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I Am Not Popular

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    I'm Not Hated Either - I'm a quiet kind of girl. I don't socialize too much, I rarely put myself out there in the social arena. But I'm likable. Many even call me a plain jane. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    And i dont wanna be!half the girls are just ******* i mean they have no common Curtise for others they believe everyone should bow down to them i mean wtf???were all humans we all...
    loveonmyarms1999 loveonmyarms1999 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Never Was - ppl knew who i was in school.  i wasnt popular but they knew about me cuz i was that guy who could draw really well.  from gradeschool thru high school, that...
    zebunomicon zebunomicon 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    It's Never Been Something I've Desired - Now don't get me wrong.  It's not like I'm unpopular.  I've generally always been well liked but I've never been part of the in crowd...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 7, 2011

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    The Ultimate Outsider Since Birth! - I have never fit in with anyone anywhere since birth. As a child I couldn't figure out why no one wanted me I thought perhaps it was my...
    ConservativeAtheist ConservativeAtheist 41-45, M Jul 13, 2012

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    Glad To Say I'm Not - I am glad to say I am not popular and I never have been. I never felt the need to act a certain way or show off, just to get others to notice me or make...
    lacedup77 lacedup77 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    I'm Not Popular - I don't know why the popular poeple I know, are "popular" I personally think they're losers- once you're popular, you start to showoff and think you're...
    puzzles100 puzzles100 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Hmm.. - I don't really want to be "popular", but I would like it more if people considered me worth hanging around. Maybe my shyness is off-putting to people? I don't...
    mimsy2 mimsy2 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    "I Am Not Popular" - and when i am on ep i always sit here for hours just waiting for some comments or messages because ep is the only place that makes me feel welcome and also my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    I'm Being Ignored For My Looks - NOTE: I am Greek and my English are not perfect. Please try to specify any mistakes i make, for it will help my English improve.I am a 16 year old...
    Farlander Farlander 16-17 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    Idk - Im skinny, long hair And hazel eyes an im pretty and smart. But i never seem to fit in. All of the skinny girls dont talk to me and i feel like i need to be even skinnier to...
    Nadinerankin Nadinerankin 13-15 1 Response Apr 6, 2012

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    And Glad. - I've never been very popular, I'm not known at the entire school, but I guess this is better. I was sad when I was younger because of this, that I didn't have loads of...
    nicerain nicerain 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2008

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    Explanation - i joined this group and i'm sure some will look at my circle of friends here and say how can this guy possibly think he's not popular LOL when i joined it i was...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 11 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I Acually Don't Want to Be Popular. - Popularity is overrated. I really have no idea why people want it so much. It's better to have lots of friends who like you than to have lots...
    thaibeauty thaibeauty 16-17 2 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    The Personal Problem Of Popularity - Popularity is probably nice to those who have it. Or maybe not. I haven't decided yet. I can't speak for anybody else but I'd have to be fake...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 25, 2012

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    Popularity - I have many friends but I don't consider myself to be popular. Everyone can have friends but being popular is really dumb. To be popular you have to dress and look a...
    lionessheart lionessheart 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2012

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    I'venever really been in the popular crowd in school but that's fine, I don't care that much tbh.
    Jennyboii Jennyboii 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Miss Lonely - Its kinda mean but true. I don't care that i'm not popular but what i do care bout is the fact that people start ignoring me after a couple of days of bein my...
    Wathehell Wathehell 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    I hate when people make fun of things you can't control like body odor lol.
    MICOLE MICOLE 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Underestimate Others - Some people do underestimate others.Why. Are they know the world better.Perhaps they do but they actually had underestimate themselves.Pity on them.People...
    rom4 rom4 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2011

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    Never Was And Never Will Be. - I never was popular in school just because I never had the nicest or newest clothes out. I didnt really care about anything that others may have felt...
    dazed2u82 dazed2u82 22-25 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    I don't get why I feel so alone... I have no friends and no ones wants to talk to me.. Internet and school. I'm the quiet one, the shy one, but I can be talkative and I'm polite...
    Skies12 Skies12 18-21, F Jan 11

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    Weed? - every popular person in my school smoke weed and do other drugs, i dont do any drugs, but do drugs make u popular?
    diebipolar diebipolar 18-21, M May 14, 2013

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    They Use Us. It's All based On Appearances. -    I'm ugly and shy and in high school.. That's why I've never been popular in my life. I have a huge ugly mole on my chin. That's...
    TheWeirdoGirl TheWeirdoGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    For Some Stange Reason - I just survived middle school and am wondering why people can be so stupid sometimes. It seems to be a mystery of the universe how a girl who has a single...
    kraftyktb kraftyktb 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Me Too! - I don't know why, but I'm never invited by anyone, it seems as if people don't like me, hence I'm not popular! Offcourse; the possitive side is that they leave me alone...
    denTom denTom 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2007

