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I Am Pansexual

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    i honestly don't care

    if your male or female. i want someone who will love me. me and my imperfections. am i selfish for wanting my story book love? she would be as tall or taller than me. tom boyish. short hair. piercings. k-popper. the most beautiful eyes. able to understand me. play with me...
    ooak67 ooak67 22-25 2 Responses May 9

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    I've always had an attraction to

    both males and females, but more females, so I labeled myself as a lesbian, but when I found the term pansexual, I knew it was me. I have always been open to dating trans people and non binary people. And now, lo and behold, I'm pansexual.
    waffles0113 waffles0113 13-15 Jul 14

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    Chained By My Own Mind

    I actually figured that I was pansexual quite easily. I was attracted to girls so I figured I was lesbian, but I realized I was still attracted to men so I figured I was bisexual. And then I fell in love for the first time with a friend of mine- who was a genderless, intersexed...
    MaskedSolitude MaskedSolitude 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    I pretty much fall in love with the person

    regardless of their gender. It is definitely a secondary thing that I look at. If you can make me laugh you are instantly attractive to me. :)
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    I love my boyfriend more

    than anything. I do. But dear God I miss being with women. And there's no reason whatsoever for me missing them. I am so happy in my current relationship and I honestly couldn't have dreamt up a better relationship for myself. But. I just miss them. It's such an awful and...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm looking for friends!

    I've been pretty lonely for a while now, but i think it's time to get back out there. I'll talk to anyone! Looks, age, sexuality doesn't matter, I'll love you for you.
    Internallysound Internallysound 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Dating based on character

    and personality breaks down the limitation of gender, in my opinion. Want to date someone who's loving and caring, but is a girl? Sure! Go ahead! Not a big deal. It's great. I feel no limitations on who to date now, besides the standard 'is he/she/non-binary/whatever pronoun...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    My Story Is Similar, I Suppose.

    Like many, I first identified as bisexual, unaware that there was a term that much more appropriately encompassed a capacity for love much larger than just "male" and "female." I tend to fall for people on a individual basis, regardless of what gentialia they...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    I have always known i was different.

    Growing up my crushes consisted over both genders but it wasn't about their physical being more like i loved their personality. Love is love and nothing as silly as gender should stop you from loving who you love :)
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I like who ever I like Idc

    who you are if you like me and I think your cute 👌we're good
    randelynisdead randelynisdead 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I am happily pansexual.

    To me, it's not seeing race, gender, or other things that could make people less desirable. I just fall or crush on people. It doesn't matter.
    ClonedGuat ClonedGuat 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    personally speaking, I don't like labels,

    period. but this is the closest I get to not giving into to factoring gender into my decisions of dating. I see people, not race gender or ethnicity. :)
    motherearth227 motherearth227 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I've never really fallen in love with gender.

    It's always been about their heart and personality. When i first told my parents that i wasnt straight they grounded me and told md to break up with my girlfriend. Since then ive had to hide my crushes and significant others. Though its not fair to them they understand how my...
    haydenwolfe haydenwolfe 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I am an in the closet pansexual male 14 y/o.

    How do I explain it to family if they don't understand it?
    idkitty idkitty 13-15, M 5 Responses Jun 14

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    I think so highly of Pansexual Men

    because they don't judge me for the very special GURL I truly am and are intelligent to stand by my side as I transitioning!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Jun 26

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    God I hate when people find out

    that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to multiple genders, does not mean I'm not monogamous.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 16

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    I forgot how easily people make assumptions,

    myself included. When I came out as a pansexual one of the first questions someone asked me was if I would have a relationship with someone who is transgender. I was thrown. Of course I would. I thought everyone one would too. Apparently not.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 13

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    Discovering

    For the past few years I've liked the two main genders. A year ago, I came across the word 'pansexual'. After seeing the definition, I knew that's what I was. Gender doesn't matter. Looks don't matter. Personality matters. I dated a girl who everybody thought was beautiful, her...
    FalonWolf FalonWolf 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    This is the truth. Who cares

    if you're a girl or boy? Who cares if you're bi, gay, lesbo, trans etc, etc??? Who cares if you're black or white? Who cares if you're short or tall? Who cares if you're big or thin? Who cares if you're old or younger? Who cares if you are on your dying bed and only have 3...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16

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    im attracted to whoever im attracted to.

    i dont really look at gender first cause i dont care.
    mewtoi mewtoi 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'M Learning To Embrace My Diverse Attractions.

