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I Am Pansexual

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    Someone's sexuality orientation shouldn't hold

    you back from having a relationship with them. I don't love someone because of their gender. Instead, I love someone because of who they are as a individual.
    LRawkward LRawkward 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    The way I see it: Straight people have a line

    that is perfectly linear. Gay people have a line that is curved. My line just happens to be really bumpy. Its wavy, fluid, and crazy. My line is ever changing and it likes you for you. ;)
    Brazylzebub Brazylzebub 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Yesterday my dad confronted me about my

    sexuality. I explained that I'm pan and went into detail what it means, he then said "so your bi", I explained again. He said he wawas going to go research on this before we discuss it again.
    ThatRobotChick ThatRobotChick 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    biwolfgurl69 biwolfgurl69 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I told my dad the biggest homophobic I know

    and he accepted me and i think i made him rethink everything he once said about gays. HE ACCEPTED ME!!! EEEEE
    sealare sealare 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I am still attempting to accept myself.

    I realized at age 12 (which was 3 years ago), that I was attracted to females, as well as males. I thought I was absolutely crazy. I felt so ashamed and so wrong. I just assumed that I was bisexual, and that was it. I realized last year that, it really doesn't matter to me if...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I honestly think that being pansexual is harder

    than any other sexuality, because you are gay,lesbian, or even bisexual. People understand and can come up with an insult! :D Just kidding. I honestly don't know what to expect being this way!
    Loopiee Loopiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    It's really difficult to come out

    as pan because even members of the lgbt community don't understand it or aren't familiar with it. I sometimes feel like they don't consider pansexuality a sexuality.
    lizzay323 lizzay323 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    That's me XD I get a lot of people saying "well

    you don't look like you'd be that way" okay how about I just paint myself rainbow? I accept everyone no matter how they choose to be =] and for people that don't know what a pansexual is it's a person who dates guys,girls,and those who are transgender............. Regardless of...
    Imkenzie1010 Imkenzie1010 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    There is a tshirt that says: Pansexual pirate

    likes all kinds of booty. I desperately need this shirt.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    It was very stressful

    and very difficult for me to choose an identity for myself. For a while I didn't put a label on myself and it felt wrong. We're so accustomed to putting labels on everything. I wanted to find my community. I've always found myself more attracted to personalities rather than...
    lizzay323 lizzay323 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 5

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    It took me a lot of time to think about my

    sexuality I mean I always try to avoid this topic for the reason that my parents wouldn't accept me for who I am, and I really love them but I don't want them to feel ashamed of me, I don't know what to do.
    ykumiko75 ykumiko75 26-30, T 1 Response Jul 10

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    I used to identify as bisexual

    but in the past year I've begone to identify more as pansexual. It's been kind of difficult because people really don't understand what pansexual and there's really a lot of people out there that have never even heard of pansexual before. Part of it is frustrating and another...
    ShyButterfly04 ShyButterfly04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    im not attracted to your face,

    or hair, or lack thereof, I am not attracted to your boobs or butt. I am not attracted to your pot belly or your washboard abs. All those things are great, and yes they are beautiful, bit what attracts me if YOU. who you are in side. The you that has nothing to do with your...
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2014

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    I always thought I was just Bi.

    but I really never cared about gender or sexualites. Love is love, to me all I really care about is who the person is, how they express themselves, what they believe in, their goals and ambitions. what makes them, them. Thanks what I care about, sure I get my cravings of either...
    novawriter8 novawriter8 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I recently (a few days ago) accepted

    that I'm pansexual. Although I'm 18 I have never been in a relationship with anyone, so discovering myself has been hard. I am attracted to masculinity, this is true and if it was the only true thing then I'd be straight. However, its not. Although, I am attracted to masculinity...
    Brazylzebub Brazylzebub 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I think the thing i hate most is

    when people say .... "why dont you just say your bi?" usually i just give up and tell ppl when they ask.. "so are you gay or bi?" "I prefer Unicorn."
    EvaLolita EvaLolita 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    to me, it dosent matter

    if you are a boy or a girl. If you treat me good, and show me love; you'll get the same back. I dont care what gender you are.
    macibabyy macibabyy 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I feel like the lgbt doesn't really include us

    they don't really represent us
    spiritualvirgo82 spiritualvirgo82 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 26

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    I see everyone being confident

    and coming out . I'm happy for them but then I ask myself : "Why can't I be like that."
    orileonx orileonx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    My boyfriend is totally supportive!

    For that I am thankful!
    LayWithFate LayWithFate 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    seekre seekre 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    My friend used to always send me pictures he

    photo-shopped of kitchenware wearing lingerie.
    LittlePrincess24 LittlePrincess24 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    biwolfgurl69 biwolfgurl69 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I recently came out at bisexual

    because it was easier to explain than pansexual, but I truthfully identify as pansexual.. I want to let people know but some people don't even understand the term!
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I am a genderfluid person

    who is poly or pan sexual a gray asexual that's also gay and to clear that part up biologically female. I know it's confusing and very complicated and many people don't understand me. but there's honestly no other way to put it without going into detail that isn't needed.
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 1 Response Jul 11

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    I fall in love with peoples personality's

    and heart not just looks, I believe looks do not define who you are, your heart, soul and personality does, I have no sexuality I have no label, I love whoever steels my heart.
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    But I have not told many people

    because I fear rejection from my family
    rina321 rina321 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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