I Am Not Sure of My Sexuality

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 174 People

    All my life I had thought I am straight,

    but a good friend told me she was wondering about her sexuality, which make me investigate about all this stuff and when I found out what pansexual ment I realized that I agreed with the description. I haven't told anyone I am starting to think of myself as pansexual... But I've...
    JustSomeoneWondering JustSomeoneWondering
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2016


    I've grown up in a relatively large, suburban city in Michigan. My life's been pretty good; happy family, working (and still married) parents, two older brothers who even though I tend to hate, I adore very much. But the missing link in my life has always been friends, more...
    FalseHopeLess FalseHopeLess
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2011


    hey there. i'm a 15 year old girl and i have a boyfriend. but there's a problem: lately i've been feeling like i'm not into him at all. for a couple of years i've been thinking about girls and i have been considering the possibility that i am a lesbian but on the other hand...
    luisewe luisewe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2013

    I've always thought I was straight

    but know that hormones are kicking in I think I might be gay.
    Aden02 Aden02
    13-15, M
    Feb 6, 2016

    I Think Im Straight??

    so being a teenager, there's tons of things going on, i mean horomones and what not. im a female and im attracted to men, but... only certian body types. is that normal? i only like guys that are a bit on the chubby side and muscualr arms, you know, like football players. i dont...
    Theskewlgeekz Theskewlgeekz
    Aug 3, 2012

    If only I could wake up

    and forget these feeling and forget that I ever loved her. If only I didn't accept my feelings and confessed my love to her. The way she gives me butterflies, and this sunken heart feeling every time she calls or messages- even thought of her. The way she makes me feel nervous...
    dontknow11223 dontknow11223
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    I Dont Understand

    If I wish to explore what it's like to be with another woman is that the same as being bi-sexual? I don't see myself falling in love with another girl. I can't see me spending my life with another woman. It doesn't even mean that I even want to try it more than once but if I...
    SillyBobbi SillyBobbi
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    In A Straight Relationship But Confused!

    I’m 22 years old I have a one year old son and I’m engaged I have been with my fiancé for about 3 years and this is my first serious relationship I have only been with about 3 guys and 4 girls I’m pretty sure I’m bisexual but not sure how to take it all in since I’m...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 5, 2012

    Not Sure..

    I'm 15 years old, from Finland, and im not sure about my sexuality. I feel like i'm attracted to both, have no friends and that's one reason i spend my time being on the computer playing games. Sometimes i think what it would be to have friends when im sitting all alone in school...
    Oliver86 Oliver86
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

    I'm a girl and I've always considered myself

    heterosexual. In middle school I was "boy crazy" and now I have a boyfriend. I'm starting to wonder if I might be attracted to girls. I'm not sure though. I don't think I'd want to be in a serious relationship with one but I'm not sure. Maybe I'm just bi-curious. I definitely...
    helloo12121 helloo12121
    16-17, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    I'm female and I'm not sure

    if I'm bisexual or pansexual or something else. I've found myself attracted to people, both celebrities and people I've seen in every day life, of both sexualities. But I have no actual desire to have sex with them. Like, I think they're cute/beautiful/sexy or whatever, but I...
    TheDreamersDot TheDreamersDot
    26-30, F
    Dec 11, 2013

    I'M Getting Paranoid...

    Sitting on the sofa, watching tv with my cousin (she's about 32, married with a child and pregnant.. not that it matters) and in the series we're randomly watching there's a gay guy who hasn't told his best friend that he's gay. A couple of his other friends know, but not his...
    aloneforlong aloneforlong
    26-30, F
    Mar 10, 2013

    Confused And Hv Been For 9 Years.....

    it all began wen i first watched **** wen i was 12. i stumbled across a gay web page and it intrigued me so much that i had to watch it every day....ever since then i was hooked onto watchin gay **** n had developed the idea in my head that i was gay. but then one day i gt...
    roystone roystone
    18-21, M
    3 Responses May 14, 2010

    Ok. So maybe I am lesbian flexible?

    Idk. At my age I guess I should know. Rt now Celibate. I hope I have sex again. Not sure with whom. My last relationship was female. I miss her but moving forward.... Would or could I entertain a man possibly.
    Nurse68 Nurse68
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    Wtf I Don't Have A Title For Everything

    Look, here's how it is. I'm not attracted to male bodies. The other day I was watching a tv series and this guy tok his shirt off and he was really well built, and he was handsome in a rough way. And I was, ok, big deal. But then there was this girl on the series and I was more...
    aloneforlong aloneforlong
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2012

    I had been extremely attracted to my friend

    lately. I kept wanting to text and and know what she is doing. And I feel really dizzy when she touches my hand. Sometimes I have imagined to be able to hold her hand and hug her. I suspected that I might be lesion for some time. But yet at the same time I am, somewhat...
    littleowlet littleowlet
    16-17, F
    Dec 23, 2014

    I am 14 and i am not sure about my sexuality.

    i think im bi. somedays i feel like i am lesbian and somedays i feel straight. I hate myself for it. but it is who i am.
    Tiahi001 Tiahi001
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    Bisexuality, Asexuality And Assumptions.

