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I Am Pansexual

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    For as long as I've known I always liked

    both genders. For awhile I thought it was wrong because I figured I'd be judged. Then I came out as bisexual. Bisexuals like both genders. I soon figured out I was pansexual. Pansexuals are physically or emotionally attracted to people of all genders. They are attracted...
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I've always known I've loved everyone from the

    very beginning. I told my mom my sophomore year of high school and of course it's not acceptable in my household, and if I were to bring a woman home my mother said she and my dad would be disappointed in me because they want validity that they raised me 'right'. I have no...
    moonchild669 moonchild669 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I'm Pansexual and it annoys me

    when people say that t's the same thing as Bisexual, that we **** pans, and that we **** **** dogs. Like seriously, look stuff up before you ask idiotic questions that get you slapped
    Catariean Catariean 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 12

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    Fitnesschick Fitnesschick 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Jeanbeau Jeanbeau 18-21, F Oct 1, 2014

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    I honestly think that being pansexual is harder

    than any other sexuality, because you are gay,lesbian, or even bisexual. People understand and can come up with an insult! :D Just kidding. I honestly don't know what to expect being this way!
    Loopiee Loopiee 18-21, F 32 mins ago

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    A lot of people message me asking what

    pansexual is so I decided to make a post with the google definition. Not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity. So basically, I am gender blind.
    MyahLovesYou15 MyahLovesYou15 13-15, F 1 Response May 22

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    So, I was talking to my boyfriend last night

    about how intolerant so many people in the LGBTQI community can be when it comes to people who have attractions or identities outside the gender binary. I told him I couldn't understand why a group that was so marginalized for so long would then turn around and persecute other...
    incorporealist incorporealist 36-40, M Jun 15

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    maddiehood5 maddiehood5 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    I know my parents will be supportive i just

    don't know when or where to come out to my parents. Any tips?
    lucy6501 lucy6501 13-15 2 Responses Jun 17

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    That's me XD I get a lot of people saying "well

    you don't look like you'd be that way" okay how about I just paint myself rainbow? I accept everyone no matter how they choose to be =] and for people that don't know what a pansexual is it's a person who dates guys,girls,and those who are transgender............. Regardless of...
    Imkenzie1010 Imkenzie1010 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    im really horny rn and would love to talk to

    anyone my age im 15 im cute I swear if your Scottish that's a plus
    pheobemightbescottish pheobemightbescottish 13-15, F 1 Response May 24

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    I'm still working on coming out about being pan

    to my friends and family. I mean I've come out to some people but they're members of a LGBT+ group so I don't see them every day like friends and family
    Gravity2711 Gravity2711 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    Comicfangirl15 Comicfangirl15 13-15, F 3 Responses May 31

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    None of my friends and family know,

    I feel like I should tell them, but I don't know how... HELP!!:(
    skater19hayes skater19hayes 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    Gender doesn't matter to me.

    If I fall in love with a man, great. If I fall in love with a woman, then that's great too. I would never keep myself from loving someone just because of their gender.
    DamnDeathEaters DamnDeathEaters 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 21 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    There is a tshirt that says: Pansexual pirate

    likes all kinds of booty. I desperately need this shirt.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    early morning, I'm gonna cook my breakfast,

    I see all the pots and pans are dirty and yell "Does this house have a thing against pans!" after a minute I realize I have my own inside joke and really wish my parents understood it.
    ThatRobotChick ThatRobotChick 18-21, F Jun 3

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I recently came out at bisexual

    because it was easier to explain than pansexual, but I truthfully identify as pansexual.. I want to let people know but some people don't even understand the term!
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    But I have not told many people

    because I fear rejection from my family
    rina321 rina321 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    TheRogueWolf TheRogueWolf 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I fall in love with peoples personality's

    and heart not just looks, I believe looks do not define who you are, your heart, soul and personality does, I have no sexuality I have no label, I love whoever steels my heart.
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    im not attracted to your face,

    or hair, or lack thereof, I am not attracted to your boobs or butt. I am not attracted to your pot belly or your washboard abs. All those things are great, and yes they are beautiful, bit what attracts me if YOU. who you are in side. The you that has nothing to do with your...
    MoragaroM MoragaroM 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2014

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    I'm pan, and I find it amusing

    that while guys want nothing to do with me, a few girls and a gender fluid are into me. My best friend says its because I'm the closest thing to a pretty guy that our school has (I'm a girl lol). My other friend thinks it's because I'm awkward as hell and girls are into that...
    Brimmless Brimmless 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    My boyfriend is totally supportive!

    For that I am thankful!
    LayWithFate LayWithFate 18-21, F Jun 19

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    panpride panpride 16-17, T 4 days ago

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    I am Panromantic, and I love it!

    I can be emotionally attracted to anyone regardless of gender. After all, it is the soul we fall in love with.
    rubietuesday rubietuesday 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 8

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22, 2014

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    it would be nice to find someone

    and just click like that you know?
    Comicfangirl15 Comicfangirl15 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    I met the perfect guy last night,

    and he's even pansexual too (: he randomly said I was cool and added me on fb so maybe this'll go places...... Ahhhh!
    starling156 starling156 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 4

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    I think the thing i hate most is

    when people say .... "why dont you just say your bi?" usually i just give up and tell ppl when they ask.. "so are you gay or bi?" "I prefer Unicorn."
    EvaLolita EvaLolita 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    My friend used to always send me pictures he

    photo-shopped of kitchenware wearing lingerie.
    LittlePrincess24 LittlePrincess24 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I sure am and I'm proud to be too!

    :D I used to think I was bisexual, but after hearing the term pansexual, I knew I wasn't bi. I'm attracted to people for "who" they are and not "what" they are. And I love that! :)
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 5

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