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I Am Overweight and I Hate It

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    Almost A New Year And A New Me

    I am a mom of two and happily married, but my weight has taken so much from me and my family. I am at the point where I am in therapy for depression and anxiety. I want to be better. I have my moments that I am fine and the moments that I feel judged for what I look like or who...
    redskinsmommy redskinsmommy 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Thirty Pounds Seems Like So Much Yet So Little

    Let me start out by saying I'm 5'10 and about 185lbs. A year ago next Wednesday I was 245lbs. I moved to another state to live with my grandparents after my grandfather had surgery. I got a job up there working in a bakery. Guess what, they made fudge. It was my job to pour the...
    cengelke cengelke 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Stupid Pants

    You know I have been blessed with many things; good parents, good friends but not a good body image. I am not a negative or hateful person, I have many friends and have worked hard to get where I am. I'm goal oriented and have a good sense of humor but it seems that this one...
    phoenix8455 phoenix8455 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    That Thing

    Like probably everyone else i dream of being attractive. To train and be healthy and have the new features i uncover when i refine my body compliment my already existing features. I confess ive been called a good-looking guy many times, it's just that... my family's filled with...
    Themsen Themsen 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    When I was really young I was skinny

    and over the years I was always told I was big boned so I never worried about my weight. Looking at my pictures now as I've been steadily gaining weight it depresses me how could I be so dumb to let myself get this big? I want to lose weight I want to see myself at my best on...
    hellchick hellchick 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    Dream of Being Thin.

    Almost every night. The dreams are always different but the me in those dreams is always thin? Does this mean that being thin for me is just a dream, or could I be seeing the future me.?
    lovethebeach lovethebeach 31-35, F 6 Responses May 19, 2009

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    Hate It

    I am trying very hard right now, and made great progress after a year.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    The Long Term Effects Of Bullying And The Best Ways To Regain Your Confidence

      Being a victim of bullying can stop a person from reaching their full-potential in life by lowering a persons self-confidence and self-esteem. Having low self-esteem can affect how a person interacts with other people and can determine how a person deals with certain...
    stopthebullytodaycom stopthebullytodaycom 26-30 Sep 30, 2011

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    :(

    I have been overweight since about 8th grade and since then I have only gotten heavier. I hate to look at myself in the mirror and feel sorry for those who do have to look at me. I wanna get married and have children some day so I know I need to do something about my weight. I...
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2012

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    I Am Overweight

    Do I really hate being overweight?  Cause if I really hated it, I would have done something about it.  If I'm not doing what is supposed to be done, then it means overweight is working for me and this is how I want to be.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    Stop and Stare

     One of my biggest fears is people accusing me of being fat. I am very overweight, but the issue is best described as the elephant in the corner (pun not intended :D). I often forget I'm fat. I hate the feeling I get when I realize just how big I am when I see my reflection...
    haddybsb haddybsb 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    I Want To Help People Lose Weight.

    I want to help people to lose weight and be healthy. But I am not a doctor.  I have a great product.  Any volunteers? My future plan is to start a  health spa in Europe where I can help people lose weight and be healthy.Please write me
    pgreenshield pgreenshield 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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    I'm Overweight And Hate It....