    I have identified myself as bisexual for almost 10 years now, but in recent years I'm doubting this self declared orientation, they say experimentation and uncertainty is typical for teenagers, but how about adults? As a teenager I didn't have these doubts, maybe because love and...
    Scarcollection Scarcollection
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2012

    Mostly Straight.. But A Bit Confused

    I'm a 26 year old female I've always been into guys and I'm sure I'm straight.. but.. I'm attracted to women's bodies, breasts especially turn me on. Emotionally, spiritually, physically (in a non sexual way) I'm attracted to guys (and not girls in this way) but I'm not hugely...
    itsrik itsrik
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2011

    So I'm a 16 year old male named "mike".

    and I'm generally straight. but.... I don't know.. like. I could 100% do things with men. like pretty much everything, I could have sex with them or they could have sex with me, but. I'm only attracted to men physically. I could never kiss a man, or say I love you, or have...
    mrclax1227 mrclax1227
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 31, 2014

    Hi, im fifteen years old.

    I think I may be lesbian, or bisexual. i really dont know. I remember when i was little i always thought girls were really pretty and didn't pay attention to boys at all until i was 13. Even when I was in first grade I remember seeing all these pretty girls and wishing i...
    plokijuh365 plokijuh365
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2014

    "Not knowing anything at all,

    well, that won't hurt you, will it? It makes me unable to sleep even still, and if you found out, I bet you would laugh." -Gumi Megpoid/Hachi
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed
    Dec 23, 2014

    What Is Going On With My Friend ????

    I met her at the start of this year, we became good friends quite fast and got along really well. But I realised I was having feelings for her about 2 months into our friendship. I have thought I might be bi (not to sure and closeted - dont like labels but anyway) for about 2...
    elllew12 elllew12
    1 Response Jun 6, 2012

    My Complicated Life

    I don't know if I'm gay or bi. I'm 20 and I can't connect with anyone. I think even in a gay relationship, I don't know if I'd be able to reveal myself to the person. When I , you know, think of sex by myself, I can't picture myself. I usually picture 2 men, neither one is me...
    Antajuan Antajuan
    May 1, 2012

    I never experienced love at first sight in my

    life until I met "her", let's just call her "C". That morning was the first day of my sophomore year starting my math class, as I was sitting still and exploring the new ppl in my class-all of a sudden- a girl with long brunette hair, dark brown eyes with a warm smile...
    livelovFree20 livelovFree20
    22-25, F
    Nov 29, 2013

    Almost-but Not Quite Sure

    I'm a female. I know I'm ttracted to men. I'm not a virgin and have only had sexual encounters with men. But im only attracted to a certian body type. the only kind of guys that really get me "hot" are guys that are "thick"- a little on the chubby side, but not FAT. they're...
    Theskewlgeekz Theskewlgeekz
    1 Response Aug 3, 2012

    Payton here. 16. So I'm not completely sure

    what I am. Sex with a guy is okay. Not too keen it. But being with a girl isn't the greatest either. I have never met anyone I wanted to be in a long term relationship with. I'm starting to think I'm asexual but it's just so confusing. I can act super butch or super girly. I...
    NoF7cksSeven NoF7cksSeven
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    i know i am woman. and i feel i am female.

    I am attracted to male phisically. But i am attralted to female mentally. i've been stuck in this issue in my whole life. i had some transgender boyfriends in the past and boyfriends..oh i must add,there are not really chances to get to know women here.Everybody is closed...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    I'm Pansexual? Or Bicurious? ( I'm Perfectly Aware That Isn't A Word)

    So, today i went to my university to submit my enrollment form.. there i saw some of the faces that might be my future classmates. And i bet everyone knows or at least expected that it is going to be boring as hell. And i don't give a crap basically i've attend the same...
    Zivana Zivana
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2012

    Scotch Or Vodca? Gay Or Straight?

    Growing up I didn't worry about it. I had some crushes on boys, nothing ever hppened. Let's be specific, though. First crash, primary school, a bit early anyway for anything. Second crash, fisrt year of junior high. A classmate. I even went up to him and told him that I liked him...
    aloneforlong aloneforlong
    26-30, F
    May 26, 2012

    Am I Obsessed?

    The other day, I was out with two classmates, walking in the city. We sat on a bench and talked. I saw two girls passing, holding hands and I started thinking "Are they girlfriends? Are they just friends? Do other people notice them? Did my friends notice them? What would they...
    aloneforlong aloneforlong
    26-30, F
    Jun 13, 2012
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