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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 48 People

    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    All the people whom say they don't care are

    liers. Everyone cares to their own personal degree depending on who is judging them. & I'm gonna be honest I try to please everyone. I won't kill myself doing it but I try. & I can say I've done a pretty decent job by just trying. some people can't be pleased tho but that's...
    flamedvelvet flamedvelvet 18-21, F Feb 5

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    Someone here called me selfish

    when I posted I was taking friends out of my circle as they no longer logged in.I make exceptions though.I don't like to look at their profiles thinking over the happy times we had and feeling sad.They have moved on and I must too.I am no celebrity.So ,no one knows what I go...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I had nowhere to post this.

    .i don't know in what kind of group it should belong..but I liked the idea of the title..Back to the point.. Dear Whoever, I've been feeling lonelier and lonelier these days. I feel as if i am living in a ghetto full of uneducated and misbehaving people..ignorant about learning...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Judging me do sent define me it only defines you

    and don't try and define me your life just might depend on it.
    ptbl ptbl 13-15, F Feb 5

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have always been open minded, and non judgemental, people are unique and complex there are so many sides to a person and we don't always see every side , at best they show us...
    holgado holgado 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I am very open minded and non judge mental. I've learned to be that way after all the daily abuse I get from random strangers I don't even know because I smoke. It's unfortunate...
    Retro5NAF Retro5NAF 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    LOL. This is funny, because this group is judging others who judge others. Hypocritical? Everyone judges someone's character. How many people have NOT judged Hitler?
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 1

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    I don't judge, you want to change my views, I'm always open to change.
    shaunrain shaunrain 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I have a friend that is constantly judging me when I never judge her, and I'm starting to get really fed up with it. That is NOT how a good friend acts. Every time I tell her she...
    xKatlyn xKatlyn 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Am looking for girls to talk to on Skype regularly with and cam with but I want them to between 16-28 and be opened and willing to talk about every thin and any thin and is ok with...
    thebigscottishguy thebigscottishguy 22-25, M Mar 20

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    As long as it's consensual and not doing harm then what's the point of judging. Everyone has different tastes in life, it's what makes us who we are as individuals. Some people are...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Dear G, How it hurts, to form such a disconnected friendship after what we had. Some part of me is still devastatingly disappointed with you, another part is slowly letting go of...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Life is so much more fun that way. You can meet people that have interesting personalities and try thing that most people wouldn't.
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M Mar 18

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    The most successful relationships I know are those where both partners as strong enough individually to put themselves aside and see life through the eyes of that special someone...
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    But my views get labeled judging. Got mad at first. And then a pal saw. And said its their pain indicator. And she was right.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I believe there is a reason behind each fantasy we have ... It gives us a better grasp of ourselves when we try to understand it
    danceintheclouds danceintheclouds 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 8

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    i see so many islamaphobic groups on this site and no one knows what the **** they're talking about. please, please **** off
    rowanoaks rowanoaks 16-17, T Mar 12

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    Yes! They are fantasies! No matter how dirty, disgusting or crude - they are fantasies! Besides, being horny is like a different type of high, it takes you places you didn't know...
    MissKakarot MissKakarot 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 23

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    anyone want to chat about fantasies?
    babybabybabyxxx babybabybabyxxx 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    In Genesis He is the Seed of Woman. In Exodus He is the Passover Lamb. In Leviticus He is our High Priest. In Numbers He is the Pillar of Cloud by day and the Pillar of fire at...
    kayblue kayblue 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have always had friends and peers who judge me whenever I open up to them. When I show someone my true colors, they try to repaint me. I just wish I had a friend who listened and...
    isabelclifford isabelclifford 13-15, F Mar 3

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    What makes me laugh, are those women who judge guys on appearance, when they wear so much fake tan, they look like they tried to be oompa loompas in a back alley version of willy...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    Open letter to volunteers Well not all of you but a lot of you. Do you know your responsibilities as volunteers? Let me recapitulate it to you. Copy from EP: We ask EP Volunteers...
    TheOneYouDontWantToKnow TheOneYouDontWantToKnow 41-45, F Mar 12

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    I dislike people who judge others on their own merit system. Until you have been in someone else's shoes you need to be quiet. If you do not have something good to say about...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    12 Truths About Defensive Behavior - BY LINDA CARROLL Here are 12 truths about defensiveness — what it is and why it happens — that can help us better understand this self...
    imurfriend imurfriend 26-30, F Mar 5

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    I guess everybody like to say that, because the presumption is that if you are not "open-minded" than you are stubborn and incapable of seeing the perspective of another. For...
    Bfinally Bfinally 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    During this time away from my love I decided that I'm going to do a few things; 1. Better myself- start working out, picking up hours at work, and do my best to get my degree...
    Katrina8113 Katrina8113 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    First and foremost I would like to meet a female partner for friendship first which could hopefully lead to a loving relationship who also shares my dream and would like to help...
    maddog38 maddog38 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    The most beautiful people to be around are the ones with open minds. I love people who are open minded. People who just vibe with whatever you talk about . You can talk about...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So, scrolling through random people's experiences and then scrolling through random commentators' experiences has become a game for me. Especially when I find the friendliest...
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe1 TheAmazingSpiderJoe1 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I will not judge you but please have the same respect for me, do not judge me, the things I do, or the people I communicate with. Be respectful of me and who I am as I will be...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 38 Responses Mar 13

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    I Used to have a lot of friends.Now? Now everyone is "Too busy" Sometimes a friend outgrows a friend. This can be a horrible lesson to face in life and sadly, some people are not...
    10August1995 10August1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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