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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 193 People

    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3, 2014

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    So true. I live in the Silicon Valley where everything is about money and climbing up that corporate ladder. I should talk. I was like that in my twenties. But now that I have...
    llcarnevale llcarnevale 46-50, F 2 hrs ago

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    yep....******* friends!!!!!
    abarepussy abarepussy 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    Tomorrow 5 friends are coming for coffee so we can solve the worlds problems and discuss the latest in pop culture and fashion . Actually these women are all coming to help me...
    Iamtheoriginaldancemom Iamtheoriginaldancemom 46-50, F 8 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Hi! My name's Kimberly and I'm looking for some internet friends. I'm quite shy and can't always keep the conversation going, sorry for that. It just seems really fun to have...
    xpinkunicornsx xpinkunicornsx 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have 5 friends that I can really count on. The type of friends that I can call up at 2am and chat with them only because I'm bored and can't sleep, and they would never question...
    Starsatnight1 Starsatnight1 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    I feel too old to be on a site for this stuff but it seems like no matter how old get I can't change my personality. I have one friend who is kind of a default bf b/c we've known...
    grrrurgh grrrurgh 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I really want to make friends, friends from other countries, to talk and I don't know, I just want to make friends. I feel a little lonely actually, my best friend is in NY, my...
    Aucle Aucle 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I live in Mesa, Arizona. I like to wear the sexiest and most feminine things I can find. I am looking for others who like to dress the same way.
    kfsteve kfsteve 61-65, M 7 hrs ago

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    Trying to look deep in your blue eyes. Do I lean on in or just leave it alone? It's like I'm lost in a hundred acre field No map and I've got no lights. Wondering what kind of...
    christy0909 christy0909 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    we are all different in color and skin and race. but the fact is that we all have hearts, minds and souls, we may think the same or different but it doesn't make us enemies, we all...
    Francescacutie Francescacutie 16-17, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Im A typical filipino guy and I am looking for someone whos not into physical appearance or status in life. someone who will accept me for who I am and what I have. Someone can be...
    Lhander28 Lhander28 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

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    i am still not sure. it is not because i dont know what needs to be done. it is because i know the problem better then anyone else. You have to be in mind to know how i really feel...
    msb2015 msb2015 26-30, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I am lauren's naughty *** kisser. I love kissing her ***, it's so perfect. I hope I can be her personal *** kissing ***** for ever
    LaurensFartSniffer LaurensFartSniffer 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    HaPpY friendship day to all the Ep members..Be happY md keep rocking guyz.. nd i m wishing ep members first bcz there r some real frnds here with whom i was really me nd got some...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    HaPpY friendship day to all the Ep members..Be happY md keep rocking guyz.. nd i m wishing ep members first bcz there r some real frnds here with whom i was really me nd got some...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    HaPpY friendship day to all the Ep members..Be happY md keep rocking guyz.. nd i m wishing ep members first bcz there r some real frnds here with whom i was really me..love u...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    As much as I despise, well HATE my current situation of having zero friends, I'd rather it was this way than having a ton of fake, shallow 'friends' Been there, done that. I've got...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    yes..just so many times that now i cant even remember all of them..i sometimes think whether its them or me...i think something is seriously wrong with me...I trust too much...on...
    sb3007 sb3007 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I have never really had friends and I am almost twenty-three years old. I guess I was not cool or pretty enough and too quiet. When I was younger I thought everyone was my friend...
    LostNichole LostNichole 22-25, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm friends with a tomboy.Im a girly girl.I'm friends with boys,im a girl.Im friends with adults,im a teenager...
    ouchitshelen ouchitshelen 13-15, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I had organised to drive a 16 round trip to see my "friend" for a couple days. Put in for time off from work 6 months ago for this weekend. Even 5 days ago had confirmed I'm coming...
    aussiegirl2014 aussiegirl2014 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Im 17 and decided I want to adopt a toddler, some people say Im too young for this desicion, but I think girls my age already have kids so I can decide. Its not like Im adopting...
    ahache ahache 16-17, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I have a few close friends but with my likeness for feet, I don't get many friends. They just don't understand that,I like other things too like games, bowling, computers, I love...
    ChloeJamesIsForever ChloeJamesIsForever 16-17, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Well idk what is up with me I used to be this dude that got in fights a lot selling for money not going to school and shooting guns and all of that **** But since I'm father now I...
    itsmecodcaptainprice itsmecodcaptainprice 16-17, M 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I am pratap from India . Passport holder . I selling my kidney AB+ , 50 years , male , no smoking , no drinking needed person can call 919452631264
    ram1965 ram1965 46-50, M 18 hrs ago

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