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I Am Often Scared of What I Will Become

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 317 People

    Nothing Happens

    i try so hard at things and quite often things dont work out for me. I would hate to become nothing, i want to live achieve and succeed
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Sep 5, 2008

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    But That's a Motivator....

    well, once again i mention here my 'rents. the way they treat my sister and i, and ppl around them - they aren't always the friendliest ppl. i get freaked out when i think about growing up to become them: often cold, unforgiving, holding too high expectations of ppl, etc, etc. i...
    BowsAndBones BowsAndBones 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2007

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    My mom was an addict.

    .. She most likely had a personality disorder as well. I am scared, because I see her in me. And... I see myself in the mirror... And I hate me. I carve scars into my skin as punishment for being horrible. But, I was born horrible. I feel like depression is knocking at...
    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F Feb 25, 2014

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    Guilty As Charged

    I am guilty of fearing what I feel I could become if given a sufficient number of rejections, disappointments, betrayals and outright manipulations. I fear becoming everything I am not: a manipulator, an abuser, a calculating disappointment with a temper that could make Lucifer...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 10, 2009

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    No, Not At All, I Am In Contro...

    No, not at all, I am in control of my own destiny
    dawnmarie dawnmarie 18-21, F Feb 1, 2007

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    Withdrawls.

    This past week will be the last time I will ever forget to get refils before they run out. At least I sincerely hope so.I knew it was coming. Not how long it would last. Or how bad it would be. I was smart enough to get everything that could be hurt or scared AWAY from me when I...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 1 Response Jan 31, 2012

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    The Crazy Ol' Cat Lady

    I am scared of not achieving my goals, becoming who I want to be, I am already cynical of people so too late for that :/ Maybe become what my enemies expected of me the crazy old lady with hundreds of cats- or some drug addict on the corner. Life is full of ****, can't argue...
    LittleSunGirl LittleSunGirl 18-21 May 27, 2011

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    It's a Terrible Feeling

    Fear of the unknown can cast a dark shadow on those who are obsessed with it.  I know.  I'm one of those people. I get scared of the future.  I get scared of making mistakes multiple times.  I get scared of the possibility of being alone with no one there...
    debmichelle debmichelle 36-40 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    Stale Witch

    I wonder who I will be tomorrow, I hope it's not someone thats hated. I hope that I don't grow to be an old cranky, stale witch.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Jul 8, 2008

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    The Lonely One

     I am often scared that in the end this is what i will become someone that has noone, someone that the world left behind in the dark and never cared to come back, to check if i was still there, if i still existed. I dont want to become nothing. that from all the people i knew...
    Lencho3 Lencho3 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    I Have Become...

    what i feared. I have become a failure.
    reset reset 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 26, 2010

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    Ive been becoming really sick lately.

    My mom think i might be allergic to gluten (Wheat) cuz when i eat that kind of food i what to puke and i have a really bad headache. I have been having this headache in to stop of my head for a very long time but it kept getting worst. My mom cant take me to the doctor cuz we...
    indigoangel3 indigoangel3 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    It Often Scares Me....

    to think that I will become like my parents. Don't get me wrong, I love my parents. But my dad isn't really a people person and he isn't really big on family get togethers. I on the other hand am a people person and I love my family so much and I want to continue to be like...
    xxBreakingTheSilencexx xxBreakingTheSilencexx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2007

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    Hobo!

    my life has changed so much in the past year.. depression has gotten worse and my head just isnt thinking str8... im scared that ill become a high skool  drop out and have to find a low paying job and i wont be able to move out of my parents house.  my procrastination...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2008

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    Scared

    I'm scared I'll end up so bitter about life just like my mum. I know she had  lot of bad things go on but she took it out on us kids, I hope if I ever have any that I wouldn't do that. She's the main reason I don't want children, I always feel that I'll never be a good...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2008

