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I Am Now a Kept Woman

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    Ok do I'm new to all this and I'm not sure what all the abbreviations stand for....I know OW is other woman....but please tell me what all the others stand for and what they are...
    Cagirlie Cagirlie 36-40, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I met this guy 3 years ago and after a year and a month to be exact our paths crossed again. He told me how he had kept me in his heart and mind from that day we met. He has 5 kids...
    Anthurium Anthurium 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Please if you are not having this experience or have not had it in the past keep your advice. I already know evey mean hateful words and thoughts you may have. Well; here it is, I...
    Summerayn Summerayn 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I am the other woman but he's not married...he's divorced but has a girlfriend.I met him a few months ago through a thing my kid does and I had a feeling he liked me but I never...
    Cagirlie Cagirlie 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Where to start, what is it with me and love, I am a good guy, a caring guy, the kind of guy that every woman claims they want, but yet each and every time I get cheated on, lied to...
    joetheknob joetheknob 36-40, M Jul 29

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    I lost my married man (mm) 2weeks ago. It was and is devastating. I felt like I was dying. He left me to go back to his wife 2 weeks before we moved in together. one day we were...
    rosylovecheeks rosylovecheeks 26-30 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Ok I'm not sure how this makes me look since I have a guy that I'm involved with who has a GF.....but I had a blast from my past contact me the other night....when I met him he was...
    Cagirlie Cagirlie 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need a bit of a distraction at the moment, so I thought I would share a little bit of my backstory. WARNING - THIS IS LONG. I thought I was fairly happily married. Been with my...
    greeneyes2232 greeneyes2232 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is about my MM, but not particularly about the A itself. We work together - he came after me and pushed and pushed trying to get me to give him/us a chance while I was M. I...
    Arubagal Arubagal 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I have worn lingerie for years. I started when I was in my early teens. Like most men who wear and start early, it was my mothers stuff that I found first. Things like stockings...
    Fullofstars Fullofstars 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Today i am angry.Driving-in to the office this morning i thought, "oh how i miss him. i love him so much, it hurts." and then i thought.... "i wonder if he's missing me. i wonder...
    Grace7277 Grace7277 31-35, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I was all teary eyes this morning over this man and now I get a call from my receptionist my husband is here. My husband WHAT!!! she said he is here to see you, its my MM I am NOT...
    4everhislady 4everhislady 36-40, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Holy crap I missed you ladies!! I've been scrolling through all your stories and there seems to be quite the NC trend going on. It's like fall is bringing about some serious...
    neverendingmadness neverendingmadness 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am a divorced mother of 3. Last year I ran into an old high school friend of mine. We had crossed paths over the years but we were strictly friends. But last July, he came to my...
    emotionalwreck27 emotionalwreck27 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I got too close to my teacher. I got too emotionally involved. We were more like friends, not teacher/student. Flirty friends. About 8 or 9 months after I graduated, I told him I...
    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Help my sanity please?! I will post here as most will see this then. Brief background if u don't know- 2.5 yrs of friendship started online. Emotional affair. Physical affair for...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    August 20. Honesty in Relationships. We can be honest and direct about our boundaries in relationships and about the parameters of a particular relationship. Perhaps no area of...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 15 hrs ago

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    Sooo it's nearly d-day and he's going on holiday with his family, sun beach....it's 3 days away. I thought I was mentally prepared for this but I'm not. I'm really really beginning...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My mind keeps telling me that I've done the right thing by letting him go, but my heart is not so sure. I sit here thinking how he'd make me feel when he'd say hi or even smile at...
    iheartnono iheartnono 31-35 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Today was the very first day that weatalked in general, since I said no more. We were three feet apart, I wanted so bad just to touch him. My heart hurt so much, a couple of times...
    rjh3 rjh3 46-50, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Hmmm... maybe some reverse psychology is going to work with him. Used to be when he went NC for a day or two (or more!), I would always tell him that I had missed him. Today...
    Katsstory Katsstory 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    So he doesn't believe me. He says I do this every time it's that time of the month. He says I did the same thing last month. Now I am second guessing myself. Could it really just...
    Sidechic79 Sidechic79 31-35 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Yesterday he was extra sweet all day. Stayed in contact with me from morning until night, never missing an opportunity to tell me I am pretty, how much he misses me (sometimes...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I was left home alone today and needed to go to the bathroom. I have this habit of staying there for a long time with my phone. I was reading there as usual and I suddenly started...
    xDreamerGirlx xDreamerGirlx 13-15, F Jul 24

