I Am Over 30 With No Kids

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    I feel weird about not having kids at 30 hell I

    don't even have a boyfriend but I don't want to bring children I do the world when I'm not ready .
    Confused848 Confused848
    31-35, F
    Dec 11, 2014

    It's A Hard Fact To Face

    I was pregnant once.  I carried the baby for four months before I had a miscarriage.  It was one of the hardest thing I had to go through.  It was one of the hardest thing my husband had to go through.  When we first met both of us didn't want children. ...
    notreallythere notreallythere
    36-40, F
    Oct 5, 2010

    Why I Am This Way, How I Feel About It

            I am sad about being this way since most women have their first child by age 25, some at around 20, and I feel old for someone without children, especially as I get older.  I would like to have been a young mother (not necessarily teen).  I envy teen mothers...
    MDenise MDenise
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2010

    A Blessing In Disguise

    When I was 22 I was in a severe automobile accident that left me sterile. I went head on into an 18 wheeler on the expressway with a combined impact of 130 miles per hour without a seatbelt. I hit the stering wheel so hard I bent it in half and completely tore out the lining of...
    maltesemermaid maltesemermaid
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2012

    Gonna Keep It That Way, Too!

    I've written stories about this elsewhere.  In short, there's too much manure in my genetic makeup for me to want to reproduce.  I'm just not enough of a gambler to want to roll those dice.At this moment I'm not even considering adoption.  While the child would not have my...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    Oct 8, 2011

    38 Divorced No Kids

    I chose not to have kids with a cheater. I would be a single mom getting no help like the other ex if I had chosen to give him a child so now that makes me a bad person? I had cancer in my 20's so I spent a lot of it recovering. I can have kids but chose to wait for the proper...
    sxyblonde1 sxyblonde1
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2012
    deleted deleted
    Apr 4, 2015

    Would Love To Be A Father

    It was always my wish and desire that I should be a dad sooner than later. I have only myself to blame as my relationships have been with ladies who have been older than me. They never wanted to be mothers. It would be nice to be a dad. Just two kids a boy and a girl. I love...
    HardingP119 HardingP119
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2013

    Missing My Daughter

    well i have alot going on in the last couples mouths B/c i had to leave my daughter in NC BC of whats going on with me and my grandma. Its nothing bad but i wanted my daughter finish her school before i let her come with me BC she in K-5. I mean my husband was station in Fort...
    mommie20052011 mommie20052011
    22-25, F
    Mar 4, 2011
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