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I Am Over Him, I Promise

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    I Left And Never Looked Back

    I left my thirteen year marriage just a little over two years ago.  Some might think thirteen years, you had to have missed your x at some point. The answer to that is nope, nada, not even in my lowest of times have I ever missed him.  There was a time I felt guilty for that...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    How Do You Do It?

     How do you get over some one? I've never had to before. I've always been the dumper never the dumpee. I just can't seem to do it. I'll think I have and then I'll get a text from him and it all comes rushing back. I feel trapped. Any new relationship is certainly doomed if I...
    bizzarlyfabulous bizzarlyfabulous 26-30, F Feb 19, 2009

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    Why Am I Still Crying?

    I cried the day you ditched me.....I sobbed til my heart aches no more......But when you said you don't believe I am happy, I cried again by your innocence..You are a fool...I am so over you....No more prison cells with your making...No more restrictions that you so fabricate..No...
    MyZen MyZen 36-40, F Oct 3, 2011

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    Of Course

    I'm over him. He is a loser.  I don't want anything to do with him.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Oct 2, 2011

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    It Feels Weird.

    Marc, When I look at you now I remember being in love with you. I remember the bad times. I remember the good times, I am thankful for the good. I am not bitter I am simply done. You mistreated me and I had to leave so why did I want you back. You didn't care for my feelings you...
    ForeverJo ForeverJo 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2012

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    So He Phoned Me Just Now

    and I didnt have much to say. We kept the conversation short and not so sweet, but now I feel like I want to punch him really really hard. He reckons he knows how it must be for me, how I did so much for him and gave up a dream job and lost a few 'friends' because of him. Yet not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 26, 2008

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    It's Finally Over

     I have never been dumped before. And I've never been in love or gotten my heart broken. Those three months with my ex were unforgettable. my dad said we burned too hot and too fast. he knew we weren't going to last long. So in the end he broke my heart. And I said 'm done with...
    watswrongwitme watswrongwitme 13-15, F Jun 9, 2011

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    I'm Free!

    After years of anguish, it just hit me. It's weird how sudden it was. I'm free. :)
    SecretBeliever SecretBeliever 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2008

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    Well It Definitely Seems That Way... Or Does It?

    Okay so if you check my experiences, one of my experiences is "I love him but can't have him" (soon to be deleted, if possible).  But lately, something changed in me, it's hard to explain, but it's like, I've got this new life in me that's just BURNING to be lived!  I know it's...
    JackieAna JackieAna 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2011

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    I'm Not Over Him

    I thought I was this time, but I'm not. I'm weak and a sucker for blue eyes and a cute smile. I try and stay strong, I know it's wrong for me to even be talking to him, but I can't stop myself from replying to his messages and answering his calls. I wish things had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 6, 2008

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