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I Am Now a Kept Woman

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    I'm so happy that times have changed and it's possible for transgender children to become their true gender at such a younger age than I was able to. I am a girl. I've always...
    SaharaSands SaharaSands 46-50, T 1 Response Jul 7

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    I’m finally out. Hi everyone. I joined this group two days ago to get support to leave forever my MM. After reading everyone’s stories, I feel compelled to write mine. I am...
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I’m finally out. Hi everyone. I joined this group two days ago to get support to leave forever my MM. After reading everyone’s stories, I feel compelled to write mine. I am...
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    WOW! All I can say is WOW!! I will try keep it short and simple. I had 4th of July off. He agreed to spend it with me. Okay, Perfect. He says he would pick me up at the mall close...
    PretendingImOk PretendingImOk 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I had worn my hair shoulder length for years and then went to chin length and then really short pixie with long sideswept bangs in front. I was asked to shave my head for a...
    buzzlover317 buzzlover317 46-50 7 Responses Jul 6

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    This is about my MM, but not particularly about the A itself. We work together - he came after me and pushed and pushed trying to get me to give him/us a chance while I was M. I...
    Arubagal Arubagal 51-55, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have found the man that I want to be with forever.. The only guy since being in an abusive relationship that I have cared about and respected enough to stick with past the first...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I wanted to share with all of you ever since mm came back to me last week after leaving me a month ago things are so good! I hope they don't hit rock bottom again. Towards the end...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I got too close to my teacher. I got too emotionally involved. We were more like friends, not teacher/student. Flirty friends. About 8 or 9 months after I graduated, I told him I...
    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I got to see him... He showed up a little after 730 pm and just left at 545 am.... We did our thing, talked, cuddled, you know.... I don't know If I will be strong enough to end...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm a 16 year old boy and these past 18 months have been the worst 18 months of my life and I really want them to end. It started in the valentine school break, I was talking to...
    Bonban Bonban 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    He doesn't do soppiness. Not really. Especially kissed at the end of txts. Funnily enough though, he's found the 'x' key a lot more in the last 7 days since we have 'split up...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    So he texts me to tell me he's been home for 45 minutes.....I ask how his day was he tells me.....I'm waiting to hear if he's going to stop by and he says nothing. Let's remember...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 8

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    Yesterday he was extra sweet all day. Stayed in contact with me from morning until night, never missing an opportunity to tell me I am pretty, how much he misses me (sometimes...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was left home alone today and needed to go to the bathroom. I have this habit of staying there for a long time with my phone. I was reading there as usual and I suddenly started...
    xDreamerGirlx xDreamerGirlx 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    I only have one friend who knows about my mm...only one who knows everything- straight from my mouth...no rumors, no accusations..the whole truth. I was torn telling her, but...
    allthingsgood allthingsgood 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I need to send this to my mm. I am in a place where I don't know what he wants. He went on vacation from work and I found out he proposed to his gf. I was broken when I found out...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    He finally confirmed he'll come over Monday evening!!! I've never wanted a weekend to go by so quickly before! I feel like my want for him has now turned into an absolute need...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    Today my nephew told me how sad he was because I couldn't be with him forever because his mom told him I'm going to hell because I don't believe in Jesus. This from the woman, who...
    ace3022 ace3022 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    I had the final conversation with mm last night--on the phone until 2:30am. He threatened me, he yelled and screamed. I yelled and screamed. And then finally he listened. I told...
    nycgrrrl nycgrrrl 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    This is the first time I wrote something like this, if you cared enough to read...Thank you.. On the other day I saw a post here that said something like "we -the other women- are...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I know in the past I kept sharing my miserable stories so I want to share my happy ones too now! I was walking into work this morning and he called to ask if I was on my way. I...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    So as everyone know my MM went distance a month ago. We do work together so I decided today to do the same. Well kinda I gave him the silent treatment. I could tell it was driving...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I met this girl when I was 12..I was too young to understand what is love.she was 17..I remember clearly how beautiful her back was and the way she walks. I never seen anthing...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 7 Responses Jul 4

