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I Am Ok With Being Alone If Nessesary

No one wants to be alone but if being with a GF means getting cheated on, isn't it better to stay single? 109 People

    How It All Started

    Me and my b/f have known each other for 4 years 4 months of that we have been actually dating. He had signed up for the Airforce and already been in tech school by the time we had started talking about actually making this a relationship . i knew what i was getting myself into...
    AFG1222 AFG1222 22-25, F Mar 27, 2013

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    If that's what people expect from me,

    I'm really fine with it. Hate everything. I shouldn't have got close to anyone.. At times I do feel being alone is much better than being close to a person and get hurt every time.
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F Nov 11

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    I won't to get better see a future

    and a career ! ATM I have been signed of! How can I get well so I can look for jobs and get rest my life on track This is cause of growing up everything that happened due to my parents and the social 1) no support 2) have learning problems (and trauma) depression made them...
    Unknown1456 Unknown1456 18-21, F Oct 29

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    I have been through a lot relationship wise I

    realize some years ago I truly suck at dating I gets to nervous I smile about everything I blush like crazy it's a bit embarrassing recently however I realize I need some me time.... It truly sucks to be in a relationship and give your all and totally get to know a person just...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I am not a victim...everyone's circumstances are both self-dictated and the result of other people's words or actions. I have been "alone" for about three years now after the end...
    AntiquitusBlue AntiquitusBlue 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm going though a separation with my wife right now. We're still in contact with one another, but she's been telling me about how much she enjoys being alone. I, on the other hand...
    aimless1too aimless1too 31-35, M Nov 1

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    I'm in a new school and making friends can be hard 😭 i made new friends but i don't even know if they like me 😭 i'm so lonely during lunch and i have no one to hang around...
    nimra1296 nimra1296 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I like being alone..."Less people, less drama" My books, music, movies, and school work keep me busy and locked away in my room all day every day. Only leaving in search of food...
    mstv1112 mstv1112 13-15, F Nov 3

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    been feeling like a homebody lately. wanting to be alone but at the same time I wish I had someone or something to keep me intertain and not feeling this way. but I think being...
    madame311 madame311 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I hate being alone in the darkness, too. Not even the music I listen/sing to helps. I'm sick of having no friends, and being surrounded by people who I can't even muster the...
    SmuleanKingdomHearts07 SmuleanKingdomHearts07 16-17, F Nov 2

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    I come from a big Irish family and although everyone has been amazing about me coming out, sometimes, I wish I wasn't gay because it makes me think that maybe things would be...
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22

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    Ok I have been married for almost 18 years. For much of the marriage, it has been quite Rocky and at times I suspected he was cheating. About 6 years ago I had my proof. I stayed...
    boys9292 boys9292 41-45, F 19 hrs ago

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    Loneliness, it co-exist... Have you ever felt alone even in a crowd Have you ever felt alone that... you wished the world stop spinning Memories go back in time Reminding you...
    lovetilyouhate lovetilyouhate 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 20

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    i have friends, i really do. some of them i can relate to so well and others i just wanna punch half the time. but i can never be truthful with them. they only know half my story...
    LoveLessOne97 LoveLessOne97 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    For the most part I enjoy being on my own. I'm a nurse who works on a busy neurology unit, so I get my fair share of socializing and stimulation from people at work. When I get a...
    nurseling nurseling 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    I'm sitting alone in the brisk November air in the middle of the wrong part of Saint Louis at 12 am and I missed my last bus home. I think to myself of all the people I can't call...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    I'm constantly flipping between thinking everyone is sick of me and not wanting to be alone, so I guess I come across weird when I'm around people. Maybe it's because I grew up...
    princessloki princessloki 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I want to be alone with a girl that likes to be alone : )
    SoloDolo707 SoloDolo707 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    There's something odd about being 22. It's a year where you've reached a social maturity, having passed the legal age of 21. By now, you and your friends reach a mutual...
    RoxannaM RoxannaM 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Breaking up with a girlfriend I have had for the longest time and Freaking out about getting pregnant with her at the same time. All this happened around my birthday. This has been...
    MatthewCorben MatthewCorben 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 22

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    I absolutely hate it. Like when I can't fall asleep at night and theres no one there to hold me, or when I walk past those cozy cafées where some incredibly cute couple is sitting...
    Cissiiie Cissiiie 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 23

