I Am Pansexual

Fluidity is key. 2,860 People

    i dont know if I have the 'right' to call

    myself pansexual, but I do get attracted by people regardless of their sexuality and gender. I just dont care about the way they look at all.. I couldnt care less about their natural beauty, because its not something you get to decide. I do find appearence somewhat important but...
    xHeartbeatz xHeartbeatz
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 31

    I am a pan-romantic asexual.

    I am also married and have 3 kids. And I live in the Deep South.
    caseygirl90 caseygirl90
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 24

    I don't love a gender.

    .. I love a people for who they really are! What they carry in their pants means nothing to me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    so yea this is true about me

    but i always end up like in the song Robyn Dancing on my own
    peeingbikini peeingbikini
    22-25, T
    Apr 4

    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    TheRogueWolf TheRogueWolf
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

    I feel like I'm both a genius

    and an idiot right now! So I was thinking. Jeez why is the pan flag a rainbow since we like the whole gender spectrum? BUT YA KNOW WHAT YOURE BUDDY RACHEL HERE CRACKED THE CODE Either that or I'm just crazy and misinterpreted this... So the pan flag is originally pink, yellow...
    RachelDare RachelDare
    16-17
    3 Responses Feb 22

    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri
    36-40
    5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

    I've come out to my significant others,

    a couple friends and my siblings. So far everyone I've come out to has said "Yeah, I'm not surprised" Thanks guys.. I'm so damn predictable.
    GlitterJules GlitterJules
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2015

    to me, it dosent matter

    if you are a boy or a girl. If you treat me good, and show me love; you'll get the same back. I dont care what gender you are.
    macibabyy macibabyy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 19, 2012

    Being Pansexual is a little tough

    when you're living in a conservative little country town..... I mean the people are nice and not rude... But, there are a few that get a little aggressive. The worst part is the stares I guess.... Being stared down by people when you're holding your ftm boyfriend's hand is a...
    Smolpan Smolpan
    16-17, F
    Feb 8

    it's hard to be pan with a very Christian mom.

    I can't tell her or else she will send me off to those camps that make you straight or send me to get 'help'. I wish she was like other parents that are with it and not against it.
    UnknownPredictions UnknownPredictions
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Mar 5

    I am, but could it be

    that this is why the boy I loved and the girl I have a crush on both were/are my best friends. They are 2 of three persons I've ever really got to know that well. The only personalities I've ever got to know all of.
    attaboywolfie attaboywolfie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 15

    There is a tshirt that says: Pansexual pirate

    likes all kinds of booty. I desperately need this shirt.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

    So when I was in junior high I realized I liked

    girls. Then like my senior year of high school and college I started to find more people like me and I found myself attracted to guys as well. This was weird for me because saying boyfriend was strange so I kept saying I was a lesbian. I realized that I cant hide from myself and...
    jando304 jando304
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 11, 2014

    anyone in Fort Lauderdale Florida looking

    for a triad relationship with a man and woman?
    PicklesAndPie PicklesAndPie
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 27
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 23, 2015
    fh03 fh03
    22-25, T
    Mar 15

    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy
    18-21, F
    Jun 22, 2014

    I am just open, really really open.

    Hearts not parts, I don't limit love ❤️
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 15
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 30

    Sadly, i can't come out to my parents

    because it's against their religious beliefs. My dad would kick me out and my mom is against it. My cousins are too. My whole family is religious about their beliefs and they think it's a choice. My dad says he loves me to death but because of my sexuality, he would kick me out...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 12

    I've always felt a certain way about love.

    That has never changed. But, I have rather realized that I am not straight. I feel like personality matters, that that is the ruling part to fall in love and an important part in sexual attraction. I could label myself with demisexual, pan, heteroflexible or bi or like 30 other...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf
    18-21, F
    Jan 29

    I feel like I might not come out about my

    pansexual asexual until I'm in college my parents scare the hell out of me. Why they scare me you ask?: they hate gays and hardcore religious people
    Comicfangirl15 Comicfangirl15
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 6

    It's sometimes nerve racking

    when you find too many people that are hot and you don't know what to do lol
    Comicfangirl15 Comicfangirl15
    16-17, F
    Jan 24

    Soooooo I'm trying to come out to my parents.