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    Decades ago, we dated in high school. I had been emancipated at 16 and was living on my own, finishing school, preparing for college, and working full time. His mother told him to...
    DeineSklavin DeineSklavin 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    My birthday is in 2 days, and I have hit an all time low. All I wanted for my birthday was to spend time with my MM, go away for the weekend, make love under the moonlight but...
    4everhislady 4everhislady 36-40, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    A weird couple of days with limited contact. Purposeful by myself mostly I would say.easing myself in gently to the point where I can let us go and retain a normal friendship maybe...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 15 hrs ago

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    The shortage of real woman. They betray each other so fast. They go for a guy who is taken. Guys lose respect form females like this and have names for them. The way they talk...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 13 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    So after only 4 months I've decided being the OW is not for me. It takes a special kinda woman to live this lifestyle. I applaud you ladies that have been doing it for years...
    Sidechic79 Sidechic79 31-35 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I really want to live as woman full time that would be my dream come true.i love dressing in womens clothes and painting my nails and all but it goes further than that in my mind i...
    sofie35 sofie35 31-35, T 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm not a religious person by any means..... However tomorrow it am attending a wedding and I have to read prayers to the couple and I have to say, I find myself feeling pretty...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 25

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    Last night while we lay in each other's arms... We broached some intense topics We talked about having a baby together... Well that if/when we become a couple that neither of us...
    jupsta jupsta 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Work-day three complete of our new chatting plan! :). To prevent me being emotional at work we text good morning, chat over lunch, and then talk after work. This is really working...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Yesterday, I didn't hear from MM until 12:12 In the afternoon (yes, I am a clock watcher, ugh). Of course I spent the morning prepping for the end, as usual...getting boring...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F Aug 6

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    So my now ex mm sends me a text today telling me he had a dream about me that was upsetting. We work together (he's my boss and I'm his only direct associate) so I text back and...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    yesterday I didn't hear anything from him.things have been really different since she has accused him out right of talking to me. Finally at 10 last night I said I hope you're okay...
    egreen01 egreen01 26-30, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    We met when I was 12, He was my 1st Love. Young and stupid, we broke up, I grew up moved away and had a family of my own. For along time I searched for him, I sent messages thru...
    4everhislady 4everhislady 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The end. So it turns out I was still the other woman! The 'space' he needed when he finished me and his girlfriend 5 weeks ago turns out was just that-space. He never actually...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    kaycc11 kaycc11 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Think it was easier being the other woman than being the woman being in love with a man who is single and free to be with whoever he wants! He's still on his 'time out, I need...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    July 22. Learning to Trust Again. Many of us have trust issues. Some of us tried long and hard to trust untrustworthy people. Over and again, we believed lies and promises never...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I am the OW and the MW. I am also a mom. I have officially been the OW since February, but there's always been an underlying linger in our friendship since 2007. For a long time...
    PrincessLG PrincessLG 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Damn, it's been almost 3 months so why can't I shake him off?? I still find myself thinking about him and I don’t think there has been a day since the split that he has not...
    Lauryn0114 Lauryn0114 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    So good recap thus and fri got to spend time together sat and sun we texted and in contact all weekend long really nice things were really looking up we were back to us and...
    ap05 ap05 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    So my birthday was Friday. Last yr on my birthday mm gave me a very thoughtful and planned out gift. At the time I was trying to keep it strictly sexual with no feelings and it was...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I have been reading all your post but never posted till now let me tell you my story I use to date a guy 15 years ago I was his first ever girlfriend he was the love of my life...
    fluffyf fluffyf 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I almost told him about the baby on Saturday. He could tell something was wrong as he kept wiping away my tears. He assumed it was because he was in his current situation and we...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 4