I Am Pessimistic

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    I have gotten used to saying I don't have any

    friends. I just don't say it out loud too much. Then people get all defensive saying they're my friends and ****. Don't make me laugh because you're not there when I need you. So don't give me your lies. Call me a pessimist but I'm sticking to my beliefs. And am perfectly happy...
    CactusHugger CactusHugger
    26-30
    Oct 12, 2014

    So Jealous

    i'm so jealous of everyone who was born optimistic. and i reallly try to be optimistic but i can't help but seeing the bad side of everything. i usually keep it to myself. it's wierd how on a sunny day i say its too dry, then on a rainy day i say it's too wet.
    katieamber52 katieamber52
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2011

    In my experience, there are more displeasures,

    hard times, and sucky memories than there are happy times. Life isn't worth it. Not for just a few good memories.
    AwkwardLizard AwkwardLizard
    22-25, F
    Oct 2, 2015

    Beauty

    I am pessimistic. I always expect things to turn out badly and always see the sadder side of things. But I don't mind, in fact I prefer it. Sadness and beauty go hand in hand. Just look at music, art and literature. the sad versions of all these things are the best. I love short...
    PorcupineMan PorcupineMan
    18-21, M
    Sep 18, 2008

    I look at people in love

    and think to myself, " that won't last". I don't want to be so pessimistic, but I also don't want to be unrealistic
    justagirl8787 justagirl8787
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2014

    Everything Never Turns Out Right For Me

    I get happy and something has to happen to **** it alllllllll up! I get on a happy lil ego trip and BAM something tears it down. It always happens! Nothing goes acording to plan. and i always always get ****** over. i used to believe in good luck/bad luck. like i only had bad...
    Ivyflower Ivyflower
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2009

    Anytime I get happy about something,

    I always get slapped in the face later. I've learned from all those times. It's best to not get your hopes up cause if some that bad will happen, it will happen.
    AfterFall AfterFall
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2015

    I Feel Like That My Whole Life.

    I have Posttraumatic Stress Disorder and Bipolar Disorder. Depression has played a major part in my life. Even when I am in a good mood, I feel pessimistic and always prepare for the worst. From my experience, good things would never happen to me because they never did.
    SomewhereTomorrow SomewhereTomorrow
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2011

    It was very surprising me

    when yesterday my husband said I am pessimistic and not a happy person. After the conversation, last night I took some pessimist or optimist test. The result was surprising me. I answered 47 questions test and gaining 58% pessimist perception. I had very bad experiences in the...
    Arrow17 Arrow17
    36-40, F
    Feb 7, 2014

    I find pessimism beautiful.

    "Life... is a sea, full of rocks and whirlpools, which man avoids with the greatest care and solicitude, although he knows that even if he succeeds in getting through with all his efforts and skill, he yet by doing so comes nearer at every step to the greatest, the total...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 10, 2014

    Whenever you want to think happy thoughts,

    your heart tries to lift itself up with all its might. But there's something that keeps pulling it down. It's not gravity; this is much stronger. And I'm not having any heart condition. Maybe it's just me.
    BloodEpiphone BloodEpiphone
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2015

    I am a person who sees the best in everything,

    but gets slapped hardly by the reality. I always try to be as nice as possible to people around me but I feel that they're taking me for a naive girl. No one ever cares if their words hurt. I want to know, does being over-nice is a bad thing? Another thing....I always under...
    AmaniFradi AmaniFradi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2014

    Can't Help It.._x

    i really can't help seeing the bad side of things, expecting to be dissapointed. when i do, if something good happens i get pleasantly surprised, and if something bad happens im not surprised and i just get on with things.. ive always been like this really and i think i always...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2007

    Currently a senior in high school.

    I have really close friends that i met in high school and I can tell them mostly everything but I feel as if they aren't the kind of friends I'm looking for. This happened to me in middle school also, and so I switched schools merely because I couldn't form a good relationship...
    qwertype qwertype
    18-21, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    I can't help it I have always been pessimistic.

    Anyone who has ever read any of my stories will get this vibe quick. I wish I could "see the bright side" and I realize that is the answer to happiness but its easier said than done.
    blake000048 blake000048
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 31, 2014

    New Years Resolutions And Stuff Like That

    When I was 9, in the fourth grade, I remember having an in class assignment given to us in January. The teacher told us to think of a New Years Resolution. When the teacher came over and asked me what my new years resolution was, I replied that I did not have one because New...
    theevie2000 theevie2000
    18-21
    1 Response Jan 23, 2011

    Just Like That

    i am pessimistic because, well for my whole life i have had people made promises to try and help me, and forget about them, i have made promises to myself and failed them in the past. i have seen ideas some good ideas crumble due to corruption. i'm not complaing though, i know...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Oct 7, 2009

    Why Pessimism?

    I feel like I was put in place where I didn't want to be, Earth. I feel like I was here for a punishment. I come from a poor family, I'm a social outcast who doesn't know how to make it in this world. There is SO MANY things about life that don't like and CANNOT change...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    6 Responses Mar 10, 2010
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