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I Am Not Your Property

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    I met my boyfriend when i was 17, i met him drinking with some friends, at that time i used to go out and party. As we got more serious he made we quit drinking and partying. I at first did it behind his back because i didnt think we would ever last. As time went on we got more...
    novak25862 novak25862 18-21 2 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Hate Control Freaks

    Every single man I have ever been with it was always the same damn thing. They thought I was their property that I was a possession to be owned and controlled. I'm sick of it. I am not your property I only belong to myself.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    No one will own me except

    for me. I will be my only owner. My husband will not control me, my parents do not own me. I am simply put mine. You see many people treat people of the female persuasion as objects, I am no object. I may be in a relationship with you but I am not yours. You see if I am to be...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Never?

    Not even if i offered you this shiny penny?   Sorry so the group logo and couldn't resist.
    skoal27 skoal27 22-25, M May 10, 2009

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    Never Again

    never again will i allow a man to treat me like his property. i wont allow a man to ever hit me ever again. i will never allow another man to treat me like he did. like i was a worthless peice of trash. i will never let another man convince me im not worth it. that hes the only...
    blackprincess blackprincess 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    I Belong to Me

    We don't really really belong to anyone, do we? Even our lives are only on borrowed time. And the best thing we can do is allow someone to share their lives with us, the same way we can share our lives with them.
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2009

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    Hhmm

    Not sure what prompted this group and I'll be going to "therealwoman's" story to check it out after this but yeah, not for sale here... well unless it's a...   NOT just kidding... can't imagine anyone becoming property these days but who knows.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Nov 18, 2008

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    Hate To Be Passed Around Being "your Girl"

    All the guys that i have been with say that i am thier girl or there old lady ... I do not want to be someones anything besides giirlfriend. i do not hink guys should say these things anymore ... what friggin year is it? iv been hurt by to many guys to be anyones anything rght...
    Secretlyhasafetish Secretlyhasafetish 18-21, F Mar 27, 2011

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    Of Course I Am. ...

    Of course I am. We all should be as well. Why let someone else dictate on who we should be and how we should live. We are born individuals and unique. Let yourself shine through and be who you are.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 18, 2008

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    Nahnah! Wtf Are You Doing? I Don't Think So.

    Back off. You can't walk into my life like you never left. What am I to you? A toy? Something you have rights to, no matter what you've done? I'm not your friend, I'm not your plaything. I'm not something you own. You made a mess and I spend a good amount of life cleaning it up...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F Aug 10, 2011

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    I can not be owned but you can own my affection.

    I am not a slave, I listen and then do what I please I am not yours I am my own, I just let your arms hold me For I am but a soul with skin and bones, but I am not your property.
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 18-21, F Apr 19

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    At One Time Maybe

    I felt like I was someone property a few times when I was in abusive relationships.  I felt that I wasn't worth anything to anyone during those times.  I was constantly reminded that only that person would have me.  When I finally found that I was not the property...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 12, 2008

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    The Thought Of Anyone Thinking They Can "own" Me Is Laughable

    I don't take well to anyone i'm dating attempting to control me or telling me what to do a t  a l l. Honestly, besides being overly-complimentary/too clingy thinking you have any right whatsoever to tell me what I can or can't do is the fastest way to make me tired of you...
    mlk123 mlk123 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    You Can't Chain Me...

    I am nobody's chained slave and I don't have a cruel Master who paid to use me as he wishes. I choose to love people, I am never forced or coerced by threats. No person should live in tortured slavery.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 30, 2009

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    seems a lot of people don't see or respect that I am in this group and mean that I am my Masters property only, no! I can not have more than one , nor do I want another.
    lilcomet lilcomet 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    Your Mind is NC-17 Rated You're mind is so filthy... you should should be washing every part of you out with soap. If your thoughts can go dirty, they do. Almost everything is NC...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Lord knows I have plenty of my own.. Lol. Keeping yours is no problem. What's your worst secret? My mine is probably that I accidentally broke someone's leg and never took the...
    SamandLynda SamandLynda 46-50, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    You are a spiritual soul - a person who tries to find meaning in everything. You spend a good amount of time meditating, trying to figure out life. Helping others is also important...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 13 hrs ago

