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I Am Not Trying To Win A Personality Contest

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    I don't think my personality really comes across online. I read my stories and it looks like I'm some boring, moody person when I'm the complete opposite. I guess you can see my personality more in my private messages but even then, that only shows a portion of my personality! It...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    Why Should I Try

    I don't care if people don't like the personality that I have. There are times that I don't have the best personality. I don't care if people don't like it. Why should I try to please every one. If you don't like me at all. Then you don't have to be my friend. I don't care what...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Mar 2, 2011

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    No

    I may have an attractive personality but I'm not on E.P.  to win a personality contest.I'm just me. 
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Feb 25, 2011

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    Miss Congeniality

    No, I am not trying to win a personality contest nor any other contest for that matter but IF I had a chance at any contest it would be "Miss Congeniality" but even then I wouldn't be trying because I just get that naturally LOL!!!ps: just kiddin'  are you smiling yet?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I'D Lose That Contest

    I acknowledge that I'm not the easiest person to get along with. I'm not all that nice. I could elaborate, but I don't feel like it. There's another problem of mine: laziness (or sometimes apathy). Sometimes, I want the confrontation; sometimes, I leave you wanting it just...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Jan 24, 2013

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    What a difference a day makes. Today I got my diagnosis This morning my knowledge about borderline was somewhat limited. I have had friends who had borderline and those were very...
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    I've never been able to relax and have fun. Because of this I've missed out on so much in life and I’ll probably miss out on so much more. It’s one of my biggest flaws. I...
    BewareTheGonzo BewareTheGonzo 13-15 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    It's interesting that the Japanese tv dramas always like the stories about people with double sides of personality. It's like, the same person, but in one period of time is being...
    kekehuang kekehuang 36-40, F Jul 12

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    Hi could you vote for me in a contest? It would be awesome if you did! Details in comment :)
    catlover852 catlover852 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    any girl wanna have a pee holding contest message me!!
    rj666 rj666 16-17, M Jul 8

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    I was diagnosed a few years back by a counselor i was seeing with Avoidant personality disorder. After years of struggling to keep and hold onto a job including two failed attempts...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    A part of my life has been missing since I gave up contests and basically going out all together. My wife is the insecure type compounded by the fact that I felt like I had to get...
    nocturnalhound nocturnalhound 31-35, M Jul 15

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    I'm not quite sure whether I have one or not but I have this symptoms: 1. I feel like most of the times I feel nothing unless anger and sadness and hurt. Sometimes I'll laugh but...
    ayamaxx ayamaxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Yeah me too there is a story my mum always tell me there is two women one of them is so pretty but her personality not and the other is not looking good but her personality is soo...
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    And I'm poor. I go to a state funded clinic (thank GOD for its existence), and only pay $5 for each prescription. However, there are considerable draw-backs to the state funded...
    DanicaER DanicaER 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    And I'm bipolar with ADHD and Psychosis. I take meds and I feel pretty good but I notice that my mood swings now are circumstantial. I find it difficult to cope with life. My...
    Roxvox Roxvox 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I did the personality test (http://www.16personalities.com) too like many people have and I was suprised by how well certain aspects fit me 0.o I always felt like not many...
    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    Most of my friends would wonder why I would fall for not very attractive looking guys. Well I always kept telling them that I fell for their personality and that their personality...
    ruizr302 ruizr302 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I Took The 41 Question Personality Test Your personality type: "Dreamy Idealist" Quiet, reflective and idealistic. Interested in serving humanity. Well-developed value system...
    Diabo1ique Diabo1ique 70+ Jun 30

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    Over time I've realised that BPD has made me a Chameleon. I change my colours depending on who I'm with. I've done this for as long as I can remember. I've realised that I don't do...
    LewisCollins LewisCollins 31-35 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    Wow what do you know I am the most rare personality type. Figures as such. The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they...
    Powederedtoastman Powederedtoastman 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Your Personality is Very Rare (INFP) Share! Your personality type is dreamy, romantic, elegant, and expressive. Only about 5% of all people have your personality, including 6...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not married, however I view my partnership with as much weight as a typical marriage and resources on the topic are limited, so here I am. While I at least have the benefit...
    opheliasodyssey opheliasodyssey 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Ever since this year, i have been very impulsive, obsessive and irritable. In the past i have self-harmed and undergone dissociative disorder and depersonalization at a small scale...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I am an extremely sensitive and jealous person thanks to this disorder. I always try and find a way to talk to friends, or even acquaintances so I can get to know them better and...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I feel that whenever I am out the guys are simply after my body. I doubt they even care what my personality is like as long as I'm attractive. I don't like that. I am a human being...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm one of those people that never usually goes on these forums to pour my heart out as I usually internalise things and try to deal with it myself - this seems to be one of the...
    Liya2004 Liya2004 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I mostly care about the persons personality, but I can't say I don't care about looks. People always say that they don't care about looks at all and it doesn't matter.. But really...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Usually I look at guys and if you're ugly I won't even think about dating you. You will automatically be my friend. But sometimes the more I get to know the guy I start to like him...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Oh yeah,big time.Looks do play a part,but when you add an extraordinary personality to a face,he/she becomes more than what the eye can see.As for the girls who are looking for...
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 12

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    For the last several weeks I haven't been able to set my mind straight. My mind and my desires keep shifting to the desire to be alone. Not just for a few hours or days, but for...
    BrokenOneX BrokenOneX 31-35 1 Response Jul 14

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    Hello, I was recently diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I am really freaking out about it. Since I was 18, I thought I had Bipolar disorder and now I am 25 and they...
    LostAriel LostAriel 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I don't have Multiple Personality Disorder, I have Borderline Multiple Personality Disorder. It means I have severe moods, extreme differences in moods that take on personalities...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 15

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    Looks can change, someone's personality not so much. Good looks can get you though a few nights a good personality will get you though a few years.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M Jul 17

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    I'm one of those girls who goes for the personality first but u have to admit, when u see a really hot guy you aren't the slightest bit attracted? Id rather date someone with a...
    welluhm5678 welluhm5678 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I am married to a man with BPD. I am absolutely exhausted. Is there any hope for a happy marriage or family? Will things ever get better? I am such a fighter and want so badly for...
    mbennett1984 mbennett1984 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Humour is the best quality someone can have to me personally because I love to laugh and make jokes, this boy I liked was incredibly funny and always made me laugh with his weird...
    AnotherTomboyGamer AnotherTomboyGamer 13-15, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    If I am around someone I get along with and I feel would be accepting of my cooky personality then I am more casual. If I am around older people or people that I don't feel as much...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder a couple of months ago. But no matter how hard I try to change, my life keeps falling apart. Yesterday a friend emailed me...
    14CorCav 14CorCav 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Learning Tool I am a real learner. I truly believe for a person afflicted with this challenge or a 'non' - learning is the key to improving. Just thought I'd share my most...
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    Learning Tool I am a real learner. I truly believe for a person afflicted with this challenge or a 'non' - learning is the key to improving. Just thought I'd share my most...
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    Learning Tool I am a real learner. I truly believe for a person afflicted with this challenge or a 'non' - learning is the key to improving. Just thought I'd share my most...
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