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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 26 People

    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I have learned to embrace most anybody (save the selfish or greedy souls who benefit at the expense of other's suffering)...I have seen many people, experienced many places...
    AntiquitusBlue AntiquitusBlue 41-45, M Nov 16

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    For any woman who yearns to quit shaving, do it! However you are, that's how you'll remain, just hairier. I once had a girlfriend whom I finally persuaded to grow out her armpits...
    LoProfile LoProfile 66-70, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    Dear friend, I know you're leaving state. When you told me I waited. I got home and I cried my f*cking eyes out, I won't lie. It's killing me.. But god, I hope you have fun. I...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    It's absolutely annoying and you never know what that person has been through or what happens behind closed door. You have know right to judge and assume things if you don't know...
    ALostSiren ALostSiren 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    Ok I am writing this because most people in my circle and myself included spank they're children it really annoys me that people sit there and day you are abusive or it's not right...
    spanksrus spanksrus 31-35 1 Response Oct 28

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    When I was a boy I fell from a tree. That fall was painful and embarrassing for me, yet I didn't lose my love for trees. As an adult I've fallen many times. I always get back...
    Clovercon93 Clovercon93 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 17

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    Seen WAY to much of life to know that everybody has their own story. I'm not living their life. I have no idea about the choices/decisions they've had to make. Or for what reason...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 18

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    honestly I hate that my bf hasn't had sex with me in 4 months ,,am I ugly 😞
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I need one ughhhh. so stressed
    2isbetterthan1 2isbetterthan1 31-35, F Nov 17

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    Letter to Special Agents Thomas Ravenelle, head of the Denver/Colorado Springs FBI, and Special Agent Kevin Cornelius, head of the Cincinnati FBI. Dear Special Agents Ravenelle...
    JuggllingForACure JuggllingForACure 26-30, M Nov 3

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    I used to be constantly judged. I still am but not at the same magnitude. I do not hate those who judge me or even blame them. We all judge people. Even if we subconsciously go to...
    chaoshead chaoshead 13-15, M 8 Responses Oct 28

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    i like open minded people ,people who judge others or are very conservative really irks me.we all should have freedom to live our own lives and as long its not harming us or others...
    greatgal001 greatgal001 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I cannot be fixed for I am not broken, You can't take words back once they're spoken. So maybe before you say I can be treated by therapy or religion, You should realize your...
    Goose95 Goose95 18-21, F Oct 29

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    I don't have any limitations and I am open to all view and beliefs. I will try anything once, regardless. I think life is a better place when you let your inhibitions go and live...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M Nov 6

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    I have met lots of people specially at school who judged me and I hate that I mean do they even know me? The only thing they know is my name
    Anne678 Anne678 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Ever since I was at rehab, I've been public with my body , I exhibit without fear. All opening up, all for the world to see, so it's okay. It's not that big a deal, not like I...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Nov 10

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    I am honest, some may say to a fault...To know me is either to love or hate me...the choice is at your own wills.....I will love you all in spite of what you may think of me...I...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I am a very open minded person!!! I don't like to be judged for who I am, and I am definitely in no position to judge anyone else. Being open minded makes me feel so free and...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    It is being said that people change 98% of their atoms every year and after 7 years all your atoms are replaced.what does this mean? Does this mean we have a soul that defines who...
    Sracinas Sracinas 22-25, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 2 hrs ago

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    if yif you really interesting you already seeing the details in plse don't send me to go other sites in publish add I don't believe in words we believe in actionsthank you once...
    loner001 loner001 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Letters to my ex husband. Letter 1 Dear Steve We both no the truth about this past year despite what you've told people and made the courts believe. We also both no the level...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Well, I know my boyfriend since we were kids, I moved out from another country but he stayed, years later he did the same but different state, we tried to be together but we couldn...
    ejulie ejulie 18-21, F Nov 9

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    Passing Notes Writing letters is not desperate. Writing letters today is actually more considered unique and creative. If I write a letter to a friend, family member, or even...
    Atlas0Scar Atlas0Scar 18-21, M Nov 16

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    It took me years to figure out who I am and I'm still learning, but I am proud of the person I've become in the last few years. I've learned to not only accept the way I am but...
    Mandaryn Mandaryn 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    Looks don't mean everything. I once was dating around, and there were 2 guys competing over me. One was very attractive and muscular, and the other was plain and thin. Guy one...
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F Nov 15

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    How bout we all stop judging each other based on things we don't understand. I received a message from someone who made a comment along the lines of "so you're insecure, you cut...
    katie5929 katie5929 22-25, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Judge I remember your stare as a "friend" coerced your body, As you sip some sin, we look through crowd of eyes, And out of all the people here, The only one that sees my pain...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 6

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    Yes I said it. Growing up I was always afraid of judging people but realized that I was really good at understanding the motives of others. Whenever I exposed others on their...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Nov 11

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    Two broken lives, become one whole: A story of two troubled people just looking for love. Brittaney: How we met I don't remember the first time we met, it must have been a random...
    Douglas2275 Douglas2275 18-21, M Nov 14

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    I have never judged a person for anything mainly because i hate it when people judge me. Im a very open-minded person and easy to talk about anything in life :) Besides life is to...
    gsue gsue 36-40, F Oct 29

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    Thats right. I never judge people cos we are all human and we are all people. We all also do mistakes in life too. I don't care about race, religion, sex, belief, age or anything...
    OKPunk OKPunk 18-21, M Nov 3

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    I have always been. Isn't that how world should have been? Closing on new experiences that awaits, makes us stand in the same place ... And I like changes, new things, new events...
    LovelyAngieBack LovelyAngieBack 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 6

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    So, today I had brunch with my friends and they began discussing my brother. He is often a topic that I dread because I know that most people who lay eyes on him will never cease...
    ckj39 ckj39 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I am a very open minded woman. I love hearing opposite opinions than just mine. I can learn from others as they can learn from me too. From there, I make up my mind as what to...
    mississippiblondegal mississippiblondegal 36-40, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Better than other husbands. I feel good about the fact i am pretty much open minded when it comes to "pleasing wife". I usually don't apprehend in letting her enjoy company of a...
    fantasymister fantasymister 26-30, M 10 hrs ago

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