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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I am a free spirit that shows no judgment towards anybody. I am an open book you can ask me anything and tell me anything. I am young but I have lived I have been through a lot and...
    Changeallaround Changeallaround 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate it when i offer a helping hand to someone and they start reading my profile and they see im a fcked up girl who's depressed and ****** and then they would rub it in my face...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Just the other day when I logged into this 'service' for the first time ever, I was judged by a person (within an hour of My 1st post) to already be a pervert, and was told I...
    BernieBB BernieBB 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I miss you. I love you. I would go through the fires of hell, just to see your smile. I would walk away forever, just to ensure your happiness. I love you, my moon.
    welcometomysociety welcometomysociety 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I hate people who judged me and worst come to worst those who doesnt even know me. Hello? who the hell r u to judge me by means in the bus or down the street. Just becus im fat n...
    llamaxxi llamaxxi 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Haven't You Ever Herd The Saying? Don't judge a book by its cover, well its the same thing here on EP. I mean, really, who judges someone, based on the avatar that they have. Sure...
    SouthernBella89 SouthernBella89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I am not one who judges others, if anyone needs advice on any matter just ask and I will see how I can help
    ziroks ziroks 22-25, M Oct 9

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    to all who find themselves here have faith? let go and let God ? drink kettle one vodka it's the best find healthy people ( good luck on that seems to me your either predator...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Discussion is the crown of meeting minds. It is good to debate, and argue points of view, especially with open minded individuals who are not so up themselves that they are open to...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need a male friend to talk openly about everything, who will cheer me up, who will never give me up.
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I miss having someone who I could feel safe and open with. Someone who my gestures and affections are not always seen as sexual. When I was in my late 20's I found the love of my...
    HONAW HONAW 41-45, M 6 Responses Sep 27

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    As a sensitive, creative, artistic and brilliant child all I wanted was for my mother to love me. My mothers response to me when she first saw me as a baby was that I was "ugly and...
    lutqueet lutqueet 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I've realized that EP Allie is a fake Profile, you know why? Because all she does is send notifications to people and also delete stuff! The profile is controlled by the Experience...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    Many years ago, I lost a friend. She died in a car crash in the country. I was really cut up about it for ages. I hadn't realised just how much I missed her. Anyway. One day I'm in...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 10 hrs ago

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    It's really hard to get a person who doesn't judge you or break your trust after you tell him/her your personal matters
    SinglemomPuff SinglemomPuff 36-40, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Judgement is the thing that truly causes a lot of social problems in the world. It begins in elementary school, when we start to judge one another on our lunches or our the clothes...
    MattyMedic MattyMedic 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I am reading A Letter To My Husband's Mistress by Bella Rose http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A5FEKP6/ref=pe_385040_118058080_TE_M1T1DP. WOW do I recommend this little book!!!!!
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 9 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my wife and slept with her mother. I absolutely love my wife and we both come from a very wild and open family whom of which are comfortable with their sexuality (pics...
    Plucky1 Plucky1 31-35, M 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    It’s 1976 I’m thirteen and starting High School The beginning of year seven, we are the first students at school, it’s our first day, we get a tour of the school...
    Create63 Create63 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    Ya I make mistakes...I am human...we all do...maybe not to same level or anything but we still make them...but what really gets me is that people that don't even know me or take...
    CanadianFunk CanadianFunk 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Oh my God, can we please talk about this? When I see a perfectly good man holding open the door for me, I am reminded that I am still a woman and feminism has not yet eradicated...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 72 Responses Oct 13

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    Dear M I know at times we clash and that you think I am being mean or harsh, but its only because I want the best for you, I have only told you a few things about my childhood...
    Bornsinner30 Bornsinner30 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    So, things are getting more complicated as usual. I thought somehow it has grown unto you that we aren't made for each other and you don't feel particularly fun when you're around...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    I am very open minded... I do not judge and do not expect to be judged for my feelings, thought or beliefs. If you don't agree... then agree to disagree and let it go at that...
    Mirais31 Mirais31 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I like to know everything about everybody. Not for any real reason, I just like to know what makes people tick. I guess it makes me sort of a hypocrite bc I don't like to open up...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Dear stranger, You can respond to this if you wish, if not I'm okay with that. I've never really thought that you can judge me because you don't know who I am, you don't know I...
    falloutsarah falloutsarah 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I often feel so tired I don't do what I enjoy. I like listening to music and watching movies. But I haven't listened to music in a few days. It is hard because when I feel tired...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Always keep yourself open to new possibilities. Every opportunity is another chance to learn, to grow, to advance. Don't judge others by their appearance or words, rather look at...
    turbodude turbodude 18-21 Oct 1

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    Dear You, I am not your secret admirer. That would be impossible … because I cannot observe you. I cannot stand near to you. And you cannot steal a glance from me. Yet we...
    tomtom41 tomtom41 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    All people ever do is judge me. Im picky about my friends at school and kids im not friends with who I have never spoken to call me sl-ut and attention seeker and cocky and stuff...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I think most people who say they are open minded aren't really. We're all judgemental and opinionated at some level. The trick is avoiding imposing your will or distaste on others...
    princeofthieves123 princeofthieves123 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Let's just say but I was living wasn't theat I was very close minded growing up as a teenager. always wanted to feel attached to something and be someone that I wasn't. I think I...
    Miche1e Miche1e 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    All the girls I have met have always been naughty. Some openly and others behind closed doors. All girls got theirs coming one way or another.
    SniperForce SniperForce 26-30, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Suicidal have been haunting me for as long as i could remember. So does depression. I knew something was wrong with me but i couldn't say a word. I was scared. The society around...
    alexyay alexyay 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    You know. This is suppose to be 'Experience Project'. And all I've ever seen was people judging others of what they say or what they've been through. I'm that person who won't...
    SarahLouise98 SarahLouise98 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Facebook blocked me from joining groups for 30 days but its been 30 days and two weeks and I am still getting the message saying I am blocked. I am having problems joining and...
    jashbagash jashbagash 26-30, F Oct 6

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    Like most, I've always been judged either as a posh git to the polar opposite who was probably bought over the Internet. Just a quick disclaimer, I have graduated university with...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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