    WARNING: This is really long...probably longer than it should be and longer than other stories here. But it felt so good and so therapeutic to write this that I decided to just go with it. If you have the patience to read it, I thank you kindly in advance. For fifteen years, I...
    Nayahri Nayahri 31-35 4 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Reminiscing on the days

    when I had my first crush on a girl.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    So, I plan on coming out.

    .. Eventually... Yeah right. Honestly, I'm to much of a coward to come out, or even think about it. If there is any advice, I'd be super grateful! I really wish I could... But my best friends and even family are all super religious. Don't get me wrong, I'm a Christian but.. I am...
    CarelessCupcakes CarelessCupcakes 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I first found out I was attracted to girls the

    same time I was attracted to boys. Which was around 13 yrs old. Anyway for a while I thought I was bi. I didn't know any better and I knew I wasn't totally hetero OR totally homo. It wasn't until i was reading the tv guide about some celebrity (name long forgotten) and they were...
    KateyCake KateyCake 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I Am Pansexual

    For a long time, I knew that I felt differently towards people, male and female alike. I only had two friends in my early elementary years, two girls, one was really mean and bossy towards everyone.. the type where if you wanted to hang out with someone outside "her group" she...
    RazielGalizur RazielGalizur 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I've never really liked one specific gender.

    I can see a male, female, transgender, transvestite and think they are all attractive. I've been in relationships with all the above. And even though they all ended i can say i wanted them all. Maybe it's because of how i am that i feel this way. But I'm proud of it. C:
    LiamCruz LiamCruz 18-21 1 Response Jul 3

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    I'm pansexual and really couldn't care less

    about anyone's opinion. (:
    DezSheeran DezSheeran 13-15, F 6 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    That Moment

    That moment when you realize that your still not comfortable with your sexuality because it confuses the **** out of you. That moment when you realize hearing people condemning you really f***ing hurts. That moment when you wish fluidity wasn’t such a f**ing bi**h. That moment...
    Nita2 Nita2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Why Don't You Get It? I am Pansexual.

    It's not rocket science. It's not complicated. It's not wrong. I don't care who are, what you've got, or who you are attracted to. I will love you if you love me, I don't see the difference. Love is transparent, it doesn't have any additives. It is what it is. Whoever you are, I...
    utterlysmitten utterlysmitten 22-25 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    For my 16th birthday,

    I wanted to do something small. We held a very tiny party for about 30 (about 5 friends showed up and the rest were family and others). It was a wonderful day. But you know whats even better? My mom let me choose the colours and I went with yellow, blue and pink..The pansexual...
    princessslothie princessslothie 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I always thought pansexual was just a better

    way to say you're bi, so when I say what are you and they say pansexual I would reply well just say you're bi. That's easier! Ohh.. I was young and dumb. #young&dumb ...btw what is hashtag?
    daydreamer2293 daydreamer2293 18-21, F 3 Responses May 2

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and people always ask me when I plan to get a boyfriend. I was just thinking and I wondered this... What if for a moment we pretend (rather acknowledge) that we are all human. Eliminate the labels of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual. We all develop preferences (including...
    msdklove msdklove 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 17

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    I've known it for the longest time.

    Lately, I really just want a cute girlfriend who I can buy stuff for, watch movies with, take places, cuddle, etc. If it's long distance I'll send her stuff, Skype/text/snapchat all the time, call her randomly, save money for plane tickets, or gas, depending on the distance...
    ILoveLlamasBro ILoveLlamasBro 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I have always known about my preferences

    since I was young, but I didn't have a name for it. I thought I was bisexual for the longest time until I realized that bisexuality didn't cover the whole spectrum. My belief is that you fall in love with the person, not what they are specifically. Luckily, I have very...
    Lostintheden Lostintheden 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    It is so awesome and a relief

    when you find a sexuality that truly belongs to you. To me being pansexual means I don't have to limit myself when I see someone I like. Their looks wouldn't be as important to me as their personality.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Hello..just Making An Introduction :>)

    My name is Vanessa. I am a 35 year old female. There are so many labels anymore but I guess this is the one that I fit most accurately into. I would like to chat with people like myself. Some part of me is confused. I have had trouble connecting with just one sex in all the ways...
    butterflyz2726 butterflyz2726 31-35, F 32 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Confusing

    I'm 15. I think of myself as pansexual. But honestly I have no idea.. I love emotional and physical connections, with anyone. I've always been a touchy person that always touches or hugs or holds hand or even kiss! I also love getting to know someone. Knowing their secrets, fears...
    unknown1998 unknown1998 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    all these labels- all the questions.