    for the first 25 years of life i was achingly normal without having to work at it. i stayed slim, but never really understood how good i had it. Once i turned 25 i started gaining quickly. then i had a baby at 29, lost most of the weight at first, but it all came back plus a few...
    jojobe jojobe 31-35 3 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Just because I'm on the bit of the chubby side, I'm not allowed to be ill apparently. Something is wrong with my stomach, "You're overweight" I haven't had a period for 2 months...
    xPrincessLovellx xPrincessLovellx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    so by posting this some of you may think I'm stuck up or conceded but I promise you I'm definitely not. this is one of many many insecurities I have... so, I'm 17 and I have a...
    Itschan Itschan 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have always had a weight problem. Growing up, I was always chubby, and it didn't bother me until the kids started bullying me in 7th grade. It was the typical "Skinny girl hates...
    vbs28 vbs28 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    im overweight i have always been overweight and although everyone i know tells me im pretty and my bf allways wants to jump my bones i still find myself feeling disgusting anyone...
    Jewelz1225 Jewelz1225 22-25 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm so uncomfortable with myself right now. I exercise,don't eat much but I'm 65lbs overweight. Working out harder seems to make it worse,dumb as that sounds. I read about a type...
    MiztressL MiztressL 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I was fishing at the local lake one night and as I was sitting there I heard footsteps walk up behind me. I turned around just in time to see two kids who looked like they were...
    whsnerd whsnerd 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    He is lying here passed out holding onto me and all I can think is how I would rather be any where but here. I hate that it has come to this. I hate that every day of my life is a...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I hate that I always fall into the trap of "don't worry, I'm not like them" or "I would never leave you." But everyone always stays for my good side, the fake me, the me that's...
    OsyriaRose OsyriaRose 16-17, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Brother Must Leave Or Die (part 2 update): Part 1 --> EP Link I finally got a job. There are some changes between me and my brother...but for the worst. Now it's a battle about...
    bittersweethermit bittersweethermit 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    If you're skinny you're anorexic If you're overweight you're a lazy fatass If you're "normal" you're boring If you're different you're a freak If you're a virgin you're stuck up...
    SilenceInBlackAndWhite SilenceInBlackAndWhite 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    just took a shower and looked at my body and for a split second hated what i saw i almost started crying ='(
    Jewelz1225 Jewelz1225 22-25 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    God, do I ever hate them. What kind of stuck-up, petty little ***** gets annoyed when people she finds unattractive are called beautiful? Then after thoroughly denying her own self...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    'I hate white people' 'I hate black people' like really? Your personality doesn't depend on race
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Being nice to someone you hate, does not mean you're fake. It means you are mature enough to tolerate your hate towards them. Learn to love your enemies and pray for them, you...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    In life there are always those people. They love you one minute and hate you the next. It's never your fault however they choose to life there life that way. Clinging on to tiny...
    anonymousblog101 anonymousblog101 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Yeah i hate it .. Seriously if u dont have anything good to say , just shut up!! Geez... You dont know that ur words can kill people .. Words hurt you know !!
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    He is stupid, immature. And aggressive! He doesnt know a thing about respect and yet wants my little brother and me to respect him. He got into a fight with Mum, where we of...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    He us stupid, immature. And aggressive! He doesnt know a thing about respect and yet wants my little brother and me to respect him. He got into a fight with Mum, where we of...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    The only reason I hate winter is because EVERY Sunday me my dad and my sister wake up at 6AM and go into the woods and cut down trees and then my dad cute the wood and I throw the...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    One of my Friends came Up to Me and said "OMFG, Preston is dating Amanda and she isn't even pretty, ew,," Can I just say I hate when people do that? Dating isn't about looks, it...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have already written about this earlier but feel like writing it again. I HATE mind games with passion. I am too old to be playing cat and mouse chasing games. Anybody who tries...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have an older brother and I just hate him with a burning passion. He has no respect for anyone or anything.
    OmegaGod OmegaGod 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I hate it so much. I can't find anything else worse than heartbreak. It's literally the worst feeling in the world. I would rather be shot or stabbed or run over by a car.
    SgtRecker06 SgtRecker06 16-17, M 6 hrs ago

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    I hate catfishes people that fake as other people it's just wrong
    lonelyme02 lonelyme02 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I hate when just because one person thinks something, the rest of society thinks or at least pretends to think it, like go suck an ***.
    mayanatasha mayanatasha 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Twats. I hate working in groups or in pairs. I would rather work alone and not have to depend on people who want me to do all the work and mess about. -.-
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F 2 Responses 50 mins ago

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    I don't hate it but at work my department manager is a complete idiot and thinks she's the only person who is right. When she would ***** at me I would just ignore it. Now I'm...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response 30 mins ago

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    Thanks, Taylor. That sounds like a great idea! "Shake It Off" "I stay out too late Got nothing in my brain That's what people say, mmm-mmm That's what people say, mmm-mmm I go on...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Today has started badly. I hate the sound of the dog, downstairs, scratching the back off the kitchen door, but that is my wake up alarm this morning. I hate the fact that he...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    No joke... I hate my school, I hate my teachers, I hate the students! I hate my family! I hate my ****** up lungs I hate my brain! I hate everyone who bully's me I hate the...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm just glad I found a place where I can say I HATE HER! I HATE HER!! I HATE HER!! I have never hated anyone in my life but I hate her!! I hate her for the way she treats me & my...
    DAK1969 DAK1969 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I hate my life, I hate my age, I hate my hair, I hate my eyes, I hate every body part I have, I hate my past decisions, I hate my current decisions, I hate my family, I hate my...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I hate my job. I didn't always hate it, but I do now and with a passion. The thing is, I really wanted this job....BAD! When I started here I worked one day a week, four hours...
    gracienglory gracienglory 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I hate my legs. I'm only 18, I have stretch marks, so much hair. They're huge, They're not tight. I can't seem to shave them right. I hate my stomach. It's big, it's pale, it's...
    leboyd leboyd 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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