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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 16-17, F Jan 3, 2014

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 18 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have had friends who I thought were true friends. but at the end of the day talked **** about me behind my back and were never really true friends to begin with. I want friends...
    kparker33 kparker33 22-25, F 1 Response 34 mins ago

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    Friday I'm sleeping over his house with our son. our son is excited to have a sleep over with his sisters. I'm looking foward to being in bed with my ex and cuddle. I'm not...
    smashmouth4eva smashmouth4eva 31-35, F 46 mins ago

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    If anyone is looking for someone to talk to, you can message me. I'm 25, from the US and I'm open to making new friends :)
    bennodachemist bennodachemist 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    Feel like I'm in a constant nightmare. My boyfriend is still in jail. Have no clue if he is going to get out and be put in drug court or be stuck in jail for a while. People in my...
    skatinem13 skatinem13 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I sometimes think about the past...my childhood dreams...how my body has changed ... how time has passed ... friends that came and left ... people that walked for a short time in...
    Ariaspark Ariaspark 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Totally!! their relationship can just be platonic. I have several guy friends that are just friends and they are some of the greatest people ever!! We can talk for ever and there...
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I can't make friends. I either get disgusted or hate being around people. If I do have friends I'm too bossy.
    Sunseto Sunseto 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have friends, or so they claim. I feel like they use me. They only text me when they find it necessary such as to copy my homework. It is often they don't text me, and at school...
    PandaPat648 PandaPat648 16-17 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    i don't think so in my experiences.. but idk some people works so denpends on how they are serious about their relationship and not to mention you need lots of time and money and...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx 31-35, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Since I moved, I find it hard to not have my friends around, those who get me. It's hard to start over and learn about new people. It's hard to know who to trust and confide in...
    Hanna8393 Hanna8393 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Since I moved, I find it hard to not have my friends around, those who get me. It's hard to start over and learn about new people. It's hard to know who to trust and confide in...
    Hanna8393 Hanna8393 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm 24yrs old blood grp is B+ if anybody needs one kidney can wtsapp me @7829628108 I need 35-40lakhs
    Sachin077 Sachin077 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    Hey guys, it's been a while. A lot of stuff has happened. I know you people probably don't care about some seventeen year old teenager's problems but I'll talk about them here...
    TheDarkestZero TheDarkestZero 16-17, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    As the title of this place implies I don't and I seem to have the magic power of msking the few new friends I make every now and then, angry for just geing who I am and beong...
    LozzyFromRome LozzyFromRome 46-50, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey! Why are you so hard on yourself? Don't you know how beautiful and lovely you are? What do you mean I lie? :/ Hey I'm no liar! You're the one lying to yourself! saying, "I ain...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Having friends in real life does not always mean you can talk to them just about anything. When someone comes over to you and asks if you are okay, you feel even worse deep inside...
    vonengel96 vonengel96 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm pretty sure I wrote this but anywho my name is Anthony I'm 16 live in Massachusetts and really want friends that are like me to hang out with!! Ugh I feel so alone
    Antcraft101 Antcraft101 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I have a lot if friends in reality but most of time i stay online so i like to have a lot of also online. But i hate when every time all what i see is bunch of fake people who...
    alexxxa123 alexxxa123 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    She believes that her killing herself would make me ecstatic, in reality I would care. We aren't close to friends like we used to be, we aren't on any level to talk anymore. But if...
    colorfulrainbow19 colorfulrainbow19 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    There has been a lot of things going on in my household..I'm just not sure what to say..what to think..or even what to do.It all started when my step brother got in prison,i guess...
    lexie78910 lexie78910 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey everybody :) my name is Arshia and I know it's hard to pronounce ?? ?? but I'm the happiest person I know soo yeah ???? at least people around me say that ?? I am 15 and a...
    arshiazare arshiazare 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been really close with my friends for only three months. It turns out, they were just using me so they could humiliate me in front of my entire school. They all saw me as...
    MangaMinx MangaMinx 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    i cant undo the 17 years that just ended but i sure can move forward and rebuild my life and make sure i never get stuck in something like that ever again
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Hi everyone. Thank you Dreams for the invite. Im new here so here is a little about me. my name is Jen it is short for Jennifer. I am 13 looking to make friends. I don't give out...
    jtlittlebit jtlittlebit 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am pretty sure I lost my best friend in the whole world and I just can't get over it. It has been 31 days. Our families are close, we said we were family. I don't know what to...
    Cherylestayed Cherylestayed 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 31