I Am Not Shallow

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 224 People


    ... but, but I really like talking about my fair-trade, all-hemp shoes and the glorious, beautiful and voluptuous display of nature that is the weather..? 
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2007

    Media Ruins Sexuality.

    I recognize that the conventional standards spawned in the media have to do with status, and whats not easily attainable. I don't think that a guy is more attractive simply because he is 6'2 with a strong jawline, and a gym membership. I never have. Evolutionary biology...
    Athanais Athanais
    31-35, F
    Nov 17, 2011

    You Matter, Not What You Have

    i actually care about who people are and am also someone who loves deep conversations, and therefore suck horribly at being shallow.
    turbo48 turbo48
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

    I Hate Smalltalk

    *Ring Ring* "Hello?" "Good Morning! And how are you?" "Fine thanks." PAUSE. "Glad to hear that. "Yes. What can I do for you." PAUSE. "Lovely day isn't it?" "Yes. Who is this?" PAUSE. "I'm sorry, are...
    chovhani chovhani
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Sep 26, 2007

    I Like To Talk To People.

    I like to talk to people about what is important to them.  I don't mind hearing about why people feel bad, or good.  I like to hear about interesting experiences, their travel, good books, movies, and TV shows.  I like info about their families.  I also like...
    Nancy4025 Nancy4025
    56-60, F
    Mar 21, 2010

    Well, I'm Not.

    It's as simple as that. I'm not shallow. Quite frankly, I don't go for the great looking guys. Well, that's mainly cos the guys most people think are gorgeous are wuite ugly to me...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 23, 2007

    "i Am Not Shallow"

    I like deep, I don't like shallow. The surface may look good, but when you look beneath the surface you see that there is nothing there! Give me someone deep any day. Something to explore and understand, so much more than just what you see on the surface! If you find a man...
    ShamanSpirit24 ShamanSpirit24
    56-60, M
    Apr 22, 2012

    Wish I Were

    So many times I have wished I wasn't so deep.  Why must everything with me be so deep.  Nothing can just be simple or superficial.  I just can't do shallow.  How do I stop?  I don't want everything to be a life or death situation.  Can't I just let it be simple?  Why must...
    seekinglover seekinglover
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2012


    It is just as bad as racism or homophobia.  Yes,I have friends who are black,gay,unattractive,fat,etc.  Do I care  what they look like or what they do behind closed doors? NO!   Shallowness is STUPID.
    TgirlTammie TgirlTammie
    41-45, T
    Nov 4, 2012

    We All Have Some Preference

    I don't care if you're skinny or larger, I don't care what race you are. The only thing I care about is who you are as a person. It's silly to judge people by how much they weigh, or what color their skin is. We all have preferences, but I think those preferences should be...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    May 10, 2012


    I'm really bad at small talk. Somehow all the aspects of life, meaning, and other philosophical stuff creep in no matter what the conversation is about. It doesn't mean, of course, that I'm always talking about existance, universe, meaning of life, purpose , but I can never talk...
    misasja misasja
    26-30, F
    Dec 16, 2007
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