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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3, 2014

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    If you are just taking up space in my circle, and I don't feel your activity, its likely our friendship might not last here. I have too many acquaintances already in my real life...
    Significant Significant 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    My friend . . Is making Chilli tonight. . We were texting back and forth about American classics . . That he generously would like me experience. . . I cannot wait to see how your...
    mayabotanica mayabotanica 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    I need more female friends. I want a friend I can give my pads to whenever she needs it. I want to be able to try on each other clothes, shop in stores and take selfies. Share...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I've never had any, some have been close to good, but they disappeared and when I needed them, they ditched me. I'm sure they'll blame me, but really, I think they're to blame, at...
    RealLifePerson RealLifePerson 26-30, M 3 mins ago

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    So I have a friend we've know each other since we were little but we've never been great friends but is never let anything happen to her. She's recently been extra bitchy to...
    AwquardTallGirl AwquardTallGirl 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    They say friendship is a pure bond mutual trust between one another. To b yourself without d world judging u. a bond in which 2 people accept each other for whatever they are...
    stayingsimple stayingsimple 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    been growing my eye brows for a month so when i have them done they can be realy thick and great shape, just got them done and their so ******* thin
    gracebxox gracebxox 16-17, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Im in my 20s, I have no friends, No girlfriend (never did), I noticed I am boring to be around.I have social anxiety and depression. I have trouble connecting with others. I dont...
    carreola765 carreola765 22-25, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I been lost most of my friends and I know people are gonna say make new friends but I'm getting use to having like 1 friend and it's kinda hard for me to make new friends and I'm a...
    LoneLone LoneLone 16-17, M 35 mins ago

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    Hi I go by Fruitypunch on here.I would like to share a personal experience and somethings that seem to keep happening to me.Lately I have been trying to cope.The real reason I am...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 2 Responses May 7

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    To start from the beginning, I'm 17 years old who moved to the U.S last year with my brother and no family, no relatives. I stopped talking to every person I knew before I moved to...
    iabem97 iabem97 16-17, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So I met this guy when we were 18. I kinda liked him, but I was on the fence about it, and in my snobby 18 year old wisdom, decided he wasn't worth another thought when he ditched...
    Supersyncsteph Supersyncsteph 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    specifically people who are closest to me, like my family and friends, i know what they are thinking, feeling, and going to say, and all that other stuff, sometimes it gets...
    Alanuin Alanuin 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    It's summer so i guess i'm staying up pretty late now, who wants to message me (: we can talk about whatever don't be shy (;
    nicegirl2272 nicegirl2272 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I've loved this lady for years, but she simply doesn't feel the same. last summer we got drunk and knocked boots, but then we didn't talk for a year. now we're friends again...
    Zachary29 Zachary29 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    Yes yes yes I'm sure most of us has had this experience but unlike me I've had this experience many times but I would like to talk about an experience I had today, If you've read...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story and experience about me.Lately I am finding I cant trust anyone anymore.Here is an example of what has happen...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 2 days ago

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    I was friends with this girl…let’s call her N…for about a year, not a long time I know, but I thought we were really good friends and got along well. Obviously, I was wrong...
    chibikari chibikari 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    1. the bond between men; comrades. This friendship is different than girls having girlfriends. I see that with my guy friends. They don't need to meet or hang on the phone like us...
    graciousindifference29 graciousindifference29 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    My experience constitutes as a question as well because all though I'm experiencing something new, I have questions along the way. I am girl and a junior in high school, who has a...
    nikki47 nikki47 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I really get Sick mentally because of them, because they deprive me of all my money. Like this Joginder, he is the biggest sucker I have ever met. If I had Rs. 10,00,000 in my...
    Islav Islav 18-21, M a week ago

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    I've always wanted to travel the world and stay with the Internet friends I've made from over the years :3 best way to live by my experience ^_^ (Y)
    Allysonny Allysonny 16-17, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Hi I'm Marie from central nj, I'm 23,my boyfriend and I are looking for new friends to go do things with!
    lawlzitsmarie lawlzitsmarie 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    Hey :) I've been gone a while but I'm back When I used to be on here all I did was flirt, but now Ive grown some and want to make friends :) My advice to new members is keep trying...
    Curyhairedgirl66 Curyhairedgirl66 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My friends all have each other bronchitis a few weeks ago, and we still managed to forgive each other. This is what happens when you all share a bong
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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