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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3, 2014

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    So I met this guy when we were 18. I kinda liked him, but I was on the fence about it, and in my snobby 18 year old wisdom, decided he wasn't worth another thought when he ditched...
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    Yes yes yes I'm sure most of us has had this experience but unlike me I've had this experience many times but I would like to talk about an experience I had today, If you've read...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    I was friends with this girl…let’s call her N…for about a year, not a long time I know, but I thought we were really good friends and got along well. Obviously, I was wrong...
    chibikari chibikari 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    My experience constitutes as a question as well because all though I'm experiencing something new, I have questions along the way. I am girl and a junior in high school, who has a...
    nikki47 nikki47 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I really get Sick mentally because of them, because they deprive me of all my money. Like this Joginder, he is the biggest sucker I have ever met. If I had Rs. 10,00,000 in my...
    Islav Islav 18-21, M May 16

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    I'm at a strange place in my life where making friends is quite difficult. People around my age are generally either raising children or married to their jobs, and people who are...
    WorldCreator WorldCreator 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've tried being friends with women who have boyfriends but because I'm a single male their boyfriends don't like me talking to them. Guys you know what I'm talking about...if you...
    atr7887 atr7887 26-30, M Apr 28

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    I think a girl and guy can be just friendsI don't have many guy friends though and find it difficult to make friendship with men as I am not sure how to behave I get accused of...
    aleema77 aleema77 31-35, F 3 Responses May 1

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    I'm not sure what's wrong with me... I'm always nice and helpful to people, yet I can't seem to make any friends. My whole life I'm always the first to talk to people, nobody ever...
    TealStar3 TealStar3 22-25, F 5 Responses May 3

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    A boy and a girl can indeed be just friends. My best friend is a boy and we have been friends since before we could walk. We have grown up together and shared so many things. We...
    here2shareAll here2shareAll 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    hii to everyone. Im looking for friends.i really need to talk to someone,im a good listener and i can be a good friend too, age doesnt matter i just need friends who thinks good...
    dazzlingheart dazzlingheart 22-25, F 7 Responses May 2

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    Hi all. Really need some advice. I was laid off (ah oil prices) and the prospects where I live are grimm. I can go back and work retail/food, but if I dont find something I went to...
    cndgirl cndgirl 31-35, F May 4

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    It's true, and it seems to me the majority of my guy posse ends up falling for me... I don't want to come off as an ego-maniac and stuck up *****, but I don't understand why.. Sure...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    I think true loyalty can be rare, I think it's something that's displayed in times where you need that loyalty within others or where there's a chance for that loyalty to be...
    Traveller96 Traveller96 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Almost eight years ago, I had a relationship with a really good friend. Sadly when we confessed our feelings, he and his family were moving to another county, an hour away. We were...
    choxie22 choxie22 22-25, F 1 Response May 1

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    Overnight the world in the UK ended and I am really frightened by it. This morning I was angry. I am not supposed to be political. I couldn't hold back. I erupted all over...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 12 Responses May 8

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    I am not happy without lovers or friends, but surely I have peace of mind, and freedom to do anything. Happiness thus comes from Within in the form of ecstasy. And I surely love...
    Islav Islav 18-21, M May 9

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    A day of them. A day of people I love. My mother happy. Birthday present not too weird....tick :-) A new friend. A colleague. We sneak out. I take her somewhere new. She...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I just met this guy on whisper and unlike the other guy he's not a catfish lol he's really nice and he asked to see another pic of my face and I said sure and then asked if I could...
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 Apr 27

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    I dislike talking about $exxx to the room mates, but one of them Joginder, every day asks about increasing his $exxx power. i find that really hating thing. And then he weekly goes...
    Islav Islav 18-21, M May 16

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    I'm pretty sure one of my friends is using me. There's a chance that she likes me and is being honest but I can't believe her. I want her to use me because then I'm not worried...
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    So then theres "rose" and "ana". I really shouldnt use fake names for these people. I should write full names & give links to their social media so you guts can be mean to them xD...
    DeepBlood DeepBlood 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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    i dont have many friends in ny university because i'm.extremely shy and dont have anything unique or special and so on. i thought my friends also think me as important as i think...
    akemin akemin 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    Need a little help figuring out a situation: About a year ago, I met a nice, single man when our sons played on the same little league baseball team. He was newly separated, and I...
    zoerutherford zoerutherford 46-50, F 2 Responses May 9