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    The pain of being the other woman and my story.... Thanks to Experience Project, Thanks to my new circle of friends here, thanks to those people who are just browsing, thanks to...
    annettesan annettesan 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I still feel hollow inside. I can't describe how I feel other than saying, I feel like I've got no purpose..right now. Hopefully this will end soon. I've been staying positive and...
    oaklandman oaklandman 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am now 71, and too old to do anything about this. But I have always longed to be a woman. To dress sexily like a woman can, to have sex like a woman, to teeter on tiptoe like a...
    peter13942 peter13942 70+, M 5 Responses Jun 29

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    The other woman? Oh yeah. You can see me as the other woman. But you just can't see the feelings that are there. They way he has made me feel. They way he has touched my soul and...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    He called me yesterday after I sent him an intense text message. In the text I sent him I basically told him that I admired him for being able to separate me from his life and keep...
    PretendingImOk PretendingImOk 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm currently using the play hard to get tactic. Of course it's only been a day but I'm not sure it's working. We work together so when he came in to work yesterday we passed each...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16

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    Well had to work with MM tonight. He hung around me a lot but it wasn't awkward or anything. He did call me asking the name of a police officer we both know. I had my single guy...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been doing better with my emotions for the past 2 days. Trying to accept things for what they are and enjoying the times I do get with him. Yesterday he was very busy so I...
    addicted2him1966 addicted2him1966 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    kaycc11 kaycc11 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Think it was easier being the other woman than being the woman being in love with a man who is single and free to be with whoever he wants! He's still on his 'time out, I need...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    July 22. Learning to Trust Again. Many of us have trust issues. Some of us tried long and hard to trust untrustworthy people. Over and again, we believed lies and promises never...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well, I am the other woman to a married woman. We've been together for almost 2 years now, have fallen head over heels in love, and she's now giving up on us and moving to Colorado...
    idiehami idiehami 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Straight male who wears knickers every day I would love to find a woman who wouldn't care if i was wearing knickers, i own 1 pair of male briefs (incase of emergency i.e doctors...
    Madhead79 Madhead79 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Hi... I am a married woman with two kids. I didnt marry him out of love though. Stupid me i didnt realized he was a rebound. I found out i was pregnant a day before our wedding day...
    Moonstrucked Moonstrucked 26-30, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    My mm was only supposed to married to his much older wife for a "business arrangement". He did have a fling with her, but that's all he wanted, but she fell in love with him. So he...
    dolovf dolovf 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 28

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    I owe all the ow's on this forum a big thank you. I got involved in an emotional affair with a mm. I would only meet him in public places. If we were alone the temptation would...
    hishiho hishiho 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I am in love with a woman that is 14 years older than me her name is stargazer gal she is the very essence of what makes me want to live with out her it would be like living with...
    cassiescowboy cassiescowboy 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I am new to this so not sure how i should begin and what to expect i guess i just need to know that im not alone. Im certainly not proud of being in a relationship with a man who...
    coleya coleya 41-45, F 30 Responses Jul 13

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    It Started simply enough. We were friends at work. Laughing, joking. I'm a guy's girl so I would sit with him and other Co workers and just shoot the breeze. Somewhere it changed...
    nmurch37 nmurch37 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I’m not the other woman. I am a man. I am not the other man either. I am married and not involved with another married woman. Interesting fact that some 950 men are currently...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I never planned to be the other woman. I just wanted to be there for him, as he was for me. When we met, we were both absolutely miserable in our marriages (both spouses are...
    dontrust dontrust 51-55, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I'm in a relationship with a girl! It was really easy at first...not saying it's hard now ! I can say it's just different than being with a guy *which was all I knew* because I...
    anchoredbutterfly31 anchoredbutterfly31 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    So utterly frustrated right now. I understand the situation my mm is in with his w. She is abusive and blackmails him to stay, the police have told him to leave but he can't. She...
    lilred101 lilred101 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 1