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I Am Ok With Being Alone If Nessesary

No one wants to be alone but if being with a GF means getting cheated on, isn't it better to stay single? 53 People

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    Me and my b/f have known each other for 4 years 4 months of that we have been actually dating. He had signed up for the Airforce and already been in tech school by the time we had started talking about actually making this a relationship . i knew what i was getting myself into...
    AFG1222 AFG1222 22-25, F Mar 27, 2013

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