I Am Plus Size and Beautiful

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 590 People

    It's hard with society saying you need to be a

    size 8 to be pretty. I'm a size 22 and learning to love myself, curves and all. Real men like curves. Dogs like bones ;) Self-love and confidence are sexy attributes! When life throws you curves embrace them! ;)
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    14 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    Being plus sized is a challenge.

    You have a constant voice in your head telling you to lose weight and be a "normal" size. But then you also have a voice that tells you that you are beautiful and to be confident in who you are. But you can't forget the voices outside your mind, nagging, yelling and telling...
    tomaddyandbeyond tomaddyandbeyond
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

    Hey there! I hope everyone is doing awesome.

    We are a team of 3 women based in San Francisco. We developed a product called BetterBack that allows you to effortlessly sit in perfect posture, easing back pain. We launched it on Kickstarter in April and it was a big success. We've just delivered our first batch of...
    rikkav rikkav
    31-35, F
    Nov 30, 2015

    There's No Denying It

    They're living proof that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes
    Tummie Tummie
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2009

    recently ive run into a whole bunch of these

    fat shaming videos and comments because of a new show tlc is making called my fat fabulous life and so many people saidnso many ignorant things like being fat is a choice and its goodnthat they will die fast and rid the eaath of theor disgusting bodies and ive never laughed so...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 30, 2014

    People always say "u dress nice

    for a big girl", no I just dress nice period. People love me for my humorous and classy attitude but u always got that one hater that always got something to say about about ur size. Keep ur constructive criticism to urself *******.
    someoneunimportant03 someoneunimportant03
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2015

    to my friends that want to keep in touch my

    email is alliegenis69 at Gmail dot com love you all
    cutebbw46 cutebbw46
    46-50, F
    Apr 18, 2016

    Any ladies looking for male friends

    who like bigger women inbox me trying to hookup a friend.
    nana2085 nana2085
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    My friend mark said the 2 twits are

    accessible *****..they are good for one thing....haaaaahaaaa....if that one hates banging for 10 years now right? Haaaaaahaaa
    happinessisthway23 happinessisthway23
    51-55, F
    Oct 22, 2014

    hello everyone! I'm new to this,

    and I came looking for some other beautiful plus sized women to become friends with, that understands what it's really like to be a plus sized woman in today's world! I look forward to meeting yall!
    BuggsMom BuggsMom
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2014

    Did Not Always Believe It

    I have been a size 18/20 from around the age of 15. Puberty hit me early (age 9). Even when I was still incredibly thin (and I was for quite a while), I always felt I had to lose 50 pounds. I never did anything to cause me to lose that weight, but I kept thinking...
    TopazSkye TopazSkye
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Jun 1, 2009

    I am tired of hating my body.

    Even when I lost weight I wasn't happy, and now I've decided that I am tired of hating my body and I am daring the world to love the looks of me as is!
    craftymom24 craftymom24
    41-45, F
    Oct 16, 2014

    I weigh 160 pounds and in five foot four I have

    curves and a booty a slim stomach and I have hips and cute little pair of breasts. being curvy is hard for me at times cause other chics wear their size 6 and I have to wear my size 11
    hunni19 hunni19
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    Am I Really Beautiful?

    I'm 19. Growing up I was a pretty normal kid. A bit chubby but that was ok. Unlike most kids, I never got rid of my baby fat. I'm lazy, no big deal. I can't remember ever being teased about my weight. I've always been told (by family) that I'm beautiful, pretty, etc. but... One...
    amIbeautiful amIbeautiful
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2013

    Look At Me

    When you are a Plus Size Woman, people like to tell you that you are pretty in the face...not a pretty person.  They tend to act like being full figured, voluptuous, fluffy, heavy set, curvy, thick, or a little chunky is a disgrace and that we should all resemble that of a...
    ChaoticReason ChaoticReason
    41-45, F
    Nov 19, 2013

    Supporting Plus Size

    I think size is a very big deal in this world. I for one, don't get what the big deal is. People need to look around and realize that in this life, just as you can become whoever you want, you can be whatever size you want. I'm a designer. Only just starting out this year. I am...
    1 Response May 26, 2013

    I know I'm amazing and beautiful!

    I don't care what the rest of the world thinks!
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    1 Response Sep 24, 2015

    Please read with care,

    and take steps to keep yourself feeling safe and secure, if reading about body image and associated topics are triggering for you. I’m your stereotypical short and fat person. I’m 5’2”, currently a size 22, and currently weighing somewhere around the 17st mark. At my...
    ChocolateCurvesModel ChocolateCurvesModel
    31-35, F
    Jun 26, 2015

    Dangerous Curves!

    As a young teenager I was very thin. I was fit and muscular because I was a ballerina. At age 18 I quit dancing because I got my first job. I was too busy for exercise and dating was number one on my list. Now, 21 years later, I am plus size. After having a baby....I got boobs...
    emptyheart emptyheart
    41-45, F
    16 Responses Feb 11, 2008

    Ha Ha

     ha ha ...the other day ..this girl makes a comment about my weight...and I just had to turn around and say ..yeah and I am 215 pounds of hotter then you =) ..and some guy goes damn right ....made me happy. 
    novaj novaj
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 7, 2009


    Well I have been a big girl for many years. Even at my smallest I was a 14-16. Once I met my partner, my weight shot up and I weighed my heaviest on our wedding day. He loves me for who I am but for a long time I couldnt. Now, I still shudder sometimes at unflattering sights of...
    JellyBellyDarbs JellyBellyDarbs
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

