I Am Not the Marrying Type

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    Can't Decide

    i used to want it of course...don't most little girls?  i was even kinda planning one with my ex...just the pre-planning stages really, as there was no ring yet, but we had talked about it.  we split about 2.5yrs ago.  since then...i have no interest in marriage...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower
    31-35, F
    17 Responses Feb 18, 2009

    Me? I Just Dont Know Anymore

    i have been proposed to. i have been engaged. i have been pined for.  i have been hard to forget by a select few. but i've never been married.  there was a time when i thought it would be nice to be married.  there was one man---only one---in my past i could...
    trixi trixi
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2009

    And I'm Married!

    Married 7 years now.  Never thought I would get married and very much a loner.  But I'd be lonely without him, but always think there's something more.  I know I can't have it both ways, there just becomes a point in your life when you start questioning...
    dasanibluebird dasanibluebird
    1 Response Jun 25, 2009

    Spending more than fifteen minutes with anyone

    is just pure torture. Unless I find a perfect human being, I will not marry. While I have had my fair share of relationships, all I ever learned is people are a waste of time. I do not see myself as an introvert as I enjoy garnering attention regardless of whether it is hate or...
    The3rdAndOnly The3rdAndOnly
    18-21, F
    Aug 2, 2015

    No Way Jose

    I used to fantasize about getting married. Wearing a beautiful dress, walking down the aisle, joining the man I love. Of course this was always a faceless man, until I got a bit older. Then that face went and ****** off, and with it went my want of getting married. I do think it...
    Melody08 Melody08
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Feb 17, 2009

    Perfection Is Right There... As I Walk Away

    Most of you don't know me but this is going to give you some insight into a part of me that not many people know. Or they do have their suspensions but never say anything.I have recently begun to believe that I am just not the marrying type. These past 4 years I have been with my...
    LostnExcited LostnExcited
    26-30, F
    Sep 25, 2011

    He called himself marriage phobic,

    someone who couldn't really be okay with settling down so soon. Losing his personal space and freedom. That was totally understandable for her. A million times that he told her he doesn't want to get married was understandable for her. She thought he'd take time. Life changing...
    Xyanii Xyanii
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2014

    Trauma Fallacy

    They say the reason some people can't commit into a romantic relationship is bad experience like failed relationships. My parents weren't really happy as couples as far I can remember. This gave me the impression that romantic relationships are really complicated and boring. It...
    Chezis Chezis
    22-25, F
    Sep 6, 2012

    No - I Don't Play Well With Marriage

    I think that people that can fall in love, marry and make it work are the most wonderful, special and amazing people. At this point in my life - I completely know and understand now - In the immortal words of KISS (I know - lame - all I could think of on the...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 15, 2009
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