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I Am Not Your Property

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 465 People

    I Belong to Me

    We don't really really belong to anyone, do we? Even our lives are only on borrowed time. And the best thing we can do is allow someone to share their lives with us, the same way we can share our lives with them.
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2009

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    Hate Control Freaks

    Every single man I have ever been with it was always the same damn thing. They thought I was their property that I was a possession to be owned and controlled. I'm sick of it. I am not your property I only belong to myself.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    An Item

    I met my boyfriend when i was 17, i met him drinking with some friends, at that time i used to go out and party. As we got more serious he made we quit drinking and partying. I at first did it behind his back because i didnt think we would ever last. As time went on we got more...
    novak25862 novak25862 18-21 2 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    At One Time Maybe

    I felt like I was someone property a few times when I was in abusive relationships.  I felt that I wasn't worth anything to anyone during those times.  I was constantly reminded that only that person would have me.  When I finally found that I was not the property...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 12, 2008

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    Of Course I Am. ...

    Of course I am. We all should be as well. Why let someone else dictate on who we should be and how we should live. We are born individuals and unique. Let yourself shine through and be who you are.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 18, 2008

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    Never?

    Not even if i offered you this shiny penny?   Sorry so the group logo and couldn't resist.
    skoal27 skoal27 22-25, M May 10, 2009

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    The Thought Of Anyone Thinking They Can "own" Me Is Laughable

    I don't take well to anyone i'm dating attempting to control me or telling me what to do a t  a l l. Honestly, besides being overly-complimentary/too clingy thinking you have any right whatsoever to tell me what I can or can't do is the fastest way to make me tired of you...
    mlk123 mlk123 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    Never Again

    never again will i allow a man to treat me like his property. i wont allow a man to ever hit me ever again. i will never allow another man to treat me like he did. like i was a worthless peice of trash. i will never let another man convince me im not worth it. that hes the only...
    blackprincess blackprincess 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    You Can't Chain Me...

    I am nobody's chained slave and I don't have a cruel Master who paid to use me as he wishes. I choose to love people, I am never forced or coerced by threats. No person should live in tortured slavery.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 30, 2009

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    So a guy on here told me

    that I have a really nasty personality and attitude because I was not trained by my owners! I'm assuming he meant parents but he said owners... He believes had I been trained early on like a dog I would be less nasty to men! Puhleez!!!
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Nahnah! Wtf Are You Doing? I Don't Think So.

    Back off. You can't walk into my life like you never left. What am I to you? A toy? Something you have rights to, no matter what you've done? I'm not your friend, I'm not your plaything. I'm not something you own. You made a mess and I spend a good amount of life cleaning it up...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F Aug 10, 2011

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    Hate To Be Passed Around Being "your Girl"

    All the guys that i have been with say that i am thier girl or there old lady ... I do not want to be someones anything besides giirlfriend. i do not hink guys should say these things anymore ... what friggin year is it? iv been hurt by to many guys to be anyones anything rght...
    Secretlyhasafetish Secretlyhasafetish 18-21, F Mar 27, 2011

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    Hhmm

    Not sure what prompted this group and I'll be going to "therealwoman's" story to check it out after this but yeah, not for sale here... well unless it's a...   NOT just kidding... can't imagine anyone becoming property these days but who knows.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Nov 18, 2008

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