    I'm a size 12/ 14 which is considered "big" by

    society. There have been days that I wish I was petite and dainty. I felt like no man would want me. In the past, guys always made negatives about both my height and body build. Today, I'm happy to be my size and height! I have a lot going for me in the looks and intelligence...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    I Am Very Beautiful

    I am overweight, but I am very beautiful. I used to model plus size clothes in High School. I am always told how hot I am. I am extremely beautiful and I know it.
    bigbeautifulwoman82 bigbeautifulwoman82
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2013

    Self Realization

    I am a 43 year old woman who worked in the motion picture industry for almost 20 years, where everything is about glamour.  Recently, I stopped working because of illness.  In less than a year, becaue of my medications and inactivity, I gained 80 pounds, taking me...
    bargainsdirectly bargainsdirectly
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2010

    Fat Or Big

    I have always been the FAT girl. It wasn't until I met my husband that I realized that it was ok to be BIG. It's not easy when your dad and sibling are health nuts, and you hear your whole life that you will never meet someone who will love you just because you are FAT. I spend...
    udidwhatwhere udidwhatwhere
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    Rambly First Post. Hello Lovelies. :)

    I found it a bit disheartening that there were only two stories posted on here. So.... Like most of us curvier gals, I didn't always like or accept the way I look. Growing up and especially highschool was fad-diet after fad-diet. All with limited success, as one would expect...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Dec 3, 2008

    In today's society, the stands of beauty are

    defined by thinner women. Particularly celebrities and models alike. Yet, anyone deemed "too big" even if that means they don't have a thigh gap, they're ostracized by the media. There are men that like thin women and that's perfectly fine, but I don't think bigger girls should...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    What sort of bothers me is

    when I see a girl who's smaller than me, call themselves fat. It makes me wonder if they consider themselves fat then when they look at me I must be HUGE and I am. I'm 311 lbs and 5'11 which makes me look a bit smaller but I am overweight. I feel the need to say that everyone is...
    MsKimberlyBones MsKimberlyBones
    18-21, F
    Mar 29, 2015

    Once Upon A Time....

    ...I was a size 4. I was "gorgeous" .. But I was unhappy.. at 122 lbs, and 5'9, I was uncomfortable in my skin.. I knew I was thin but I couldn't see it. I couldn't FEEL it. I didn't feel pretty, and I worried constantly about my weight.. I got sick when I was 17... I was in an...
    simplencountry simplencountry
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

    Finally Feeling Comfortable

    I was five foot three in the fifth grade. I was probably sporting about a size 8 in juniors and I had been playing basketball for a few years now. Since I was a little kid, school-mates and family members (not my parents thankfully) tortured me about being bigger...
    Edesia Edesia
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Sep 15, 2009

    I like my eyes my skin

    and my piercing
    stunnahnunnah stunnahnunnah
    18-21, F
    Oct 10, 2014

    I was built the way I am

    and nothing you can tell me can change the fact that I can walk out of my house and feel like I am beautiful. And if I see anyone messing with some one because they are tall, short, fat, skinny, black, white, or any other physical trait they seem to not like, you can best...
    RandomStumble RandomStumble
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2014

    Size 16/18 and Looking Good!she

    When I was growing up I was skinny. I spent all my time outside, running, swimming and riding bikes. Then puberty hit when I was about 10 or 11. Yeah, skinny? Went out the window. I had developed quickly but definitely not quietly! I remember my teacher in 5th grade telling me...
    shegeek101 shegeek101
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 13, 2009

    I've definitely struggled with body issues most

    of my life. I'm 4'11" which makes being on the chubby side very awkward. But as I get older, I've started to appreciate my body type more and more. I don't ever want to be skinny or lose my curves.
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    5 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    It's taken years, but I have finally come to

    accept my appearance. I love the way I look. I love my curves and my squishy belly. My appearance is truly unique and beautiful. I used to think my fat was disgusting and no one would love me because of my back rolls. That I would be hated by others for my jiggly arms and...
    Twon Twon
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

    I think I'm quite pretty,

    but I sometimes feel like my weight takes away from my overall beauty...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    Loving yourself is the most beautiful quality

    anyone could have. No matter your size, gender, sexuality, or race.
    maygababe maygababe
    22-25, F
    Feb 7, 2015

    Im a plus size girl and enjoy myself I know im

    beautiful both on the inside and the outside. I am very sexual and just because I am plus size doesnt mean i cant keep up
    Sweetmepea Sweetmepea
    36-40, F
    16 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    I've been plus size ever

    since I was a teen and when I was young I enjoyed the attention I got from the guys and still kinda do but now I truly and fully accept myself as I am plus size
    krazkcatlady3085 krazkcatlady3085
    31-35, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    Am A Heavier-Set Woman

    I am not FAT, but I am not SKINNY and CURVY. I have an hourglass figure, but with extra minutes :)
    fatherlessdaughter1995 fatherlessdaughter1995
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    Hey there. For the longest time,

    I believed that I wasn't as pretty as guys were telling me and the cause was because I am a bigger girl. I felt that because I was a big girl that I surely wasn't pretty. But, I've come to terms with my body and in accepting myself, I'm also embracing myself. So here I am, a...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2014

    Hello, guys, have you ever read the news?

    http://www.vice.com/read/looking-for-love-on-wooplus-an-app-for-plus-sized-dating There is a dating app for BBWs and curve lovers!! EP gonna pause this site, maybe we need to find another place for our friendship, even love. Anyway, I have lots of fun at EP and hope we can...
    hongdi hongdi
    26-30, F
    Mar 25, 2016
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