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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 190 People

    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3, 2014

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    You've got a friend in me...A true friend checks on you everyday even though he is busy with his lfe. He drops a note here and there letting you know how his day has been but most...
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    I have friends that say that I can tell them anything but then they invalidate my problems by saying theirs are worse, and I hate that so much. I just bottle it in because no one...
    artisticaltay artisticaltay 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    i am a straight guy who loves dressing up as a girl in secret. would love to meet more new crossdress friends or female friends that love guys who crossdress
    girlyboyandrea1987 girlyboyandrea1987 26-30, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I've been on ep for a while now, and I've met very few people that have held my attention. I've also had people stop talking to me randomly and basically disappearing. I'm looking...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Honestly that's why I came to this website. I really want to make some friends here. I'm not a very likable person though, I have very few friends where I am and they aren't the...
    XxDOZxX XxDOZxX 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; Someone who changes your life just being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; someone who makes you believe...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 9 hrs ago

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    if they could i think i would lose a lot of friends that i have now.
    jsmith19941978 jsmith19941978 36-40, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Dear friends of mine on EP,I had really good and incredible time on here, I met nice, lovely and perfect old friends of mine whom I met years ago in France, I made some new nice...
    ElliasA ElliasA 18-21, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    A Menagerie of AcquaintancesI have met so many people online over the years. I remember the first site I used to chat was IRC circa 1994. It was awesome to think that you could log...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 7

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    I'm in a relationship for over two years now and he is my best friend <3 but I have a best guy friend too! Cameron. Now I won't go into details of my amazing relationship but...
    Jalaylay93 Jalaylay93 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    I'm visiting in Florida for the next month and would love to meet some EP friends while here. Female or male.
    66nutman99 66nutman99 61-65, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    There are so many stories on here about people finding good friends, I want that too! I want a reason to log into this site everyday. Anyone want to be my friend? :)
    DreamingOfWonderland DreamingOfWonderland 18-21, F 14 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I really need gay friends, my life is empty and dark without them. Is there any gays who would befriend me?
    mystiqueenigma mystiqueenigma 41-45, F 7 hrs ago

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    Who wants to be friends? Tell me your story and let us chat
    hrl0 hrl0 22-25, F 8 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    i am not confident about myself.i alway see people superior than me.and trying so hard to make friends with everyone.for just to look funny and cute,i do the most emberassing...
    daisydestiny daisydestiny 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    i'm looking for new friends to chat with so please feel free to add me.
    girlyboyandrea1987 girlyboyandrea1987 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    i'm looking for new friends to chat with so please feel free to add me.
    girlyboyandrea1987 girlyboyandrea1987 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    so i procastinate a lot and its my friends birthday tonight and i need some gift ideas shes turning fourteen and is all into harry potter and a bunch of dorky stuff (not that...
    GirlInABottle GirlInABottle 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    When I think of online friends, I think of them as pen-pals. Like how it worked before the internet: writing out a letter and sending it to another state or country with maybe a...
    ChellyRocker ChellyRocker 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I'm not sure where to start with this but. I always ask my irl friends if they want to play video games or hell even just hang out. It never works. I'll ask over and over but they...
    adav218 adav218 13-15, M Feb 16

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