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I Am Pansexual and Gender Fluid

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    I Love My Family - Told my parents two weeks ago and told my sister today about my gender fluidity. Needless to say, much confusion on their end, and many questions and me fixing...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    Definitions - OK, for those of you who haven't studied the differences between sex and gender, let me throw out some definitions for you: 1. Sex refers to a person's reproductive...
    SunnieDelite SunnieDelite 31-35, T 9 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    I've always known I was a little bit different. In the LGBT community, I've never found much support. I feel as though being gender fluid is the best way to describe myself...
    alettertoeva alettertoeva 18-21 Jan 14

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    Being Pansexual And Genderqueer - I just wanted to give a shout out to two aspects of people which I don't believe there is enough coverage or knowledge about. I never really felt...
    AllAboutLife AllAboutLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Be all the genders and be attracted to all the genders - what's not to like? You'd think with so many options I'd get lucky, but no. Still a virgin. :( Still, it's incredibly...
    NateTron NateTron 18-21, M a week ago

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    Still Fishing In The Label Sea For A Perfect Catch - I'm only 18, but I have been through a roller coaster of identities over the past few years since I realized I wasn't straight...
    Comet713 Comet713 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Gender-fluid Pansexual; An Enhanced Life Experience - I am a gender-fluid pansexual (GFP), and have been all my life, before the labels had time to catch up with me. I am male...
    bound1 bound1 41-45 Nov 20, 2011

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    Peace At Both Genders - In my life, I've pretty much established myself as being a gay FTM (female-to-male transgender), but sometimes I don't feel I belong to one set gender. Even...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 13, 2013

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    I Am Pansexual And Gender Fluid But I've Kept It A Secret From Everyone - Hey my name is 'Frankie' (not legally this is just so I could be Francesca or Francisco) and I'm 21. My...
    EnglishFrankie EnglishFrankie 22-25 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Out As Pan Closet As Fluid - I have been out as pansexual for a while now. And I've always felt gender fluid. But being gender fluid is hard. And more recently have I myself been...
    Jcat1006 Jcat1006 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    The fact that I'm pansexual is something I stumbled across quite awhile ago and had no trouble accepting, seeing as I've been raised by very open and accepting mothers, in a very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 18

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    I Am Gender Fluid And Okay With It - I live in a not strict really, but a devoted Christian household. My parents love god and don't "hate" gay people, but aren't too fond of them...
    BlackRose877 BlackRose877 16-17 Jan 16, 2013

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    There's Perks To Both Sides! - I am a man that is not content with being JUST a man. There is a girl in me. And she wants to dress frilly, shop with girls, hug and say sweet things...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 2 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    I'm asexual and panromantic and genderfluid. Not a lot of people understand all of this and it's hard. (Especially when everyone thinks I'm gay). Sometimes I feel alone and I've...
    SmplyM3 SmplyM3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I Am Confused. - Basically, this female-to-male transgender talked in my woman as hero class today about being transgender. He gave out a worksheet that had the different terms on...
    darkdaugterofpersephone darkdaugterofpersephone 18-21 4 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    Just Now Realizing - I've identified as Pansexual for about a year now, but before that I didn't know what it was. I'm also just now finding out about Genderqueer and Gender Fluid...
    BurningFlames BurningFlames 13-15 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Me - Pansexual, Polyamorous, And Genderfluid....the Rest Still An Evolving Whirling Pool Of Strange - I started in a good bible church, became a naughty kinky bastard after vo...
    tech53 tech53 26-30 4 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    So, I Just Confessed To My Friends - 3 of my best friends (2 guys, 1 girl) in fact. I let them know that I am bigendered tonight, and that I identify as a girl much of the time...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T Nov 10, 2012

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    Realized - i realized i am a strong person , which means i am a strong woman a strong man a strong in between a strong person and beautiful for all those things , i identify with...
    JelloFloor JelloFloor 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2012

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    I Came Out As Gender Fluid. - So Ryan’s the first person I’ve told. And I was so scared to. … I’m gender fluid. Ryan was surprisingly understanding, I thought he’d be...
    TheAlicat TheAlicat 16-17, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    Bisexual Seemed Right At First, Now It Just Doesn't Fit Anymore. - Ever since it first occurred to me a few years ago that just because my parents assumed and acted as though I was...
    mysterygirl13 mysterygirl13 18-21 1 Response Dec 17, 2011

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    Confuzzled - I finally figured it out. After years of struggling with my body, dysmorphia, and sexual problems, I realized that I'm genderqueer. I'm a married mother in my twenties...
    wordsand wordsand 26-30, F Mar 4, 2013

