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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Someone here called me selfish

    when I posted I was taking friends out of my circle as they no longer logged in.I make exceptions though.I don't like to look at their profiles thinking over the happy times we had and feeling sad.They have moved on and I must too.I am no celebrity.So ,no one knows what I go...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Judging me do sent define me it only defines you

    and don't try and define me your life just might depend on it.
    ptbl ptbl 13-15, F Feb 5

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    I had nowhere to post this.

    .i don't know in what kind of group it should belong..but I liked the idea of the title..Back to the point.. Dear Whoever, I've been feeling lonelier and lonelier these days. I feel as if i am living in a ghetto full of uneducated and misbehaving people..ignorant about learning...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    All the people whom say they don't care are

    liers. Everyone cares to their own personal degree depending on who is judging them. & I'm gonna be honest I try to please everyone. I won't kill myself doing it but I try. & I can say I've done a pretty decent job by just trying. some people can't be pleased tho but that's...
    flamedvelvet flamedvelvet 18-21, F Feb 5

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I try not to judge, because Im a little ****** up myself. But when we judge aren't we really saying/thinking we're a little better than someone else?
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    I never judge anyone because all that anyone ever does is take the path of least resistance. We are all same in that way.
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    I've seen some pretty snobby, inconsiderate, and rude *** comments on some peoples stuff. But let me just say... IF YOU ARE ON EP YOU DONT REALLY HAVE A PLACE TO JUDGE OTHERS...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    Through judging we separate, through understanding we grow. It's easy to judge, it's difficult to understand. Understanding requires compassion, patience and willingness.
    Sonoluminescence Sonoluminescence 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6

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    the ego needs to label everything as good or bad, right or wrong. If I can re-train my brain to accept that this is flawed thinking, then I am relieved of the burden of assigning a...
    mscindydfw mscindydfw 46-50, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is referring to my I am a teenage lesbian.... People are going around assuming things and so on and so on.... I'm being diverse with my writing. Most of my writing is dark...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    money is just a piece of paper that has been assigned value in order to control us and give some people power over others. it enslaves us and holds us back. the last thing we need...
    femininespirit femininespirit 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love sexual fantasies. They improve my mood for the whole week.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 29

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    Your 6 may be someone else's 10 so don't be rude about who people find attractive and about who people love because you don't see what they do. Everyone is someone else's "10...
    cmr426 cmr426 13-15, F 1 Response May 5

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    I was raised by gay moms👍
    Goobthenoob Goobthenoob 16-17, F 4 Responses May 16

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    To me it seems the people that point the finger are the most judgmental. Or they provoke people with unrelated issues then make it judgmental
    sirnatural sirnatural 31-35, M 2 Responses May 18

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    I'm the best person anyone can talk to and I also have a lot to tell.
    BillAchusim BillAchusim 26-30, M 1 Response May 18

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    I recently found out my wife had a sort affair 10 years ago
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 19

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    To me this works both ways, everyone knows it's wrong to look down on the poor. Also many people work very hard and practice self sacrifice to do well . People shouldn't assume...
    sirnatural sirnatural 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Ill just come out and say it I'm attracted to my Freinds mom . I'm 18 she's 30 . It's a fantasy of mine to sleep with her . It sounds wrong but its true . It's not because she's...
    shane1999999 shane1999999 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    We who have been called are feeling a darkness trying to oppress our calling ,,it is not me alone or you alone ,the body is being attacked as never before to quit . We hear we...
    rckt148 rckt148 56-60, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't like people who judge people based on their weight alone. It's wrong, no matter what size you are. People are people, judge them on their personality and nothing else.
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    I certainly try my best to be accepting/open minded and I am open to all ideas that don't harm other people. That being said however I am very much against people who push their...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 6 Responses May 17

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    I'm hurting really badly. I cannot stand the look of my face, especially my enlarged gangrene-looking nose, there's this ring around it. My Fake Mother usually twists it while she...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    To all those who judge me from what you "heard"..walk in my shoes for a day..i guarantee you would fall then scream your lungs out with tears pouring down your face then run home...
    NjJ7 NjJ7 18-21, M 2 Responses May 9

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    I learn toward more of the mysterious type, where information about myself is unknown, unless i know you very, very well. I don't just open to anyone, I open to those who I'm...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F May 17

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    The path to perfection and the progression of technology. Are they necessary? Or are they simply a mentality spawned from lack of self confidence? Needless to say i don't care...
    TheGoldRai TheGoldRai 18-21, M 4 Responses May 14

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    I feel like a hypocrite because of how much of a contradiction this is. It's honestly really weird though how someone can be open and all that and end up being closed off too
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F May 12

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    It's been quite a number of years since Mama moved in with Jesus but it doesn't make me miss her any less than the day I held her hand as her spirit left her body. I've been...
    kayblue kayblue 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    My girl is going to NYC tomorrow. It's a school trip, 40 high school girls with two female teachers. They have to be at the airport at 4 am as it's an international flight. We are...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 3 Responses May 13

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    Really do believe this . In my case I am a blonde typical looking white girl but there is so much more to me lol . I have a blog on YouTube and fb called jessicasomebody . It helps...
    jessicalynnsmith jessicalynnsmith 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm 19, I was raised to respect and obey my parents as long as I lived under their roof, so that's what I am doing. Being forced to go to church (Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's...
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