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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Judging me do sent define me it only defines you

    and don't try and define me your life just might depend on it.
    ptbl ptbl 13-15, F Feb 5

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    I had nowhere to post this.

    .i don't know in what kind of group it should belong..but I liked the idea of the title..Back to the point.. Dear Whoever, I've been feeling lonelier and lonelier these days. I feel as if i am living in a ghetto full of uneducated and misbehaving people..ignorant about learning...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Someone here called me selfish

    when I posted I was taking friends out of my circle as they no longer logged in.I make exceptions though.I don't like to look at their profiles thinking over the happy times we had and feeling sad.They have moved on and I must too.I am no celebrity.So ,no one knows what I go...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    I am open minded and like same minded people. Don't judge any person or lifestyle or interest. recently there are topics that got me interested very much. I had interest in nudist...
    fantasyy13 fantasyy13 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    Lately I've had a fairly constant knot in my stomach. It gets worse when I try to open up to people. I dealt with a long period of emotional numbness, and it seems to directly...
    Zbeara Zbeara 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm 14 and single. I've been single for like 2 years. I want a boyfriend who wants to protect me and care for me. I also want a boyfriend who judges on personality. Message me if...
    tfoster tfoster 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I found a letter that I wrote to my deceased SIL . Once upon a time we were close .....she had health issues ...long story ....anyway ...here is the letter I wrote her ...I have no...
    Chernobylplayground Chernobylplayground 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Honestly who doesn't judge? Subconsciously we all do judge just in a different manner don't you think? Judging can be positive or negative but judging is classified as a bad thing...
    Hayden23 Hayden23 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    yah, I've done that before! except i accidently send it, and the recipient was "not happy" to say the least! so, from now on, i shall vent on EP, instead. i dont want anymore...
    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 4 days ago

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    What do the phones sound like in Asia when they ring???
    Workingclassman Workingclassman 31-35, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Well maybe that's not quite the reason I dont judge others, though I am definitely not perfect. I don't judge because rarely do we ever know what it is like to walk in another's...
    Friendlygirl84 Friendlygirl84 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Last school year. my 4th grader was having a conversation with her classmates about God. My daughter happened to mention that she didn't really believe in God. Now, all of her...
    hippigirl hippigirl 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Is that possible to know something at all, to understand everything? As long as you have faith that you know something, you are secure. Are you sure you know it all? Who is that...
    sirolosirolo sirolosirolo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    So I could never become a judge on the X factor.
    Workingclassman Workingclassman 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    That's a lie, I will judge you. based off of your attitude, personality, actions and your words I'll judge you. No I want condemn you or hurt you but I WILL judge you - anybody who...
    MummifiedCatLady MummifiedCatLady 22-25, F 41 Responses Aug 19

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    I just got judged by someone who goes to church on regular occasions. Because I don't go to church, means I'm not a good person, when I'm the one that puts my life on the line...
    Bryan29 Bryan29 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    well I picked this one ironically because I went through a terrible time after my car accident in2003..it's funny how life works cuz I was a popular kid,teenager plAyed three...
    damonandrew damonandrew 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I dont care what you are, your race, sexuality, gender, everyone is equal in my eyes, I have respect for everyone, but I should warn you, once you do something that I think makes...
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M Aug 18

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    To you; To the girl he cheated with, I've never met you. But I know how you look like. I know how you sound like. I know the private exchanges you've written to him. I know you...
    ComplicatedWounded ComplicatedWounded 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I'm open to all point of views (even political), opinionated or otherwise. Always something to learn and can benefit sometimes.
    FreightTrainOG FreightTrainOG 18-21, M Aug 15

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    I am open to all genres of music and I appreciate all forms of music even if it isn't particularly my taste.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14

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    Where can I find such great people? Someone I can be friends with and talk about anything at all about ourselves and about the world without judgments.
    SoulCoffee SoulCoffee 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    it's hard to see yourself through someone else's eyes. and when you make a statement of opinion/judgement you have only your experiences to make that call ,using your what, your...
    Kentex Kentex 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    We all have our defects nd virtues, we all carry some kind of "bag" within our souls, people should walk in our shoes a while to understand how we feel...life can be our best...
    SolitaireGent SolitaireGent 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I may not be able to make things better, but I'm always willing to listen. I believe very strongly in having an open mind and non-judgemental perspective. I care about what you...
    awkweirdchick awkweirdchick 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Eager and willing to talk to women who don't judge. I am preferably looking for local but I am very open. I talk everyday to those in my circle granted may be small or short but we...
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 12

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    So lately,I've been letting myself think the way I want. I used to let my parents and my religion decide what I should think,feel,and do. And hating homosexuals was what I was...
    XxmsfrostxX XxmsfrostxX 13-15, F Aug 12

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