    .. I'm trying to subtly tell them what pan means so I'm randomly bursting out into random sentences like "PANGEA. Let's break that down PAN mean ALL..." Aaand right now I'm making a slide show that explains what pan is and gender and all that good stuff... In addition to that...
    RachelDare RachelDare
    16-17
    3 Responses Jan 24

    I'm happy that I am pansexual

    because at least I know I have a huge selection of future potential mates lol.
    UtsukushiApples UtsukushiApples
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    I have know I wasn't straight

    for a long time. I found out I was pansexual when I was around 15 16 and my parents kicked me out because of it when I told them.
    Alexismarie9314 Alexismarie9314
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    It completely sucks being a gender

    that most people in society sees as a joke. It's even worse when I have to stay in the closet with it. Problem still prefer natural women the most
    LonelyinBmore LonelyinBmore
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 20
    InfiniteUniverse14 InfiniteUniverse14
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 21

    I've known since I was a preteen,

    I was 13. I was attracted to men, women, trans men, trans women etc. it wasn't just boys for me. I remember my mom asked if I wanted a boyfriend cause I wasn't dating anyone, I was just happy with my books, movies and games. I just smiled and told her no. my mother is Catholic...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 15

    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337
    31-35, T
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2013
    SpontaneousRecoveryLovely SpontaneousRecoveryLovely
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2015

    I wish I could find someone

    who loves me... I was always interested in cliche romances, though my romantic life was always a failure. I had two boyfriends before, though both of them are jackasses... And now that I identify as pansexual, everyone avoids me like some sort of freak.
    TheRealOutsider TheRealOutsider
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    That's me XD I get a lot of people saying "well

    you don't look like you'd be that way" okay how about I just paint myself rainbow? I accept everyone no matter how they choose to be =] and for people that don't know what a pansexual is it's a person who dates guys,girls,and those who are transgender............. Regardless of...
    Imkenzie1010 Imkenzie1010
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Am I? am I not? that's the question.

    .. or is it..? well I'm not sure, for I came out as bi in January. But now, I question it, oh so much, well, I don't really care about gender... I mean, I wouldn't mind dating a transgender at all, and all other sexualities as well...but... ? I think that as long as you are a...
    JeSuisAmira JeSuisAmira
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Apr 16

    For a year or two I have been struggling

    so much with my sexuality. I first always thought I was straight until I had mad crushes on guys at some point. I still had attraction to girls but decided to ignore guys and thought it was just a one time thing and concentrated as much as I could on girls. I think that at that...
    ErenBombastic ErenBombastic
    16-17, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    people think that being pansexual means you

    aren't lonely for long because your interested in all types of people, but that definitely isn't true. it is actually quite lonely......
    Montana1Tanner2 Montana1Tanner2
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 23

    I am 15 and I live in Louisiana (otherwise know

    as hell for all people LGBT+) My parents are cool with my sexuality but I want to tell more people, I'm just too scared to right now though. I like to play Minecraft and Undertale, I love art and books. My favorite color is blue. If you ever want to talk to me your best bet to...
    brosis8 brosis8
    13-15, F
    Mar 27

    I think I am at least.

    I know for a fact that I'm at least bi. Idk I'm just rambling now Msg me if u want.
    EvanRLC EvanRLC
    13-15, M
    Mar 22

    I've known I wasn't straight

    since I was 7 when I had a dream about making out with Katy Perry(I was a weird kid). At first I thought I was bisexual, but then after meeting a bunch of amazing people and doing some research, I found the category I fit most into. Pansexual. It annoys me to know that not many...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 21

    The hard thing about being pan is

    that when you like someone of the same gender they are usually straight.
    UnknownPredictions UnknownPredictions
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 6

    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    reesekitty14 reesekitty14
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2014

    when I was 14 I fell in love with my online

    girl friend and started to think that I'm by. But the elder I became the most confused I got. I liked man as well as woman, I liked people online didn't know are they girls or boys, I liked trans people... When I've get 16, i've knew about gender and all the things, so I was...
    nyanyona nyanyona
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 31

    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 15

    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    17 Responses Apr 21, 2009

    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jan 27, 2014

    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    I always had troubles scocialy,

    in school and out. I never quite fit into any sort of sterotype, so I was constantly bullied. I was bullied so much that in 3rd grade, my mom pulled me out of school and I was homeschooled for the next 3 years. In 6th grade, I was trying to fit in, (and failing miserably) tryinh...
    DropsOfSadness DropsOfSadness
    13-15, F
    Apr 2

    I fall in love with peoples personality's

    and heart not just looks, I believe looks do not define who you are, your heart, soul and personality does, I have no sexuality I have no label, I love whoever steels my heart.
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 30, 2015
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