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I Am Not Sure If My Marriage Is Worth Saving

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 58 People

    6 Yearsh

    I met my husband in high school. I've never been able to connect sexually though. He's sweet and treats me well, but his fantasies are too much for me. I have no desire to be sexual with him. I've had affairs, I always told my husband though. I haven't...
    tellie tellie 22-25 2 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Venting...He Proved Me Right...The ALL Suck...All Of Them.

    don't even know if this is where I'm supposed to be posting or not. I'm just in a situation that's just confusing as hell. It really isn't all that confusing...really...I just need to wake up and see the writing on the wall...and ACCPET it. Accept it all. I'm sitting here sad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    History Repeating Itself

      I have been married for about 9years to my husband. My two children are from previously failed relationships. Yesterday we visited my aunts house. We cooked out, and had a couple of beers. My 16year old , and 8year old were inside watching movies. A woman, my aunt knew...
    foxiest1 foxiest1 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    Update (To My Dilemma)

    My husband and I are talking divorce. We’ve been separated a couple of times in the past and if we separate again it’s going to be for good. Neither one of us is willing to do this limbo thing. He agreed to go to marriage counseling with me but we found out that our health...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    Seperation

    She is now far away, but will return. I feel uneasy for things will stay the same , even worsen. Grown stepchildren at home, two individuals that never accepted me. We co-exist. One is being released after years in prison, supposedly coming to live in a happy , loving family. I...
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M Dec 27, 2011

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    Leaving This Group Today

    leaving this group today...i believe my marriage is worth saving ...hoping and praying that i don't have to revisit it again as a member anyway....thanks for all the support ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    Me A Coward?

    O.K. on Wednesday...I texted him that basically we need to accept that our marriage is over and move on...YEAH I KNOW...IT WAS VERY COWARDLY OF ME...I put that in my text too and apologized...I just could not seem to approach him and say the words without my voice trembling and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 23, 2012

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    My Dilemma.

    It’s a long story and I know I just can’t get into all the minute details of my married life so please understand that this is a piece of the whole and not the entirety. First, I want to say that I do love my husband and I certainly don’t want to hurt him. Second, he and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    disclaimer - im infj. and my fingers are numb and cold so im not typing well, sorry about that. :3 not sure if this is gonna post. i dont remeber what i've written on this site...
    surfnatty surfnatty 22-25 1 Response Apr 19

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    I have been a sexless marriage for years with sex coming and going a few times a year. But now even this is gone. My husband now sleeps in another room altogether. There is no...
    Christina6581 Christina6581 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I left a sexless marriage 6 years ago and I have no regrets at all. It was the best decision I could have made at the time. He was a selfish and heartless man and made me feel so...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Just had my first extramarital sexual experience since opening my marriage. It was with an aspie male. i know asbergers, my six year old daughter has it. Also i have spectrumy...
    badatlife1721 badatlife1721 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I've been married for 1 year and We have a 4 month old baby. I'm so miserable in this marriage and I have no one to talk to. I always have to pretend to society (family, friends...
    Honeymonster27 Honeymonster27 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    Ok, I've posted previously about my marriage and got some great advice. So just an update and hopefully some more advice. I've been evaluating my marriage, we're down to having...
    KFallon92 KFallon92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have 2 girls, one aged 3.5 and another aged 1.5. and I go to bed each night feeling guilty that I didnt have more patience or compassion for my girls. I do take responsbility...
    XenaX123 XenaX123 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    Had first marriage counseling appointment. She believes our problems are fixable, I'm not so sure. I didn't get into detail about our main problem, but I believe I said enough to...
    AsylumLeech132 AsylumLeech132 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    Had first marriage counseling appointment. She believes our problems are fixable, I'm not so sure. I didn't get into detail about our main problem, but I believe I said enough to...
    AsylumLeech132 AsylumLeech132 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Currently I'm saving up for a new phone and so far it goes well as I'm not spending anything I saved. The problem is I don't have a job or anything that could fasten up my saving...
    delusi0nal delusi0nal 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I grew up in from an abusive family and It was difficult for me to have friends due to trust issues,I dont have self confidence at all and I surrendered to an Idea that nobody will...
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I am currently trapped in a loveless and sexless marriage of 35 years. Really not sure when things started to go wrong but probably more than 5 years ago maybe nearer 10. First of...
    Lymebay Lymebay 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 17

