I Am Overweight and I Hate It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 146 People

    That Thing

    Like probably everyone else i dream of being attractive. To train and be healthy and have the new features i uncover when i refine my body compliment my already existing features. I confess ive been called a good-looking guy many times, it's just that... my family's filled with...
    Themsen Themsen
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2011


    I have been overweight since about 8th grade and since then I have only gotten heavier. I hate to look at myself in the mirror and feel sorry for those who do have to look at me. I wanna get married and have children some day so I know I need to do something about my weight. I...
    MissTori MissTori
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2012

    I Am Overweight

    Do I really hate being overweight?  Cause if I really hated it, I would have done something about it.  If I'm not doing what is supposed to be done, then it means overweight is working for me and this is how I want to be.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 8, 2011

    Hate It

    I am trying very hard right now, and made great progress after a year.
    Arorin Arorin
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2010

    When I was really young I was skinny

    and over the years I was always told I was big boned so I never worried about my weight. Looking at my pictures now as I've been steadily gaining weight it depresses me how could I be so dumb to let myself get this big? I want to lose weight I want to see myself at my best on...
    hellchick hellchick
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 16, 2014

    Thirty Pounds Seems Like So Much Yet So Little

    Let me start out by saying I'm 5'10 and about 185lbs. A year ago next Wednesday I was 245lbs. I moved to another state to live with my grandparents after my grandfather had surgery. I got a job up there working in a bakery. Guess what, they made fudge. It was my job to pour the...
    cengelke cengelke
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2010

    Stop and Stare

     One of my biggest fears is people accusing me of being fat. I am very overweight, but the issue is best described as the elephant in the corner (pun not intended :D). I often forget I'm fat. I hate the feeling I get when I realize just how big I am when I see my reflection...
    haddybsb haddybsb
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

    Dream of Being Thin.

    Almost every night. The dreams are always different but the me in those dreams is always thin? Does this mean that being thin for me is just a dream, or could I be seeing the future me.?
    lovethebeach lovethebeach
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 19, 2009

    Almost A New Year And A New Me

    I am a mom of two and happily married, but my weight has taken so much from me and my family. I am at the point where I am in therapy for depression and anxiety. I want to be better. I have my moments that I am fine and the moments that I feel judged for what I look like or who...
    redskinsmommy redskinsmommy
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

    Stupid Pants

    You know I have been blessed with many things; good parents, good friends but not a good body image. I am not a negative or hateful person, I have many friends and have worked hard to get where I am. I'm goal oriented and have a good sense of humor but it seems that this one...
    phoenix8455 phoenix8455
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2009

    I hate being this big.

    I need to loose at least 65-70 lbs. then I might look goo again. I have developed breasts because of my weight. Every time I go to the pool I wear a shirt to hide my boobs and some of my tummy. Maybe most don't care but I do and I would like for girls to do another take like...
    Bird500 Bird500
    46-50, M
    Jul 6, 2015

    I cannot seem to get the weight off.

    I try all kinds of diet and exercise, but nothing seems to work. It's making me so depressed. I lost 75 lbs 2 years ago and then I plateaued, now I'm slowly gaining it all back. It makes me so self conscious, and hate my body. I'm a very sexual person but my current BF doesn't...
    Untamedsecret Untamedsecret
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    I need to be thinner.

    I look around and see lots if right bodies and I want one too.
    Bird500 Bird500
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    I was always thin and pretty

    until 2 years ago when my husband of 25 years cheated on me and we divorced...I spent the next 2 years laying in bed drinking beer and watching TV. Now I'm 200 lbs and not so pretty...I'm so unhappy!!!
    robLOVER67 robLOVER67
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 20, 2015
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    4 Responses Jan 16

    I struggle with my weight,

    I've always been a bigger girl and it's starting to consume my soul! Everything hurts these days... Even a little sunlight can put me in a negative mood.
    hellagalo hellagalo
    18-21, T
    Sep 19, 2015

    I'm Overweight And Hate It....

    for the first 25 years of life i was achingly normal without having to work at it. i stayed slim, but never really understood how good i had it. Once i turned 25 i started gaining quickly. then i had a baby at 29, lost most of the weight at first, but it all came back plus a few...
    jojobe jojobe
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2010

    I Want To Help People Lose Weight.

    I want to help people to lose weight and be healthy. But I am not a doctor.  I have a great product.  Any volunteers? My future plan is to start a  health spa in Europe where I can help people lose weight and be healthy.Please write me
    pgreenshield pgreenshield
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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