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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

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    Someone here called me selfish

    when I posted I was taking friends out of my circle as they no longer logged in.I make exceptions though.I don't like to look at their profiles thinking over the happy times we had and feeling sad.They have moved on and I must too.I am no celebrity.So ,no one knows what I go...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Judging me do sent define me it only defines you

    and don't try and define me your life just might depend on it.
    ptbl ptbl 13-15, F Feb 5

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    All the people whom say they don't care are

    liers. Everyone cares to their own personal degree depending on who is judging them. & I'm gonna be honest I try to please everyone. I won't kill myself doing it but I try. & I can say I've done a pretty decent job by just trying. some people can't be pleased tho but that's...
    flamedvelvet flamedvelvet 18-21, F Feb 5

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    I had nowhere to post this.

    .i don't know in what kind of group it should belong..but I liked the idea of the title..Back to the point.. Dear Whoever, I've been feeling lonelier and lonelier these days. I feel as if i am living in a ghetto full of uneducated and misbehaving people..ignorant about learning...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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