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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 26 People

    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    It's hard to be near someone who has their focus trained on what everyone else is doing wrong. Let them be. You're missing out on some wonderful stuff while you're muttering and...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Ugh I'm tired of adults on here talking sh*t about us minors wanting to get laid and stuff. Like chill, it's called hormones! We're just teens ffs were exploring our sexuality...
    PsychologyNerd PsychologyNerd 13-15, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I hate it when I receive those glaring glances from every guy and girl... I hate being mentioned frequently because of my weight, This is the way I am. I eat a lot because I was...
    meyyienne321 meyyienne321 18-21, F Dec 9

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    Falling in love is like a free fall from which the only escape from depends on how long you fall. Make it last this time
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    So my kids have been behaving really bad lately and I can't get them to act right what can I do
    HouseMommy HouseMommy 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Before my birth my Mom was told no heartbeat can be found ,your child has died and we need to remove the fetus ,,Mom said no ,,,I want my Mom and her friends to pray ,,they did...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Those judgmental bastards!!! who think they have a right to judge cause they are better. 1: Homophobic bastards 2: Guys who judge people cause you have a wife who is younger than...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    I kinda don't open up all the way. I mean I open up just about all the way the only thing is sometimes my pages are a little hard to read from all the tearing and spills that have...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 3

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    Yes, every single human being in life struggles including me. Struggle is something every human being has encountered at some point in their lives. We are constantly battling our...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 15

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    Turned My Sports Loving Son into a Prissy Girly Girl Here is an amazing letter from a one of my favorite petticoating moms Rhonda. Like most women she was not aware of the...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Hmmm... many to say but to keep it short I will just mention the current people I encounter in my day to day life. first my younger brother - for me all people are important and...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    Letter from a twelve-year-old by The Unicorn I support NAMBLA because they have given me a chance to philosophize publicly by printing my column. NAMBLA gave me support...
    Punkboy2449 Punkboy2449 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    I am in my 50's, and I've had questions all my life about my very early childhood. Considering I've had these questions in some form for as long as I can remember, I can't help...
    CatloverDG CatloverDG 56-60, F Nov 29

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    So it's been like 2 weeks so far.. The last time I seen my boyfriend was only one of the best worst time of my life... So me and him hadn't talked for days and when I finally got...
    rassenav rassenav 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    first of all I'd like the reader to know that I'm the product of mixing two cultures, African-Arabian. I am a confident man, please don't mix me with snobby or arrogant person as I...
    NoOoSy NoOoSy 26-30, M 15 mins ago

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    I don't post my thoughts to get into a debate about who's right or who's wrong, I respect all, for it is not my duty to judge....there is only one judge! So if you read anything...
    lovenlight84 lovenlight84 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    At my last job I was extremely professional. My approach to work in the past has always been keep personal and private separate. I was nice to everyone and had a good haha everyone...
    SpiritualBunny SpiritualBunny 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    Care to Read me Like an Open Book Run your fingers through my pages like an avid reader would. Gaze upon the story laid before you, As if all your inquiries can be answered...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Dec 9

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    I want to write letter. A letter for the future me ! And open it in 5-10 years! So i could see what i was thinking about myself in the past and what i wanted! So i could see what...
    lunaeatsyou lunaeatsyou 16-17, F Dec 11

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    VillaVuka is BIG LIAR!!! *Extensive but I speak TRUTH!! He say "Most people get arrested for the first time in their teens for dumb things like Underage Possesions. I was...
    Bergenbabe Bergenbabe 36-40, F Dec 12

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    In light of the tragic and completely preventable death of Michael Brown and the 12 year old child in Utah, I believe cops need to utilize much better judgement. Michael Brown did...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 1

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    I'm not saying I "judge" people, also not saying that I don "judge" people. I'm saying I look at certain kinds of people in a certain way. people who look and act in a certain way...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F Dec 4

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    Who am I to judge you? I'm usually the one being judged and very misunderstood. Unless you're evil into all the bad things you might do to any human or domestic animal.Your life is...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Dec 7

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    Every Person is Their Own Story!!! I never judge a book by its cover or a person by their looks. The book I must read to know and understand, thankfully people tell their own...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    Letter to my ex husband letter 3 I thought I could Handle seeing you. I couldn't. Your still controlling my life. Told myself It is my house too. I'm legally allowed to be there...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I am not perfect and I don't claim to be and I don't have all the answers. But this whole thing going on with race and color and it's like what century are we living in 2014 or...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    I'm slowly learning to open up and share my fallibility as a human without instantly being thrown into an anxiety induced state of hell. I am real. I have no problems bluntly...
    DanniSwtSn DanniSwtSn 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    life is too short to try to judge others on my limited experieces. being open to other differences expands my mind.
    girlawaken girlawaken 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Walk A Mile In Someone Else's Shoes. I once heard a story about a teacher who told all of the children to remove their shoes and place them in a pile then take someone else's...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Dec 4

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    I am finding the catfish are getting very clever and a lot more deceitful with their fake profiles. I think they are adding a lot more, experiences like "I hate fake people" or...
    Bushmanoz Bushmanoz 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    I know as human beings that we all judge people. We all do! For example, if your at a bar and you look across the room at a person, you most definitely don't think "wow! I bet they...
    actiegirl actiegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I grew up in a very close minded and religious house hold. I was conditioned to think that some people were "Bad" because they lived a certain type of life-style. It's scary and...
    ILoveLeonard ILoveLeonard 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 8

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    I like posting stories and photos showing all of my bald bits - I think I'm an exhibitionist! feel free to comment on them, good or bad. lol
    lifeuniverseeverything lifeuniverseeverything 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I am depresssed. I haven't told anyone yet. My parents are always yelling at me about my grades and constantly comparing me to my siblings, they ignore my acomplishments and find...
    anonymus000 anonymus000 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 16

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