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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I don't judge others. I really try not to. I feel like i understand what people go through when they are discriminated against for something. For reasons such as what they believe...
    IndoSavior IndoSavior 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I myself am open minded and I never judge anybody I dislike when people are like that it just bothers me a little I'm tired of being a round the people who are complete opposite
    BrookeDuchanne16 BrookeDuchanne16 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Everyone Should Judge Moochers-Yes I judge them, because it says to me they are moochers who still want things though they cannot afford them, while everyone else works their...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Judge Me Not EP is the biggest offender of this. They censored so much on this site that people can't even share their experiences anymore. So the biggest judgmental 'persons' on...
    SilviaAnnGinger SilviaAnnGinger 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    NORMALLY I am, but I think I've used up all of my sympathy and empathy and caring on this site that when I read certain experiences I'm just thinking: "Get over yourself" or...
    JFergS94 JFergS94 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I wear make up every day if i go out. I wear make -up cream, then do my brows with a pencil, then i add powder, then i add gloss or lipstick. I dont wear mascara and eye shadow...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    lookin g for a breast feeding relationsip n the lima or urroundingareas in ohio
    milkwantedsoon milkwantedsoon 56-60, M Jun 29

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    I don’t place a high value on material wealth, the quality of someone’s personality is much more important to me
    TimEP TimEP 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    I call Him Father ,,,and He calls me son ,,, I am asked all the time what I think we will be when Christ comes ,,,I don't know what I will look like but I am sure like the Hebrew...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Company Store System of Babylon ... By Latin Law, the Vatican is the Head of the Family; and this is who is the Head of the Covens of Azazel. They renamed themselves “Religions...
    THEMADHATTERXXXX THEMADHATTERXXXX 46-50, M Jun 27

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    The ignorant are the irresponsible and the narrow minded. The judgemental are the weak and the cowards. These elements together lead to apathy, which is the cruelest element...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M Jul 13

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    People are judgmental and it sucks. Now I'm only 13 almost 14 and I know pretty much everything about being judged which sucks. I want to punch every judgmental person in the face...
    canadaJuly1 canadaJuly1 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I don't like this saying, and the same with 'Don't judge someone before you know them', I agree somewhat. But if you find somebody who is licking a wall whilst wearing a cabbage...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate people who judge me when they have never met me and don't know me... Like, for example, on social media.... When people think they can judge me.. Telling me what I am and...
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I thought on here there would be no one who judges. But oh no there's always one :(
    Talktome9654 Talktome9654 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I hate others who judge teen moms. I was a single teen mom at 16. I found it very hard to be a teenage mom and going to school. Two of my girls are single and pregnant. Melissa...
    bustymomanddaughter bustymomanddaughter 36-40, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    I use to think I was a lesbian. In fact I was positive but now I believe that you can't help who you like. If it's a guy or a girl you can help it, and nobody who judge you based...
    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm suffering from lack of focusing & doing things for a VERY long time. Till I left my family for my high school education, I was simply living in my bed. I was intelligent, I...
    tewkel59 tewkel59 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    It is a known fact that every language has one or more terms that are used in reference to God and sometimes to lesser deities. This is not the case with Allah. Allah is the...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I miss the art of letter writing.
    CanadianGal80 CanadianGal80 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    Welp so it looks like I'm the first post here. *takes a deep breath* okay, so my mom who is now 37 years old is a drug addict, more specifically meth, speed, heroine and whatever...
    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile 16-17, T 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    On EP he was my friend and I was helping him stop cutting I knew that he committed suicide yesterday . It was horrible .he posted a suicide letter when he was ding and after that...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    I try not to hate; I try not to judge, unless its a person who hates or judges. I figure that they're just getting a well-deserved taste of their own medicine in that case. I was...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M Jun 28

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    Like People Who Are Open Minded
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have a friend who wanted to get pregnant. Everybody kept telling her what her reasons was, but she ignored everyone and did so anyway. I wasn't even able to stop her. Everybody...
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    When I was eleven I went to boarding school, leaving my three year old stepsister, Molly, at home. I had always been short for my age, and she had been rather tall but she was 3 so...
    betsy92 betsy92 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Recently on EP , I have met a girl who is the best person I have ever known , I can tell her anything , she helps me overcome soo much and I am so grateful that I met her , I know...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I know that open minded means can always be open to new experience in life and not just the make love thing... As i can listen to other people opinion even if i disagreed with...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 2

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    i always like to keep an open mind about everything in life. i also take in evreyone POV and i just think that in life you need an open mind to survive. I really accept everything...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 10

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    Does anyone else realize we are all just posting and rarely most of us finds the one with the same birthdate? Cuz we all keep posting and posting but not finding.. Lol.. Happy...
    enragedmisfit enragedmisfit 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    im from new zealand, and i have a man in jail. he went in 2010. its now 2014 nd he still has 2 years to go. i find because i now dont have a job my life revolvs around waiting for...
    hannahpinky101 hannahpinky101 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Someone who is very open minded, and has different perspectives of life, someone who isn't biased, but seems to know what exactly is going on, also someone who would not judge or...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 9 Responses Jul 10

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    I believe we all have a right as human beings to follow whatever path we choose in life, i believe we should all be able to live our lives how we see fit without judgement but...
    HowLongWillWeBeWaiting HowLongWillWeBeWaiting 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    My husband and I just got into a huge fight about the fact that I don't open up to him. I can understand why he would be upset about it - I would be too if I were in his shoes. But...
    roseblossom90 roseblossom90 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I hate when people are like "don't judge me unless you've walked in my shoes." I won't judge people based on what they've been through. I will judge people based on how they...
    derbygirl67 derbygirl67 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I've been told before many times that I'm open minded, but didn't really think of it that way. Maybe because I thought it's just my personality that I like to talk with people...
    Saoussen Saoussen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    people are fast to judge, and very slow to accept! because they have no idea what its like to walk in the path of thoughts who they judge
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago