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I Am Not Sure If My Marriage Is Worth Saving

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 58 People

    Seperation

    She is now far away, but will return. I feel uneasy for things will stay the same , even worsen. Grown stepchildren at home, two individuals that never accepted me. We co-exist. One is being released after years in prison, supposedly coming to live in a happy , loving family. I...
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M Dec 27, 2011

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    6 Yearsh

    I met my husband in high school. I've never been able to connect sexually though. He's sweet and treats me well, but his fantasies are too much for me. I have no desire to be sexual with him. I've had affairs, I always told my husband though. I haven't...
    tellie tellie 22-25 2 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Venting...He Proved Me Right...The ALL Suck...All Of Them.

    don't even know if this is where I'm supposed to be posting or not. I'm just in a situation that's just confusing as hell. It really isn't all that confusing...really...I just need to wake up and see the writing on the wall...and ACCPET it. Accept it all. I'm sitting here sad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    Leaving This Group Today

    leaving this group today...i believe my marriage is worth saving ...hoping and praying that i don't have to revisit it again as a member anyway....thanks for all the support ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    Update (To My Dilemma)

    My husband and I are talking divorce. We’ve been separated a couple of times in the past and if we separate again it’s going to be for good. Neither one of us is willing to do this limbo thing. He agreed to go to marriage counseling with me but we found out that our health...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    History Repeating Itself

      I have been married for about 9years to my husband. My two children are from previously failed relationships. Yesterday we visited my aunts house. We cooked out, and had a couple of beers. My 16year old , and 8year old were inside watching movies. A woman, my aunt knew...
    foxiest1 foxiest1 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    Me A Coward?

    O.K. on Wednesday...I texted him that basically we need to accept that our marriage is over and move on...YEAH I KNOW...IT WAS VERY COWARDLY OF ME...I put that in my text too and apologized...I just could not seem to approach him and say the words without my voice trembling and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 23, 2012

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    My Dilemma.

    It’s a long story and I know I just can’t get into all the minute details of my married life so please understand that this is a piece of the whole and not the entirety. First, I want to say that I do love my husband and I certainly don’t want to hurt him. Second, he and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Background of us: He has 2 kids, not living with them but paying the bill, he never in a relationship with both mothers. Me, no kid and living in another country for him. We are...
    formagerie formagerie 31-35, F Nov 8

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    I need help. Let me start off by saying I'm not a Jesus person, I don't go to church, I don't pray and all that but I do have morals, I have promises I made to myself long ago, I...
    ZoeandMax ZoeandMax 18-21, F Nov 5

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    And we shouldn't. Do you know what made society shame sex and confine it to marriage? Christianity. What started as a zealous, heretic religion turned into what we know today...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Technological growth is simply feasible through frequent research and innovations. The latest case of such improvement is the LED light bulb. Most study is performed to be able to...
    electricproducts electricproducts 18-21, F Nov 4

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage is more than just paper... Marriage is a promise; a series of promises that sometimes may be hard to keep but will be worth it. Marriage is the forever bond between man...
    Zoopetiz Zoopetiz 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I am a very private person...posting here is a bit uncomfortable and foreign to me. I hope letting the thoughts that play in my head out will help a bit. A couple very close...
    hopej4590 hopej4590 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 5

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    14years of marriage, 18 years together and sex has never been a priority for my husband. He was sexually abused by a camp counselor as a child and that abuse has affected our...
    Notlovingit Notlovingit 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    confronted my husband... boy did that backfire. presictibly he denied that he had any intention of cheating. He went on plenty of fish to "meet friends." boy he must really think I...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sometimes I can be really terrible to myself and would often be critical and compare myself to other people, no matter how many times I read or even hear about how good enough or...
    Girlwithbrains Girlwithbrains 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    These are personal views of mine but I believe that men and women have specific roles in marriage. I believe that when you get married it becomes your responsibility to work for...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 9

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    Last weekend my husband took me for a planned weekend away, the destination was a surprise though. When I realised we were going to Hastings I was really happy, my mum grew up in...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F Nov 16

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    How do I bring up the topic of open marriage with my husband without him hating me? I really don't THINK he'll be into it, but I'm not 100% sure, and that's why I want to discuss...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    I'm saving up for a vacation in December . I just be so damn tempted to get things that I want for myself with that money tho . I want to be good with managing my money . How do I...
    iamjas iamjas 18-21, F Oct 30

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    I felt compelled to share this site with you...I'm not sure if it will be successful at giving you some new perspective but I thought it couldn't hurt. Read about the Love Bank...
    KemiKill KemiKill 36-40, F Nov 2

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    I don't like daylight savings time because my day goes really really slow.
    Directioner70 Directioner70 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    I hate daylight savings, it's so annoying. Once u finally get use to it it changes again. I find it pointless, Arizona doesn't have to do it. Why do we have to??
    Ceelce Ceelce 31-35, F Nov 3

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    I got my first job at 21 and I haven't really saved much I've never really had my own money before and never was able to buy want I wanted or needed but I really gotta save up if I...
    kanashimi93 kanashimi93 18-21, F Nov 10

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    Sure am. Every single person has hurt me or abused me in some way. Doctors, parents, so called "friends", counsellors, people in public, teachers, students...every single person...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I really want some nice things, and to be able to buy things I'm interested, but I very rarely have money on hand... I'm really interesting in getting a Violin right now, but the...
    HeatherMarie14 HeatherMarie14 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    Never really thought about it. But I guess if there's a connection between the two of you. Might be worth exploring.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 2

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    Worthiness.... Accepting Our Calling Our worth of being on the planet at this time cannot be judged as we are all worthy and essential to being here now. The issue of...
    anghel77 anghel77 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    Why would I say such intimate details with 3 worthless hackers on here I needed something ladies
    weirdscreen51 weirdscreen51 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    my first time sucked....it was with a guy who I thought was my best friend, yet had a girlfriend, and the worst thing about it....is the fact that I knew about her, I've talked to...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I feel nervous typing this as my beautiful baby sleeps beside me and my very handsome husband, who is a great father and a good person, snores nearby. I just feel so ungrateful, or...
    iamowl iamowl 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It hard to realize that I have that fear. I am the one that loves to live a home life. I'm the one that loves to share. I'm the one with that fanatic spirit that yells out: marry...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Tomorrow I'm buying myself flowers. My partner sure won't do it. According to him they are lame. Well, it would sure be nice if he made a small gesture just to say - "hey thanks...
    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo 31-35, F Nov 12

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    Where to begin ... My wife and I experienced a set back in our attempts to improve our marriage. I found some evidence last week of an on-going emotional relationship she got...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    Mom and Dad are what my marriage would simply be like (I wish). Marriage is harder than I thought, there were ups and downs during my parents' marriage. But what I saw at them, how...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F Oct 25

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    I made up my mind at the beginning of the summer that I wanted to have sex before school started this year. I had just started dating my current boyfriend and I guess the curiosity...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 26

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