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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    Related Experiences

    I have 2 or 3 friends from back at school; people that I could count as friends anyways.... I still see and hear from them these days but I have one one lifelong best friend...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    This is a repost of my featured story/i want to say thx u experience. The friend i an talking about is fallenindarkness~ :3 best person and the best friend a person can ever have...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Your hair, your face, your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Ahead: Stupid rant My freshman year of high school, I met one girl and pretty much stuck to her side until I made my own friends, which were basically everyone she was friends...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I was born in Southern California and when I was one and half we moved to Canada so we could be with my family. When I was in Canada I had thousands of friends and five really...
    Allallalla Allallalla 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Heck, when it all boils down to it I am just a kid..... But I like to think that I can make friends with many and varied people, as I do on here.... Due to my job I meet young...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I wouldn't call people u can't trust friends... But everyone needs a friend they can trust :)
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    Sometimes! There are alot of people that think differently than I do and they think that their opinion is all that matters. I can not be friends with someone that is not willing to...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Here's something for you guys. Ok, if anyone is interested, I am a man and I can have multiple orgas.ms. Yes, it's possible for males also. Actually, there is a slight difference...
    Vrime Vrime 22-25, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Lots and lots of friends you can make up for the school friends I don't have
    ZebraUnicorn ZebraUnicorn 13-15, F 56 mins ago

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    I wanna make friends with people that understand hat I'm going through. People who have been with or are with drug addicts. Or new mothers. Or people who suffer with depression...
    flosserette flosserette 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    I wish I had real friends. People I can be myself around and just talk about anything i want with them.
    StallionCA StallionCA 18-21, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I think the word friend, is thrown around way too easily. When I was younger, I was very quick to call anyone I shared a few words with a friend. As an adult, I realize that true...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm an only child and in college and afterward lived alone for quite some time. When I got married, I was sure my husband was reading my mind because he kept answering things I was...
    ghostofacheerfulowl ghostofacheerfulowl 36-40, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Hello my name is callum and I have a been in a relationship for the best part of 6 years, we are in the process of moving into a place together but recently i discovered that she...
    caachan caachan 18-21, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    So here's the deal. I've had guy friends only since as long as I can remember. Guy friends are easy... Making friendships with females has been difficult for me, but I don't know...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    I want to make new friends but for some reason I can't. I am a 21 year old college student and I don't have any friends to talk to in college. Its sometimes makes me feel...
    SilverLightning SilverLightning 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Eight Signs You're in a Relationship Worth Keeping A friend of mine posted a link on Facebook to this article today. I think the author's eight points are valid, even if I don't...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    My name is Gabriel. I shall start from my first friend. His name was Alex. Unlike the other kids in kinder he didn't judge me based on how I dressed or even on how I refused to let...
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    HOW CAN I MAKE THIS HAPPEN? I WANT 500 BY THE END OF THEDAY
    MaxSinner MaxSinner 31-35, M 13 hrs ago

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    PART 2 As a person who likes to travel myself, I especially hate her bragging. My family only takes me to one place to vacation at as a tradition. 1 vacation a year considers me...
    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    You can't just start talking to me whenever you feel like it after you ignored me for no reason at all. I am not a toy for you to be playing with whenever your childish self feels...
    CityLuvr98 CityLuvr98 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Just because I write the things I write, doesn't mean I respond to everything that's written back to me. Writing is a release for me and I tend to be selective with who I release...
    redheadjenn redheadjenn 41-45, F 6 hrs ago

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    My health has been deteriorating for quite a while and it's taken me a long time to try and accept that I need to move on and focus on the more important things in life like Uni...
    Madhatter135 Madhatter135 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm really glad to finally have closure, but we're distant, :( I feel like I won't get that amazing friendship back, but as long as I have closure now, I'll still accept that I...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    My 17th birthday is coming up and i have no idea what to do for it! Im a senior in high school. I was thinking maybe a small party with all my friends maybe play beer pong or go...
    Rachelmtate Rachelmtate 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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