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I Am Over Him, I Promise

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    Why Am I Still Crying?

    I cried the day you ditched me.....I sobbed til my heart aches no more......But when you said you don't believe I am happy, I cried again by your innocence..You are a fool...I am so over you....No more prison cells with your making...No more restrictions that you so fabricate..No...
    MyZen MyZen 36-40, F Oct 3, 2011

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    xoOceanxo xoOceanxo 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Of Course

    I'm over him. He is a loser.  I don't want anything to do with him.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Oct 2, 2011

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    I'm Free!

    After years of anguish, it just hit me. It's weird how sudden it was. I'm free. :)
    SecretBeliever SecretBeliever 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2008

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    Well It Definitely Seems That Way... Or Does It?

    Okay so if you check my experiences, one of my experiences is "I love him but can't have him" (soon to be deleted, if possible).  But lately, something changed in me, it's hard to explain, but it's like, I've got this new life in me that's just BURNING to be lived!  I know it's...
    JackieAna JackieAna 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2011

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    It Feels Weird.

    Marc, When I look at you now I remember being in love with you. I remember the bad times. I remember the good times, I am thankful for the good. I am not bitter I am simply done. You mistreated me and I had to leave so why did I want you back. You didn't care for my feelings you...
    ForeverJo ForeverJo 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2012

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    How Do You Do It?

     How do you get over some one? I've never had to before. I've always been the dumper never the dumpee. I just can't seem to do it. I'll think I have and then I'll get a text from him and it all comes rushing back. I feel trapped. Any new relationship is certainly doomed if I...
    bizzarlyfabulous bizzarlyfabulous 26-30, F Feb 19, 2009

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    I Left And Never Looked Back

    I left my thirteen year marriage just a little over two years ago.  Some might think thirteen years, you had to have missed your x at some point. The answer to that is nope, nada, not even in my lowest of times have I ever missed him.  There was a time I felt guilty for that...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I'm Not Over Him

    I thought I was this time, but I'm not. I'm weak and a sucker for blue eyes and a cute smile. I try and stay strong, I know it's wrong for me to even be talking to him, but I can't stop myself from replying to his messages and answering his calls. I wish things had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 6, 2008

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    So He Phoned Me Just Now

    and I didnt have much to say. We kept the conversation short and not so sweet, but now I feel like I want to punch him really really hard. He reckons he knows how it must be for me, how I did so much for him and gave up a dream job and lost a few 'friends' because of him. Yet not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 26, 2008

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    It's Finally Over

     I have never been dumped before. And I've never been in love or gotten my heart broken. Those three months with my ex were unforgettable. my dad said we burned too hot and too fast. he knew we weren't going to last long. So in the end he broke my heart. And I said 'm done with...
    watswrongwitme watswrongwitme 13-15, F Jun 9, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I broke a promise that I made to one of my best friends, who's always there for me and I feel like I've upset him, the promise was that I wouldn't cut ever again. And I did, I...
    JaimeSparkles JaimeSparkles 13-15, T Jul 21

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    I hate him but miss him! I had a best guy friend and I have talked about him before. I met a guy his name was Jonathan. We became best friends and somehow he managed to fall in...
    GoodbyesandHellos GoodbyesandHellos 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I haven’t posted in a while. It hurts too much to write sometimes. My MM and I broke up over two months ago. The last time we talked was April 29. We both love each other deeply...
    celticwarrior96 celticwarrior96 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I just found out that my best friend died from a heroin overdose yesterday. Well I found out last night actually,and then cried and walked around my town for 9+ hours. It's really...
    annielouise237 annielouise237 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm very nervous today. This morning, I'll meeting with my director and producer to discuss who we want on our crew for our upcoming project. My line producer has already...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend was out of town on the day of my birthday, when he got back (two weeks later) he promised he would make it up to me. So i agreed and he planned this whole night and it...
    HashtagBells HashtagBells 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend of two years and I are struggling because he broke a huge promise to me about always telling me when his friends had invited girls over and he was there. He failed to...
    misshaley7 misshaley7 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My American cousin, Kat, and I have always been close even though we live across the ocean from each other. We just seemed to hit it off the occasions we saw each other...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F Jul 16

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    Dil ne yeh kaha hai dil se My heart calls out to your heart Mohabbat ho gayee hai tum se... I have fallen in love with you Meri jaan mere dilbar mera aitbaar kar lo My...
    AKIDIRANY AKIDIRANY 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    The day is done, the sun has set The night has come bringing what i dread Thoughts of you race threw my head A simple thought of yesterday's Regretful fears of past years I cant...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F Jul 13