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    Well wishes & encouragement appreciated! Hubby & I are going to the city for the next four days to check things out. Our hope is to move there this summer as a big step forward...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    I feel worthless. Its one of the day that I doubt myself. Its one of the day that I feel like, I have no use. Like this afternoon, my lecturer was giving us our test back from...
    Imaclosetbookworm Imaclosetbookworm 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    The thing is, I discovered my bisexuality 3 years after being in a heterosexual marriage. It sort of just happened and my husband is gracious about it. He says he wants to keep me...
    acamacho4 acamacho4 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    just lonely. I feel like my marriage is over. I can't get over the fact of what he did and what I did. I know I can live without him. I've done the single mom thing (and not...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Throughout all of history no society ever accepted marriage to be between two people of the same gender. There were plenty of societies that practiced polygamy and polyandry or a...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 10

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    I believe in marriage and would like to get married but my partner doesn't believe in it. I love him and he says he loves me too. I feel like I have to leave him because of it but...
    Misscandee Misscandee 70+, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    There is so much life on the other side. Sure, you may lose the life you've worked so hard to build.. But, you can and will build again. Not from scratch, because you will take...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 16

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    I couldn't take it anymore. you can only be the only one trying for so long. I moved out and am moving forward. I'm not 100% sure I'm ready for everything ahead, but I know that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 18

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    I'm saving money for my future.People said that I'm too young for this matter, but I have to focus.I want to secure a family someday and I'm really open for having a girl partner...
    tummytum tummytum 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    I grew up in a very religious house, where not waiting until marriage was just about the worst thing you could do. I lost my V-card on a very cold January morning. I somewhat knew...
    withano withano 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Yep! Saving first kiss for my husband!
    Roseeey Roseeey 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want so badly to start this! I think it would truly help my marriage in so many ways but I don't know how to go about it. My husband is not the dominant one and is irresponsible...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am in a relationship with a man who is more than twice my age and is married. I am not his mistress. He, his wife and I consider myself his wife as well. We are equal and there...
    djaqroberts djaqroberts 18-21, F Apr 19

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    I believe I am a woman of worth... I believe. The two most important words of that statement. Worth is subjective. I have no great talents. I'm not beautiful. My intelligence is...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 14 Responses Apr 24

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    I am normally very confident. But this is KILLING my confidence. I don't need to rely on other people for my self esteem, but when my bf of 5 years makes no efforts to please me...
    septemberiscoming septemberiscoming 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Over the last two centuries, women began to rebel against their God given design as a helper for man and began to demand marriages that removed all roles. Instead of women acting...
    biblicalgenderroles biblicalgenderroles 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I grew up in a happy family, my parents loved each other so much; they still do, I have always longed for someone who respected and loved me that much. My husband is so against...
    TheDeadRose3 TheDeadRose3 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I have always questioned my worth, I never thought I was worthy of anything good. This might refer to the violent childhood that I used to live, it broke me but it created...
    RestlessFlame RestlessFlame 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I got out. Best decision of my life. Every situation is different, and ending a marriage (particularly when there are children involved, which there are for me) is a serious...
    ericseviltwin ericseviltwin 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    You know, I've just been thinking that marriage is supposed to enhance your life and make some aspects of life easier, much like how a business partnership is supposed to improve...
    MrBaje MrBaje 36-40, M Apr 4

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    So here is my update. The night of march 1st, 2015 we did have sex for the first time in 3.5 years. He had no performance problems. He kissed me like he wanted me which hasn't...
    indianagirl76 indianagirl76 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I got my maintenance spanking yesterday and my butt hurts. After two months my husband is getting really good at using multiple tools, belt, hairbrush. And now he's added the...
    kfflorida kfflorida 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 5
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