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I Am Over 40 and Dating

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    Alive & Kicking - I've been divorced for nearly 4 years & since then I've have several dates with little success. I've found myself working more & more often the last 2 years...
    newage67 newage67 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 30, 2011

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    College Night Or Bingo - In all fairness dating in 40's is actually pretty fun because with a little style can go to venues where its under 40 and venues where its over 40 and...
    SEANCURIOS SEANCURIOS 41-45, M Jan 13, 2012

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    Dating Over 40 -  The Browser wont let me post my story but I wrote an article for a website called CoolOldGuys.org. I think its pretty interesting and relevant it might be...
    PrimeauProductions PrimeauProductions 51-55, M Dec 15, 2009

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    Next Please? - I am 43 and recently started dating again... I joined a dating website and I am meeting a ton of new people.  I have had some pretty funny experiences...
    HeavenBesideYou HeavenBesideYou 41-45, F 52 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Dating Via Speed Dating - Some Questions - Recently came across a speed dating (SD) site that offers an SD event for Males - ages 49 to 65 and Females - ages 44 to 54. This...
    sailon sailon 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2010

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    Dating Requirement From My Daughter - I was driving in the car yesterday when my daughter says she wants to be Mrs Justin Beiber so badly. Now, she's only ten and this is not the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Scary Deal! -   I woke up to the sound of rain tapping on the window. I rolled over and sat up lit a cigarette took a deep draw from it. For just a split second I didnt...
    magicwolf magicwolf 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    Lonely Night - My husband moved out today. He had abruptly said that he wanted a divorce earlier this year but I have since discovered that was after he had begun an affair. This...
    fyrecroft fyrecroft 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    It's Fun! - When I was in my 20s, I thought that there WAS no life after 30, let alone 40. But, since I got rid of my husband and started dating again at 40, I have had the time...
    Glleza Glleza 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Up For Bids My Best Friend - ok i have been reading about how many of you ladies are lonely want someone to love, crave intimacy want a sex life want romance want a guy to love...
    waynedawsxx waynedawsxx 36-40, M Nov 11, 2012

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    Dating Material - I want to share this with 40 something dating women. The Sweet Spot Somewhere between puberty and Cialis is that perfect moment in a single man’s life when...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2011

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Timing - Is it just me or is dating post divorce so 30's 40s' all about timing? I see 3 stages people go through post divorce. 1) people who want to get married and or be in...
    beputty beputty 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2012

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    Can't It Get Any More Depressing? - I was surfing the net when a pop-up came up and said....Seniors Dating....ages 40 and up.  Age 40 is now considered a senior????
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    I Have A Decision To Make - Anyone who bothers to read the garbage I write on this site knows that relationships of any kind are probably an issue for me. I finally met a really...
    ampand ampand 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Not 40 Til Next Month But Who's Counting? Lol - I want to date, but geez, where do I start? Sometimes, I can barely think of what to say, because my mind has gone blank.  The...
    lowheart lowheart 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    My Daughter's View On Mom Dating - Ever since my daughter was young, I've always started the coversation with "after graduate school, you can start considering to date." ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    40 Was A Long Time Ago! - I'm 62 a transgender woman on hormones and very undecided on which gender I prefer to date the most. Interesting is not a strong enough term to discuss...
    cyrsti cyrsti 61-65, T 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Our 7th Date - It was a chore Friday. I had to give blood for doc's test, drop off form at docs, plus various other chores. So I took the Friday off. Texting my lover through out...
    1changingheart 1changingheart 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Wtk If Anyone Here Started Dating Right Out Of An Unhappy Marriage...any Advice? - I am in a situation where I MAY be getting involved with someone who is ending a bad marriage...
    cobalt61 cobalt61 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    A Lot To Learn - Dating, ....OMG I never thought I would ever use that word to describe my current relationship status. Things have changed so much, either I'm so completely out of...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 1 Response May 15, 2013

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    I want to take the experience of one particular mistake, go back in time to before I made it, and use that memory of the experience to stop me making it. Doing that would stop all...
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    Hello, I'm writing because I am heartbroken over this girl I meet over the Internet on a dating site. As negative stuff started to creeping into my life this new heartache show up...
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    Well it is now almost six months since I split with the ex. And fast approaching is the deadline for the promise I made to myself that I would at least consider starting to date...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I've tried online dating once again for about a year and a three months now. I feel like I have not had any success. I've met guys who have lied about there age, to guys who have...
    catnisswil catnisswil 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I started talking to this guy online after a hiatus from my dating profile. I'm forward, so I messaged him first. I couldn't get a vibe from him, his responses were pretty short...
    csle csle 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I started dating a widower after his wife of 15yrs. pass 7months ago. He is 45 me 37. First time we met he was wearing his wedding ring. I told him he was mot ready. He knew i...
    kimo125 kimo125 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    May be overthinking this but how would you take it if you're dating this guy abd he starts bringing up how the baby would be beautiful if you two had a baby, talking about if you...
    gymgirl71 gymgirl71 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I've been separated 6-months after being in a sexless marriage. I didn't stay in one place much during the separation. But after being overseas for a while (spent time in Australia...
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