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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 189 People

    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I have 2 or 3 friends from back at school; people that I could count as friends anyways.... I still see and hear from them these days but I have one one lifelong best friend...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    10 things I don't need in a friend. This is for those people who thinks that I am just dumb and easy to be bullied. Even though you call me your “friend”. BUT actually, no...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I do because they are so ridiculously hard to find. I used to think I had two true friends but as tme has developed I'm sadly not tooo sure about either. However, when i considered...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    hey people my name is Ashley I'm 14 years old and I'm in gr.10. I live in Ontario, Canada. I am looking for friends or someone to talk to! I LOVE accents and music!!! TALK TO ME...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Stayed only one night although transiting. Close to DXB. Easy accessibility to plenty of around by great dining establishments . Helpful staff and straightforward Look at-in/out...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    This a theoretical group. I have no friends to be loyal to, if I had one I would be loyal I think. However my concept of what is a friend, and times being what they are, it's...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 16 hrs ago

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    I really want to thank everyone for taking the time to read a part of my life that I wanted to share. I hope it could help with anyone who feels that they are in similar situations...
    iwannarock iwannarock 22-25, M 15 hrs ago

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    The e-mail handle is not really legitimate. It has to be from the structure 'yourname@domain.com'. Make sure you check to check out when there is an additional Room prior to or...
    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Friendship to me is honesty and respect. Friends gives each other space, real friends can go for days without talking and when they do talk they have so much to catch up with...
    NightMagic367 NightMagic367 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    Food items: Figure out In the event the hotel delivers complimentary breakfast and even meal as Section of the hotel reservation, and acquire to find out about other eating places...
    Jewelgzr Jewelgzr 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    To make a long story short I was talking to a guy in the summer and you know we were jus talking and talking so much for a good two weeks and the next thing you know it We were...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art. It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival. -C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves I want...
    sayangeiram sayangeiram 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    okay so hi im Andrea. kind of new to this app but im kind of liking it because it feels good to let things out from time to time. so here i am right now just talking abt my recent...
    andreeaaa andreeaaa 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    i don't know what to say , i'm friendly and honest most of time .. i'm just feeling like making new friends that i can get for a looong time .. it kinda feels safe
    Oumai Oumai 16-17 7 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Hi, new on here, not got many friends just need someone who can listen to a few problems and maybe share a few!!!
    olliemc1 olliemc1 51-55, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    Fell asleep around 10:00 pm. Woke up at 12:30 am. It's now 2:20 am. I can't sleep. My mind is racing. I wish it would shut down so I could get some rest before work.
    aftie aftie 31-35, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    So here is the story. I am 36yrs old, back in april I met a girl who had just turned 19 a few days earlier. She said she liked my motorcycle and I offered her a ride and she...
    OldViking OldViking 36-40, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    A couple months ago I found out I have lung cancer. I haven't told my younger brother yet for fear that he will get hurt. Im doing chemo pills and they are really taking a toll on...
    19alexanderknight95 19alexanderknight95 18-21, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I am working really hard on becoming a better person. I need to accept my many flaws. I have led a wonderful life but I believe my current life is not compatible with my spirit...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 and a half years now. 59 days (not counting or anything) left til I leave and move in with him. I get asked so much how to make it...
    ShiveringGaze27 ShiveringGaze27 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Ever since I was a little kid bout 11 I've sang alone. But now im doing compositions then I go tell me best friend I want to be serious and try out for the voice. Then he just...
    SirCraftAlot2000 SirCraftAlot2000 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    'Listen' If a friend tells you their problem and you tell them don't feel bad or you just try to cheer him up it's like you're saying their feelings are wrong & to turn them...
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    The Plaza Cavana Lodge contains a pool snack bar for comfort throughout days expended sunbathing throughout the pool as well as a cafe the place friends can sample the evening a la...
    Ardellaeh Ardellaeh 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This is a repost of my featured story/i want to say thx u experience. The friend i an talking about is fallenindarkness~ :3 best person and the best friend a person can ever have...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    So here's the deal. I've had guy friends only since as long as I can remember. Guy friends are easy... Making friendships with females has been difficult for me, but I don't know...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    I want to make new friends but for some reason I can't. I am a 21 year old college student and I don't have any friends to talk to in college. Its sometimes makes me feel...
    SilverLightning SilverLightning 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Eight Signs You're in a Relationship Worth Keeping A friend of mine posted a link on Facebook to this article today. I think the author's eight points are valid, even if I don't...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    My name is Gabriel. I shall start from my first friend. His name was Alex. Unlike the other kids in kinder he didn't judge me based on how I dressed or even on how I refused to let...
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4