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I Am Not Your Mother

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    Hes 22 Going On 4

    I am not a mother but I sure as hell feel like one 90% of the time. I personally love the fact that my boyfriend acts like a rebellious teen who cant get his **** straight on his own. Right now hes basically failing school, hes been really lazy about it and hes trying to lose...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    My New Boyfriend Is 2 Years Older Than Me, Not 2 Years Old!

    I love him to death but I'm not his mommy! He has his mum and she loves her dearly yet here I am being followed every half step and being asked "what are you doing?" or being pouted at because I want to breathe my own oxygen for once!! I just really need to rant. You are almost...
    SlutKissGirl SlutKissGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2012

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    On Duty

    What does a man do when he has misplaced something? A piece of clothing, important papers, keys... etc. The answer: if his mother or wife is not available, he asks the nearest woman. The other day I got blamed for throwing away papers that had appeared on MY DESK during my day...
    whoslife whoslife 31-35, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Not Your Mother

    Not your Mother,No,How can I be?Not even a woman,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 29, 2012

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    I'm Your Stepmom...

    I won't forget the time, I had to run errands when my younger stepson asked me if I could get him a t-shirt.  I didn't see a problem with it when my older stepson scoffed and said, "You're not our mother!"  I shot back, "No, I am not your mother, but I...
    wickedstepmother wickedstepmother 26-30, F 1 Response May 29, 2007

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    So as this group states, I lost my mother back in Feb 2012. It was a sudden thing and it was extremely difficult. I still think about her all the time, she wasn't the easiest...
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    Feel free to tell me your secret. I like hearing people's stories, and i never would judge anyone.
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    Yesterday my younger son was grumpy and tired, and he said he was sad, because of a memory that was too sad to talk about. Of course, as a mother I worried about that but I did not...
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    Growing up in Barbados my mom taught me to own my sexuality and my body, But..she always told me that my education was my number 1 priority and no one could take that away from me...
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    There's nothing more painful than being out in public and seeing a mother truly and genuinely bond with her daughter. Hugging her and kissing her...genuinely smiling at her with...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I don't know why but my mother likes to see me fail or suffer I was going to apply for a summer job and her reaction was "don't get too excited, you won't do anything...
    hatemymum hatemymum 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    3 days ago myself and entire family lost the most influential person in our lives, my grandmother, best friend, fill in mom, most loving and accepting person I've ever known. such...
    peacefulpasser peacefulpasser 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today it has been 11 months since my mother passed away. 43 years old. Beautiful as always. But it's not on the outside that matters. You left way to soon. I saw the happiness you...
    trovatobravo trovatobravo 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am a mother of 3 young boys and I wanted to stay home and be the one to take care of my babies and not pay someone to do it everyday!! Then, God placed this amazing business in...
    vero423314 vero423314 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really need to get this off my chest oMG I don't even know where to start so my mom has been addicted to drugs my whole life I was her first born and she had my brother then she...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I had a dream couple nights ago, in my dream I was carrying a gun and i pointed it at my mom and i pulled the trigger i shot her straight to the head and i shot her again and again...
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    I think I fixed your marriage It was broken ... You had been tossed aside for over a year ... When we had our first date When you said wow As you walked up my steps You were so...
    momacods momacods 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband's mother is awesome to me, maybe because she is so very different to my own mother. There may be swearing, shouting to be heard over the TV and shocking stories..but...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not really a fan of children. Yeah they're cute&adorable, but I'm alright helping my mother with her other three kids. I'm oldest in the house apart from my mother. Life can...
    SarahDotCom SarahDotCom 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not an actual mother but I'm like the second mother to my nephew (2) and niece (new born). My sister is a great mom, but it's really hard with two young children. I hate...
    MutedVoice MutedVoice 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Its not so often i say that or even talk about this... But ... I believe that i am forgotten on mothers day. I dont know who to blame or even if i should be blaming anyone ... Its...
    rb47 rb47 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    It will be 10 years in September. 10 years since I lost her. She was my best friend. I can't believe its already been almost 10 years. I was only 12 when that drunk driver took...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm pretty young and most teenagers say they don't like their mom because they didn't buy them a new phone or any little reason like that. I don't like my mom because she is the...
    Oxidant Oxidant 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Sometimes I don't know if it's me that's thinking, or if it's my mother's thinking. She affects my life this much. I seriously hate her so much. She flips out at the smallest of...
    xparex xparex 16-17 5 days ago

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    I am writing on here because there is no where else I can speak my true feelings. And I hate it. Everyone comes from their mother, but I am so ashamed to come from my own mother...
    cdaught cdaught 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Late January was the worst month of my life... I walk home from school and walk up to my house to find cop cars outside my house, I thought something bad happened. My dad finishes...
    Brittan1998 Brittan1998 16-17, F Jun 26

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    I just really need to let this out. When I first met my S/O, my relationship with his family was great (for the first few weeks). I went to a concert with his mother, got along...
    blamegame91 blamegame91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    All my life I’ve stuck up for her, well she is my mother after all. There must be something decent about her otherwise why did she have me? My sister has always treated her with...
    moyesp moyesp 51-55 Jun 26

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    I'v just been downstairs making a cup of tea and my mother was in the lounge. I asked her if she's alright and said"you look pi$$ed off", she replied with " well would you be...
    Imissedmytrain Imissedmytrain 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    CDOConnor16 CDOConnor16 46-50, F Jun 25

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    Finally moving out of her house. It's been 22 years of bullshit. I used to take it all without any complaints. She just yells and rages at me and doesn't even acknowledge that I'm...
    Chelley1993 Chelley1993 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    And I believe there's a limitation to the period of time each and everyone of us have with everyone either you'll leave this earth first or them. Or it's separation, either ways...
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    Surviving a narcissistic mother is a process, not an event. You probably didn’t grow up with the knowledge that you even had a narcissistic mother. You may not have known at the...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 Jun 23

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