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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

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    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    I have known this girl

    who is a good friend of mine for 3 or 4 years now. Everything was great and still is when I get alone time with her, but now its different because I have feelings for her, and she's the first girl I have really been attracted to. She knows I like her and she told me she likes me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 13-15, F Jan 3, 2014

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I couldn't find a good place to share this thought (not yet, anyways), so here it belongs. I was pondering the other day what it meant to know somebody who gave unconditional love...
    pixieparty pixieparty 31-35, F Mar 13

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    I have this girl who I like since I was 14. My friends knew her well because they went to the same classes as her. I was pretty much unknown to her until about three months ago. I...
    AdS09 AdS09 13-15, M Mar 7

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    Everyone has a story so here's mine i guess well i guess it all started in junior high i would get bullied a lot too criticized over my appearance it shouldn't bother me when it...
    MiddleChildx MiddleChildx 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I understand this world around me on a deeper level than most. Most people would want this, but it's just a heavy curse that holds no purpose for this universe as it is other than...
    DemraSynfata DemraSynfata 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    There are 7 main species of teenagers in Canada. I am going to start with the "Saucy youngsters." This group is basically the 13-15 year olds who wear their tapout shirts on top...
    ZacLandonS ZacLandonS 16-17, M 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Many of them are online....as in I have never even met them in person. I have a pretty strong connection with a couple of them, but nothing I would consider inappropriate. One is...
    TornSoul13 TornSoul13 36-40, M 19 hrs ago

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    WEATHER REPORT midnight is closing in; it's peaceful here and quiet. I have the windows cracked a bit; there's no traffic noise, no noise from the tenants around me. just three...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 14 hrs ago

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    I can't move on from a friendship that I convinced myself would turn into a relationship at any moment. It felt like my feelings were being reciprocated the whole time too. Every...
    HansFizzlebeef HansFizzlebeef 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I can't make female friends: whenever I meet a female and she happen to become my friend. I always think she going to take my boyfriend or she thinks she better then me... What I...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    Smart Relationships : My approach to build one . Atlast I permitted my boyfriend to enter in my life :) He will live with me in my house along with my family . Love these moments...
    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I am one of those people who will have friends for a while and i get taken advantage of because i care about them. ive never really had adult friends but the few ive had have...
    AmyE118 AmyE118 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    my last friends were good for a while but i ended up getting taken advantage of in the end. also they were the kind of people who wanted to tell you how to live your life but as...
    AmyE118 AmyE118 26-30, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Yes l do. When l talk to them we use full words not abbreviations as we chat.( except for the occasional one) When you, yes you, appear in my inbox with half sentences littered...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 8 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I can't make friend. No one feel least interest in me...
    1andonlyme 1andonlyme 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm looking for some friends. I don't really have any, they all leave. so, if you wanna try to be friends talk to me? maybe?
    alienpanda alienpanda 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Internet friends are the most real friends you are going to get, they are behind metal screens. They have no reason to lie about themselves or to lie to you. If you find someone...
    TakeAPicture TakeAPicture 16-17, T 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'll make friends and we'll have a blast. It takes a lot of effort to have those enjoyable moments. Especially trust and expression as well as a creative mind. Well, I'm the sort...
    Reanou Reanou 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I know this is a long story, but trust me, its a good one! If you read it all the way through let me know! When I was around 11-12ish years old there was this group of friends...
    NathansEP NathansEP 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Oh i hate losing you i cannot live
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    We can talk about anything
    drumroar5 drumroar5 26-30, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm moving from the capital to a small city by the sea with 4.000 inhabitants. I know absolutely no-one. I'm excited but also scared that I will be alone most of the time. I suck...
    mtea mtea 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    This is so far off then what i wright im not sure i can express my feeling fully because the unknown feeling hurts and makes me want to block out the people around me, and i know...
    LadyE21 LadyE21 22-25 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hi Looking for female friends 18- 35 in North London Area to Hangout with. Any Here ??
    bb107 bb107 31-35, M 17 hrs ago

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    All da gayz pls be friends with me
    anonymousxxg anonymousxxg 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    just moved here from NY looking for cool 420 friends
    drewroc drewroc 41-45, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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