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I Am Ok With Being Alone If Nessesary

No one wants to be alone but if being with a GF means getting cheated on, isn't it better to stay single? 213 People

    How It All Started

    Me and my b/f have known each other for 4 years 4 months of that we have been actually dating. He had signed up for the Airforce and already been in tech school by the time we had started talking about actually making this a relationship . i knew what i was getting myself into...
    AFG1222 AFG1222 26-30, F Mar 27, 2013

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    phoenixangel1802 phoenixangel1802 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    I have been through a lot relationship wise I

    realize some years ago I truly suck at dating I gets to nervous I smile about everything I blush like crazy it's a bit embarrassing recently however I realize I need some me time.... It truly sucks to be in a relationship and give your all and totally get to know a person just...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    my family and i have parted ways,

    but im trying to keep the lanes of communication open. i am just considering saying forget most people except those who can help me uplift myself, or who enjoy life with me. i also want to do my part to make a difference in the world. Im ok with being alone, i am with other...
    awesomeguy3125 awesomeguy3125 26-30, M Aug 10, 2015

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    I won't to get better see a future

    and a career ! ATM I have been signed of! How can I get well so I can look for jobs and get rest my life on track This is cause of growing up everything that happened due to my parents and the social 1) no support 2) have learning problems (and trauma) depression made them...
    Unknown1456 Unknown1456 22-25, F Oct 29, 2014

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    Honestly I want to be alone one day.

    Away from family and friends and no significant other.
    UnfriendlyBlackGirl UnfriendlyBlackGirl 18-21, F Oct 24, 2015

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    I am an introvert and like being alone but miss the idea of being in a relationship. I've just never been successful with them and have for the last 5 years or so been single and...
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    Sometimes I like the peace and freedom of being alone and unbothered but then other times I'm a prisoner of my own hell with no one to vent to but my notebook.
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    I used to be afraid of being alone but I realise you have to be happy with your lot and being alone because being in a relationship will not bring long lasting love and the...
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    I came out a while back ,its been really hard . my family had the biggest problem with it .I was sad and couldn't seem to think I could handle the situation but it has made me...
    timjusttim123 timjusttim123 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's hard for me to be alone,i need support and attention lol and just to feel im a worthwhile person I need validation,apparently constantly.Don't feel like going into it now but...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband works all the time. We had an agreement that he would be home on the weekends to spend time with his family. Now he tells me he isnt coming home this weekend. Im tired...
    momof3grls2015 momof3grls2015 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Now I'm just alone and uneasy. I'm just waiting for the animals to rob me completely of my peace. And the demons that are ready to drag me off to hell. I do my best of keeping my...
    Noology19 Noology19 26-30 4 days ago

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    whatever i am sharing may help someone. yes, today I am alone,I have fallen, I dont have anywhere to go, Yes. But Remember , we all come to this world Alone , we learn to speak...
    Shamir14 Shamir14 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I love being alone in my own room but I hate I when no one texts me back and the thoughts get to me and then I start getting scared and try to silence the voices or I just blow up...
    XDeadxNxAliveX XDeadxNxAliveX 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My desire of femininity was when I would watch my late mother set her hair in rollers, then she would sit under her ronson escort hairdryer, then I would watch with great intensity...
    Dryermaniac Dryermaniac 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i feel like people with anxiety/depression are left without a rope in terms of working society. It debilitates me in a way that i never knew the full scope of until now. Every job...
    Outoforbits Outoforbits 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Until I left for college when I was 17, I had this weird tendency to look out the window of my bedroom at the market by the street near our house, to see if the stores were closed...
    IndraD IndraD 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Some days i feel like i've just given up, i have no ways of meeting people and no friends where i live. Its maddening, i have to be stoned 24/7 just to block out the feeling of...
    Outoforbits Outoforbits 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Sometimes you just need that solitude
    TheAvenue TheAvenue 18-21, M a week ago

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    i ought to be by now i have incontinent for just over 2 years now and dependent on nappies
    bigbabymark bigbabymark 41-45, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    Being alone doesn't necessarily mean being lonely. I love to spend time away from others to focus on myself. I love to discover parts of myself I never knew existed. Be kind to...
    BrokenEternally BrokenEternally 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I don't preferably like being alone, but I can function with it. I like cuddling because it soothes all the dark thoughts in my head and I can be at peace.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 31

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    I don't like waking up and everybody is gone :/ Even if the people who were here aren't nice, I just feel like I've been left.
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    they say to be alone is " separate, apart, or isolated from others". but thats not true. you can be surrounded by many people. I think the worst feeling in the world is to feel...
    justasia justasia 18-21, F Jan 30

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    I don't fear being alone at all. In fact sometimes I prefer it. I get things done without someone critiquing what I am doing. I'm not expected to reply to nonsense. I don't have to...
    JessicaMarie35 JessicaMarie35 36-40, T 1 Response Jan 30

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    I would never leave my wife, no matter what goes on we still love each other but...... This afternoon I got so tired of all the negativity she tosses out. I struggle a lot with...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 29

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    Came home to an empty house today after work. That rarely happens. I have to say I truly enjoyed the quiet time to myself. I had an hour of peace. An hour to do what I wanted...
    GirlGonePostal GirlGonePostal 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Im a middle aged woman, all alone. I have poor health and a horrible home with ignorant neighbours; and can't afford to move. I suffer with a variety of severe health issues...
    50cabbages 50cabbages 46-50 1 Response Jan 29

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    I hate being alone each and every day. all I do is work and home. I don't have time to meet people or even form a friendship at the least. I have social anxiety also that doesn't...
    TimeUnfolds TimeUnfolds 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 28

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    I've said it before and I will say it again. I am Australian born and bred. Lebanese background, migrant parents. Muslim household, and although I myself do not conform to religion...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F Jan 28

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    Is it really so bad to be scared of being alone when you know that your most scary side comes out when you are? I don't want to hurt, so I don't give myself that chance. Most of...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F Jan 28

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    but not ok with it at the same time
    aby2015 aby2015 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Ugh I can't live like this anymore. I can't take it. I'm a closeted gay/bisexual guy and most of my family is conservative and homophobic (due to their so called christian values...
    GCassr22 GCassr22 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Today I made the courageous decision to come out to my best friend. With trembling fingers, I sent that fated text to her; waiting for her reply with two sweaty palms. She did, and...
    Songsofheart Songsofheart 22-25 1 Response Jan 26

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    "Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F Jan 24

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M Jan 21

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    Once again I've been abandoned by someone I thought loved me. I'm so scared of being alone forever.
    ufcmaniac ufcmaniac 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I grew up in a dysfunctional household where my parents--especially my father--discouraged me showing my displeasure. When I cried because I was sad or desperate or angry they...
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