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I Am Pansexual

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    I have always known i was different.

    Growing up my crushes consisted over both genders but it wasn't about their physical being more like i loved their personality. Love is love and nothing as silly as gender should stop you from loving who you love :)
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    Who isn't? I have female friends,

    that are married and have been forever, that say things like, yeah so is so is blah, blah, blah, but DAMN, she has such a CUTE ***! And my dudes have said, yo, I'm not gay or nothing like that, but that's a good looking man! It's okay!!! We all have these feelings. It's...
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    True Love Is of the Soul, Not the Body

    I've always been an open and accepting person. Honest to a fault in some peoples' opinions. I first started to realise I might be not just hetero when I was about 13. I had this best friend who was hot, had curtains hairstyle xD And his skin was nice and soft, I kept getting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 7, 2008

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    tummytum tummytum 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sweet guy who really wants to find a masculine

    top man who could love me and treat me like a princess, bottom, and wife!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    I'm 19 going on 20, and recently discovered

    that I'm pansexual. I've known the term for quite some time, but I always considered myself bisexual, plus, I had a misconception (at first) of what exactly pansexuality was. So I had been going back and forth and I got a bit confused, but ultimately I would date anyone I liked...
    SkyQuill SkyQuill 18-21, F Feb 21

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    Pretty sissy boi needs a man to make me his

    princess and keep me safe from harm!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 2 days ago

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    I've been out for about I guess 3 years

    now to my family and friends. Of course I didn't know I was pansexual for a long while. At first I thought I was straight but just appreciative of the female figure. Then I figured out after I kissed a girl for the first time that I actually was very attracted to females and...
    haneko haneko 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I just have to say that 1.

    I'm panromantic, but understand. 2. I REALLY like the picture to this experience. HE'S PLAYING A PAN FLUTE PEOPLE!!! Tee hee
    SmplyM3 SmplyM3 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    "Does That Mean You Like Everything?"

    *pinches nose* This is why I say I like girls and guys. Don't feel like explaining. Only one girl knows the struggle, and she's also a Pansexual. I like people, doesn't matter about gender or race. Hearts not parts 💖💛💙
    saglife69 saglife69 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Boy or Girl Short or Tall Fat

    or Skinny Young or Old. I like your personality that's all that matters. I fall in love with people I don't mean to fall in love with just bc they are such amazing people. I just want a relationship with someone who feels the exact same way that I feel.
    LifesATripp LifesATripp 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I've never really fallen in love with gender.

    It's always been about their heart and personality. When i first told my parents that i wasnt straight they grounded me and told md to break up with my girlfriend. Since then ive had to hide my crushes and significant others. Though its not fair to them they understand how my...
    haydenwolfe haydenwolfe 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    And proud! Don't feel the need to hide it.

    Or even label it most of the time, but pan is the closest to how I feel. My friends are all great with it! And it means my girlfriend and I spend hours talking about which avenger is hottest. It rocks!
    Lunaselene Lunaselene 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Men. Women. TS's. We are ALL humans.

    And we all have our preferences. Mine just happen to have.......
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M Apr 10

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    I know I could fall in love with anyone,

    regardless of physical gender. I don't see gender, I see people. If I love you, I love you, nothing else matters.
    theshelbs theshelbs 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    This is the truth. Who cares

    if you're a girl or boy? Who cares if you're bi, gay, lesbo, trans etc, etc??? Who cares if you're black or white? Who cares if you're short or tall? Who cares if you're big or thin? Who cares if you're old or younger? Who cares if you are on your dying bed and only have 3...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16

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    That's right ;) haha.

    I'm pansexual and i'm a really open minded and accepting person. I'm learning to overcome my insecurities, and it's pretty damn great.
    Juliathepainter Juliathepainter 16-17, F Feb 20

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    I don't put labels on myself.

    My main attraction are men but I find myself wanting to connect with a woman emotionally and sexually also. I am open to sexuality of both genders. I am not a lesbian or bisexual. I used to consider myself bisexual but now I don't put any labels on it. But if I had to put a...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    My family does not know

    and neither does anyone at my school. With everyone around me saying that anything other than heterosexuality is wrong, how can I feel telling them is right. It hurts me and pains me like I'm dying from the inside. I don't know for sure if anyone else out there in my environment...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am happily pansexual.

