I Am Possessive and Protective of People I Care About

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    I am in a way possessive

    and protective over the people I love and care about. I know that it has annoyed my ex's before and many people around me. I could understand where they're coming from, to me though, it is a way of expressing my love and to say that I care. To prove that I am not just a...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    Possessive, Obssessive And Miserable

    Hello, I think I have been a possessive person all my life. And I tend to get obssessed with the person whom I am possessive of. I constantly think of them, often right after I get out of bed in the morning to the time I finally drift to sleep. I find myself thinking how do I...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 18, 2010

    ohhhh mannn yes i am.

    ... even friends!!! im so possessive but i learn how to control it and hide it. well... except with this current guy... he is as possessive as me and i think its hot. i love that im not the only nut
    Breeze82b Breeze82b
    31-35, F
    Jul 6, 2015


    Hello! I have never shared this way before but feel maybe others have the same silent issues they carry. I am extremly possessive of my parents, husband , children and friends to the point that I might smother them . I found out today that my Dad has a potential grown daughter...
    aeropatti aeropatti
    Aug 25, 2009


    I am 18 year old n i ve ht a boyfreind who is 23 .we goy a gap of five to six yearz bt we lov each othr a lot ...but he is vry possesive he doesnt lke me goin anywhr out wdout him ,he doesnt lt me hang out wd friendz he doesnt lt me wear clothz as i want ...in eevryway he is...
    wayig wayig
    Jan 10, 2013

    I hate my best friends boyfriend.

    I can't stand the guy, she's made me third wheel a few times and I can't stand his presence. I just immediately get angry and I have to try to distrsct myself from it. He's not even a terrible guy, I just have a bad feeling about him. And I'm a person who firmly believes friends...
    Sccrgrl60 Sccrgrl60
    18-21, F
    Nov 23, 2015


    !! I tend to get possessive when it comes to my lover...I don't like others to touch anything that's mine.....it's hard for me not to be this way ....it's just the alpha female in me is hard to control at times lol
    Starrmoonchild Starrmoonchild
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 7, 2015

    What's mine is mine and I don't have a lot of

    people that I care about so if anyone thinks that they can do wrong to someone I love or attempt to take my place they are the true definition of a masochist . I'm not afraid to do damage .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Jul 7, 2015

    Yes very true i become very possessive

    and protective of the ones i care about its the bull in me or the craziness but i think its mainly the taurus in me lol😈
    dom8869 dom8869
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 17, 2015

    let's get a few things straight 1.

    You break my heart I break your face ! 2. You hurt my friends in anyway then you become broken !! 3. If you threaten or challenge me I will win not immediately but positively 4. This is the most important, you hurt any one or thing I care about and the last thing you will see is...
    Neverlander13 Neverlander13
    16-17, F
    Sep 17, 2015

    All i wanna do is to protect you from being

    hurt, but i know you will get hurt in my over protectiveness.. i hope i could kill the freak in me.. if being apart is the only way to protect you,then it's a choice that i will take..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    I have the hardest time letting go of things.

    . I'm overprotective of all the very close women in my life. Particularly my best friend that I've had to ordeal a lot of rough times with her in her life. I'm a Scorpio so we aren't the easiest to get along with and she's an Aries.. I'm possessive and have a short temper...
    thefuryan thefuryan
    31-35, M
    Jun 15, 2015

    I Think These Qualitys Make A Great Friend

    When someone I love has been disrespected or treated poorly it make me feel like some sort of phychotic animal and claws just shot out of my nails. I want to stand up for them and defend their honor or demand an appology or something. I have been very tactfull on occasion an...
    Eli777 Eli777
    1 Response Sep 4, 2011


    My name is Fahad, I live in Bahrain, a small island situated in middle east. I am fist son with a sister and a brother following. At home, there are five members including me in the family. I am originally from Pakistan. My whole point to establish what I wrote above is to that...
    Frakedes Frakedes
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 24, 2012
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