to it by now but i guess this is one of the things that's impossible to get used to...
    Wathehell Wathehell 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    They Use Us. It's All based On Appearances.

       I'm ugly and shy and in high school.. That's why I've never been popular in my life. I have a huge ugly mole on my chin. That's also why I'm not popular. It seems as if the only people who can be popular are the ones who are super pretty, wear makeup and pretty clothes, and...
    TheWeirdoGirl TheWeirdoGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    It's Never Been Something I've Desired

    Now don't get me wrong.  It's not like I'm unpopular.  I've generally always been well liked but I've never been part of the in crowd.  It's never really appealed to me.  In high school, I didn't have a clique.  I didn't really belong to any particular group.  I was just...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 7, 2011

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    Not at all! Though in social media sites I gain

    a lot of followers from all over the globe , (cos I signed up to this dating site haha) But in my place only few knew me and get to hang out with me :D. At least maybe on social media sites but in reality I also wish I was :)
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    I hate popularity. I am the lowest rank of

    unpopular you could get at my school. I have been told there are ranks of popularity at my school. I don't care about how popular I am, I am just wondering why people divide unknowing people into different groups of social status...
    MainMan1999 MainMan1999 13-15, M 4 Responses May 17

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    I'm Being Ignored For My Looks

    NOTE: I am Greek and my English are not perfect. Please try to specify any mistakes i make, for it will help my English improve.I am a 16 year old boy but i don't seem like it. I am as short and as "manly" as a 12 year old. However my brain is growing normally and i can say i am...
    Farlander Farlander 16-17 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    And I Don't Want To Be

    I am just me.  I'm not here for a popularity contest.  I write my stories with love and kindness, and real true experiences.  I don't need comments, or recognized.  I am ME.  Me, meaning average ordinary individual not looking for attention of any...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Ughhhhhh . Seeing those popular kids posting

    selfie on instagram n having many likes n comment n here's me being an potato 🙊
    skull01 skull01 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    Ah...the Life Of An Outcast

    That's me.  Not popular.
    Kris99 Kris99 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 15, 2010

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    Explanation

    i joined this group and i'm sure some will look at my circle of friends here and say how can this guy possibly think he's not popular LOL when i joined it i was thinking in real life. i am not a very popular person i have 3 friends in the real world and thats it. yes its true...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 11 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I am not a popular person

    since young. People don't like my face I think. I can hang with a popular and liked person beside me and still got ignored and hated. I just wanna say, not all friendly people are nice people, a not friendly person doesn't mean he is not kind.
    nowander nowander 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    MICOLE MICOLE 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    I really am not popular

    and I honestly don't think I ever will be. The popular kids like me, but that doesn't mean that I'm actually popular. In my other experience, I wrote about how I pretend to be skinny in school. Last year, I didn't fake my look if I was skinny or not but this year I did, and I...
    awesomegurl1 awesomegurl1 18-21 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    "I Am Not Popular"

    and when i am on ep i always sit here for hours just waiting for some comments or messages because ep is the only place that makes me feel welcome and also my friends i do have are the best ever, at leaast they accept me for who i am and not what they want me to be, you see i am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    I think the whole thing is stupid.

    There are so many labels. Why can't we just take the labels off and learn to accept everyone whatever your background may be. I honestly don't mind not being popular. there is so many things wrong with that idea.
    lexifaith435 lexifaith435 13-15, F Jun 17

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    Underestimate Others

    Some people do underestimate others.Why. Are they know the world better.Perhaps they do but they actually had underestimate themselves.Pity on them.People who cant respect others might fallen to their own image of world where they adjudicate unnecessarily because of the...
    rom4 rom4 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2011

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    meandro meandro 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 17

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    not bragging but just gonna say how i feel

    about being in the "popular" group. yea many friends but theres constant talking behind backs. everyone can be so fake, people just want to climb up to the highest ladder there is. this "popular" group will break into 4 small groups when we leave high school because that's...
    basedgodschild basedgodschild 16-17, F Mar 30

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    What did I even do. I took a break

    and now this. Are these normal notifications
    httpKelly httpKelly 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I Acually Don't Want to Be Popular.

    Popularity is overrated. I really have no idea why people want it so much. It's better to have lots of friends who like you than to have lots of friends who hate you and gossip about you and are only with you because of something superficial. I try very hard not to become a...
    thaibeauty thaibeauty 16-17 2 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Who would want to be?

