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I Am Pansexual

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    Homoeroticism makes so much sense to me.

    I know for a fact that I'm not a homosexual. My sexual attraction knows no gender.
    standinginthecorner standinginthecorner 31-35, M Apr 6

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    Does anyone come to find

    that when explaining your sexuality to someone else, they sometimes feel as though you have a sense of superiority or arrogance?
    selfinvolved selfinvolved 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I'm Pansexual. Unfortunately upon realizing

    what I was comfortable identifying as and who I was, I realized we're still in the dark. Everyone is split, either they know the term or have never heard of it. I kind of feel like we, pansexuals, aren't even recognized. There are no Pansexual support groups and I've been told...
    justgivinganswers justgivinganswers 18-21 Apr 3

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    When I was younger I'd always say I was straight

    yet I'd find myself being attracted to everyone no matter what their gender was. As I got older I noticed how wrong and uncomfortae it felt to say the words "I'm straight." Every time I said those words, I'd feel sick and like something just wasn't right. I later realized I was...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    There are way more important things to worry

    about in a person than what organs they have.
    FutileSuperiority FutileSuperiority 22-25 Apr 10

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    I can be attracted to anyone,

    girls, boys, and transgendered people.
    Dane2015 Dane2015 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Whathi Whathi 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    i thought i was bi but well it turns out im

    pansexual im learning something new every day :)
    Loveislove12 Loveislove12 16-17, T 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Gender doesn't matter to me.

    If I fall in love with a man, great. If I fall in love with a woman, then that's great too. I would never keep myself from loving someone just because of their gender.
    Good4It Good4It 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Jeanbeau Jeanbeau 18-21, F Oct 1, 2014

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I can love everyone,

    whether they are male, female, transgender, or have no assigned gender at all! There isn't really a story, it's just.... My life!
    Memmirules Memmirules 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 5

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    I love my boyfriend more

    than anything but I'm starting to miss the feeling of being with a girl. Any suggestions?
    xIdjitsx xIdjitsx 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I'm a girl, but i'm afraid to paint my nails

    the pansexual flag! I've liked a girl named Leilani and she's a lesbian but I love her. I've never told my mother or father because once when I tried to they've said it was a ''choice''. So I never told and it's eating at me. I've told my friends and they've kept it a secret...
    AlwaysSecret AlwaysSecret 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I just want a person

    who will love me, put up with my bullshit, hug me when I'm scared, make me feel important, accept me for who I am, and want to spend time with me. I don't care if they are male, female, trans-gender, pangender, or agender.
    FutileSuperiority FutileSuperiority 22-25 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm pansexual! I am blind to gender.

    I care about who you are as a person, not what your genitals are... pansexual is also not bisexual. Bisexual is liking both genders but still taking gender into consideration. I believe in love for all. Who I fall in love with is who I fall in love with. :)
    Txssa Txssa 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    i have kept my sexuality private.

    completely private... in the closet style. i only recently told my hisband of 3 years about my sexuality. he doesnt understand it but he is understanding. the problem is he seems to think its an open invitation to a 3 some... its not.
    imaginaryFRIEND3 imaginaryFRIEND3 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    I recently came our as pansexual

    and this morning when I was waiting for the train I spotted this guy I use to have a crush on and experimented with a bit when we were younger (who I also have recently been debating on contacting) and as I see him this girl started to play "You're so beautiful" the coming out...
    jackcage3 jackcage3 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    When I came out as pansexual people were like

    "So basically bisexual?" Do you have wax in your ear? I'm PANSEXUAL. P-A-N-S-E-X-U-A-L. It is not the same!!!!
    WolfKomoki WolfKomoki 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have always known i was different.

    Growing up my crushes consisted over both genders but it wasn't about their physical being more like i loved their personality. Love is love and nothing as silly as gender should stop you from loving who you love :)
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    I've been in the healthiest relationship I have

    ever been in for the past year and a half with cis male. and because of that I've grown as a person, I've found a lot of myself and have actually become comfortable in my own skin. Because of that I now know I am a pansexual, I'm a pansexual who is in a relationship with someone...
    liberteriangeek liberteriangeek 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    There's a lot of sexy,

    fabulous people out there... I couldn't possibly pick just one gender!
    KittyCunt KittyCunt 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I thought I was bisexual at first

    because I like males and females, but then I realized that gender doesn't matter to me, and I'm not going to date someone based on their gender, or lack of gender
    ThePanCheshire ThePanCheshire 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    I came out as Pansexual to my grandmother last

    night. around 1am actually. Im not sure how she feels about it. But she says she loves me no matter what I do in life as long as I'm happy. I'm glad she understands unlike a lot of people I know who don't. 'If they truelly love you. They'll love you no matter what you do...
    Rithiam Rithiam 13-15, F Mar 19

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    Hey people, I used to think I was bisexual

    for a few years so I came out as bisexual but then on Friday I was playing this game with my mate and then someone said they were pansexual. So i researched upon it and now I realised that I am in fact a pansexual. Wooooooo.
    JoshKilbride JoshKilbride 13-15, M Mar 21

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    every day people question me upon my sexuality

    and every time i say i am pansexual people tell me im not im just "bisexual" im pretty sure if i was bisexual i would identify as so so why tell me what i am
    haileybriggs haileybriggs 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Just want a guy to wrap his arms around me

    tight enough so I can kiss him 4everrr
    PunsexualChris PunsexualChris 16-17, M Mar 23

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Hello..just Making An Introduction :>)

    My name is Vanessa. I am a 35 year old female. There are so many labels anymore but I guess this is the one that I fit most accurately into. I would like to chat with people like myself. Some part of me is confused. I have had trouble connecting with just one sex in all the ways...
    butterflyz2726 butterflyz2726 31-35, F 27 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    I am a 19 year old pansexual cis female.

    I've been dating my partner for about 2 years now, and I think we've hit a crossroads. He is a cis, hetero man with some harsh experiences in his past. While I know that I am in love with him, I didn't discover who I was until we entered into a relationship. I was freshly 18...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 20

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