    To me, it's not seeing race, gender, or other things that could make people less desirable. I just fall or crush on people. It doesn't matter.
    ClonedGuat ClonedGuat 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I have used the title bisexual

    for almost two years as I have only been attracted to boys or girls in that time. But now I am attracted to a trans girl and am wondering whether I am pansexual. I am not worried about my sexuality as much as I am worried about what people who have just started to accept me as...
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    I meant to add that I also found out I was

    pansexual these last years.
    naysgirmonkeybutt naysgirmonkeybutt 13-15 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I am pansexual. I wish to find someone based on

    how good we are together, and gender doesn't make much of a difference to me.
    OatsAndBeans OatsAndBeans 16-17 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Call Me What You Will, I'm Nothing But Myself.

    Yes I'm 16 and yes I'm pansexual.. People are always telling me I'm "just trying to fit in" or its wrong. I honestly don't care what anyone thinks about it I know who i am, do i struggle yes! But that's all part of being human<3 I could seriously love anyone, I like boys yes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    My family does not know

    but everyone else does and I am actually proud of my sexuality. My family though are really horrible homophobics, but its my life not theres :)
    Armani346 Armani346 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    DemonPrincessDizzy DemonPrincessDizzy 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    The difference between pansexual

    and bisexual couldn't be any more obvious to me than at present, which is why I am astounded sometimes at the ignorance of others to this concept. Generally speaking, bisexuals only feel an attraction to two varieties of people, and more often than not, the categories are men...
    SourPennies SourPennies 18-21 Mar 4

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    I LOVE BEING PANSEXUAL FUNNY THING IS PPL SAY

    BEING PANSEXUAL IS A JOKE. ODD THING IS MY VERSION OF PANSEXUAL DOESNT MATCH TO ANYONE ELES CAUSE I DONT CARR HOW YOU LOOK PHYSICALLY NOR CARE ABOUT GENDER.
    MIMIEMOUSE MIMIEMOUSE 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 4 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    I'm pansexual and really couldn't care less

    about anyone's opinion. (:
    DezSheeran DezSheeran 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    My Pilot Story

    I am a floater. I try to be kind to anyone who is kind to me. I never had a best friend until my junior year in high school- *Zoey*. Once senior year rolled around I realized I had developed feelings towards her. A stronger love than one may feel towards a best friend. Nothing...
    knablec17 knablec17 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    FalonWolf FalonWolf 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So, I Read This The Other Day:

    "Why Pansexual and Bisexual are not the same thing To assert that pan and bi are the same thing is to assert that there are only two genders and/or sexes to possibly be attracted to. This is incorrect. Many people fall outside of the gender binary (e.g. genderqueer, agendered...
    ilikecakes ilikecakes 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    14 And Proud.

    Im alex and I'm 14 years old. For a long time I thought I was only bisexual for a really long time, but it always seemed i was becoming atiavited to FTM transgenders also. Most people dont know what pansexual means so many kids at my school just think im bisexual. Its just more...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    So, I plan on coming out.

    .. Eventually... Yeah right. Honestly, I'm to much of a coward to come out, or even think about it. If there is any advice, I'd be super grateful! I really wish I could... But my best friends and even family are all super religious. Don't get me wrong, I'm a Christian but.. I am...
    CarelessCupcakes CarelessCupcakes 13-15, F 11 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Okay I identify as pan

    and I've heard some people say that it means you are attracted to someone with whom you have an emotional connection, but I don't think that's quite right. Mostly people say that it's being attracted to people regardless of gender, but the emotional connection part comes up a...
    reluctantlyreluctanthero reluctantlyreluctanthero 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Dating based on character

    and personality breaks down the limitation of gender, in my opinion. Want to date someone who's loving and caring, but is a girl? Sure! Go ahead! Not a big deal. It's great. I feel no limitations on who to date now, besides the standard 'is he/she/non-binary/whatever pronoun...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I never saw gender or skin colors

    and still can't when it comes to attraction at all. I either want you, or don't. Period.
    CaptureEverything CaptureEverything 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Confusing

    I'm 15. I think of myself as pansexual. But honestly I have no idea.. I love emotional and physical connections, with anyone. I've always been a touchy person that always touches or hugs or holds hand or even kiss! I also love getting to know someone. Knowing their secrets, fears...
    unknown1998 unknown1998 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    msdklove msdklove 18-21, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Related Experiences

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    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 5

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    The thing is, it's hard to put a label to my sexuality because it is fluid, as I believe all sexuality should be. For starters, I believe in there being a difference between...
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    Ok really I'm Pansexual but I love men a lot more than everyone else and that's who I am. To all the people who will tell me I'm "too young and don't know what I want," shut up. I...
    Aqua999amazing Aqua999amazing 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Everyone should watch this video gay, straight, lesbian, bi, pansexual ANYONE!!! The first hug http://youtu.be/j1WEtFFPVBU
    Wynnieskye Wynnieskye 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20