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I Am Over Forty and Married

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    I married my wife because we got pregnant. Even before being married I was out still acting like a single man and talking to other women. I didn't love her yet. She found out and...
    rrspearo rrspearo 26-30, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    You know at some point things started to look a little better he seemed like he was trying a little harder and of course I thanked him and took notice letting him know his efforts...
    BabyDoll23p BabyDoll23p 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i am married white male wife knows i am bi and gets turned on by it and has even let me meet men privatly in the past and watched me with one of them. huge turn on for us. but a...
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    All I get from marriage is Occassional SEX and Nice food. For all other things, I am tired of encouraging her. She is happy in her own world with gossips, TV, movies..etc. Kids too...
    prasad3uk prasad3uk 36-40, M 9 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    i am hoping some of you ladies ( married even better) can help me. I would like to find something that my wife would really like in the bedroom, i think she is willing to try other...
    ladiespleaseanswer ladiespleaseanswer 36-40, M 10 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm looking to talk to other woman who are bi curious. I'm married but have really always been attracted to woman as I've gotten older it's becoming something I'm aware of more and...
    mariarainy178 mariarainy178 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    Mica4014qgx7 Mica4014qgx7 31-35, M 1 Response May 14

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    During the summer of my 16th year I met my future husband. Much to my parents dismay, I fell head over heels in love with a young man 2 years my senior. Having come from a very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 16

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    It was a Tuesday, I think…maybe a Thursday I can’t remember. At the time, I was content with where I was in life. Single…healthy, happy, no debt, free to live life as I chose...
    1StateAway 1StateAway 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5

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    To be honest I don’t really know how it started or how it got to this mess. One moment I was waving awkwardly at him as he walked away from the front desk, the next I was below...
    Leaderkyuzizi Leaderkyuzizi 22-25, F May 24

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    My fiance and I will be getting married in 2 weeks. I suppose I am beginning to over think everything at the moment including how his family feels about me. His mother hates me...
    rlspeck rlspeck 31-35, F 1 Response May 22

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    After speaking to multiple friends.. I feel like I've finally overcame depression. Anyone can always overcome depression, because if I can do it, anyone else can. At the end of the...
    magicduck magicduck 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    Crushes are beyond weird. So far, I had crushes on two married guys. I had no idea they were married until I found out. One was my neighbor, who was often shirtless and played the...
    JumpingTomatoes JumpingTomatoes 18-21 May 15

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    Please help!!! We were together for 10 years. I was 25 when we broke up so we were just kids when we met and fell in love. Almost 2 years ago and I am still hurting. He was my...
    1loveNYC21 1loveNYC21 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    I am starting my life over for the third time, thousands of miles away. First time was when I came to US with a little money and my degree in Architecture. I traveled for a while...
    Xuzhou Xuzhou 56-60, F 1 Response May 20

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    We met on EP actually. His name was Jason. We talked all the time about anything and everything, being intimate over the phone quite a bit. I thought I was in love. I thought he...
    BeautifulxDelusions BeautifulxDelusions 18-21, F 5 Responses May 6

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    I am very conflicted in my approach to this. I told my wife soon after we married, after our first son was born (his being a very large part of why we married, resulting from my...
    NorthCoast1 NorthCoast1 41-45, M 1 Response May 7

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    Im here because Im so torn. Im having an emotional affair with a friend I've known for over ten years. He is also married. I love my husband and we have a young child. I dont plan...
    salvi56 salvi56 36-40, F 4 Responses May 8

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    How do I feel? I feel lucky at times and I feel sad at times.I feel lucky because I don't have the responsibilities of taking care of a family. I have freedom with my time. I can...
    capehope3 capehope3 41-45 May 12

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    I must admit, I had doubts before I married my wife but I went through with it anyways. We've been married 11 years with two beautiful daughters and she is a very good person at...
    Bucco11 Bucco11 36-40, M 5 Responses May 18

