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I Am Over 25 And Never Had A Bf

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    I sometimes wish I had never had children too. I started out relatively early. I was 20 when I had my daughter and 24 when I had my son. My daughters father was abusive in every...
    BBMS BBMS 41-45, F Mar 30

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    I am a 19 year old male that can't do anything right.I never had a girlfriend/never get laid etc.etc.Obviously I'm a virgin.When I was younger i wasn't preoccupied with these...
    TheWatcher11133 TheWatcher11133 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I'm turning 22 this year and I've never had a boyfriend. I just feel like I'm missing out on some big experience of life. Everyone around me has been on relationships or talked to...
    smnthavgeorge smnthavgeorge 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Its not the fact that i'm a 13 year old who's complaining. But the fact that i'm turning 19 this year and i've never had a boyfriend. Never even been kissed. Or more accurately...
    Lifeshouldsparkle Lifeshouldsparkle 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I had never had an ****** with anyone I dated until now. I'm seeing an amazing man who I feel like I've known all my life and am meant to be with and he's the only guy that can get...
    Jackson2033 Jackson2033 18-21, F Apr 13

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend. But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be...
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 16 not a virgin and have never had an std at all
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I have never had any guys interested in me and I haven't been kissed..nothing. It makes me very depressed and I think I will be alone my whole life. All of the couples I see makes...
    Ginger135 Ginger135 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    People say I should get a boy friend because I never had a boyfriend it's just, I don't trust any of the boys at my school because it is a prep school. /-: and I think I should...
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Very proud of the fact I can say I have never had an STD
    mongo275 mongo275 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I've never had sex, but I'm willing to do most people. The idea of doing it with a stranger turns me on so much. Does that make me a wh*re?
    Done453 Done453 16-17, F Apr 8

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    No never had one. I protect myself always. Wrap it up people.
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I've been with one guy but never had a relationship before
    mbratz123 mbratz123 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF. I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I grew up with my grandparents. My mother had a relationship with my father. He was abusive time to time, he had come issues with his life, I have heard that he robbed some close...
    melodie9 melodie9 18-21, F Mar 28

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    Guys, Let's make it easier for you to understand. Girls are crazy, and they have this high and low state of mind. I'm just stating what I believe is a bit obvious when it comes to...
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    After months of looking for a job, I’ve recently settled for a minimum wage thing in a popular “Family Restaurant” that specializes in pizza and Italian food. I won’t name...
    JennyFilth JennyFilth 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    Let's be real, this sucks. I feel like I'm missing out. I've always been the type of girl that has a lot of friends, but never a lot of guy friends. Being in college and feeling...
    LockedUpp LockedUpp 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Never have had someone I could truly trust... Or call my best friend. ): blah
    ally5101999 ally5101999 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I'm in college and I've never been in a serious relationship before. Usually it doesn't bother me, but now that my best friend has been talking to this guy I started realizing how...
    itsverity itsverity 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I pushed her away. I had to. Her and I couldn't see eye to eye. We couldn't get along anymore. We both changed. I still love her to death. More than anything in the world. I wouldn...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M Mar 28

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    The wonderful thing (in a bizarre way) is I have my gut instinct to thank for this blessing. My idiot ex, when I first met him was very pushy for sex. I said no. And he pushed...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I've never been in a real relationship. I can't even remember the last time I went on a real date. I feel like I don't prioritize my needs because I'd rather have something that I...
    caitlynmarks caitlynmarks 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I haven't really thought much about kissing or relationships that much. I've only ever had real feelings for one guy...and he friendzoned me. Other guys have liked me but I don't...
    p3ppermint p3ppermint 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience. I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see...
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, T 5 Responses Mar 29

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    From what I understand, you need to have had S in order to get an S T D. :P
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i...
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    It hit me - hard - a few months ago and I went into a tailspin of anxiety, loneliness and self-pitying. I realized my life after high school has been one of moving from place to...
    avatar576 avatar576 26-30, M Mar 23

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    Maybe that's a good thing. I mean, I don't want to just kiss any girl. When I do experience that first kiss, I want it to be with that special someone. I want it to be special and...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Funny you mention it. I have always been supper safe(not really just lucky). Now in my life I'm supper selective and careful.
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Still working on my moves there..
    Inmate4269 Inmate4269 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    true story... I was pressing random letters in the title box and this came up and i was like, 'hey thats true' ...
    goldentwilight goldentwilight 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    But the problem is, I really want to. I hope someday, it happens :'(
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 Mar 28

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    But I did once try dating a kettle. It eventually left me as all kitchen appliances do
    sinkingwater sinkingwater 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Im way too shy to ask a girl out.
    wallflower365 wallflower365 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Damit I want to save my 1st kiss till I married but I really what to kiss someone I love what the hell do I do
    feaza153 feaza153 13-15, M Apr 3

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    It is what it is😏 maybe if I was like 40 then I'd probably be a bit concerned lol but since I'm not, I'm ok with not being kissed yet😇😇 no rush... If in 20 years nothing...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    But the gift of herpes you can keep and re-gift
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't know if the only one who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to...
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    If anyone has, please tell the story behind it below;)
    Othkurik Othkurik 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Pretty self - explanatory. STDS are pretty uncommon where I am anyways. And I'm pretty sure you need the S to get the STD.
    dearlovecc dearlovecc 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    How many guests did you have at your wedding ( if you are not married how many will have once you get married )? How many on your bridal part? We eloped because no one on both side...
    Curlyhairsheila Curlyhairsheila 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been told I'm attractive and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hello im pretty boy I want to have fun on skype with some girl. My skype is P.sekrecki
    pinosilver pinosilver 18-21, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    About a year ago I had a terrible trip after smoking marijuana. I had smoked before and it every time I never really got a "high" feeling I just felt kinda normal.. But maybe a...
    Kristen42 Kristen42 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I deleted this story because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F Mar 24

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    I'm going to start this off by saying: i don't think he's in love with me. He has a girlfriend. But this experience group was probably the closest to what experience I'm having...
    Epaestimated Epaestimated 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have tons of regrets.. Things I wish I would have done differently. Missed opportunities, experiences that have scarred me for life, and some things I wish I had never tried but...
    DiosesOscuros DiosesOscuros 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    My longstanding affair ended after his spouse found out (a few times over a few years), threatened divorce and he couldn't see us ever having a "happy ending" after destroying both...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 33 Responses Mar 29

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    My first post a couple months was my first step to recovery. I finally owned and admitted what happened and played around with ideas about how to move on. Its two month later, and...
    kaitc kaitc 18-21, F 1 Response