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I Am Pansexual

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    LeeLee18 LeeLee18 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    I think? Everyone seems

    so sure of their sexuality, I mean I'm 20 years old and 14 year olds seem to have a better grasp on it than I do. I've only ever been with two guys but I have been attracted to many women as well, just not as much it seems. As a strong supporter of the LGBTQ+ community I've...
    firewing12345 firewing12345 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Im pansexual and ive always known sence i was

    in 6th grade i had crushes on boys and girls i have always hid it from other. I did not know what pansexuality was my entire life untill about 2 years ago when i had dated a transgender woman. When i found out i loved her even more not because of gender but for who she was...
    skyrimking skyrimking 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I want to experiment this

    so I am interested in sharing things online.... text me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21

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    That means my sexuality is not limited by the

    bounds of gender, race, or pretty much anything (besides species of course-- not into other animals. :P ) I have always been bisexual with a strong preference for females. Later I learned I love males with certain characteristics, like dark hair and sharp features. After my...
    DepressedDemigod DepressedDemigod 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I think my whole life I just figured everyone

    felt like me but only allowed themselves to like a certain gender. I really feel like pansexuality is just so natural.. Not that there a anything wrong with being straight, gay, or bi, but really.. Being open to any person who possesses all the qualities that you desire despite...
    BaconLettuceTomato BaconLettuceTomato 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Are there any Panromantic people in this group?

    ?? I have a question. I think I might be a Panromantic but I identify as a Biromantic. I'm attracted romantically to all genders and I really don't care who I'm in a relationship with. So I don't know if I'm Panromantic. I also identify as a Genderfluid Demisexual.
    odessa94 odessa94 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I made a post a while ago saying

    that I wasn't bi but rather heteroflexible, I have recently discovered i am pan instead, it makes more sense to me, its just loving for the sake of love regardless of gender, gender identity, race. And I know I like women and men and I would love anyone if I clicked with them.
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    I always thought I was heterosexual,

    until recently. I discovered that despite being only romantically attracted to males, pretty much any sex or gender could turn me on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 4

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    And I'm proud of it! My heart doesn't see gender

    or race. I really could care less what's below the belt or what color your skin is, I care more about what's in your heart. I'll love who I'll love and if you don't like it than don't look! 🙈
    Kittygirl17 Kittygirl17 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    That's me XD I get a lot of people saying "well

    you don't look like you'd be that way" okay how about I just paint myself rainbow? I accept everyone no matter how they choose to be =] and for people that don't know what a pansexual is it's a person who dates guys,girls,and those who are transgender............. Regardless of...
    Imkenzie1010 Imkenzie1010 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    The way I see it: Straight people have a line

    that is perfectly linear. Gay people have a line that is curved. My line just happens to be really bumpy. Its wavy, fluid, and crazy. My line is ever changing and it likes you for you. ;)
    Brazylzebub Brazylzebub 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm very proud of my sexual orientation.

    Though it's hard to come out. Some people say that it doesn't "define you" but in my case, it kind of does? I wouldn't be the same person if I was straight. Maybe not only because of my sexuality, but more because of the struggles I had (and have) to go through because of it. I...
    aphpan aphpan 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    For about a year now,

    I was kind of confused on my sexuality and I was trying to figure it out. For most of last school year I pretty much was identifying as asexual, but than over the summer I was debating whether I was asexual, demisexual or just flat out 100% pansexual. Recently, I figured that I...
    unicornboy unicornboy 16-17, T Aug 22

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    So last week I came out to my best friend

    and she didn't disown me or anything.
    AllTimeBec AllTimeBec 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need a girlfriend..

    .I need love Q^Q
    Yunocorn Yunocorn 13-15, F Aug 4

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    It's really difficult to come out

    as pan because even members of the lgbt community don't understand it or aren't familiar with it. I sometimes feel like they don't consider pansexuality a sexuality.
    lizzay323 lizzay323 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I dont know maybe....

    i am really scared about it.... need help
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 21

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    biwolfgurl69 biwolfgurl69 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I just need someone to talk to

    who is too. It doesn't matter if you're out or what, how old, I just need help
    CastielTheCat CastielTheCat 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 21 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    jumboshrimp1234 jumboshrimp1234 13-15, M Aug 13

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    I always thought I was just Bi.

    but I really never cared about gender or sexualites. Love is love, to me all I really care about is who the person is, how they express themselves, what they believe in, their goals and ambitions. what makes them, them. Thanks what I care about, sure I get my cravings of either...
    novawriter8 novawriter8 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    biwolfgurl69 biwolfgurl69 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I don't love a gender.

    .. I love a people for who they really are! What they carry in their pants means nothing to me.
    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    Someone's sexuality orientation shouldn't hold

    you back from having a relationship with them. I don't love someone because of their gender. Instead, I love someone because of who they are as a individual.
    LRawkward LRawkward 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 5 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    I really think I am pansexual.

    I mean, I feel attracted to boys, girls, agenders, gay people, etc.. But I feel like i am too young to determine my sexuality because that's what everyone tells to a teen.. So I dont know what I am yet, and I dont want to wait till I finish my teen years
    angi26 angi26 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    to me, it dosent matter

    if you are a boy or a girl. If you treat me good, and show me love; you'll get the same back. I dont care what gender you are.
    macibabyy macibabyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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