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I Am Not Your Mother

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    Hes 22 Going On 4

    I am not a mother but I sure as hell feel like one 90% of the time. I personally love the fact that my boyfriend acts like a rebellious teen who cant get his **** straight on his own. Right now hes basically failing school, hes been really lazy about it and hes trying to lose...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    On Duty

    What does a man do when he has misplaced something? A piece of clothing, important papers, keys... etc. The answer: if his mother or wife is not available, he asks the nearest woman. The other day I got blamed for throwing away papers that had appeared on MY DESK during my day...
    whoslife whoslife 26-30, F Aug 18, 2013

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    I'm Your Stepmom...

    I won't forget the time, I had to run errands when my younger stepson asked me if I could get him a t-shirt.  I didn't see a problem with it when my older stepson scoffed and said, "You're not our mother!"  I shot back, "No, I am not your mother, but I...
    wickedstepmother wickedstepmother 26-30, F 1 Response May 29, 2007

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    Not Your Mother

    Not your Mother,No,How can I be?Not even a woman,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 29, 2012

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    My New Boyfriend Is 2 Years Older Than Me, Not 2 Years Old!

    I love him to death but I'm not his mommy! He has his mum and she loves her dearly yet here I am being followed every half step and being asked "what are you doing?" or being pouted at because I want to breathe my own oxygen for once!! I just really need to rant. You are almost...
    SlutKissGirl SlutKissGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2012

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    My mother died on 11th November 2014. She had been acting crazy for 2 years and my family didn't understand it. I didn't understand it. She had some sort of brain damage but we...
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    I just don't care about her. I want her gone, out of my life. Everything is much easier without her. She's an annoying itch. It's been 4 and a half years since we last had a real...
    haroni haroni 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    When I was 12 my mom found out she had breast cancer. This came shortly after her getting sober. My sister was away at collage, so it was just my mom and me. I had to spend a lot...
    Queenofhearts23 Queenofhearts23 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Well, I finally put my big girl pants on and have been trying out going NC or LC with my NM and already got a text from her today stating the "Silence from me is Deafening". How do...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 4 Responses Mar 5

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    Who can remember all the horrible things your Mother warned you about ? Like... Put that down before you poke your eye out ,put that fog down you'll get warts lol
    Billypuffnstuff Billypuffnstuff 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    Even though my mother has passed away, I loved and admired my mother very mother very much. She taught me many things in life. She was a very nice and lovely woman, sexy, loved...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    There are daughters of narcissistic mothers who have barely survived psychologically. In the extreme, there are daughters who starved themselves to death by anorexia as the only...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 1 Response Mar 4

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    My mother died when I was 1 year old, she died from cancer which started in her breast but eventually spread throughout her entire body. There will always be a part of me who...
    Secret179688 Secret179688 16-17 3 days ago

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    What Makes A Mother. - i thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today i asked, "what makes a mother?" and i know i heard him say a mother has a baby this we...
    vikiii vikiii 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    just the other day your daughters had played next to you on the couch and you jokingly teased us to stop . We had giggled in your presence mommy... Just the other day we had...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Victim Of Tyranny-No I was NOT "stolen" from you by "nosy *** White folks in your business believing my damn lies". I was RESCUED from you after 9 1/2 years under your mediocre...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    3 Years ago my mother was diagnosed with cancer. She still went to work after receiving chemo and radiation because she refused to quit. 3 Months ago she could still walk - a...
    pandalien pandalien 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    My relationship with my mother got way worse when I moved back in with her last year. When she lost her job this last spring she took it out on me. Almost every time she had a...
    moranne moranne 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Ranking your MIL Who told in laws that they are relationship experts? My misguided MIL, SIL and CIL all seem to believe that they are the authority on relationships and know what...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    To all who understand and to all that never will. Here is a poem for all the women who live with this invisible pain. I am tired of being your rag doll. I have spread myself far...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 1 Response Mar 4

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    I'm not saying I hate my mother. Deep down I love her and I would be sad if she died. I know for a fact that she loves me. She has supported me by helping me see my therapist...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Mar 12

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    Mothering Sunday today! ( UK) happy Mother's Day to all the Mums out there! But what's ones thing you'd want your children to do with you on Mother's Day... I'm totally lost on...
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 13-15, F Mar 15

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    The more this thought comes into my mind the more I angrily push it away paying no attention. I tell myself this is cruel, how could I have such thoughts? Growing up was very...
    ButterflyTearz ButterflyTearz 70+, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I am hoping for some emotional and loving support here and would be extremely grateful for any advice relating to my situation (everyone can agree that it is most comforting when...
    life4love life4love 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    h i kath i always look forward to our talks i hope these talks are making you feel at ease with rachel she and you nave a great journey of exploration/hope and fulfillment of the...
    lenagnes lenagnes 66-70 Mar 14

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    Mother you always had it your way. It was me that was mostly wrong. I wish you had that abortion 18 years ago or killed me the day I was born. You never wanted kids mother you...
    GagaDelRey GagaDelRey 18-21, T 2 Responses Mar 15

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    My mom killed herself August 10, 1962. A long time ago, it was actually 5 days after Marilyn Monroe's suicide. My dad was out of town on a road construction job. My brother was...
    Etexgal Etexgal 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I know this is long. I want to know if anyone else feels the guilt that I feel and depression or if anyone has similar experiences. Thank you so much for your support. I feel...
    interested0001 interested0001 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I know this is long. I want to know if anyone else feels the guilt that I feel and depression or if anyone has similar experiences. Thank you so much for your support. I feel...
    interested0001 interested0001 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    omg where to start lol she tells us how to spend money and manage our time together. she lives an hour away but yet we see her once or twice a week my parents live around the...
    ashleynichole25 ashleynichole25 22-25, F Mar 11

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    I wrote this about my mother. I don't know how else to put it. As a child, All I've ever wanted Was the bond between mother and daughter. I wanted to be noticed and protected...
    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F 17 hrs ago

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    How could you be so happy enjoying in a party going to salon and shopping in a mall while your son is suffering from illness? He is in a death threatening disease that had gone...
    Andrea0328 Andrea0328 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I hate my mother! And even more I hate myself for everything I am. I believe that, no, I know that our environment, our parents shape our personalities in our childhood. I was...
    OlgaTs OlgaTs 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I recently turned 18, and me and my mothers relationship has been kind of okay, I have pretty minimum contact with her due to her abuse but it's safe to say we left off on 'okay...
    Debbiefrangipani Debbiefrangipani 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    My mom was a great mother growing up. She's even a great mom now. But since grandchildren have come into the picture, she's really changed. She's still a great mom to her children...
    EndiJo EndiJo 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My mother is awful. She is an absolute ***** and I don't want to live with her anymore. Anyone else who has an mean mother who constantly puts them down doesn't ever respect them...
    isobelhapcher isobelhapcher 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Your Writing Strength is Imagination. You have an amazing mind, and the things you think up are extremely original. You love to daydream, and your inner worlds can get quite...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I want to lay on your chest, telling you all of these secrets you already know about me. I want to let my hair down and just not be what I have to be in front of everyone else. I...
    lonelydancergirl lonelydancergirl 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    She violates your boundaries. You feel like an extension of her. Your property is given away without your consent, sometimes in front of you. Your food is eaten off your plate or...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 3 Responses Mar 4

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    I just can't take life anymore being under one roof with this woman. She used to be a good lady... She just turned 50 and for the past 2 years she's just changed so much. I truly...
    jessicavictoria1841 jessicavictoria1841 18-21, F Mar 12

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