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I Am Pansexual

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    Yesterday my dad confronted me about my

    sexuality. I explained that I'm pan and went into detail what it means, he then said "so your bi", I explained again. He said he wawas going to go research on this before we discuss it again.
    ThatRobotChick ThatRobotChick 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    TheRogueWolf TheRogueWolf 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Im pansexual and ive always known sence i was

    in 6th grade i had crushes on boys and girls i have always hid it from other. I did not know what pansexuality was my entire life untill about 2 years ago when i had dated a transgender woman. When i found out i loved her even more not because of gender but for who she was...
    skyrimking skyrimking 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    And I'm proud of it! My heart doesn't see gender

    or race. I really could care less what's below the belt or what color your skin is, I care more about what's in your heart. I'll love who I'll love and if you don't like it than don't look! 🙈
    Kittygirl17 Kittygirl17 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Genexus Genexus 16-17, F Aug 1

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    LeeLee18 LeeLee18 16-17, F Jul 29

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    I fall in love with peoples personality's

    and heart not just looks, I believe looks do not define who you are, your heart, soul and personality does, I have no sexuality I have no label, I love whoever steels my heart.
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    [paragraph from one of my recent experiences]

    I've been questioning my sexuality for about 4 years. I assumed I was straight and was allowed to think girls were hot. Shoot my best friend at the time was half in the closest. He was testing the waters because he was scared. Freshman year of high school, I assumed I was bi. I...
    SavingLucy17 SavingLucy17 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    I don't love a gender.

    .. I love a people for who they really are! What they carry in their pants means nothing to me.
    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I remember back in high school,

    I had some random kid come up to me and say "your so gay". To which I corrected him and said "half gay thank you very much". He almost looked mortified and asked "really?", I nodded. He said that was awesome and walked off. Failed at insulting xD
    InMyOwnImag3 InMyOwnImag3 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    biwolfgurl69 biwolfgurl69 13-15, F Jul 21

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    The way I see it: Straight people have a line

    that is perfectly linear. Gay people have a line that is curved. My line just happens to be really bumpy. Its wavy, fluid, and crazy. My line is ever changing and it likes you for you. ;)
    Brazylzebub Brazylzebub 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I want to experiment this

    so I am interested in sharing things online.... text me
    madmax24 madmax24 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    I think the thing i hate most is

    when people say .... "why dont you just say your bi?" usually i just give up and tell ppl when they ask.. "so are you gay or bi?" "I prefer Unicorn."
    EvaLolita EvaLolita 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    I have been with just about every real

    and made up gender there is out there. Each one has something beautiful to add to a relationship. I have loved men, women, trans people, etc. It's very hard to judge someone by their gender (for me, at least) because a person's soul is so much more than what is in their pants.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 17

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I need a girlfriend..

    .I need love Q^Q
    Yunocorn Yunocorn 13-15, F Aug 4

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    For about a year now,

    I was kind of confused on my sexuality and I was trying to figure it out. For most of last school year I pretty much was identifying as asexual, but than over the summer I was debating whether I was asexual, demisexual or just flat out 100% pansexual. Recently, I figured that I...
    unicornboy unicornboy 16-17, T 5 days ago

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    I also find myself after years of not

    understanding why I was the only person who had no interest in a one night stand, or why alot of other friends would all think one person was "hot" when I had never had that as my first thought about anyone. I am also Demisexual.
    SmTucker SmTucker 31-35, T a week ago

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    im not attracted to your face,

    or hair, or lack thereof, I am not attracted to your boobs or butt. I am not attracted to your pot belly or your washboard abs. All those things are great, and yes they are beautiful, bit what attracts me if YOU. who you are in side. The you that has nothing to do with your...
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2014

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    to me, it dosent matter

    if you are a boy or a girl. If you treat me good, and show me love; you'll get the same back. I dont care what gender you are.
    macibabyy macibabyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    jumboshrimp1234 jumboshrimp1234 13-15, M Aug 13

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    I think? Everyone seems

    so sure of their sexuality, I mean I'm 20 years old and 14 year olds seem to have a better grasp on it than I do. I've only ever been with two guys but I have been attracted to many women as well, just not as much it seems. As a strong supporter of the LGBTQ+ community I've...
    firewing12345 firewing12345 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I made a post a while ago saying

    that I wasn't bi but rather heteroflexible, I have recently discovered i am pan instead, it makes more sense to me, its just loving for the sake of love regardless of gender, gender identity, race. And I know I like women and men and I would love anyone if I clicked with them.
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    It was very stressful

    and very difficult for me to choose an identity for myself. For a while I didn't put a label on myself and it felt wrong. We're so accustomed to putting labels on everything. I wanted to find my community. I've always found myself more attracted to personalities rather than...
    lizzay323 lizzay323 18-21, F Jul 18

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    There is a tshirt that says: Pansexual pirate

    likes all kinds of booty. I desperately need this shirt.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    That's me XD I get a lot of people saying "well

    you don't look like you'd be that way" okay how about I just paint myself rainbow? I accept everyone no matter how they choose to be =] and for people that don't know what a pansexual is it's a person who dates guys,girls,and those who are transgender............. Regardless of...
    Imkenzie1010 Imkenzie1010 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    Hello..just Making An Introduction :>)

    My name is Vanessa. I am a 35 year old female. There are so many labels anymore but I guess this is the one that I fit most accurately into. I would like to chat with people like myself. Some part of me is confused. I have had trouble connecting with just one sex in all the ways...
    butterflyz2726 butterflyz2726 31-35, F 25 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    It's really difficult to come out

    as pan because even members of the lgbt community don't understand it or aren't familiar with it. I sometimes feel like they don't consider pansexuality a sexuality.
    lizzay323 lizzay323 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Someone's sexuality orientation shouldn't hold

    you back from having a relationship with them. I don't love someone because of their gender. Instead, I love someone because of who they are as a individual.
    LRawkward LRawkward 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    biwolfgurl69 biwolfgurl69 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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