    .. what IS the difference between bi and pans? in a way, being bi is just kind of a sublet of being pansexual.
    Internetta Internetta 18-21, F 4 Responses May 9

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    Unless you are my mother.

    She's homophobic, and I have fear to tell her about my preferences. Im afraid than she took my daughter away just because she thinks than a non-straight person can rise a child. But at the same time I want to yell at her face "Hey, I am pansexual and I'm tired to pretend in...
    SarahiK SarahiK 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I couldn't care less about the gender of the

    person that I am dating or their sexuality as long as we are mentally and emotionally compatible and love each other. Also, just because I am pansexual doesn't mean that I am not picky. If a person doesn't take care of themselves or their appearance I will simply not be...
    NekomataHime NekomataHime 26-30, F Jun 8

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    Someone's genitals don't have anything to do

    with wether I like them or not. I have came out to all of my friends but not my family because I am scared as my grandma (who I live with) does not know much about the LGBTQ community
    brokenbutalive brokenbutalive 13-15, T Jun 16

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    This is just a shout into the void

    but I like everyone!! And I don't car what people think
    emilythespacecat emilythespacecat 13-15, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am obviously Pansexual.

    Until recently I described myself as Bisexual purely because I didn't know there was a more accurate term for my orientation. I've known about it since I was 14 but I never really gave it much thought. I don't come out to many people purely because I don't see why I should have...
    LewisCollins LewisCollins 31-35 1 Response Jun 18

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    I know I could fall in love with anyone,

    regardless of physical gender. I don't see gender, I see people. If I love you, I love you, nothing else matters.
    theshelbs theshelbs 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    So I'm pansexual and I'm proud of it.

    I think gender doesn't define who you can love. No matter if you're male, female, transgender, bigender, or anything! Love is love ❤
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    With a preference for trans men at the moment.

    But it always changes because I feel like my sexuality is just so fluid. I really just fall for people's mind regardless of what their shell is made of. I find human bodies sexy when attached to sexy brains!
    starstuff79 starstuff79 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Call Me What You Will, I'm Nothing But Myself.

    Yes I'm 16 and yes I'm pansexual.. People are always telling me I'm "just trying to fit in" or its wrong. I honestly don't care what anyone thinks about it I know who i am, do i struggle yes! But that's all part of being human<3 I could seriously love anyone, I like boys yes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Ok, I feel the need to address this: PANSEXUAL

    means you're attracted to people of every gender ie. male, female, transvestite, or transgender. It's a sexuality for crying out loud. It DOES NOT mean you don't care about their other features. Their weight, race, age, religion, ect have nothing to do with sexuality nor does it...
    LilMissMandy LilMissMandy 18-21, F Jun 22

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    I'm pansexual and proud

    but most if the time I tell people I'm bisexual because I hate explaining what pansexual is.
    ThatOneShipper ThatOneShipper 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    So, I Read This The Other Day:

    "Why Pansexual and Bisexual are not the same thing To assert that pan and bi are the same thing is to assert that there are only two genders and/or sexes to possibly be attracted to. This is incorrect. Many people fall outside of the gender binary (e.g. genderqueer, agendered...
    ilikecakes ilikecakes 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    After being with an FTM transgender,

    I've really opened my eyes to the wonders of being pansexual. There was a time where I was only attracted to masculinity, but after several times of making love I've come to adore the feminine qualities that my transman still has. This is not to say that I am automatically...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Sexuality has never been a problem

    for me. I've honestly never had to put much thought into it. I just enjoy people. I've been in relationships with men and women and never thought about it. (I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with anyone trans, I've just never had the opportunity.) There was something in...
    BeastTreets BeastTreets 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Recently just discovered what pansexual means!

    I was always into girls and guys as well but what i am really into-is personality, if someone can make me happy regardless of gender and vise versa then i dont see whats wrong with loving that person and yeah thats about it. Haha!
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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