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    I am a loner. I have always been a loner. Dont get me wrong, i have lots of friends. Everyone loves me. I just enjoy quiet and getting lost in my thoughts. Lately i have been...
    jonboy318 jonboy318 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 23

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    So I had plans to go out for lunch tomorrow with a friend of mine. And I haven't gone out at all since June, so like, 4 months. And I was excited, you know? I was going to get out...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 24

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    its a Saturday and im alone as always except this week my bestfriend came into town for her bfs birthday. So we went to the mall fr abt 2 hrs bt then her bf came and she went with...
    Tristechica22 Tristechica22 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    It's not just loneliness. It's the fact that I'm ******* alone. I can't wander around this earth looking for someone that's not there. I just need someone.
    madsgrammar madsgrammar 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I feel like I've worn out talking to my current friends about my problems but I have nowhere to go to and I try not to do it often. I always stress them out after a point and they...
    polyglotparrot polyglotparrot 13-15, F Oct 26

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    Not all the time, but learning to be alone is good. There is nothing more freeing or empowering than learning to love your own company.
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F Oct 27

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    I feel alone. I have many girlfriends but they didn't seem to be my friend. They always make fun of me. They're talking ***** behind my back. And telling me that I really sinks. I...
    supernsg supernsg 16-17, F Nov 4

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    What do you do when your home alone all day? Any ideas? I battle with depression and am trying my best to stay positive :/ but I'm running out of things to do. I need ya'll
    jembaby07 jembaby07 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    no matter what happens I will not be alone very long
    Tracyforrest Tracyforrest 46-50, M Nov 5

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    i spend almost all my day alone, even though i am living with my family (9 total). we share a very small house, but no one talk to me, sometimes, i feel stressed and depressed...
    reem1991 reem1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I have to thing to do next week: it's like a Citizen Day you have to go if you want to pass exams etc. It's outside of school and I will probably not know anybody. It lasts an...
    nowherewego nowherewego 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    Whether it's in my bedroom or just alone in my house, not in a alley way of course. I just enjoy the presence of no one but myself & maybe my dog. I can relax & think to myself...
    Msxxv Msxxv 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Right now I'm really alone. All of my friends are asleep and the app I use to help me stay sane and talk to people (talklife) is currently down. I feel really nervous and on the...
    polyglotparrot polyglotparrot 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hate where I live only a few people atu ally like me and I get beat up a lot ... I got beat up today I was alone when it happened officially scared
    relapsing14 relapsing14 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    In most of my time I would rather spend my times alone and my mind would wander around with everything around me. I like to stay in my room for the long time before finally...
    cassxandra cassxandra 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I can't go through life very much longer feeling this alone all the time.
    TheNateAust TheNateAust 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Strange yes it is, but very true. I don't know how or why other then my childhood making me this way. I was alone and secluded from all family and friends for 3 years of my life...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've always been perfectly content to just be. Let the mind wander, think my thoughts, breathe. The distraction of all that will keep my mind off what's missing for long stretches...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 20

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    its my birthday in 3 days and i'm dreading it. i haven't had a birthday party in 10 years. the worst part is I have an identical twin but she never wants to do anything. i wish i...
    Emeraldteo Emeraldteo 18-21, F Nov 9

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    "Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods" - Aristotle
    idontmindtherain idontmindtherain 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I am a bisexual female. I am also a Christian. I come from a Bible believing family and they are the most important people in my life. My freshman year of high school was when I...
    mn0528 mn0528 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 21 years old and all my friends are in a relationship but it doesn't seem to bother me that I'm getting left out. All i seem to care about lately is just watching tv, playing...
    PrayforParis PrayforParis 18-21, F Oct 20

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    I was married and miserable as a closeted bisexual male. Got divorced, married a very understanding woman and now we have sex with each other and occasionally share a guy
    Metoo50 Metoo50 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 21

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    I don't have the courage to bring home my partner, It could go ugly. Not that I have a boyfriend, to begin with, but contemplating the future sometimes is hurtful considering I don...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    You Know something isn't right when you finish talking to someone and you leave feeling sad or hurt. For my it's anger. Even though the convo was ok I feel that everytime I talk...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago