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I Am Not Trying To Win A Personality Contest

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 68 People

    Why Should I Try

    I don't care if people don't like the personality that I have. There are times that I don't have the best personality. I don't care if people don't like it. Why should I try to please every one. If you don't like me at all. Then you don't have to be my friend. I don't care what...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Mar 2, 2011

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    Personality Online.

    I don't think my personality really comes across online. I read my stories and it looks like I'm some boring, moody person when I'm the complete opposite. I guess you can see my personality more in my private messages but even then, that only shows a portion of my personality! It...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    Miss Congeniality

    No, I am not trying to win a personality contest nor any other contest for that matter but IF I had a chance at any contest it would be "Miss Congeniality" but even then I wouldn't be trying because I just get that naturally LOL!!!ps: just kiddin'  are you smiling yet?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I'D Lose That Contest

    I acknowledge that I'm not the easiest person to get along with. I'm not all that nice. I could elaborate, but I don't feel like it. There's another problem of mine: laziness (or sometimes apathy). Sometimes, I want the confrontation; sometimes, I leave you wanting it just...
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Jan 24, 2013

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    No

    I may have an attractive personality but I'm not on E.P.  to win a personality contest.I'm just me. 
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Feb 25, 2011

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