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I Am Pansexual

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    There's a lot of sexy,

    fabulous people out there... I couldn't possibly pick just one gender!
    KittyCunt KittyCunt 18-21, F Mar 31

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    That's me XD I get a lot of people saying "well

    you don't look like you'd be that way" okay how about I just paint myself rainbow? I accept everyone no matter how they choose to be =] and for people that don't know what a pansexual is it's a person who dates guys,girls,and those who are transgender............. Regardless of...
    Imkenzie1010 Imkenzie1010 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I recently came out to my parents

    and I'm so happy that they accept it
    RoryHerondale RoryHerondale 13-15, M 1 Response May 4

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    I thought I was bisexual at first

    because I like males and females, but then I realized that gender doesn't matter to me, and I'm not going to date someone based on their gender, or lack of gender
    ThePanCheshire ThePanCheshire 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    im not attracted to your face,

    or hair, or lack thereof, I am not attracted to your boobs or butt. I am not attracted to your pot belly or your washboard abs. All those things are great, and yes they are beautiful, bit what attracts me if YOU. who you are in side. The you that has nothing to do with your...
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2014

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    When I came out as pansexual people were like

    "So basically bisexual?" Do you have wax in your ear? I'm PANSEXUAL. P-A-N-S-E-X-U-A-L. It is not the same!!!!
    WolfKomoki WolfKomoki 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    Alright, I don't know how to say this.

    .. I think I am Pan, but then at the same time think I am bi and gay. At first I thought I was straight, but then after some experience a few years ago I realized I must be Bi...but now I am not sure? I like guys more than girls, and don't particularly feel attractions towards...
    UnsureOfMyself UnsureOfMyself 13-15, M May 10

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    I recently came our as pansexual

    and this morning when I was waiting for the train I spotted this guy I use to have a crush on and experimented with a bit when we were younger (who I also have recently been debating on contacting) and as I see him this girl started to play "You're so beautiful" the coming out...
    jackcage3 jackcage3 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    I've been in the healthiest relationship I have

    ever been in for the past year and a half with cis male. and because of that I've grown as a person, I've found a lot of myself and have actually become comfortable in my own skin. Because of that I now know I am a pansexual, I'm a pansexual who is in a relationship with someone...
    liberteriangeek liberteriangeek 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I fall in love with peoples personality's

    and heart not just looks, I believe looks do not define who you are, your heart, soul and personality does, I have no sexuality I have no label, I love whoever steels my heart.
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    iRot iRot 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    to me, it dosent matter

    if you are a boy or a girl. If you treat me good, and show me love; you'll get the same back. I dont care what gender you are.
    macibabyy macibabyy 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I just want a person

    who will love me, put up with my bullshit, hug me when I'm scared, make me feel important, accept me for who I am, and want to spend time with me. I don't care if they are male, female, trans-gender, pangender, or agender.
    FutileSuperiority FutileSuperiority 22-25 1 Response Apr 8

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    i have kept my sexuality private.

    completely private... in the closet style. i only recently told my hisband of 3 years about my sexuality. he doesnt understand it but he is understanding. the problem is he seems to think its an open invitation to a 3 some... its not.
    imaginaryFRIEND3 imaginaryFRIEND3 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I'm indeed gay. I would label myself

    as pans XD The ones Tht catch my attention are the mature, funny, cute, cool types. I go for the personality rather than looks regardless gender. Looks are just a bonus lel
    Sonchezz Sonchezz 13-15, F May 12

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 21 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    Hello..just Making An Introduction :>)

    My name is Vanessa. I am a 35 year old female. There are so many labels anymore but I guess this is the one that I fit most accurately into. I would like to chat with people like myself. Some part of me is confused. I have had trouble connecting with just one sex in all the ways...
    butterflyz2726 butterflyz2726 31-35, F 26 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    I'm gay, but i guess i would consider myself

    also pansexual due to my experiences of not seeming to care who i'm with in life.
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F May 9

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    I'm pansexual! I am blind to gender.

    I care about who you are as a person, not what your genitals are... pansexual is also not bisexual. Bisexual is liking both genders but still taking gender into consideration. I believe in love for all. Who I fall in love with is who I fall in love with. :)
    Txssa Txssa 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    There are way more important things to worry

    about in a person than what organs they have.
    FutileSuperiority FutileSuperiority 22-25 Apr 10

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    I am a 19 year old pansexual cis female.

    I've been dating my partner for about 2 years now, and I think we've hit a crossroads. He is a cis, hetero man with some harsh experiences in his past. While I know that I am in love with him, I didn't discover who I was until we entered into a relationship. I was freshly 18...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    Gender doesn't matter to me.

    If I fall in love with a man, great. If I fall in love with a woman, then that's great too. I would never keep myself from loving someone just because of their gender.
    DamnDeathEaters DamnDeathEaters 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    "Mom, I'm pansexual" "what is that?

    you're a lesbian?" "Just forget it"
    SarahiK SarahiK 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    A lot of people message me asking what

    pansexual is so I decided to make a post with the google definition. Not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity. So basically, I am gender blind.
    myahLynn03 myahLynn03 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    Homoeroticism makes so much sense to me.

    I know for a fact that I'm not a homosexual. My sexual attraction knows no gender.
    standinginthecorner standinginthecorner 31-35, M Apr 6

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    When I was younger I'd always say I was straight

    yet I'd find myself being attracted to everyone no matter what their gender was. As I got older I noticed how wrong and uncomfortae it felt to say the words "I'm straight." Every time I said those words, I'd feel sick and like something just wasn't right. I later realized I was...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    I have always known i was different.

    Growing up my crushes consisted over both genders but it wasn't about their physical being more like i loved their personality. Love is love and nothing as silly as gender should stop you from loving who you love :)
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    Where I live, people are too stupid to get what

    this is. especially the head doctors. I was looking for one, and they asked about it... I said that gender is irrelevant in who I'm attached to... when they tired to follow up asking if I was gay or strait, I stood up and walked out.
    piebackwards piebackwards 26-30, F May 9

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I can love everyone,

    whether they are male, female, transgender, or have no assigned gender at all! There isn't really a story, it's just.... My life!
    Memmirules Memmirules 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    I'm a girl, but i'm afraid to paint my nails

    the pansexual flag! I've liked a girl named Leilani and she's a lesbian but I love her. I've never told my mother or father because once when I tried to they've said it was a ''choice''. So I never told and it's eating at me. I've told my friends and they've kept it a secret...
    AlwaysSecret AlwaysSecret 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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