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    "I Am Not Popular" - well i am sure by now most of you that no me will no that i am a real loner and that i am not really liked by the out side world so all i do is lock my selfe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 15, 2008

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    It's Kind Of My Choice But In A Way It Isn't - My introverted attitude makes popularity undesirable for me. I don't really want to be popular anyway but if I tried I probably...
    chrysalid chrysalid 18-21, F Oct 21, 2011

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    Never Been Popular. - although i have to admit, i've always wanted to know what it's like. i just want to experience it for a day or two, to see if it is worthy of all the...
    NaNeenah NaNeenah 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    I Never Really Was - I've always been the out case i never was with the crowd . I always figured that they are just better than me witch i guess they are.I just stop trying to make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 30, 2012

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    Not Popular, No Friends - I do understand the feelings all of you have for I too also felt that way. It's not being popular and having ppl all over you or around you. It first...
    pussyeater1 pussyeater1 26-30 2 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    I Really Wish That I Was...even Now.. - I feel so pathetic. I'm in my mid-twenties, and I STILL want to be popular. I feel pretty lame for that. I don't even have really any...
    HelloStarlight HelloStarlight 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Confusion!! - I just recently started talking to a guy that is my age and not really my type. He saw me at a concert and my friends at the show knew him and he applied all this...
    AliciaMD AliciaMD 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I Am Not Popular And I Don't Want To Be - I hate popular people because they baffle good people. I am a nice person and try to be nice but its not good enough for "popular people...
    iLikeBBQchicken iLikeBBQchicken 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2011

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    Ah...the Life Of An Outcast - That's me.  Not popular.
    Kris99 Kris99 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 15, 2010

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    I really am not popular and I honestly don't think I ever will be. The popular kids like me, but that doesn't mean that I'm actually popular. In my other experience, I wrote about...
    awesomegurl1 awesomegurl1 18-21 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Snitch - I'm not popular because one of my ex-friends spread a rumour that I snitched on them and students perceived it as fact. My ex-friends were also my bullies, and their...
    reflectionsreflect reflectionsreflect 16-17, F 2 Responses May 29, 2011

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    SO Glad - I am so glad that I am not popular. I've worked hard not to be. I see what it does to people.  I'd rather be myself, so I can relax.
    meowmeowface meowmeowface 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2007

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    not bragging but just gonna say how i feel about being in the "popular" group. yea many friends but theres constant talking behind backs. everyone can be so fake, people just want...
    basedgodschild basedgodschild 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I'm Myself... Whoever That May Be. - I've never tried to fit in. Good thing, too, because I'm fairly sure I couldn't. I speak my mind and don't care what anyone thinks of me. And...
    dramaticthespian dramaticthespian 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2010

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    I Wish I Had More - I only have 1 freind in really life and like 2/3 freinds on ep I'm a loser
    Darkon1side Darkon1side 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Flaws In All.. - :/ being popular is seriously to much work... i mean don't get me wrong being popular is fine with me but here's the thing ive never been popular bcus ppl used to...
    lakemi lakemi 18-21, F Apr 27, 2012

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    And I Don't Want To Be - I am just me.  I'm not here for a popularity contest.  I write my stories with love and kindness, and real true experiences.  I don't...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    And... - I couldn't care less.In fact... I can say I even take steps to NOT be.Now go away.
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Want To, But Not Allowed - i always want to, i want to have lots of friends and make myself feel worthwhile, but i just can't
    jazzy645 jazzy645 22-25, F Jun 7, 2012

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    Because I for one am not popular due to the fact I came out. People will discard you from a sort of group for being individual so I for one do not promote popularity it's the...
    theperksofbeingcaitlyn theperksofbeingcaitlyn 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Never. Like wtf are u trying to accomplish here?? We grow up in these public schools and wishing to be "that popular girl" like wth. No one cares. Seriously a your f***** amazing...
    Janellesings Janellesings 13-15, F Apr 5

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    This ain't high school and I been out for sometime now and I don't care to play those little childish games. If your here to win a popularity contest, I feel sorry for you.
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Don't really want to be, tbh. It won't get me far in life, and it's just not my thing... I came here to share experiences, help and get help and make genuine connections. Sorry...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 23 hrs ago

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    Well, one direction did. I've never even heard of the Steven Colbert group.
    Samcoyou Samcoyou 13-15, M Mar 24

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