I Am Part of the Second Wives Club

Being a Stepmom, Dealing with your Husband's/Boyfriend's Ex wife, Support & Guideance from those who have been there first hand. 79 People

    I Know There Are More Than Five Of Us Out There.

    I found this site tonight because I would like to find women who can understand, sympathize and comment on a subject that can seem all consuming. I had nothing to do with my husband's divorce and met him years later when my stepdaughter was 12. He left when she was 8 and she...
    ghost19 ghost19
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2010
    Cbob42fun Cbob42fun
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015


    There are so many stories on here about ex-wives and horry stories related to ex-wives that I thought I would chime in. Girls, let me tell you...I could write a book about ex's and step kids. It's truly a shame for me to have RE-married a man WITH an ex and with a kid (I know...
    donotdisturb123 donotdisturb123
    5 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    Newlywed Blessed And Stressed All In One

    I met my Husband Four Years ago and fell in love with him from the jump he is a wonderful man and I couldn't ask for a more kind and sweeter man he does come with some baggage he has three boys from his previous marriage whom I love dearly they my kids too in my heart and of...
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2013

    New Member, new wife (1 year,

    1 week). I was also previously married, my ex and i have struggled to set aside our issues for our kids and we have been super successful. he comes inside my home, we exchange info, he leaves. i can call him for any problem (pertaining to the kids) and he will help me. we...
    LeighChristine LeighChristine
    31-35, F
    May 23, 2015

    My husbands ex wife constantly tells the boys

    horrible things about their father. They indirectly ask me if they are true and I used to handle them well. But they have become so frequent that I don't know how to respond without calling her a liar. I am angry and my husband is non-confrontational when it comes to her. Co...
    brandymyoung brandymyoung
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2014

    Easter bunny? I think not!

    Not in my house. I'll be damned if I'm gonna encourage a 10 year old to be so delusional. Still believing in Easter bunny! Oh my god. Her mother is nuts! And she is nuts. And ppl wonder y I don't want her in my home! Grr.
    angelfallen13 angelfallen13
    26-30, F
    Mar 31, 2014

    It's been a year and a half now,

    I still haven't met his son. Hey all. I've been dating this guy for a while now. Things have gotten pretty serious and we have been living together for over a year now. I truly love him. I live in a state that recognizes common law marriage and we are considering filing joint...
    YoungAndBitter YoungAndBitter
    22-25, F
    Dec 2, 2015

    I allow Myself to feel inadequate.

    There is no shortage of my step-children or my husbands exes family making me feel that way either. I know I shouldn't allow them to make me feel that way. I feel I want to delete social media. I tend to read the things people say about my husband or I. I can't stop myself from...
    WistfulDreaming WistfulDreaming
    1 Response May 27, 2015

    When You Stepkids Are Brainwashed...

    My husband has three boys from a previous marriage when their mother and my husband divorced it was because she had a affair with the man that she is now living with who is bi sexual ,drinks and does drugs well all of a sudden the children started referring to this man as "dad...
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2013

    Hi guys, it’s not really a comment

    or reaction. I feel her pain since I share the same sentiments as her. I just got married last October, I knew from the start that the man that I was about to marry is a divorced man. At first I thought that it was ok and I can handle everything as smooth as possible. My husband...
    samanthaceballos samanthaceballos
    36-40, F
    Mar 24, 2016

    Always made to feel second

    or not part of "the family" because they share kids and we don't
    Bettyloohop Bettyloohop
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015
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