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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    I know that one day our friendship will be put to challenge. I am afraid to face that day. But now I have no choice. I have to face it if I want to save us from crumbling down like...
    Monnuel Monnuel 18-21, M 28 mins ago

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    Hi, I'm new here, and I'm going to keep my identity secret for now. I feel a little like an outsider, but I think this is a good place to share my story and feelings. So...
    RidiculousFeelings RidiculousFeelings 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Hi..I'm sujata(suju)!! I have no more friends and I really wants to make more friends as yuh are..❤️❤️
    flowebae flowebae 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I think it is something that almost everybody experiences at least once. You get the idea that you maybe like one of your friends more than just for a friend. Well, at least I have...
    briantjuh94 briantjuh94 18-21, M Aug 3

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    Keniaga838 Keniaga838 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I'm married with kids but spend an awful lot of time on my own. It gets very lonely sometimes and I miss my friends.
    leelee1978 leelee1978 31-35, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    im web designer,18 year-old and collage student i really like to have friends in ep listening to music;camping;reading novels are my hobbies and fun
    knowmeevery knowmeevery 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    There has to be a happy medium with having family and friends
    weeshil weeshil 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I was reading a Facebook post from one of my (I guess you can say) friends, and it sounded something like this: "My mom is always the one to spot a fake friend first". Was that for...
    TheAnonymousINFP TheAnonymousINFP 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I am a extremely secret person so I think I enjoy this site most of all because I have a place I can let things off my chest yet still be anonymous to some degree. Anyways; with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    *Tiana Jade* This girl needs no introduction. lol Seriously, she's the most amazing person i've known here. Pure hearted, a one of a kind friend that you'll surely love to have...
    DarkSoul07 DarkSoul07 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I have been friends with 2 people who were once very happily married. I met both of them at the same time and they seemed to be really great together. It seems that now perhaps...
    beinmee beinmee 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Stephanzt506 Stephanzt506 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Been to a couple psychologist/counselors. I guess I was always looking for a medical diagnosis. There's so much stuff that goes on in my head that I don't know how to explain, it'd...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    And yet it happened 'cause I'm always late and she had, had enough. So I understand why she's angry. But at the moment this is my mentality. Next to my depression and insomnia it...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I am no longer going to seek or maintain friendships with people who claim they adore you one day and than you never hear from them, unless you message first of course, or they...
    halloweenspice halloweenspice 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I used to have plenty of close friends, but as time went on, I started to drift away from them. My friends that I made at home did not grow up to be what I expected them to be...
    roberto0408 roberto0408 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Always have done it and guess I always will . More so now I'm older as there is so much more things to worry about , and 8/10 are about money , we don't have enough money to have...
    Bowbow94 Bowbow94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    So there's this guy, we had a thing(like bf and gf)but not anymore. And then i learned recently that my friend (lets call her ANA) has a thing for him AGAIN. In case it's a bit...
    greyxx greyxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    It's 12:32 am here in Manila and just can't sleep. I hope listening to my iPod and writing here would ease up the burden that I try to hide. Before, I am writing down in my journal...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Hi, im fifteen years old. I think I may be lesbian, or bisexual. i really dont know. I remember when i was little i always thought girls were really pretty and didn't pay...
    plokijuh365 plokijuh365 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hi, im fifteen years old. I think I may be lesbian, or bisexual. i really dont know. I remember when i was little i always thought girls were really pretty and didn't pay attention...
    brtxder965 brtxder965 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm sorry in advance if this post ends up a little long, but this issue is very, very important to me and I want to make sure I get my point across well. I'm a fresh graduate who...
    HelloBones HelloBones 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    My experiences so far after having both on-line and "real" friends have made me realise that on-line relationships and or friendships are tenuous at best because it appears that...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    This is for my friends. I have edited this a bit.I got this in a message sent to me. As I have...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I had a friend who I was and still am very fond of. She was one of my best friends. She and I spent a lot of time together. Recently, I told her something important and did...
    Broadwaygirl17 Broadwaygirl17 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I went for a snorkel from our villa each day. Residence reef was so fascinating, saw turtle, sharks and rays. Workers were being super handy and pleasant. The resort was only 20...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm just tired of people as of late...I have enough stress with bills, trying to get a car, and other small stuff..I just do not understand why people keep pushing my friendship...
    shanaflame shanaflame 22-25, F Jul 23