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    Fail

    I'm terrified that I will one day end up homeless and alone.  I can't seem to fend for myself and I'm not very strong.  I can't keep jobs and I'm becoming more withdrawn with each passing year.  I'm terrified that I will never have a family of my own.  Such...
    PollyPrissyPants PollyPrissyPants 26-30 5 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    I often wonder what if my parents would have never moved from the place that I was born. Would I have graduated high school, went to the local university, got a degree, got married...
    capehope3 capehope3 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I always wonder what would have happened if I said no when she asked me out, instead of being scared to lose my only friendship. I never really wanted to date her, she was just my...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was a different person.....no matter what I do in life I never seem to make much of a mark. I guess I always had this idea that I'd become the person I'm supposed to be and I...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I wonder a lot of things. Like if I was born into a different family would I be the same person i now? If I had chosen a different road where would I be? I think to much :p But...
    Runenox Runenox 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I want to be great in every imaginable way... I wanna become a famous DJ/producer, I want to marry the girl I am with right now, I want to learn new things every day, I want to...
    toastyknight toastyknight 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I have been in college for way too long. I am a person of many interests, and all I know is I want to help people; yet I still can't decide on a career. I also want to fall in love...
    JimmyEH JimmyEH 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What if I put a prank on my friends, me and my friends will go to the mall and I'll tell them i'll treat them and they just sit in the table and i'll order the food, and while they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 23

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    If he hadn't chose to listen to his stupid sisters lies. . . would we still be friends? If I hadn't cared what others thought would we still be as close as we were before? If I...
    TokioDoll TokioDoll 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    What if I was a bird, will I really be free !
    annoyinglydark annoyinglydark 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    what if a time traveler killed his mother so he did not exist but if he does not exist he never killed his mom? wait what the what!
    xlderp xlderp 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    Not in a doomy gloomy way, I just wonder what's the point in it all. I worked before I left school delivering milk then worked in a hardware shop, then left school at sixteen and...
    dustydaisy dustydaisy 51-55, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    What if I chose so go out with the guy that both my family and his family wanted me to be with. If I had said yes when he asked me out. Would I be hurting like I am now. Would he...
    TiredOfBeingHurt TiredOfBeingHurt 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Growing up sheltered is not a good thing. I wonder if I did not believe in second chances- or giving others second chances. Not falling in love with a closeted addict. Now I know...
    complex7 complex7 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    What if I could go back in my past and change that time I screwed my cousin's wife?
    hamtex hamtex 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 24

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    Isn't it funny how we end up becoming the things we said we wouldn't? How different our worlds are now because of the choices we've made? Why have we let the world change us so...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    "I can't do that....yet" add one word "yet" to every I can't ... It's being process oriented praise: "Wow you really put your all into that ! You really tried hard I praise your...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    I'm student at the English department that's why I love English Language and I wanna learn It, I wanna be specialist in English language.
    Ahmed1989a Ahmed1989a 26-30, M 3 Responses May 12

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    heck was having fun typing a typical convo from absolute strangers... disappeared.. weird how some people want to know ALL about you without even making the effort of KNOWING...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 3

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    ...........all our dreams came true? Imagine seeing flying pigs and roaring dragons, fighting Darth Vader.....And King Arthur riding with his Knights of the Round Table, holding...
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    If I tell you what I hold inside would you believe, would you accept the way that I feel? Would you listen to my heart and allow me to share with you every little thing that I...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 3 days ago

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    I will be turning 23 this month and I've still never been in a relationship. I'm so lonely. I live by myself in a very remote area and I don't have enough money to move, I've lived...
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I am ashamed to say I've truly been questioning what the point is in everything.. I feel trapped... I am lost. I'm scared because I used to dream so much about my future and now it...
    Helen91x Helen91x 22-25, F May 11

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    I'm scared of failure.... of ending up like most of the rest of my family. I mean, I don't hate their way of living, it's just that I don't like it that they just gave up any small...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    In life I always trust and want to see the good in people. Take them on their word to act or do what was agreed. Unfortunately this bites me in the arse. People lie and often...
    Okeanos66 Okeanos66 46-50, M a week ago

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    my friend and i use to play online games in a computer rental shop. and this particular guy we saw was very intriguing since he has no friends and he's cousins never talked to him...
    iamshadow08 iamshadow08 18-21, F May 11

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    I've often wondered what it would be like if everyone was naked. One thing is for certain; those people who already enjoy being naked will have a monumental head start compared to...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 26

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    I have to leave behind my "family" and "friends". Being is such a small town, they will make u feel as though you are better than everybody else for stuff people do everyday. Small...
    bigdreamssmalltown bigdreamssmalltown 31-35, F 4 days ago

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