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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3, 2014

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    I really do hate when you start talking to new people and U have good conversations and you start to think that the person will make a good long lasting friend but then they start...
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    When you become friend of the people you really like or admire, you want to be with them and you expect them to be the same with you as well. Friends are the fundamental element on...
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    High school wasn't perfect for me, but the one thing that makes me miss it is the fact that I used to have friends. I would see them every day, we'd talk/text all the time, and we...
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    My best guy friend and I act like idiots together :) We are just friends and both he and I know it. We are very physical, lots of hugging, tickling, poking and he can make me laugh...
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    I would... although l have many acquaintances and enjoy chatting with them, like others l have a few close friends, whom l can discuss anything with, no holds barred...you know who...
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    I have several EP friends who have crossed over to my real life. I've been on this site 4.5yrs and have developed close friendships with some. I have a fantastic business partner...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 13 hrs ago

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    I'm so Confused! PART 1 So I changed schools. I finished my tenth grade and left to another school and stayed there my junior and senior year. In my junior year I met a boy named...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    My bestfriend is gay so yeah a boy and a girl cans be friends
    halston36 halston36 18-21, F 16 mins ago

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    When I first arrived here., I remember seeing a dear friend....fungirlmmm (never sure how many M's :).... Anyhoo..... I noticed she had lots....and I mean lots of experiences...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    "Say goodbye to the pain of the past." As much as I would like to bury you alive or push you in the middle of a busy street, I can't ever deny that what we had as friends was...
    trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I'm so Confused PART 2 ...So Josh is constantly telling me to go to places with him, like the mall, to the pool, he even wanted to spend New Years Eve with me, and of course I...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    A part of me is determined not to forget even though it only brings me pain! I feel responsible for remembering and carrying the pain with me into every facet of my life.The most...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    thats all i realy want is more close friends, somone i could get to know and talk to and just have a good time with, go out and make memories. i dont have close friends and i...
    JEJ2259 JEJ2259 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes, you decide to do something crazy, purely for the fun of it. Something totally out of the ordinary, that doesn't match the way you usually act, and just to see what would...
    BlueMetalChick BlueMetalChick 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    *I can’t attest to facts of this story. It was narrated by a not so reliable colleague of mine, but a good friend* We once had the good fortune to meet this charismatic woman...
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    BushMaster243 BushMaster243 16-17, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I am a loyal freind :) So I can't spell it .. But I can do it :) But I loose freinds even though I don't won't to :(
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 4 hrs ago

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    im 16 and kinda shy so most friends i have are online and i wnt more intimate friends message me if u need a frend
    darnay321 darnay321 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    The problem is, all my friends hate each other, & it's tiring, to go to every other one just to have equal time with them, it's just like a Venn diagram, my friends wouldn't...
    WolfsterTheWere WolfsterTheWere 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Dear friends of mine on EP,I had really good and incredible time on here, I met nice, lovely and perfect old friends of mine whom I met years ago in France, I made some new nice...
    ElliasA ElliasA 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi I don't really no we're to start. I have been with my husband since I was 17 now 27, got 3 beautiful children a few yeArs ago we started having problems, I met a guy and one...
    claire8787 claire8787 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    This show is my life! This show helps me when I'm feeling sad. Pinkie Pie can always cheer me up ^.^
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    A Menagerie of AcquaintancesI have met so many people online over the years. I remember the first site I used to chat was IRC circa 1994. It was awesome to think that you could log...
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    I'm in a relationship for over two years now and he is my best friend <3 but I have a best guy friend too! Cameron. Now I won't go into details of my amazing relationship but...
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