I Am Not Race Specific When It Comes to Attraction

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 397 People

    I'm African American

    and I used to only date guys my race, because I felt like I would feel uncomfortable with other people. but now I really feel like I could date date any guy basically, because they are a certain race doesn't mean you can't be with them. Now I'm easily drawn to guys of other...
    Barbiebased1 Barbiebased1
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 4, 2015

    Why We Sometimes Find Ourselves Attracted To People Of Other Races

    Ever been attracted to a person of another race or religion, and wonder why? 'Psychology Today' addressed this a couple of years ago. All of us have, at one time or another, have been attracted to others not of our immediate heritage. One theory is that this an instinctive...
    proudsocialist proudsocialist
    61-65, M
    Nov 30, 2013

    Lol. I am mixed. I am French

    but have Portuguese and CapeVerdian blood. Cape Verde are islands by Senegal coast ( Africa continent). So yeah I'm exotic I guess lol. But I suffered from racism. From both part. I'm not white enough nor black enough. Really hard. But u know what. **** it. I'm who I am. And...
    Frenchlips Frenchlips
    36-40, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    Not Specific

    Not race specific or gender specific, can find a man or a woman of any race sexually attractive (or unattractive).
    Dragon56 Dragon56
    61-65, M
    Nov 7, 2010

    R We Looking For The Same Thing?

    I am 5'2" 125lbs and 34C. I'm Thick in all the right spots and I'm PURPLE. I'd like to meet someone with similar interest... I am not picky, but I would like someone with a jammin' personality who doesn't mind going out with me although I'm PURPLE.  I would like to meet...
    thegoddessmystique thegoddessmystique
    26-30, F
    Nov 15, 2009

    Sexy is to do with personality

    for me, rather than race. I find that most open hearted people tend to feel the same way.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2014

    I am the one in my family

    who is known for being attracted o races other than my own. I grew up in a very diverse city in Anne Arundel County, Maryland. It was never a problem with my moms side of the family. My dads side of the family lived in Prince Georges County which is predominantly African...
    n0rthernwind n0rthernwind
    22-25, F
    Nov 16, 2014

    Color Is Only Skin Deep.

    Of course there are cultural differences that transcend color, but among acquaintences, friends and lovers teh color of your skin should never be an issue!
    deleted deleted
    Mar 13, 2009

    There are beautiful people of all colours.

    And personally, I'd love it if you stepped up. Shook my hand. Or gave me a kiss! And if we find each other attractive.......
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Jan 11, 2015


    I'm not attracted to someone because of their race, neither am I not attracted to someone because of their race.  It's all about what's in their heart and in their head.
    yoyy yoyy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 3, 2009

    love who you love

    I never understood why so many people are hung up on this factor of race and attraction. I would hear some people say I'm cute for a black (aka African American for the politically correct) guy. My mind  would say why not just say I'm cute. it's kinda offensive to say it...
    freeflowing freeflowing
    26-30, M
    9 Responses Jul 22, 2009

    People are just that.

    ...People. What defines them is personality,culture, experience,etc. But to me... the real value is that if all these definitions didn't kill the simple beauty of being human inside to a fellow being.
    vipi5 vipi5
    46-50, F
    Nov 16, 2014

    Is it wrong to hate another race?

    Because I ******* despise the 1500m.
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll
    16-17, M
    Nov 15, 2014


    Asian *over the head motion* no idea why....
    CleoShilu CleoShilu
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2009

    I Swoon,,,

    i have never ever thought attraction belonged to one race,gtf...out of here with that,seriously i have seen sooo many beautiful people in all shades of brown and cream and every thing in between ,,,when i was in the middle east i seen the most attractive people from all parts of...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl
    70+, F
    Jun 25, 2013
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