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I Am Not Trying To Win A Personality Contest

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    I don't think my personality really comes across online. I read my stories and it looks like I'm some boring, moody person when I'm the complete opposite. I guess you can see my personality more in my private messages but even then, that only shows a portion of my personality! It...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    No

    I may have an attractive personality but I'm not on E.P.  to win a personality contest.I'm just me. 
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Feb 25, 2011

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    I'D Lose That Contest

    I acknowledge that I'm not the easiest person to get along with. I'm not all that nice. I could elaborate, but I don't feel like it. There's another problem of mine: laziness (or sometimes apathy). Sometimes, I want the confrontation; sometimes, I leave you wanting it just...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jan 24, 2013

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    Miss Congeniality

    No, I am not trying to win a personality contest nor any other contest for that matter but IF I had a chance at any contest it would be "Miss Congeniality" but even then I wouldn't be trying because I just get that naturally LOL!!!ps: just kiddin'  are you smiling yet?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Why Should I Try

    I don't care if people don't like the personality that I have. There are times that I don't have the best personality. I don't care if people don't like it. Why should I try to please every one. If you don't like me at all. Then you don't have to be my friend. I don't care what...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Mar 2, 2011

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    Appearance is just the baseline whereas a person's personality distinguishes that person from everyone else.
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    I got INTJ, which accounts for 2% of the entire population, 3% of males, and 1% of females. •Quick, Imaginative and Strategic Mind – INTJs pride themselves on their minds...
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    I hope they win go Lighting go
    edgiveshead edgiveshead 46-50 1 hr ago

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    Hi, I am new at ep and I am only 5ft 2 in and 124 pounds, but i would like to join in a contest for who ever can gain the most weight the fastest, if anyone is interested please...
    bouncie bouncie 13-15, M Apr 29

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    i won a beauty contest as a woman, but i am a man! my new tilted is miss Gay pride, but I'm not gay! what a confusing thing? this happen to anyone yet!
    Daniel2Danielle Daniel2Danielle 26-30, T 4 days ago

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    Comes with the territory for a biologist and naturalist.  I study the natural world, do my best to assign reasons and rationales which can be tested and proven to explain the...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 10 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I get bored when I am travelling on trains, especially the TGV, and I try finding things to amuse myself. I might sit with my knees apart some. I might sit with my hands in my lap...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    my bpd has been diagnosed as dissociative disorder now. i have been through the winner the last two weeks. everything seemed fine with smoking weed even the va doctors said it is...
    LITVET LITVET 41-45, F 1 Response May 14

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    I care about personality yes but for me it will need to be something about you I'm attracted to as well , I don't care if the world finds you attractive , it's what I think it...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So my name is Jazmin and i have four other personalities. it took me awhile to figure out why i had this Disorder, or what it was. Firstly Multiple personality disorder is a mental...
    ScarletandRose ScarletandRose 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    Personality is what matters most to me. If you look good but have a ****** personality, that automatically makes you ugly in my eyes....dating someone with good looks but a...
    emylauren27 emylauren27 18-21, F 4 Responses May 16

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    Poetry is not a turning loose of emotion, but an escape from emotion; it is not the expression of personality, but an escape from personality. But, of course, only those who have...
    Brendon840 Brendon840 36-40, M 1 Response May 20

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    Not saying looks don't matter have to be attracted in some way but to me the sexiest thing about a person is personality sense of humor kindness they can be. Handsome but have ugly...
    KindridSoul KindridSoul 36-40, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    Alright, where to begin? I hope only those with BPD read this. It's incredibly incredibly insensitive and very damaging to a Borderline person when someone who doesn't understand...
    Vaecia Vaecia 22-25, F 6 Responses May 5

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    I NEED HELP/ADVICE FROM AN EXPERIENCED STONER. I'm a 20 year old girl. I started smoking marijuana at the age of 16. Back then, only like 1-2 times a month. When I was 18 I...
    EmiliaStad EmiliaStad 18-21, F 2 Responses May 7

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    I've always liked guys, I've been drawn to them on a personality level, but the physical attraction just isn't a huge drive for me. Even with my boyfriend now, I met him at a...
    lifeouttashell lifeouttashell 22-25, F 3 Responses May 10

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    I'm really trying this time but if he does not walk out the door and leave me eventually he will die. So either way he will leave me.
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 13

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    Right now any time there is mention of death, my brain goes "that's a great idea, let's die, you want to die" which is highly unhelpful when you're trying to be happy. Why do I...
    Ambernonymous Ambernonymous 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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    My borderline is getting worse these few days.I have sort of over dosing on anxiety pills.Between the trade off of being in extreme pain,and being somewhat okay I chose whatever...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Okay,so saw fatal attraction,and let me put out some stuff,as a bpd sufferer myself,I will never do,and it is very unlikely most average bpd people might. 1.I love animals...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm at the point where I've wrecked my whole life and I'm only 26. I had to change and now I'm trying to figure it all out in therapy and using stepping stones...
    kayleisma kayleisma 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In high school I had friends who took Sociology, and they would tell me that they thought of me when learning of BPD. It never phased me, until meeting my Borderline neighbor, and...
    grindhound grindhound 22-25, T May 12

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    "Been there, done that." How did it work? Failed. Yet, it wasn't love. It was, as one could imagine, attraction to their looks. Never doing that again. It was a huge waste of my...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    Yesss! I approve of this 100% I remember this one time when I confessed to my cousin that I was crushing on this guy she said "Eeeew! He's ugly!" I told her that his looks didn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 15

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    OK. I'm not SURE if I have a split personality but I cannot pinpoint what I believe in or what my favorite music is. It all depends on what mood I'm in. (or personality...?) For...
    Robin68 Robin68 46-50, F 1 Response May 19

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    Everybody has a personality they just can't show it yet it in a way that suits them.... You will always find the loud person but a personality come in many ways so chin up chest...
    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies 41-45, M May 20

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    why does a persons appearance outweight their personality when we all are uniquely beautiful in our own way. i dont understand y ppl are so shallow and just care about blue eyes or...
    heavenlytouch heavenlytouch 22-25, F a week ago

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    It's just sad to me that a person will choose looks over personality that's just stupid in my opinion if you have some body with a absolute Beautiful Personality you are lucky it's...
    TedDoesntCompare TedDoesntCompare 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don't care what you look like if you have a nice personality I well like you but if your personality is mean and rude I won't brother with you
    red4uchiha red4uchiha 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    i literally can't STAND people who think looks are what's important and then they act surprise when that 'good looking' person, turns out to have the personality of a sponge, and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I try to keep up with meditating every day on the regular and commit to doing so until i have opened my third eye, one day while i was meditating, i focused really hard and tryed...
    cameronight cameronight 26-30, M May 6

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    I recently finished reading Stephen R. Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and it was amazing! I'd recommend this book to anyone who wants to break bad habits, and there's...
    JustTheAverageJoe JustTheAverageJoe 13-15, F 4 Responses May 12

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    Not sure why but I have always loved wine more than any other alcoholic drink so I'm trying my hand at brewing. Strawberry and honey.
    coolbrook coolbrook 22-25, M