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I Am Not Sure If My Marriage Is Worth Saving

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    Venting...He Proved Me Right...The ALL Suck...All Of Them.

    don't even know if this is where I'm supposed to be posting or not. I'm just in a situation that's just confusing as hell. It really isn't all that confusing...really...I just need to wake up and see the writing on the wall...and ACCPET it. Accept it all. I'm sitting here sad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    6 Yearsh

    I met my husband in high school. I've never been able to connect sexually though. He's sweet and treats me well, but his fantasies are too much for me. I have no desire to be sexual with him. I've had affairs, I always told my husband though. I haven't...
    tellie tellie 22-25 2 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Me A Coward?

    O.K. on Wednesday...I texted him that basically we need to accept that our marriage is over and move on...YEAH I KNOW...IT WAS VERY COWARDLY OF ME...I put that in my text too and apologized...I just could not seem to approach him and say the words without my voice trembling and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 23, 2012

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    My Dilemma.

    It’s a long story and I know I just can’t get into all the minute details of my married life so please understand that this is a piece of the whole and not the entirety. First, I want to say that I do love my husband and I certainly don’t want to hurt him. Second, he and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Leaving This Group Today

    leaving this group today...i believe my marriage is worth saving ...hoping and praying that i don't have to revisit it again as a member anyway....thanks for all the support ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    History Repeating Itself

      I have been married for about 9years to my husband. My two children are from previously failed relationships. Yesterday we visited my aunts house. We cooked out, and had a couple of beers. My 16year old , and 8year old were inside watching movies. A woman, my aunt knew...
    foxiest1 foxiest1 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    Seperation

    She is now far away, but will return. I feel uneasy for things will stay the same , even worsen. Grown stepchildren at home, two individuals that never accepted me. We co-exist. One is being released after years in prison, supposedly coming to live in a happy , loving family. I...
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M Dec 27, 2011

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    Update (To My Dilemma)

    My husband and I are talking divorce. We’ve been separated a couple of times in the past and if we separate again it’s going to be for good. Neither one of us is willing to do this limbo thing. He agreed to go to marriage counseling with me but we found out that our health...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    I feel like I hate him and I know if I died in this moment I would likely go directly to hell. We have been married for about 7 years, living together for over 8, and met over 12...
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    Well I'm not sure where this will end up. But I'm here as a former refuser. One to make some amends and two to tell the truth to all the women who are currently living with a...
    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am disposable. Easily replaced. Too much effort. I wish I knew why I didn't deserve the respect and love I had given. I wish I knew what I had done wrong. If it was really just...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    confronted my husband... boy did that backfire. presictibly he denied that he had any intention of cheating. He went on plenty of fish to "meet friends." boy he must really think I...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I have been in a sexless marriage for nearly 14 years. Sexless meaning No sex at all! We are only roommates living under the same roof. I had an online affair with a beautiful...
    Clandestine1 Clandestine1 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Marriage is a scam. Would it be nice to be stuck with someone forever? Sure. But I can do that without a legally binding document that means absolutely nothing except "hey at least...
    cg443319 cg443319 18-21, F Nov 29

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      I have been in a sexless marriage for 7 years now. H is a wonderful man, amazing father, very generous. We did not engage in premarital sex, were both virgins when got...
    exhaustednumb exhaustednumb 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 8

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    I feel nervous typing this as my beautiful baby sleeps beside me and my very handsome husband, who is a great father and a good person, snores nearby. I just feel so ungrateful, or...
    iamowl iamowl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Well, I have a girlfriend, she's my best friend and I love her more than anyone.. I'd say it was worth it. :)
    emilygirl1 emilygirl1 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8

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    I lost my virginity at 15, to an absolute despicable asswipe who was 19 at the time. He forced himself on me. It messed me up for a long time. But he did it to the wrong girl after...
    CountryQueen623 CountryQueen623 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 9

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    I felt worthless all of my life. But i tell u, i never had a bad heart. Either way i allways had a heart of gold. And been treated like im nothing. All the years i thought there is...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 1 Response Dec 4

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    So the other day in my immunohematology lecture my my (who I already hated) was talking about transfusion transmitted diseases. When we got to hepatitis and HIV, under people at...
    Leannaix Leannaix 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    I was 15. But naah, I don't regret it. Sure there was a time when I thought I gave it up for someone who I just got infatuated with, but now I know I never was just infatuated with...
    ThinaElise ThinaElise 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    Haven't spoken to my husband in 2 days. I can tell that he is ready to talk to me again, but I am not ready. I seriously though about staying in a hotel last night. But this being...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F Nov 23

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    Haven't spoken to my husband in 2 days. I can tell that he is ready to talk to me again, but I am not ready. I seriously though about staying in a hotel last night. But this being...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F Nov 23

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    I feel like life is hopeless. I'm struggling in a dead end job, I've lost my marriage. I don't think anyone really cares anymore. I'm losing all hope. Anyone got some to share?
    Gilbertc Gilbertc 51-55, M Nov 27

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 28

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    My husband I have been married 21 years. He has never had any friends. A few years ago, a woman started working at his company and they quickly became friends. They have a lot...
    applevalleygirl applevalleygirl 46-50, F Nov 29

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Juliecc11 Juliecc11 26-30, F Dec 1

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    I was born on June 11, 1999, and I'm in my senior year of high school. I will be fifteen when I graduate. It feels insane. People always ask me, what are you doing here, you're...
    arabellababe arabellababe 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Since EP's revamp of their site to allow everyone one that can get on a computer on here, the stories that can be written or said how you want them to be said are automatically...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had a question. And probably should not be here but could not find anywhere else my oh told me that the reason he does not like sex is because it's painful. I want him to see a...
    Pippa131 Pippa131 36-40, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    whitneycc11 whitneycc11 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    whitneycc11 whitneycc11 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I think its pointless to wait until marriage. The people who judge others for having sex before marriage are backward and archaic. I hope people out there aren't made to feel bad...
    tinmahn tinmahn 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 20

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    I hate the feeling they gave me to be worthless just because no one believe in me. They just lifted me up just so they would crash me down. They knee it was important to me and yet...
    Unknown1047 Unknown1047 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    I feel scared to tears that I see life flashing by whilst living in a sexles marriage. I support everything willingly & happly for wife and family but every day for several years...
    wngiag wngiag 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 21

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    My best friend mom was at my place yesterday, she came to check for my friend but my friend was not with me at home and I was alone and lonely. She decide to wait for my friend...
    World4me World4me 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 21

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    I didn't wait until marriage, I was very young about 15 yrs old when I lost my virginity. Although waiting until marriage is insane to me!! I'm proud of those who can actually wait...
    AlissiaMarie AlissiaMarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I am so tired of living in a sexless marriage. It's a nightmare. I need to leave, get a divorce, and be on my own but I have no clue how to leave, and be on my own. I keep thinking...
    loveangelmusicbaby0 loveangelmusicbaby0 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 27

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    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Ive been married for 1 year and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my...
    shakii00 shakii00 31-35, F 1 Response