I Am Part of the Second Wives Club

Being a Stepmom, Dealing with your Husband's/Boyfriend's Ex wife, Support & Guideance from those who have been there first hand. 80 People

    My husbands ex wife constantly tells the boys

    horrible things about their father. They indirectly ask me if they are true and I used to handle them well. But they have become so frequent that I don't know how to respond without calling her a liar. I am angry and my husband is non-confrontational when it comes to her. Co...
    brandymyoung brandymyoung
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2014

    I allow Myself to feel inadequate.

    There is no shortage of my step-children or my husbands exes family making me feel that way either. I know I shouldn't allow them to make me feel that way. I feel I want to delete social media. I tend to read the things people say about my husband or I. I can't stop myself from...
    WistfulDreaming WistfulDreaming
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    When You Stepkids Are Brainwashed...

    My husband has three boys from a previous marriage when their mother and my husband divorced it was because she had a affair with the man that she is now living with who is bi sexual ,drinks and does drugs well all of a sudden the children started referring to this man as "dad...
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2013

    Newlywed Blessed And Stressed All In One

    I met my Husband Four Years ago and fell in love with him from the jump he is a wonderful man and I couldn't ask for a more kind and sweeter man he does come with some baggage he has three boys from his previous marriage whom I love dearly they my kids too in my heart and of...
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2013

    It's been a year and a half now,

    I still haven't met his son. Hey all. I've been dating this guy for a while now. Things have gotten pretty serious and we have been living together for over a year now. I truly love him. I live in a state that recognizes common law marriage and we are considering filing joint...
    YoungAndBitter YoungAndBitter
    22-25, F
    Dec 2, 2015

    New Member, new wife (1 year,

    1 week). I was also previously married, my ex and i have struggled to set aside our issues for our kids and we have been super successful. he comes inside my home, we exchange info, he leaves. i can call him for any problem (pertaining to the kids) and he will help me. we...
    LeighChristine LeighChristine
    31-35, F
    May 23, 2015
    Cbob42fun Cbob42fun
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015


    There are so many stories on here about ex-wives and horry stories related to ex-wives that I thought I would chime in. Girls, let me tell you...I could write a book about ex's and step kids. It's truly a shame for me to have RE-married a man WITH an ex and with a kid (I know...
    donotdisturb123 donotdisturb123
    5 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    I Know There Are More Than Five Of Us Out There.

    I found this site tonight because I would like to find women who can understand, sympathize and comment on a subject that can seem all consuming. I had nothing to do with my husband's divorce and met him years later when my stepdaughter was 12. He left when she was 8 and she...
    ghost19 ghost19
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2010

    Hi guys, it’s not really a comment

    or reaction. I feel her pain since I share the same sentiments as her. I just got married last October, I knew from the start that the man that I was about to marry is a divorced man. At first I thought that it was ok and I can handle everything as smooth as possible. My husband...
    samanthaceballos samanthaceballos
    31-35, F
    Mar 24, 2016

    Always made to feel second

    or not part of "the family" because they share kids and we don't
    Bettyloohop Bettyloohop
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    Easter bunny? I think not!

    Not in my house. I'll be damned if I'm gonna encourage a 10 year old to be so delusional. Still believing in Easter bunny! Oh my god. Her mother is nuts! And she is nuts. And ppl wonder y I don't want her in my home! Grr.
    angelfallen13 angelfallen13
    26-30, F
    Mar 31, 2014
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