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    You Are a Brain You excel at anything difficult or high tech. In other words, you're a total (brilliant) geek. It's difficult for you to find people worth spending time with...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    Your Focus is Inward You prefer to spend most of your time alone. Other people tax your reserves. You appreciate and enjoy your own company. You can always find a way to...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    I fly into your window when it gets dark. Your Love is what guides me into your heart. Your angel adores you when you are awake! Your angel protects you with every breath you take...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I love watching you writhe under the touch of my stiletto, the fear in your eyes when I graze your skin with a knife. The knowledge that, if I wanted to end your pathetic little...
    Jsthkc Jsthkc 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Stop thinking you're not good enough and start living. Even though you went through rough times, it's time to change the way your life is going. You were so alone back then, why...
    silence3412 silence3412 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    How well do you know yourself? Would you like a personal life reading to see how well you know yourself?
    junglegirl72 junglegirl72 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I do believe that your eyes can say so much more than your mouth if one looks deep enough.
    Mrstrangeone Mrstrangeone 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    MOB I really am yours forever till the end of time. I no I don't always demonstrate this with my moods, jealousy and pushing you into corners to make decisions (you would think I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Don't smoke. It's smelly, unhealthy and expensive. Don't spend so much time and money getting drunk in various pubs. It doesn't make you any more attractive to the opposite sex and...
    treborsniknej treborsniknej 56-60, M 3 days ago

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    Why is it that guys think that's the one thing every girl wants to see? I'd rather see my dog squatting with her tail up to crap than see your random d**k pic. And I'm speaking...
    luckylidia luckylidia 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know whats for breakfast. Its you in my bed. You have on one of my dress shirts I wore last night that was ripped off by you. It looks better on you, love you can't button it up...
    GWMH GWMH 56-60, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    ready to be my property??? pm me
    imslavetrainer imslavetrainer 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Right people who wanna add me to your circle I have few things to tell 1. I'm not a pervert 2. I ain't a lesbo 3. Thank you for sending me your privates I'm fed up if you wish to...
    VijayaDurga12 VijayaDurga12 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It is not about how you live your life in this world, but it is all about how you will be raised in front of Almighty Allah SWT and this alludes to the point that whatever you die...
    lonely147 lonely147 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Your Personality is Very Rare (INFP) Your personality type is dreamy, romantic, elegant, and expressive. Only about 5% of all people have your personality, including 6% of all...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Girlpool - Ideal World |                          ...
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    TryMyApps offers ASO (App Store Search Optimization) service for all IOS & Android mobile developers. Thousands of app users rush to search your app in the app store with your...
    TryMyApps TryMyApps 22-25, F Jun 26

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    You Are An INFP The Idealist You are a creative person with a great imagination. You enjoy living in your own inner world. Open minded and accepting, you strive for harmony in...
    RavenoftheDead RavenoftheDead 18-21, F Jun 26

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    Your Mind is Red - Of all the mind types, yours is the most impulsive. If you think it, you do it. And you can get the bug to pursue almost any passion. Your thoughts are big...
    experienceman11 experienceman11 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    You Are An INFP The Idealist You are a creative person with a great imagination. You enjoy living in your own inner world. Open minded and accepting, you strive for harmony in...
    GrannyPantsYep GrannyPantsYep 18-21, F Jun 25

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    You Are An INFJThe ProtectorYou live your life with integrity, originality, vision, and creativity.Independent and stubborn, you rarely stray from your vision - no matter what it...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    3 Simple Lessons 1. Listen to your gut. Your heart tells you one thing. Your brain another. Your gut instinct never steers you wrong. 2. Don't settle 3. Don't ignore...
    Missshelley Missshelley 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    This sounds a bit serious but here we go, lol. First off I'm not here for sex stuff, I don't mind talking about it here and there but I won't be going through my sexual history...
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F Jun 24

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    And you don't even know they are until after they die. The entire time you spend in your life together, you are one soul in two minds. When you look in their eyes you see yourself...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 24