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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I definatly prefer people like this but with how our society is today there are not many of open minded and non judgemental people
    Just1OriginalMe Just1OriginalMe 22-25 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    How many people here on EP can say they actually ARE open minded and non judgemental? Why don't those who condemn others take a moment and actually imagine what the other person...
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    But often times I become real close with people who stick to their own principles, which is not necessarily a bad thing. They are open minded, but they stick to their beliefs.
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M 19 hrs ago

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    So I'm in a training class for work for the next month and a half. There's some interesting people in my class and I'm curious to know more about them and their interests, but it's...
    ClaireH19 ClaireH19 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Really. Tell me what you get from judging others. I'd love to know. I've been judged all my life called a druggie and junkie because I have Tourettes Syndrome (a neuropsychological...
    wolfboy1993 wolfboy1993 18-21 a week ago

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    It's hard to be near someone who has their focus trained on what everyone else is doing wrong. Let them be. You're missing out on some wonderful stuff while you're muttering and...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    It's kind of difficult to find this because I live in a city filled with closed-minded and judge mental people.
    samsahsincl samsahsincl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    All you people who avoid people because you think they are weird or something I hate you guess what we all are weird in a way we al mess up we all have emotions we are not perfect...
    natsufairy12 natsufairy12 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    Ugh I'm tired of adults on here talking sh*t about us minors wanting to get laid and stuff. Like chill, it's called hormones! We're just teens ffs were exploring our sexuality...
    PsychologyNerd PsychologyNerd 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Okay yes this makes me mad here. Like I understand people go through a hard life and all that but you shouldn't let it out on people cause they will kill them selfs or harm them...
    2chainzrocks 2chainzrocks 13-15, M Jan 18

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    People who don't even know you and decide to comment on your post then call you a ***** just because you stating a fact. Whatever I guess, if you think I'm a ***** then I guess I'm...
    soon2016 soon2016 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    i agree on this. if you are looking for a buddy to chat with feel free to inbox me if you like.
    livingitsecondbysecond livingitsecondbysecond 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    I want to meet more trustworthy people here. Chat with me?
    Elayla Elayla 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    The way I see it, if it's not harming anyone or anything- just let it be.
    rosesandcharlie rosesandcharlie 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Let people fantasize what they want to fantasize
    pushdolly pushdolly 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    tell me your sexual fantasies <3
    pushdolly pushdolly 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I say If you're not GOD why are you judging
    jovorrism jovorrism 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My Dear Friend... It's been a while since I've written a letter to whom this could be intended. Been thinking how nice it is when someone does not forget about you. It is those...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    I find this to be a very good healing tool for me. I can be long winded and I have so much I want to say to certain people. It really is best for me to write out everything on my...
    Welllaugh Welllaugh 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Like seriously I hate ppl who judge others based on their looks, it's rude.
    Lolllipoop Lolllipoop 13-15, M Jan 14

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    I'm tired of people who judge me for a choice I made and make me feel horrible for it. I'm only human and I do have feelings
    Kenadel Kenadel 13-15, F Jan 14

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    live my life, say what I mean, be who I am; you all can judge but do I care? Nope :)
    shur09 shur09 13-15, F a week ago

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    Yes I am very open-minded maybe to a fault. I make it a point to see an idea or a problem from someone else perspective before judging. By no means am I perfect at this but I try...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am very open minded open to all suggestions to improve and grow my life in all aspects.
    MichaelS41074 MichaelS41074 36-40, M Jan 12

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    Mines, chain link fences with barbed wire, attack dogs, guards on 24/7 patrol, huge fortress with a moat that has an alligator who is pissed he is not a crocodile. Oh and snipers...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Jan 7

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    I can't bring myself to care about anything anymore. I can't handle adult life, and after years and years of trying, I don't have any energy to try anymore. I don't want to do...
    justsomegirloutthere89 justsomegirloutthere89 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Special four-hour tours are organized through the Forestry and Lands Department for early morning or late day excursions. Tours are US$30. For more information, cellphone 451 1691...
    Georgebankssi1 Georgebankssi1 31-35, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    It would never satisfy the US politically or fiscally to introduce old-fashioned exchange controls, of the kind until 1979 and France, Spain and Italy had through until the...
    Georgebankssi1 Georgebankssi1 31-35, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I begun to dress as a Girl early my 9 or 10 years but knowing that it was a "sin", always where in secret. When I reached 14 year old, I got my first best friend (a Girl called...
    L0yd L0yd 31-35, M 7 Responses Jan 6

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    This letter I wrote to my lover who is away right now. Days gone without you was really hard, everyday was a year to me, I missed you when the sun rise and I missed you when the...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F Jan 5

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    I have a LOT to reveal about my relationship with my long distance boyfriend. I need ADVICE!!! So if you can, please read this. Thank you for your time. My boyfriend gave me the...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I finally found my soul mate and now hes facing a possible 20 year sentence. I wont find out his actual sentence for another three weeks. I spend every day waiting for a letter and...
    brune191 brune191 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    The older I get the more that I learn that you should never ever judge. To each his own - live and let live. There is nothing more freeing than to accept yourself and to accept...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    It started with her name. She was a friend of a friend, and when her name was first mentioned I remember thinking: “*****, that is a gorgeous name.” It would be a while before...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    Multiple money: This form of Offshoreing is generally utilized by businessmen, enterpriser for company matters. Every company might need fund transfer at international level. For...
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    For people who did not report income that is foreign, or for people who did not file all the global tax forms they should have, the cost for coming clean is quite high. If they...
    Darronbanksso0 Darronbanksso0 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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