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I Am Pansexual

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 4 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Anyone on that wants to talk?

    Who's Bi/Pan/Trans? Or just.. Anyone? Add me! Message me! =)
    ThinkDiff ThinkDiff 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    This is completely me.

    My parents just think Im bi but that hate it either way.
    NoxEstelle NoxEstelle 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I love boys. Whether they're gamers

    or jocks. Muscular or not. Long hair or short hair. Feminine or masculine. Chubby or skinny. But, do you know what I like more than boys? GIRLS. THEY'RE REALLY, REALLY HOT.
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I've never really fallen in love with gender.

    It's always been about their heart and personality. When i first told my parents that i wasnt straight they grounded me and told md to break up with my girlfriend. Since then ive had to hide my crushes and significant others. Though its not fair to them they understand how my...
    haydenwolfe haydenwolfe 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13

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    I am a 16, almost 17,

    year old female and I am pansexual. I know many people don't believe it is a real thing, but it is to me and many others I have found out. I found out around the age of 13, I know young, but I just realized I didn't care who I loved as long as they loved me and had a good...
    RainbowsandKittens97 RainbowsandKittens97 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'M A Odd Duck

    I'm identifying myself as bisexual but I've started to consider my love for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, etc. I feel bi but I'm not really bi, I guess. What's the deal?
    ASBC ASBC 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    This is just a shout into the void

    but I like everyone!! And I don't car what people think
    emilythespacecat emilythespacecat 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    XxWolfGirlMidnightxX XxWolfGirlMidnightxX 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I haven't used EP in a while

    but I want to say a few things. - I'm looking for friends who would would be open to talking ! - I've wanted someone who can be with me and except me for me.. (Looking at my profile will introduce you to little bits about myself) - I'm open to Guys , Girls , Trans-Girls , Trans...
    ThinkDiff ThinkDiff 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Im pansexual and im proud!

    Im happy with who i am. I just wish i wasnt scared to tell people. I love everyone no matter what you identify as. Now all i need to do is find someone special to be with
    sweetraven15 sweetraven15 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    So, I Read This The Other Day:

    "Why Pansexual and Bisexual are not the same thing To assert that pan and bi are the same thing is to assert that there are only two genders and/or sexes to possibly be attracted to. This is incorrect. Many people fall outside of the gender binary (e.g. genderqueer, agendered...
    ilikecakes ilikecakes 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    Okay so seriously, I'm tired of the stigma

    that bi and pan sexual people are more likely to cheat. All we have is a wider spectrum. That's it. Cheating isn't a sexuality thing. It's a self esteem thing.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I dont give a **** about gender!

    !! It's stupid and everyone should just be with whoever they ******* want without any judgement from ignorant people
    SluttyNymph SluttyNymph 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    msdklove msdklove 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17

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    im attracted to whoever im attracted to.

    i dont really look at gender first cause i dont care.
    mewtoi mewtoi 13-15, F Jul 28

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    Today was Gay pride day.

    It was really fun an eventful , I love that every one joins in and celebrates everyone's equality and ole people for who they are. I wanted to tell everyone that I am pansexual , most of you guys won't know what that means but anyway , I wanted to go to it and no one would join...
    lonewolfxx lonewolfxx 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I didn't realize I was Pansexual

    until I found out what it meant today.
    thescaredshadow thescaredshadow 16-17, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    I hate having to explain what pansexual is

    and then having people tell me that t'm bi... because i know what and who i am thank you very much
    bamala bamala 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    This basically means I don't give a **** about

    gender. I prefer submissive feminine people for the most part, but gender is not in the equation whatsoever. Personality traits and looks are.
    Eniri Eniri 18-21, M Aug 7

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    No matter their sex,

    but also no matter their weight or age or ethnicity. Am I forgetting some other topic of contention?
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 2 days ago

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    Hello..just Making An Introduction :>)

    My name is Vanessa. I am a 35 year old female. There are so many labels anymore but I guess this is the one that I fit most accurately into. I would like to chat with people like myself. Some part of me is confused. I have had trouble connecting with just one sex in all the ways...
    butterflyz2726 butterflyz2726 31-35, F 33 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Sylveon Love I suppose one of the most

    solidifying experiences I've had as a pansexual would have been falling in love with my current partner. I'm not saying that I didn't know I was pansexual before I met him; I certainly did, but it certainly came as a pleasant shock to me when it happened. After my first real...
    SourPennies SourPennies 18-21 Aug 9

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    I am happily pansexual.

    To me, it's not seeing race, gender, or other things that could make people less desirable. I just fall or crush on people. It doesn't matter.
    ClonedGuat ClonedGuat 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 11

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    I like who ever I like Idc

    who you are if you like me and I think your cute 👌we're good
    randelynisdead randelynisdead 16-17, F Jul 29

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    I'm pansexual and really couldn't care less

    about anyone's opinion. (:
    DezSheeran DezSheeran 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Things were always iffy

    for me and I had always denied my attraction to women, but now that I have a girlfriend, I can't really escape that anymore. It took some time, but I can happily say that for me, it doesn't matter the sex or gender, all that matters for me is love. As cheesy as that sounds. I...
    miamio3237 miamio3237 13-15 2 days ago

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    ReadyToDieMothafucka ReadyToDieMothafucka 70+, T 1 Response Aug 13

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    I have always known i was different.

    Growing up my crushes consisted over both genders but it wasn't about their physical being more like i loved their personality. Love is love and nothing as silly as gender should stop you from loving who you love :)
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I'm pansexual and honestly I don't care what

    people think about it. I'm happy the way I am.
    ravenclawlife ravenclawlife 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I live in the east end of Toronto

    and I'd love to meet someone around my age.
    themFeels themFeels 13-15, F Aug 5

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    This is the truth. Who cares

    if you're a girl or boy? Who cares if you're bi, gay, lesbo, trans etc, etc??? Who cares if you're black or white? Who cares if you're short or tall? Who cares if you're big or thin? Who cares if you're old or younger? Who cares if you are on your dying bed and only have 3...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16

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    It feels like no one understands

    that I'm attracted to the mind of a person, not the gender...
    panikki panikki 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 20

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    So I've been looking through different spectrum

    of different sexualities and romanticism and I've discovered lithromantcism. Now, I'm not lith but it opened my eyes to the idea of more than one or two different types of romantic relationships. So my question is, is there a term for wanting certain affection and sex but not...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Call Me What You Will, I'm Nothing But Myself.

    Yes I'm 16 and yes I'm pansexual.. People are always telling me I'm "just trying to fit in" or its wrong. I honestly don't care what anyone thinks about it I know who i am, do i struggle yes! But that's all part of being human<3 I could seriously love anyone, I like boys yes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm looking for friends!

    I've been pretty lonely for a while now, but i think it's time to get back out there. I'll talk to anyone! Looks, age, sexuality doesn't matter, I'll love you for you.
    Internallysound Internallysound 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Love me or don't. I don't care

    either way. If your my friend.. Then I care.
    silverthewulf silverthewulf 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Yes, I am pansexual No,

    pansexual is not a fancy word for confused
    ButtersTheMerciful ButtersTheMerciful 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 4 Responses