    Keeping up with people is a bore, putting on a fake smile and pretending to be nice to everybody is disgusting. I'm too honest to be popular, I don't need people following me around and wanting to say hi even though I don't know who they are. Just leave me alone. I want friends...
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F Jul 7

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    skull01 skull01 13-15, F Jun 21

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    The Personal Problem Of Popularity

    Popularity is probably nice to those who have it. Or maybe not. I haven't decided yet. I can't speak for anybody else but I'd have to be fake as hell to be popular. And I'd have to work hard to remember my lies. I cant even be popular among certain groups of people because I don...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 25, 2012

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    The idea of having some sort of social "rank"

    in school sickens me. What makes a person, a girl, popular? Her "perfect hair", her massive group of "friends", her makeup, her brand named clothes, the way she can manipulate others into thinking she's popular? I don't get it. I don't mean to stereotype. I really don't. I also...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Jul 2

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    I feel popularity is a dying phase

    now days. I never really was popular in high school. Everybody knew me and liked me but that's because I just did my own thing and didn't trice for the attention of others. And I feel most people evolve to doing their own things in life when they start adventuring the world...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    For Some Stange Reason

    I just survived middle school and am wondering why people can be so stupid sometimes. It seems to be a mystery of the universe how a girl who has a single best friend, worries more about her clothes and hair than having fun and enjoying life, gets D's and E's constantly on tests...
    kraftyktb kraftyktb 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    The Ultimate Outsider Since Birth!

    I have never fit in with anyone anywhere since birth. As a child I couldn't figure out why no one wanted me I thought perhaps it was my freakish size but later when that came in handy for sports no matter how well I did no one wanted me. I cry at times when I am alone as much as...
    ConservativeAtheist ConservativeAtheist 41-45, M Jul 13, 2012

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    Weed?

    every popular person in my school smoke weed and do other drugs, i dont do any drugs, but do drugs make u popular?
    diebipolar diebipolar 22-25, M May 14, 2013

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    I don't get why I feel

    so alone... I have no friends and no ones wants to talk to me.. Internet and school. I'm the quiet one, the shy one, but I can be talkative and I'm polite and easy-going. Until I get to know you..
    Skies12 Skies12 18-21, F Jan 11

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    And Glad.

    I've never been very popular, I'm not known at the entire school, but I guess this is better. I was sad when I was younger because of this, that I didn't have loads of friends and that stuff, but you know what ? I have a group of my friends who are similar to me, understand me...
    nicerain nicerain 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2008

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    I'm Not Popular

    I don't know why the popular poeple I know, are "popular" I personally think they're losers- once you're popular, you start to showoff and think you're better than everyone and then put everyone down by becoming selfish and self obsorbed.. I think popularity is...
    puzzles100 puzzles100 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2009

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    I Wish I Had More

    I only have 1 freind in really life and like 2/3 freinds on ep I'm a loser
    Darkon1side Darkon1side 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Glad To Say I'm Not

    I am glad to say I am not popular and I never have been. I never felt the need to act a certain way or show off, just to get others to notice me or make friends. I will always be myself. Nothing more and nothing less.
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    I really don't need to be either.

    Throughout highschool People knew me and liked me but that was only because I kept to myself and out of trouble. Only got into a few fights and arguments. Most of the time the fights were caused by me seeing someone getting messed with or a guy hit a girl. Yea I never won the...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Want To, But Not Allowed

    i always want to, i want to have lots of friends and make myself feel worthwhile, but i just can't
    jazzy645 jazzy645 22-25, F Jun 7, 2012

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    Was always that tiny small quiet weird girl

    who dressed funny no one really noticed unless it was to their advantage..
    petitelady28 petitelady28 22-25, F Jun 17

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    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    But then again you would never see me enter one either....Because its not all about being popular for me. I don't rally for friendship or seek attention and prefer to be honest and...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I have LOTS of friends and some aren't real friends but I have a group of people that are actual friends and the " popular " kids said oh we have more friends than u guys I'm like...
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M Aug 22

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    There are 14 posts on the popular page posted by females. And guess how many there are by males? 0. Apparently females are a lot more creative than males. It's either that or...
    ray9725 ray9725 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    Yeah, see? That's me up at the top there. I'm off to bigger and better things, but I won't forget where I came from. But I *am* popular now so, ya know, peace out.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    never been and won't be.
    voslung voslung 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm serious, is it just me or why do people have to make a big deal about a girl when they say Ask Me Something Dirty... Or an I want to know if you think I'm attractive... Giving...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 9