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    Growing up I was an EFFEMINATE GAY or TG (Transgender) Boi who was mostly friends with girls or other gay men who were out. Being an ADORABLE SUBMISSIVE BOTTOM/TG who really needs...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 5

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    Friends Can Be Supportive And Still Not Understand. - My name is Ashlyn. I've been out as a pansexual for a few years but im still hiding. My parents and friends, once I explained...
    Auvryani Auvryani 18-21 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Coming To Terms With My Pansexual/genderfluid Identity - I have been struggling with my sexual and gender identity my entire life. At a very young age I wanted to ware my older...
    IamJgurlyboi IamJgurlyboi 26-30 4 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    And I'm so scared to tell my parents. They think depression and anxiety are fake so I'm not sure what they'll think when I say "I'm sometimes a boy and sometimes a girl. Plus I...
    SpaceCasey SpaceCasey 16-17 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I told my mother, whom I don't have a very close relationship with, that I am Gender fluid. She told me she accepted me. Sometimes she denies that I am fluid in ways that I mostly...
    n00d13 n00d13 13-15 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a genderqueer male. more accurately, I am a bi gender, gender fluid person in a male body. I like what I have, im not complaining, its awesome, but its hard to express...
    ThrillOfTheHunt ThrillOfTheHunt 22-25 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm not sure what I am honestly. But I'm defiantly don't fit in just the female category. I'm uncomfortable the female pronouns and even being called by my birth name. It's...
    lovelyalchemy lovelyalchemy 16-17 1 Response Mar 25

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    I'm a 17 year old girl and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge...
    msdklove msdklove 18-21, F 10 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Okay I identify as pan and I've heard some people say that it means you are attracted to someone with whom you have an emotional connection, but I don't think that's quite right...
    reluctantlyreluctanthero reluctantlyreluctanthero 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I've been out for about I guess 3 years now to my family and friends. Of course I didn't know I was pansexual for a long while. At first I thought I was straight but just...
    haneko haneko 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just...
    DemonPrincessDizzy DemonPrincessDizzy 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My family does not know and neither does anyone at my school. With everyone around me saying that anything other than heterosexuality is wrong, how can I feel telling them is right...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am a feminine sissy boy bottom who just wants to get married to a masculine top who will treat me like a princess and wears the pants! I am Genderqueer or Pansexual or...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    Proud if this because for many years I thought I was M2F TS however I am TG or Genderqueer. Now that I have this figured out I need to make sure that I am seeking a Pansexual Man...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    After successfully hiding from myself my whole life the reality that I do not understand my gender identity, I have awoken in the past few years. I realise since I was a small...
    Dooogles Dooogles 36-40 3 days ago

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    I'm all for supporting people's preferences, but I don't really care for labels. Call me bisexual, call me lesbian with the one exception, call me pansexual -- whatever! I don't...
    saiyuu saiyuu 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Dating based on character and personality breaks down the limitation of gender, in my opinion. Want to date someone who's loving and caring, but is a girl? Sure! Go ahead! Not a...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to...
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    God I hate when people find out that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have used the title bisexual for almost two years as I have only been attracted to boys or girls in that time. But now I am attracted to a trans girl and am wondering whether I...
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    It is so awesome and a relief when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks...
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    For me, I've always felt different, like I didn't fit or belong. I was my parents first born daughter, and they loved their beautiful baby Bethany. My mom in particular has always...
    Shawn71090 Shawn71090 22-25 Apr 5

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    I think I'm gender queer. I'm not sure yet. I feel gender neutral or genderless, I'm not sure if they are the sane thing. These words just confuse me. I guess third person pronouns...
    RainbowDalia RainbowDalia 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Gender these and gender that. You have to look this way or that way, act these way or that way. What bunch of bull. This obsession with gender is stupid and it always been.
    ChamelonKid ChamelonKid 18-21 Mar 17

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    drlucy2 drlucy2 56-60, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to tell my friends and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards...
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 1 day ago

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    I wish I could just be me instead of being a girl. I wish people could not try to put a gender on me and expect me to act that way. Yeah, I hate the little amount of boobs that I...
    BeingInMonochrome BeingInMonochrome 16-17 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Honestly, I'm so unsure about my gender. I've started to really think about it, and I'm not completely happy with it... I'm pretty much baffled. I've never really felt like a "boy...
    quietbones quietbones 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Hello my name is Jonathan, and I am proud to say I am Genderfluid. It means even though my body and name are male, my inner self, personality and hormones are apt to change at a...
    NateTron NateTron 18-21, M a week ago