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I Am Not Sure I Can Be Just Friends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    More Than Friends

    I got a crush on one of my male friend...he care about me so much and will always be there for me whenever I need someone..but later things have changed..he confess his love for me and so do I =P And here we are now..happily live as a happy couple..cos he is my best friend..and...
    babyiemori69 babyiemori69 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Women...`

    Have no idea when they form these relationships with men who are on the surface comfortable with a platonic relationship that not to deep in the recesses our testoserone driven minds we are or have had sex with you already. I have had plenty of female friends, but (this maybe...
    axston axston 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Being "just friends" is hard.

    I do have a "just friend" in my life, and it's weird. Down through the years, people have accused us of being more... not that I wouldn't like to, but I don't think her hubby would like that very much. LOL I would like to break through the friend zone with my other female...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    To Those Who Want Freinds And More,

    thats why there such a thing as freinds with benefits, and what it should lead to is a emotional/mental heart to heart connection, if not, then its a matter where you and somebody you had deep feelings for did the nasty and found out that sharing real and true feelings in a...
    digger1026 digger1026 41-45, M Jan 5, 2012

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    Making a Choice - Changing From Lover to Friend

    I have had a lover for about 9 months. When we met - we were both married, both in bad relationships, both needed something. We clicked - we spent time together when we could, and I have to say - it was much more than I thought it would be. A lot of the stories I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 18 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Damn It

    i'm sure that i can no longer be just friends. i'm done. you know how i feel, i've made it clear. after 5 years of friendship, i call it quits. i have deleted your number - so i would not be tempted to call you. i have blocked your number - so i'm not tempted to answer. it's...
    tiger1022 tiger1022 26-30, F Aug 11, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About You...

    ...that makes me want to jump you as soon as I see you. I don't know what it is. Our chemistry isn't electric, or even firey or passionate; but maybe *magnetic* would be the right word. I can't even remember the last time I saw you... well, I can't remember *when* it was, but I...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Not My Choice, Their Descision. No Negotiation, Second Opinion.

    Long ago - not so far away - I learned its not my descision. They like me as a friend - nothing more. Funny, helpful, safe, loads of time listening -all the right things just not the right person. That was not their descision. She was not being cruel - just honest. Kind. Yes kind...
    guidence508 guidence508 41-45, M Apr 2, 2011

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    My Best Friend,and My True First Love

    October 30, 2009 I Fell In Love With Kalin Meave In First Period 8:26 am. I Just Found This In My Hard Drive,I Wrote This About Three Years Ago!!! Pretty Crazyy.
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Okay, so um. Last year I dated this kid

    for about six months (I was 13, he 14). I broke up with him because I was stupid and my best friend (at the time) made fun of me because he isn't the most attractive guy. Two months after I broke up with him, we started talking again on Facebook and we are actually getting...
    abigailgrace67 abigailgrace67 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    Stuck In A Rut!

    So I was in a relationship for 9 years. We were good together never argued seriously or anything enjoyed our time together sitting around and doing nothing. He was the one! Our love life was a bit lifeless. It would seem that over the 9 years we went to one concert that was...
    darcy79 darcy79 31-35, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    So Close....

    So I like someone that likes someone else which is fine but how do I then change to become just a friend as she wants this guy more, I don't know if I can when this whatever is between us which maybe one sided I'm not sure yet but it could be perfect we could have so much , we...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    This guy and I have been having this

    complicated relationship since April 2013. I haven't told anyone about it. Sometimes we're friends, sometimes we're more. Lately, we've been having sex and stuff and I don't know if he wants to stay friends and **** or if he wants to be more. I don't know what to do
    justanothertroubledgirl justanothertroubledgirl 16-17, F Jan 3, 2014

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    Not As I Am Now

    I of course am only saying this to real life females. I am more than capable of being friends online and stuff. Anyway, it is nothing personal ladies, but I have to be sexually satisfied first. I think it has to be that way for most men. Those men out there who are sexually...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Why Me?