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    I have been married for a little over 8 years now and ever since the beginning things were great. After his brother and family started seeing things we're getting serious they...
    Linda583 Linda583 31-35, F 3 Responses May 18

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    I'm married, all in all its been a pretty good twenty years, two kids, two dogs, house in the suburbs, the standard middle class story I suppose. But over the past several years...
    wisurf wisurf 51-55, M 7 Responses May 19

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    My sister had her friend over and she asked me if I'm getting married and I said no and she looked really disappointed. I asked her why she thought that and she said its cause I...
    AngelWithASecret2 AngelWithASecret2 13-15, F a week ago

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    Another lonely night. Can't tell him anything without him getting defensive. Can't even talk to my husband. I've been sleeping alone in our bed for about a month. He held me in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am unhappily married and I have developed strong feelings for an old mutual friend. We've reconnected and talk often. I've hinted around but he doesn't seem to catch on. He's...
    zandra95 zandra95 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Things Only People Who Overthink All The Time Would Understand 1.They are slightly obsessive in a get things done kind of way. 2.They are the opposite of simple minded. 3.They...
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 17 hrs ago

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    I cry over such stupid stuff: Okay I am in advance higher art and there is 6 of us shove into a small area together. two girl took the two largest and best desk. I had to move...
    CuteButTheDevil CuteButTheDevil 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    Struggling with having ex in my world more and more. I've set boundaries of how and when we communicate. But sometimes a situation occurs and then I'm all over the place again...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 6 Responses May 24

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    Its funny that everyone around me thinks I'm in this great marriage based on the material things that I have. Yes, my husband is a great provider and father. But, he is a horrible...
    kimberlycook kimberlycook 46-50, F 6 Responses May 3

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    I dont know what has gotten over me, but I'm aching to find a married woman willing to have an affair with me
    rahulagar rahulagar 26-30, M May 3

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    The moment I saw him, I felt my smile grow big and my heart jumped with joy. He made a joke about my last job not working out because I'm always getting hit on. I laughed. "He's...
    Jhayne Jhayne 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    I know I won't ever be getting married. Marriage is just so overrated... There are three types of people... there's the type that adore marriage and children, they type who says...
    RocaAzul RocaAzul 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    What to do if you got married with a man from Florida and now you have to go move over there. But you don't want to leave your family in California? I'm really going to miss my mom...
    lizz559 lizz559 18-21, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I turn 25 next month. ive been with my bf for a year and a half. People always tell me thats so long but I dont feel like its long at all. this makes me realize how short a year...
    JDtheSweet JDtheSweet 22-25, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Ok, so I posted about a month ago about moving out from my husband. Although we are not 'seperated', I, at the moment, have no intention of going back. So for the last month I have...
    BONBEACHER BONBEACHER 26-30, F 1 Response May 10

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    I'm not even sure where this all began, or how I even got in this space... It was just a friendship. I was in a long term relationship when we met...but I was drawn to him. I knew...
    detailsinthefabric detailsinthefabric 22-25, F 3 Responses May 17

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    I really don't know what to do. I think since I've been married my husband hasn't been into me. I catch him looking at other women, ****, and recently I caught him sending...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser 31-35, F 9 Responses May 22

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    I'm 33 years old and my husband is 55 years old. We've been married for 9 years. We don't have any kids. I meet this guy ( 35 yrs old ) at my workplace we have a mutual...
    Emmaj2015 Emmaj2015 31-35, F May 23

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    He told me he was divorced. We've been dating for 9 months. Now he's talking about settling down, marriage and moving my 2 kids and I in with him. I'm 27 and he's 40. I see so many...
    nellinaples nellinaples 26-30, F 1 Response May 26

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    I am married and my wife is pregnant. Due to complications she can't have any vaginal stimulation. Thus, we haven't had any sexual contact since October. It has been rough but I've...
    Docblm6294 Docblm6294 31-35, M 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a married mom of three and I am currently contemplating ending my marriage. My husband has changed through the years and at one point was extremely mean and distant with me...
    Sonya9 Sonya9 41-45, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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