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I Am Not Your Mother

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    I'm Your Stepmom...

    I won't forget the time, I had to run errands when my younger stepson asked me if I could get him a t-shirt.  I didn't see a problem with it when my older stepson scoffed and said, "You're not our mother!"  I shot back, "No, I am not your mother, but I...
    wickedstepmother wickedstepmother 26-30, F 1 Response May 29, 2007

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    My New Boyfriend Is 2 Years Older Than Me, Not 2 Years Old!

    I love him to death but I'm not his mommy! He has his mum and she loves her dearly yet here I am being followed every half step and being asked "what are you doing?" or being pouted at because I want to breathe my own oxygen for once!! I just really need to rant. You are almost...
    SlutKissGirl SlutKissGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2012

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    Not Your Mother

    Not your Mother,No,How can I be?Not even a woman,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 29, 2012

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    On Duty

    What does a man do when he has misplaced something? A piece of clothing, important papers, keys... etc. The answer: if his mother or wife is not available, he asks the nearest woman. The other day I got blamed for throwing away papers that had appeared on MY DESK during my day...
    whoslife whoslife 31-35, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Hes 22 Going On 4

    I am not a mother but I sure as hell feel like one 90% of the time. I personally love the fact that my boyfriend acts like a rebellious teen who cant get his **** straight on his own. Right now hes basically failing school, hes been really lazy about it and hes trying to lose...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    "The future is scary, but you can't just run back to the past because it's familiar. Yes it's tempting. But it's a mistake." How I Met Your Mother giving me life lessons while...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Aug 18

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    i remember watching HIMYM, and the part where Ted was alone in the bar and wish he met the mother sooner so he wont feel alone... i always feel that feeling
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I broke up with my girlfriend because I told her I felt like a sidechick. I'm spoiled. If my eyes are open and I'm breathing I need your attention. If I'm your girlfriend only God...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I hugged myself as a cold draft came in through the missing window panes and the door that was ajar. I was waiting for the next connecting train in a poorly lit dingy room in the...
    greycells greycells 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I lost my birth mother in many ways. I was about 5 or 6 when I lost her. She was very depressed, and her way to solving the problem was drinking. That was the first way I lost her...
    Young2Wise Young2Wise 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone. I never wanted to resort to this, but I feel I am out of other options. Let me start from the beginning. When my mother, Dee, was 9, her father was shot in the head...
    NikkiNINTR NikkiNINTR 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    An update & advice for those with crazy MILs Hi there, I posted some time back (possibly several years ago now) regarding my absolutely terrible mother-in-law who singlehandedly...
    DustMite DustMite 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    It's taken me and my sister a very long time to realise that our mother is passive aggressive. We always thought our mother was selfish and wanted the world to revolve around her...
    Cupcakes95 Cupcakes95 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Apart for wishing my children the best for their life, my greatest wish (if I ever caught a wish-fish) would be for all young wives or girlfriends not to get a mother in law from...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I am a 14 year old that has relationship problems with my mother. I recall constantly getting bullied in my elementary years because of my social awkwardness. I remember my mom...
    anushkapatel44 anushkapatel44 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Okay it's kinda like a love-hate relationship. I swear I love her with all my heart, but sometimes it's just like......... UUUGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I mean both my brothers and me...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I wish I can be everything you need, I would love to answer all of your questions with confidence and knowledge... But I'm far from that I am no good. I cry every night. I am weak...
    Neblina27 Neblina27 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Why did God curse me with this woman for a so called mother? Every damned day she gets harder to live with. Most days I find myself silently praying that when she leaves she doesn...
    SolomonSaul SolomonSaul 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    100% I Do ! I understand women may need a career to help support their family or to just feel important in life.A woman that is a stay at home mother is in my eyes the best mother...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Imagine waking up one day and not having somebody to call mommy, nobody to tell you they love you , nobody to give you a welcome back from school , no one to hold you and hug you...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 2

