I Am Old Fashioned At Heart

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    I'm old-fashioned when it comes to how I view

    relationships. I always give my all in a relationship and when I enter a relationship, I'm in it for the long haul - through thick and thin. I don't give up on my partner. Also, I believe it's a man's duty to take care of his lady which means being there for her, supporting...
    DotNM DotNM
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2014

    I require my best friend to function properly.

    And because I have lost him I CANNOT. I just CANNOT. The end.
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad
    18-21, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    yes i do believe i m old fashioned,

    for me moral values, small things like spending time together, holding hands, admiring old peoples when they express their love and happiness, and when others feel happy because of us, or we are the behind others happiness, and all such things matters alot to me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 19, 2015

    I will never change, just

    because the world changes...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 4

    I'm very vintage and old fashioned any day i'd

    prefer a man to wear suits then snapbacks and baggy trousers it's way smarter. "Dressing well is a sign of good manners" - Tom Ford
    Imcalledolivia Imcalledolivia
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    My Interpretation

    When I say I am old fashioned, I mean not that I hate technology (hence the fact that I am on a website!). But rather I admire the integrity of generations before. I am sixteen years of age, and when I see the actions of my peers I am rather shocked and appalled. Many of them...
    TheSilentObsession TheSilentObsession
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2013

    I am not old fashioned in everything.

    I do love technology! When it comes to relationships, I want the man to make the first move. I want him to guide the relationship. I want to trust him so much that I have no problems letting go of the reigns. I am a strong independent single woman, but deep down inside I...
    dovie6 dovie6
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    The Older I Get..

    the more docile and set in my idealistic ways I become. I never used to believe in the set roles of males and females- heavens no. but the older i get, i notice, that moralistic value is practically and embedded  part of my belief. My mother raised me, and told me to...
    cherryalakei cherryalakei
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2008

    What does that even mean.

    I chose this to confuse myself. Let me get super old so I don't wonder about it.
    jeresey jeresey
    56-60, F
    Mar 17, 2014

    Oh Gosh!!!

    I don't even know where to start about how old fashioned I am. Firstly, I like manners and traditional English and am somewhat proper in speech. I smile and say hello to my neighboroughs.  I love paper books and handwritten cards and letters.  I keep handwritten journals...
    lagatta lagatta
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

    What's wrong with being old fashioned?

    I open doors I pull out chairs I stand when they leave the table I hold there hand down stairs I always pick them up at there door and walk them to there door I never text "I'm here." I make eye contact. I listen when they speak. I respect there space. I make myself...
    SomebodyActually SomebodyActually
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Jan 27, 2014

    Just read a beautiful article about how things

    were. I could relate to it cause the scenes were pretty similar in the area I lived as well, may be in your surroundings too. And that set me thinking about the new and the old and how different they are. • I refuse to have an internet in my smartphone, which makes it like...
    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014

    Can The World We Live In Support It?

    I love the idea of living an "old fashioned" life where bonds with family are the most important in life, concepts like respect, decorum, and modesty were still practiced and believed in, countless hours were spent reading, talking, learning to play an instrument instead of...
    nothingandsomething nothingandsomething
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2009

    Always Different

    I'm a old fashion girl. I believe that the man its the head of the house and had every right to enforce his rules for his family. I believe that if his rules are broken he had every right to punish the rule breaker. I also believe that when you get married it is forever. That...
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

    I don't always like change

    and I like how things used to be. Times were simpler and better. I love music from the 60's and 70's and I especially love old cars.
    Rippie Rippie
    26-30, M
    Nov 19, 2014

    I don't worry much about looking at my phone.

    .. or staying on top of everything virtual and online. I like limiting those things and staying in touch with God and Nature. I like older things, more thrifty things. I'm not a big spender. I don't have the money for it, so that's a good thing, I recon.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 23

    Always Have Been

    The music, the way people were, the life values that use to be important. It seems today most people have forgotten what was once important. Life shouldn't be about how much money one can accumulate. Life should be about family, togetherness and being happy with oneself. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 26, 2012

    I Have Old Fashioned Values About Love

    i think that too much is being destroyed in the world today and innocence and blushing love and men being the hero are good things I want a prince to sweep me off my feet... I want to feel like a princess with my man and I want him to give me his love and protection and be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Mar 16, 2011

    I Hate This Day and Age.

    Except for computers and cell phones, but if I born back then I would never even know what that crap was, so I wouldn't suffer any.  I would be just as well wearing a bouffant hairstyle with my polka dot dress and flat shoes on, sitting in the diner drinking a milkshake in...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2009

    My Old Heart

    I'm a progressive person in many ways. I believe in equality for all, freedom of speech, freedom of choice, and that a woman's body is her own. I consider myself a Moderate, politically speaking. I enjoy modern technology somewhat (hence me on the internet), and I like the modern...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    Jul 6, 2013

    Sometimes it feels good

    that I am, but then again, I think ppl see me as being outside of the box. Hell, I'll stay outside and gold the world inside and remain the same. I'm not changing for anyone!!! It's just the way I am.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 24

    Am I Old Fashioned!

    1. I must read the newspaper in the morning with a nice cup of coffee before i start my day. Online news and reviews just does not work for me 2. Love walking into a book store, feel the books with my own hands, skim through the latest releases and buy books. For me ordering a...
    BigAsset BigAsset
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2013

    Granted I have my likes

    or issues. But im still ole fashioned Im a gentleman open doors car and all others ect But seems an issue these days
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    Old Fashioned Ironing

    It's not that I have reject all modern ways ... but it's just that I am partial to the old fashioned ones! Case in point: My niece's daughter is spending some time with me. This is her second year at Primary School. I had to iron her uniform made from two materials...
    chocomint chocomint
    51-55, F
    Sep 25, 2013

    I miss writing, sending,

    and receiving snail mail. I miss the the woody smell on the adhesive ***** of an envelope and of the back of stamps. I miss inspecting postmark dates and counting the days it took to reach my address. Most of all, I miss unfolding the scented stationery as well as the...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2015

    This Is All So Silly... It's Just My Head. This Is All So Silly... It's Just My Head. This Is All So Silly... It's Just My Head...

    I like being a lady in public, a chef in the kitchen and a courtesan in the bedroom - my choice. I would gladly have stayed home and pregnant - as long as he could have supported us - my (?) choice. I would like to 'belong' to a man - my choice. I started off writing...
    roughNready roughNready
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2010

    Women's Place Is In The Home

    I want to be a stay at home house wife and mom. I want to be able to clean my own place, cook food, decorate, and have friends over. This is what makes me happiest. Looking for a close nit old fasioned family structure.
    llgmaryland llgmaryland
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2010
    Sakihiro Sakihiro
    18-21, F
    Nov 5, 2014

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