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I Am Pansexual

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    And I am tired of being treated like a black

    sheep because of it. I am excluded by straight people and gay people, and I keep being told that I must think I am special, otherwise I'd identify bi.
    misskittydanger misskittydanger 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is my first day here,

    I like it here. I like the term Pansexual that fits me to an T . Dispate.gender or sexual orientation,if you want to message don;t be shy.
    jamieso jamieso 46-50, M Nov 9

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    im not attracted to your face,

    or hair, or lack thereof, I am not attracted to your boobs or butt. I am not attracted to your pot belly or your washboard abs. All those things are great, and yes they are beautiful, bit what attracts me if YOU. who you are in side. The you that has nothing to do with your...
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Jeanbeau Jeanbeau 16-17, F Oct 1

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    I have no confusions about my sexuality,

    I'm not on the fence because to me there is no fence. I will not stop myself from loving somebody because of what gender they were born or decide to be. Love is love.
    FutileSuperiority FutileSuperiority 22-25 Dec 11

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    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    TheRogueWolf TheRogueWolf 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I think the thing i hate most is

    when people say .... "why dont you just say your bi?" usually i just give up and tell ppl when they ask.. "so are you gay or bi?" "I prefer Unicorn."
    EvaLolita EvaLolita 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 22 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    I'm pansexual but no one in my family knows,

    and only a couple of my friends know. I'd be so scared I wouldn't know what to do if my mom found out.
    LostWanderer97 LostWanderer97 16-17 3 Responses Dec 4

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    Yup. I'm finally opening up to my friends about

    my not-straightness. yikes, it's really unnerving, but I'm glad I told them
    fallingintowonderrland fallingintowonderrland 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 17

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    I accept I am pansexual.

    But my mother keeps making remarks about how everyone is either just straight or gay. No in between. And nothing against anyone who believes in god, but I don't. I've had it shoved down my throat all my life and don't believe. She forces me to go her church and act like I do. I...
    novak67 novak67 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yes I am pansexual and proud :) If you don't

    know that it means, it says that I'm attracted to people, regardless of gender (male, female, trans, non-binary etc)
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    Can't i compliment someone without them thinking

    that I want to get into there pants!? I'M TALKING TO YOU SOCIETY
    Penginkoibito Penginkoibito 13-15, M 6 Responses Nov 11

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    And my girlfriend is demisexual (I'm the only

    person she's ever had sex with, or even thought about having sex with), and somehow, in some strange way, we make that work. And its amazing.
    infintyandbeyond infintyandbeyond 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I don't feel the need to come out to my family

    or friends though. If they can't accept the fact that I'm queer, then it's probably best to let it go and part ways. As long as I'm happy and the person I am with makes me happy, it shouldn't matter what gender they are or what they look like. I know what's best for myself and I...
    kyuhyunheechul96 kyuhyunheechul96 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't go for looks most the time going

    that way you can get hurt. It's personality that matters. Might get hate bit life goes on so you gotta stay strong
    Nicolajane14 Nicolajane14 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    I realized I was pansexual

    and it made me really happy to finally decide on who I really was and be honest with myself 😊
    pansarecute pansarecute 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 3

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13

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    I think I'm going I try coming out to my mom

    tonight if I can get the courage to tell her xD wish me luck <3
    NerdForLife NerdForLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    i love all people and think you shouldnt date

    someone based on their looks/race/gender just their personality and how they carry theirselves
    cookingaubrey cookingaubrey 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    My parents are super homophobic

    and its super hard them not knowing im pansexual..
    PCOSstrength PCOSstrength 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I hate having to explain what pansexual is

    and then having people tell me that t'm bi... because i know what and who i am thank you very much
    bamala bamala 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    to me, it dosent matter

    if you are a boy or a girl. If you treat me good, and show me love; you'll get the same back. I dont care what gender you are.
    macibabyy macibabyy 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    When I first hear the term pansexual I thought

    it was being bisexual. I was in 8th grade and that's when I first came out to myself as being some type of gay person. I looked up YouTube videos and I remember coming across this girl who said she is pansexual. She explained how it wasn't the physical that attracted her but the...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    Deal with it. If I can handle homophobia,

    then you can handle being told that I don't care about gender. Welcome to 2014.
    SecretIsOut SecretIsOut 13-15, F Oct 12

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    And no, it doesn't mean i like to have sexual

    relations with kitchen utensils. :p
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I am happily pansexual.

    To me, it's not seeing race, gender, or other things that could make people less desirable. I just fall or crush on people. It doesn't matter.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    dO yUo hAVe AnY ideA OF h0w hARD it Is TO

    cOnTrOl MysElf in an "All Girl's Changing Room" evEry Thursday afTEr GYM claSS???? Thursday more like Thirst-day
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 2

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    This my first day here,

    and certain people,that I'm Pansexual. like what everyone had to say . I"am relax with whom I"m. love freely without gender or sexual orientation AS the"Normals say. I kind think they the ones that that denying,who they are...And are living in an box,
    jamieso jamieso 46-50, M Nov 9

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17

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    Hello..just Making An Introduction :>)

    My name is Vanessa. I am a 35 year old female. There are so many labels anymore but I guess this is the one that I fit most accurately into. I would like to chat with people like myself. Some part of me is confused. I have had trouble connecting with just one sex in all the ways...
    butterflyz2726 butterflyz2726 31-35, F 26 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    No. I'm not sexually attracted to kitchenware.

    Pansexual is when you aren't limited or inhibited in sexual choice by gender or activity. I don't fall for people just because they're "attractive". I fall for their personality. It's weird. If I know a really super hot guy for example; but his personality totally contradicts...
    BringMePierceTheSirensAtSix BringMePierceTheSirensAtSix 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I am pansexual, but it can cause awkward

    situations sometimes! I got invited to an event in the summer and met a nice woman, did a little flirting, went off to mingle for a while, met a cute looking man a few years younger than me (think he was about 20), he flirted with me, I flirted back, continued on with my day...
    DefianceUK DefianceUK 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I've told 7 people in pan,

    and I'm happy and I want to come out to pretty much everybody but I know that not everybody is as open-minded as me...... *sigh*
    pansarecute pansarecute 13-15, F Nov 4

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm kinda in the closet about being panseuxal

    and don't know how to come out. I already decided that I won't come out to my mom until I have a girlfriend(im a girl) because one time the topic of panseuxlaity came up between my mother, my 21-year-old brother, and i, and they said they didn't believe it existed, and kinda...
    killeyj killeyj 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    My first girlfriend Broke up with me a few

    month ago. Im now in a new relationship with a girl who's my besfriend ex's. I haven't came out to my parents yet, Only my classmate knows. Im terrified to come out to my family. It hard to explain to my family that I love people for who they are, not their genital.
    starzfire starzfire 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I always knew I was different,

    but I'm happy to know there is a name for who I am, and I can identify with it.
    mschickennugget mschickennugget 16-17, F 2 Responses