    So I just joke around alot and flirt but with no feelings to it! Well apparently I have some strong feelings for a guy.We are very close and like a best friend thingy relationship, I guess? Anyways I was joking with him that we should go in the freezer and make out! But at the...
    Silence01 Silence01 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Friends Not A Chance

    how can you just be friends and not make a clear boundary for the next romance. how can i go into the next relationship thinking im still good friends with the last one and they still want to be part of my life just not make a serious commitment and want me there when they feel...
    dawnbedwell12 dawnbedwell12 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    My now ex boyfriend who I loved very much broke

    up with me yesterday and he just wants to be friends. It's going to be really hard for me because he means so much to me and I don't know how to handle it.💔😢
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    I have two. One makes me mad most of the time while texting but the other is great. I want more close friends who would like to hang out with me all the time and treat me like gold...
    ButteryToast ButteryToast 18-21, F 23 mins ago

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    I am better friends with the lads than gals, I'm open to them and respect them
    Courtneybanks1 Courtneybanks1 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I really feel like I'm at breaking point in my life right now. I have fu€ked my life to the point of no return. You would think at the age of 32 society would of expected me to...
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I've been lucky enough to make some very good friends here. Each one brings something special of their own to the table. Feasting on laughter and sharing of life, creating bonds...
    KatsKorner KatsKorner 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I've been trying to make more female friends for a while now but haven't had much luck. I use to feel more comfortable with guys, but lately it's felt like looking back on those...
    strs248 strs248 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I've been finding that a lot of people don't seem to understand this concept. dome of my friends have become so occupied with themselves that they don't even bother to take an...
    strs248 strs248 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    i live in the uk near Bromley, i have trust issues and health and mental health problems, its hard to make friends :/
    rebornlover101 rebornlover101 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    It's something I personally choose for. I can't actually see any person as a real friend. I also don't really want friends in my personal life. Even tho it bothers me that I'm...
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    Want to make friends/connections? In Southern California? Want to make videos or play games/sports/physical activities? Got 2 free groups on FB (can be on other sites w/ groups...
    supergirl805 supergirl805 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Help! So there's this guy I really, really like. He lives 4 hours away, but my crush on him is intense, so I'm committed. He's given lots of signs that he likes me - he wants to...
    thelupine thelupine 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Help! So there's this guy I really, really like. He lives 4 hours away, but my crush on him is intense, so I'm committed. He's given lots of signs that he likes me - he wants to...
    thelupine thelupine 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I don't have real friends where i can hang out with them. i have pretty bad social phobia which is why im too afraid to start a conversation with someone... Anyone willing to...
    ds671 ds671 18-21, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    They are some of the bestest friends I have ever had. I can tell them anything and they would completely understand, and if it was something bad they would try to help any way they...
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    If you make it to my circle, I trust you and/or we have bonded over things, I'm not here to be popular. I'm here to make genuine friends in my circle.
    chloegoldmine chloegoldmine 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    How do I become more casual with people? I never get to have that close relationship with others and people talk to me so formally. Like people just can't be chill with me :(( hell...
    goldpaint goldpaint 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I give up. Friendships are too complicated. Relationships are too complicated. I'm tired of feeling lonely and alone almost all the time (social life = near zero). I'm tired of...
    Aerith8 Aerith8 31-35 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    i dont have any friends im close with. i always feel like im missing out.
    friendlyface70 friendlyface70 41-45, F 9 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Well, that's not entirely true. I have few friends but they live on the other side of the country and I see them maybe once a year. We do text every now and then, once in few weeks...
    JacobtheJunkie JacobtheJunkie 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure I would be able to recognize a true friend if I got one. I know people who would even consider me among their best friends, well at least one, but I'm not sure how...
    KittySoules KittySoules 22-25, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hey guys, it's been a while. A lot of stuff has happened. I know you people probably don't care about some seventeen year old teenager's problems but I'll talk about them here...
    TheDarkestZero TheDarkestZero 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Having friends in real life does not always mean you can talk to them just about anything. When someone comes over to you and asks if you are okay, you feel even worse deep inside...
    vonengel96 vonengel96 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a lot if friends in reality but most of time i stay online so i like to have a lot of also online. But i hate when every time all what i see is bunch of fake people who...
    alexxxa123 alexxxa123 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    She believes that her killing herself would make me ecstatic, in reality I would care. We aren't close to friends like we used to be, we aren't on any level to talk anymore. But if...
    colorfulrainbow19 colorfulrainbow19 16-17, F a week ago

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    There has been a lot of things going on in my household..I'm just not sure what to say..what to think..or even what to do.It all started when my step brother got in prison,i guess...
    lexie78910 lexie78910 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Hey everybody :) my name is Arshia and I know it's hard to pronounce ?? ?? but I'm the happiest person I know soo yeah ???? at least people around me say that ?? I am 15 and a...
    arshiazare arshiazare 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 3