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    The great escape 4 The team continue on without Zane and Niggalactacus and mad it to entrance to the hanger room. However what they didn't know was security guards where posted...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    A spontaneous 3-hour late lunch yesterday with my MM. We were at the park talking. I had my head in his lap and he asked me what I was thinking about. I told him I was thinking...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    About 6 months ago I started dating this guy and slowly I started to fall in love with him. He was literally the only friend that I had. We became so close and he meant alot to me...
    birdbling birdbling 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    He was so rude. We were together when we were both seniors in high school and went to different schools. None of my friends liked him though. We got together at the beginning of...
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I need to consolidate and vent all my thoughts... I was so naïve… I had little understanding of “feelings”… I knew if I stayed on this site long enough, I might just...
    MW1321 MW1321 18-21, M Jul 21

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    Let us enjoy reading this one of Aesop’s Fables of A Cartload of Almonds . A squirrel joined the service of the King of the Forest, the lion. He did whatever work was given him...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I feel like every post I write is pathetic but here goes...have you ever just craved for companionship but just wouldn't settle for just anyone? It can be very lonely and you...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    And I'm over it, I'm over it, I promise I'm over it. But it still hurts sometimes. - Laura Elizabeth Ross
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F Jul 21

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    I was 14 or 15 ,,I am not really sure but I believe 15 ,,,I had broke up with my girl friend (a short time later became my wife) and I was staying at Mom and Dads ,( my girlfriend...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I have found the man that I want to be with forever.. The only guy since being in an abusive relationship that I have cared about and respected enough to stick with past the first...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I am married and so my AP, neither happily married. We became friends over 2 years ago, but over the last year have gotten alot closer. Our families were all friends (his wife, my...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I am married and so my AP, neither happily married. We became friends over 2 years ago, but over the last year have gotten alot closer. Our families were all friends (his wife, my...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Even though Im 19, most of my friends are either my age or much younger than me. In addition to that, most of my friends are female, even though I am male. after that quick set up...
    ThunderST0RM1N ThunderST0RM1N 18-21, M Jul 7

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    Okay I think this is extremely unfair but here is my story; My mum has been raising me since my dad was sent away when I was 9 (To god knows where, I have a feeling it is jail and...
    AsherWest AsherWest 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    So there I was over 30 with there beautiful children. I had been being abused by the man I married for apx ten years. I had gotten a job not a great job but I made some money and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8

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    In 2008 I was patching the roof on the church where Mom and dad go. And it got to the point to where I would put 2 or 3 shingles on. I would give slap out. I have always been the...
    PaPasToy PaPasToy 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Yesterday while at work a friend came in for lunch. He sat at the counter We exchanged hellos and while taking his order in walks my ex. i could instantly feel my nerves kick into...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Hi guys! Ok, so long story short.. Its been a while since I've realised I was emotionally unavailable coz of my past, found someone who made me realise the emotional waves of...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Dalia never showed me nothing but kindness She would say, "I know how sad you get And some days I still get that way, but it gets better It gets better, it gets better. Sweetie...
    LilNeko LilNeko 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It still hurts just thinking about him, the first guy I loved. We were friends with benefits for a year and half and I thought he was all mine. But then one day after two months of...
    Nessaa4 Nessaa4 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    So... my ex mm still wants me. I got divorced, he never did. It's been 23 months of a rough road, filled with enormous love, laughter, anxiety, guilt, excitement, doubt, fun and...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 3

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    I call Him Father ,,,and He calls me son ,,, I am asked all the time what I think we will be when Christ comes ,,,I don't know what I will look like but I am sure like the Hebrew...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    WOW! All I can say is WOW!! I will try keep it short and simple. I had 4th of July off. He agreed to spend it with me. Okay, Perfect. He says he would pick me up at the mall close...
    PretendingImOk PretendingImOk 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Hey ladies (and gentlemen), I just need a little advice here. Last night they apparently had a huge fight. She's always the one to raise her voice, even in front of their young...
    autumnsx autumnsx 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 11

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    We would've made 2 year friendship today but it seems we knew each other so much longer . He meant so much to me . I never intend to betray him in any way . Im so confused though...
    lillyanntae lillyanntae 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14