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I Am Not The Party Type

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    I'm really not. I have visited night clubs

    when I was younger but I never liked them. Way too many people, the music is terrible and way too loud, you cannot talk to anyone, you sweat like crazy, toilets stink. What fun is this? The only fun part is apparently the dancing. Which is not even real dancing just jumping...
    IronicIgor IronicIgor 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Mhm

    It's mostly because when I think "party", like college or high school, I think loud, obnoxious kids getting so ****-faced they no longer know what's what. I don't mind little parties with my friends because we're just a bunch of nerds hanging out and playing board games but other...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2012

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    I admire anyone who is truly the life

    and soul of a party, but I prefer more intimate mingling. I like people but hate to be introduced to a group of strangers where conversation can dry up and you end up standing there awkwardly, it has happened. So a few friends out for a relaxing meal with a couple of new people...
    Teamouse Teamouse 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have never been all

    that interested in parties and still feel rather uncomfortable in large party type settings. I have a very hard time when I am surrounded by a lot of people, especially people I don't know very well. I am much more comfortable with a small group of friends and family.
    jmc39 jmc39 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2014

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    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Sep 25, 2014

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    I've never been to a house party before

    and now I've been invited to one by my friend who goes to them a lot. I'm coming with her because I think maybe I should see what it will be like but I'm also going to make sure she doesn't do anything stupid. The last party she had been to, she got very drunk, she'd smoked...
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    I have to say, I don't like to party

    that much. I do like to party when it's a family party because I get to spend good time with my family. When it's like a friend's party or neighborhood party, etc... I don't really go because sometimes they can act all crazy sometimes and It kinda scares me when people act...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    I am not the party type

    that likes going clubbing i am more of a hang out at someone's house or go out to places with friends because clubs are like meat markets to me. Any women feel the same way?
    YoungHeartedSoul YoungHeartedSoul 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 6, 2013

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    I am not comfortable in party situations.

    I don't like very loud music. However I do enjoy hanging out with a close knit bunch of friends or family.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 14, 2014

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    Home

    I love staying at home reading and not having to put shoes on hahaha
    Zarifa Zarifa 18-21, F Sep 1, 2012

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    College Years

         I went through all of my five years in college without going to a single party or having any alcohol.  Why you might ask?  I was attending school full time and working full time to pay for it.  So, I didn't have time for the party atmosphere.  And those people that...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 5, 2012

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    Not Me

    I usually drink at home and alone. Very rarely do drink at all. When I have been to a party, bar or club I went to protect friends that planned on getting trashed. I don't mind driveing them and make sure they don't get hurt. But those days are over.
    ForeverChanged81 ForeverChanged81 31-35, F Jul 31, 2012

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    I Don't Party

    Oh gosh! Being crammed in a house with a bunch of drunk people isn't my idea of a good time. I prefer staying at home doing more productive things with my time. Like reading, writing my book or just relaxing. Partying is definitely not my cup of tea.
    justlana justlana 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    People Think Me 'Fool'

    Im really not party type of girl, even a talkative one with strangers. I prefer to stay home or walk out with my friends. I have very few friends with whom i share every lil thing in my mind. Only with them i be as who i am. Even my bf dumped me bcoz of im kinda quiet one. He...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I gotta vent a little on this topic.

    .. I get offended by people who say or think that I am stuck up, or square because I don't party like they do. I can't say that I've never been to an party before because I have. I even enjoy occasional club or lounge outings. But I don't party hard as far as being drunk to the...
    Hecalledmekindeyes Hecalledmekindeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    No Matter How Much I Try - To force myself to

    appreciate partying and co-exist with party people. Guessed I was never a party dude.
    chaud012 chaud012 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Idc For It I Cba To Care For It...

    i don't care about parties... idk about "fun" sure i like it as much as anyone... but time and place is everything to me and i like security. *sigh* )wow this had a lot of typos in it... :D i just like being home is all... :) safe and happy *sigh* all that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 28, 2012

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    I have tried partying,

    but it makes me feel sad. I have found myself observing people and wondering what's their story. My mind doesn't shut up. I can not enjoy like others do while partying. Alcohol makes me emotional & triggers self-pity in me.
    cloudish cloudish 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Sep 15, 2014

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    Maybe I Would Be But...

    I can't Dance... No I mean I CANT. I am disabled. No worries the last thing Im looking for is a pity party, but I think I'm in an odd position... You see, I think If I was fully able bodied I would be the life of the party because I would LOVE to dance. But as thats not the case...
    Poodlelez Poodlelez 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    My Choice..

    I prefer to stay home..Or to go out and walk..With friends maybe..Or to stay home on my computer..But I don't like the party..I don't like to go in clubs or in restaurants..I am young..But I never liked it..It's something wrong?
    Jigoku Jigoku 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    I'm not the type although some times it wish I

    was cause it seems fun but I'm not
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M Sep 15, 2014

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    Well, I'm going to my first "real" party with

    my friends, I'm probably going to be the youngest one, they're all high schoolers so that's scary.... Oh well, it should be... Interesting.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I Used To Be When I Was Younger

    I used to be into parties, bars and clubbing when I was younger. But now I just find them boring and a waste of time and money. Now I much prefer to go to the cinema, games nights, theatre, concert, restaurant, hold dinner party or just chill with a good book : ) It's hard...
    shineyourlight shineyourlight 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

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    Been there, done that.

    Most parties are soulless, vapid affairs.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I used to be. But now I just find partying

    boring. I do enjoy a drink or two, but in a more measured and laid back way opposed to getting drunk for the sake of it. But maybe it's just my age. Or the fact most of the parties I've been in the last few years have been ****. Either/or.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 28, 2014

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    I Just Know. . .

    And this is what I feel after the party. I feel exhausted, worn out. And it's just some kind of flatter. I've seen it all, and knows how it goes. Not for me.My father loves to party. I have seen him, since a small child,  organize put up a party, for any reason.And as we...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Been there, done that.

    ....wasn't my "cup of tea"!!
    LetMeBeYourFemme LetMeBeYourFemme 31-35, F Sep 15, 2014

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    I must admit, as many times

    as I have been drunk (it's probably around the 20 mark), I much prefer to sit at home and chat or go down the pub and have a couple of ales and a game or two of pool or skittles!!
    jahosijhs jahosijhs 26-30, M Jan 1

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    The only party I have ever been to was the one

    3rd grade birthday party I was ever invited to. And I hated it. I've never had a birthday party with friends and games because when I sent out invites, no one ever came. So, since I've never been to a party other than a horrible little kid party, I've never played Truth or Dare...
    AlannaBanana AlannaBanana 18-21, F Mar 5, 2014

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    Fml

    I am sitting here, laughing and watching random people dance. Oh God, I am laughing at myself and others lol.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 19, 2013

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    Our Last Big PartyMy oh my, this was such an occasion. Turned out even better than I had hoped for.See comment below ...
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    I got drunk and drunk people really shouldn't dance on the table but I got wasted and did it ANYWAY! What a blast!
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    I know I can be very jealous but I keep it under control so I don't seem crazy lol. My guy is the jealous type and I love it. We went to a cookout/party and a lot of guys were...
    catema catema 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I always party by myself, sometimes I don't enjoy it.
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    I kid you not, my eyes nearly popped out of my head when I saw what she was planning to wear to her company party. She was dressed almost exactly like this. She said she wanted her...
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