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I Am Not Trying To Win A Personality Contest

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 66 People

    I'D Lose That Contest

    I acknowledge that I'm not the easiest person to get along with. I'm not all that nice. I could elaborate, but I don't feel like it. There's another problem of mine: laziness (or sometimes apathy). Sometimes, I want the confrontation; sometimes, I leave you wanting it just...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jan 24, 2013

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    No

    I may have an attractive personality but I'm not on E.P.  to win a personality contest.I'm just me. 
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Feb 25, 2011

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    Miss Congeniality

    No, I am not trying to win a personality contest nor any other contest for that matter but IF I had a chance at any contest it would be "Miss Congeniality" but even then I wouldn't be trying because I just get that naturally LOL!!!ps: just kiddin'  are you smiling yet?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Personality Online.

    I don't think my personality really comes across online. I read my stories and it looks like I'm some boring, moody person when I'm the complete opposite. I guess you can see my personality more in my private messages but even then, that only shows a portion of my personality! It...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    Why Should I Try

    I don't care if people don't like the personality that I have. There are times that I don't have the best personality. I don't care if people don't like it. Why should I try to please every one. If you don't like me at all. Then you don't have to be my friend. I don't care what...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Mar 2, 2011

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    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    justanothergirlonearth justanothergirlonearth 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    ThinkingCat ThinkingCat 18-21, F Mar 20

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    The good looks not everything actually sometimes we find the good looks but the personality is really bad or it's just not there. I've met that pretty girl before she was really...
    Beyondtheseaa Beyondtheseaa 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    tangledx22 tangledx22 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    road2recovery road2recovery 31-35 1 Response Mar 20

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    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ArizonaCheater ArizonaCheater 46-50 5 days ago

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