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I Am Pansexual

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    It's sometimes nerve racking

    when you find too many people that are hot and you don't know what to do lol
    Comicfangirl15 Comicfangirl15 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    PrincessAlora97 PrincessAlora97 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2015

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    i pretty much swing in every direction,

    i like men, women and transsexuals
    Lewlou98xxx Lewlou98xxx 16-17, M Dec 17, 2015

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    how come everyone is super hot and,

    oh yeah. of course. they're SUPER STRAIGHT.
    Montana1Tanner2 Montana1Tanner2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    FeelsTrain FeelsTrain 18-21, F Jan 1

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    I have know I wasn't straight

    for a long time. I found out I was pansexual when I was around 15 16 and my parents kicked me out because of it when I told them.
    Alexismarie9314 Alexismarie9314 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2015

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    I have been pansexual

    since I was about 11 and sometimes it's so irritating. Like, I have a crush on my friend, but she has a girlfriend. Well, I guess that's life.
    batmanlucy batmanlucy 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2015

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    Soooooo I'm trying to come out to my parents.

    .. I'm trying to subtly tell them what pan means so I'm randomly bursting out into random sentences like "PANGEA. Let's break that down PAN mean ALL..." Aaand right now I'm making a slide show that explains what pan is and gender and all that good stuff... In addition to that...
    RachelDare RachelDare 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    people think that being pansexual means you

    aren't lonely for long because your interested in all types of people, but that definitely isn't true. it is actually quite lonely......
    Montana1Tanner2 Montana1Tanner2 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    reesekitty14 reesekitty14 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    24 years old and never been in a relationship

    and trying to explain my identity to people is an absolute nightmare! It's always the "You've never dated, how do you know?" "Isn't that bisexual?" Blah blah blah. Have tips on how to explain this? Meeting other pans too would be great!
    BettyHart BettyHart 22-25, F Jan 9

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    When I was growing up,

    the term pansexual may have existed, but it was rarely used. I've never bothered to try and explain my identity to anyone. I suppose that was easier back in the days before computers ruled the world. I would simply go out... and meet people I found interesting... My friends...
    ColeKarjalinen ColeKarjalinen 31-35, T 2 Responses Jan 9

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    So when I was in junior high I realized I liked

    girls. Then like my senior year of high school and college I started to find more people like me and I found myself attracted to guys as well. This was weird for me because saying boyfriend was strange so I kept saying I was a lesbian. I realized that I cant hide from myself and...
    jando304 jando304 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 2, 2015

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 36-40 5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Anyone else feels internalized homophobia

    sometimes? Because usually I'm very proud of my sexuality, but I grew up in a very conservative environment and it's not easy to forget all the things you hear your uncles and aunties say ??????
    NaoVera NaoVera 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I've come out to my significant others,

    a couple friends and my siblings. So far everyone I've come out to has said "Yeah, I'm not surprised" Thanks guys.. I'm so damn predictable.
    GlitterJules GlitterJules 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2015

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    There is a tshirt that says: Pansexual pirate

    likes all kinds of booty. I desperately need this shirt.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

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    I am shocked that as of writing this,

    nobody has asked me "Why are you attracted to pans?" ~ Lys ♪
    LysChan LysChan 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2015

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    I consider myself more omnisexual

    than pan, but regardless, I believe that it's okay for me to love everyone and anyone, even if sometimes I want to be involved with one gender more than another.
    ryuichibecca ryuichibecca 16-17 1 Response Jan 7

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    anyone up for a chat?

    super bored
    FeelsTrain FeelsTrain 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2015

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    I've known I wasn't straight

    since middle school, and last night, while very quite drunk, I came out to my closest friend. I never came out to anyone before and even though she said it was fine I don't think she's okay with it.
    KindOfPoisonous1 KindOfPoisonous1 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2015

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    Hello people, I'm 15 years old,

    male, (turning 16 in five days), from Denmark, and I'm looking for a close friendship or a relationship. I'm really tired of the daily life, which has gotten me so depressed as well as bad experiences with long-distance relationships even though I do believe they can work. I...
    xHeartbeatz xHeartbeatz 16-17, M Jan 12

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    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 5, 2015

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    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    TheRogueWolf TheRogueWolf 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Oh my goodness I am so tired of hearing the

    misconceptions about pansexuality. It is a real orientation and it has nothing to do with pans or other cookware. Pansexuality only applies to people. We don't screw plants, animals or objects. But either way I am proud to be pansexual!! 😊 I also wish they had LGBT flags on...
    reesekitty14 reesekitty14 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I fall in love with peoples personality's

    and heart not just looks, I believe looks do not define who you are, your heart, soul and personality does, I have no sexuality I have no label, I love whoever steels my heart.
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 30, 2015

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    Am sure alot of the people I was romantically

    linked with in the past would be dumbfounded and disgusted by this revelation. Truth is, you can't help who you fall for.
    RogueLogic2 RogueLogic2 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2015

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    i dont know if I have the 'right' to call

    myself pansexual, but I do get attracted by people regardless of their sexuality and gender. I just dont care about the way they look at all.. I couldnt care less about their natural beauty, because its not something you get to decide. I do find appearence somewhat important but...
    xHeartbeatz xHeartbeatz 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    For a year or two I have been struggling

    so much with my sexuality. I first always thought I was straight until I had mad crushes on guys at some point. I still had attraction to girls but decided to ignore guys and thought it was just a one time thing and concentrated as much as I could on girls. I think that at that...
    ErenBombastic ErenBombastic 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2015

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    Told a friend that I'm pan tonight

    and her response was, "Oh, which gender that you prefer then?" *facepalm* It doesnt work like that. Sometimes it's sad how little people know about pansexuality. :(
    restartingit restartingit 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2015

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    I've pretty much been Pansexual

    since I was ten. At first I thought I was just bisexual. I like to explore though, haha. It sounds disturbing, I know.
    victoria0317 victoria0317 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2015

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 19 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    So, yea. This is the first time

    that I am admitting this to anyone. I don't care about gender. Honestly, this is the first time that I'm admitting this to myself. Until this year, I was a Christian. I was having a hard time believing in some of the values that the bible held, and have finally put that all...
    ChrystopherZero ChrystopherZero 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    I've always felt a certain way about love.

    That has never changed. But, I have rather realized that I am not straight. I feel like personality matters, that that is the ruling part to fall in love and an important part in sexual attraction. I could label myself with demisexual, pan, heteroflexible or bi or like 30 other...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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