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I Am Not Your Mother

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    My New Boyfriend Is 2 Years Older Than Me, Not 2 Years Old!

    I love him to death but I'm not his mommy! He has his mum and she loves her dearly yet here I am being followed every half step and being asked "what are you doing?" or being pouted at because I want to breathe my own oxygen for once!! I just really need to rant. You are almost...
    SlutKissGirl SlutKissGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2012

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    Not Your Mother

    Not your Mother,No,How can I be?Not even a woman,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 29, 2012

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    I'm Your Stepmom...

    I won't forget the time, I had to run errands when my younger stepson asked me if I could get him a t-shirt.  I didn't see a problem with it when my older stepson scoffed and said, "You're not our mother!"  I shot back, "No, I am not your mother, but I...
    wickedstepmother wickedstepmother 26-30, F 1 Response May 29, 2007

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    On Duty

    What does a man do when he has misplaced something? A piece of clothing, important papers, keys... etc. The answer: if his mother or wife is not available, he asks the nearest woman. The other day I got blamed for throwing away papers that had appeared on MY DESK during my day...
    whoslife whoslife 31-35, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Hes 22 Going On 4

    I am not a mother but I sure as hell feel like one 90% of the time. I personally love the fact that my boyfriend acts like a rebellious teen who cant get his **** straight on his own. Right now hes basically failing school, hes been really lazy about it and hes trying to lose...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2009

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    She's an alcoholic, crack head, selfish, psychotic, user and needs to leave us alone. She won't work, turns tricks for her alcohol and dope money, does whatever she wants, and has...
    FluffyKat FluffyKat 31-35, F Apr 21

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    I think my mother is psychotic...I'm not sure how to deal with her anymore. I'm 17 and I have been dreaming of the day when I turn 18 for so long now. As long as I can remember, my...
    briamazing briamazing 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    It's been almost two years now... Life will never be the same... Your loss has broken me apart , everyday from your death in my arms has been a struggle. Wanted to let you know I...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 21

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    i just joined this site today because I was looking online for information about narcissistic personality disorder and found this site. I do not know much about this disorder but...
    lacyworkman lacyworkman 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    This is the most insecure woman on the planet. She wants to control everything without having done any research or planning and absolutely loses her mind when she's ignored or...
    JaxyBaine JaxyBaine 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I’ve always put so much of my anger onto my dad and how he treated me, but sometimes I think that is misplaced. First, I don’t have a pity party for myself most of the time...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Very much so. After witnessing what my daughter's friend is going through, I couldn't have asked for a more perfect unperfect mother & father. Sure they screwed up here & there...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    She gets worse and worse every single day. I'm so tired of rolling my eyes. She comes home and I'm out of sight and then he is no longer he one she was verbally abusing when I was...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 6 Responses Apr 21

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    To all single mothers out there! It's not easy being a single mom. You've to teach your kids everything. Feed them, clothe them. You're human and you're going to **** up sometimes...
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    audamom audamom 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Apr 14

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    Thumbing through the pages of my fantasies. Pushing all the mercy down down down. I hate my mother in law. The first day I met her, she and her sister were screaming in my face...
    individualfreedom individualfreedom 26-30 2 Responses Apr 21

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    She's stealing from my home! To elaborate, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I've never liked his mother in law. She's 50 in perfect health, lives in a single wide trailer...
    Worleybirdie Worleybirdie 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The more days that go on it seems my mother is becoming her own version of my grandmother. Not the same but similarities. My grandmother was awful to my mother. Cold and unloving...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 5 days ago

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    I lost my mother it's been 14 years , I hate life, I want someone to listen to me , it's not easy to spend your childhood evec two beautiful mother with jealousy 're beautiful...
    bakhti bakhti 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I'm not looking for a hook-up with you. Should we become friends and I leave a nice comment about your photo, please DON'T take it as a come on…it will not be my intention…I...
    AutumnBliss AutumnBliss 46-50, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My guilt tears me apart for saying this. Now, as I'm approaching adulthood and is a full time student in college, my mother can't seem to comprehend what is happening to me. She...
    LoveSoLife LoveSoLife 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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