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    **Update on my last post about my mother** She finally let me go to my grandmothers house, and about 5 days later she called me at around 10 pm yelling at me that I had two hours...
    wingedmadman wingedmadman 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    This is the way I have come to view my mother at this point. Until recently, I thought it was just bad events in her life that caused my mother to be angry and gloomy everyday...
    SamiSquare SamiSquare 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Addiction is really a family members affliction. Even though the addict is solely accountable for his earlier habits, profitable long term Restoration is specifically depending on...
    Alexander714b4xm8 Alexander714b4xm8 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Regardless if you are celebrating a Unique celebration or simply just seeking to unwind with a few friends, Heartland is an ideal place for a good time.  Heartland is ideal for e...
    Stephanzt506 Stephanzt506 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey everyone, I just wanted to drop a quick note on here because I’ll be leaving this forum at the end of the month. I’m sure if my MIL pulls a fast one on me or my partner...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    It is a tough thing to admit, and for some years I thought of it as more of a love/hate - relationship. But there is little love left now. Only hate, frustration, anger and then...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Yesterday was four months since she passed and I've been doing better. I don't know if it's because I've been keeping busy or because I've put a really thick wall up. My mothers...
    cicisays13 cicisays13 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    As with all matters however all of us have limits on what we do, my Gran usually advised me three points we will in no way have enough time, funds or tolerance!I must indicate...
    Michael592w2ui6 Michael592w2ui6 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    A Village Inn tote bag for each with bargains and region info on galleries, wineries and natural sights.Oh Heidi. This sounds great. I take care of my 86 year old mom who lives one...
    Augustina97sy Augustina97sy 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Winterizing a pool is usually a very sad period of the year that most people try to push away from their minds. Winter is a period of harsh atmospheric conditions that can cause a...
    jucanbill97 jucanbill97 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    The key to getting along with your parents or improving your relationship with them is independence. Once you are out of their house and no longer depend on them for anything you...
    genuine94 genuine94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I haven't been talking to my mother much since of lately. it always seems like a cycle. She blows up, says horrible things to me, and when she feels better, she tries to come...
    lielamonroe lielamonroe 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I'm sorry in advance if this post ends up a little long, but this issue is very, very important to me and I want to make sure I get my point across well. I'm a fresh graduate who...
    HelloBones HelloBones 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    My friends and I gather often, drinking coffee and talking about...yes our kids. There is the liberal dutch, who doesn't know where her kids are. There is the over protective Arab...
    discovery5 discovery5 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    First of all, thank you for sharing; I can't imagine what would I have done without people in the same situation I am posting their stories, knowing I am not the only one, knowing...
    alinie alinie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Biologically? No. Adopted? No. But, I have touched many in my life who loved me, admired me, remember me as their mother. Most of them are girls. I used to Teach. Those are my...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I can't stand my MIL! She isn't what you would call mean or lazy but she is just so damn annoying! My husband and I have been married for a month and a half but we dated 6 years...
    cdub1990 cdub1990 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    We'll begin with a box, and the plural is boxes, But the plural of ox becomes oxen, not oxes. One fowl is a goose, but two are called geese, Yet the plural of moose should never be...
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My mother abandoned me two years ago while I was going through a divorce. She found out that I had been seeing another man while I was still married, and really lashed out at me...
    Amelia3611 Amelia3611 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Over involved is the root cause of MIL problems. When we become adults, the amount of time we spend with our parents is voluntary. If your parents are over involved, whether it is...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 2 Responses Aug 14

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    This human being I called my "mother" is not what she appears to be; motherly, caring, quiet, sweet & innocent. Here's how I found out I got married few months ago, husband and I...
    sydnew sydnew 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Married for a few months. Now expecting a baby (5 months preg yay!) everything was perfect until.... My OWN mother became bitter. I found out she's been complaining about me to...
    lightpetals lightpetals 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    i hate that person who gave birth to me she is not fit to be called a mother she has not got a loving caring bone in her body,and i will shed no tears over her when she is dead...
    siac siac 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    A mother's love, so precious, so beautiful. The love is special. This love is comforting. A mother's love for her child, no words can describe. Such a wonderful feeling. Being a...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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