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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 26 People

    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I will listen and learn. I always remember though that should YE JUDGE, JUDGE YE, AS IF YOU SHOULD BE JUDGED. In other WOrds what goes around comes around. Or keep your mouth shut...
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M Sep 15

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    **** OFF!!!!!!!!! I don't judge you, so what gives you the right to judge me? Nobody likes being judged
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19

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    We all do it, it has nothing to do with who we are as people.
    tempe100 tempe100 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 16

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    No one can judge and if you do judge you're nothing but a piece of ****** up **** !
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F Sep 16

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    If you need someone to talk to or someone to listen to what you need to say; advice about anything, I'll try my best to give any you need. I'll be a friend to listen to your...
    dyingwish dyingwish 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Dad, I want things to be better. I don't want any more interruptions of my processes. I don't want any more commands. I don't want you to yell at me. I don't want you to be...
    LEMONrelishthemusic LEMONrelishthemusic 18-21, F Sep 16

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    I miss you. I love you. I would go through the fires of hell, just to see your smile. I would walk away forever, just to ensure your happiness. I love you, my moon.
    welcometomysociety welcometomysociety 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't think sex is sacred. It might be special but we can **** anyone, anywhere. Any idiot can ****, but it takes much more to love.
    PhilosophicMind PhilosophicMind 18-21, F Sep 5

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    Change is constant. Even if just chronologically.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Just the moronically cruel debaters.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    People think that having an open mind means you are up for doing anything. Wrong!!! Having an open mind means you are open to anything without judgement on it, especially if it is...
    spankwire spankwire 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 22

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    I have knee jerk reactions toward people who judge the mentally ill but are completely ignorant about mental illness. I try to explain things to them but sometimes I just wanna...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    Every story pic and comment are all true and real. I don't mind sharing my experiences with others. I would love to add more friends to my circle to share experiences and just to...
    goofysk8 goofysk8 22-25 1 Response Sep 16

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    I love people who are open-minded. People who can just talk about anything and everything. (:
    haayk haayk 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    Why is it sWhy cant I find a soulmate who would love to have a relationship like this. I am looking for a soulmate that we can spend the rest of our lives with. A relationship...
    UnknownRider UnknownRider 56-60, M 16 hrs ago

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    I miss having someone who I could feel safe and open with. Someone who my gestures and affections are not always seen as sexual. When I was in my late 20's I found the love of my...
    HONAW HONAW 41-45, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've realized that EP Allie is a fake Profile, you know why? Because all she does is send notifications to people and also delete stuff! The profile is controlled by the Experience...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Wow. 'Because sending a letter is the next best thing to showing up personally at someone's door. Ink from your pen touches the stationary, your fingers touch the paper, your...
    chasingekjx chasingekjx 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I'm fairly sure this is sort of a quote but I can't remember who said it. Anyway, if you talk a lot, you're hearing what you already know. If you're open to hearing what others say...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I may have EP friends that are considered complete horn-dogs and nasty f*#ks, perhaps even perverts... by others on the site. But, so far, none of these individuals have given me...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 3 Responses Sep 20

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    A popular standard Maldivian resort providing an all inclusive choice as well as a household reef. Ideal for couples or honeymooners trying to find functions and various eating...
    Temple2516ja Temple2516ja 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Regarding Ep.. this is not me judging as i am not like that... but sadly its true... please read on!Personally when i message someone here i am always trying to make a good...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 13

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    WELP... Guess I might as well try saying something good about myself! xD I feel like I'm a very open minded person! I always try to accept people for who they are, no matter what...
    QuadrupleM QuadrupleM 16-17, M Sep 4

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    With how crazy my life is, it is hard to find others that I can talk to without judgement. I recently have made a new friend that I am so thankful for. We are able to open up to...
    Dreamingofhim0514 Dreamingofhim0514 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    You know, your typical pessimistic mood-out kid? I really don't know why I'm posting all these stuff, maybe cuz I need more attention. Less than six really care.
    DarkLoser DarkLoser 13-15, F Sep 4

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    So, things are getting more complicated as usual. I thought somehow it has grown unto you that we aren't made for each other and you don't feel particularly fun when you're around...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Ok so I hate being judged in general. I would be more open about my crossdressing to people I know IRL but I'm afraid to hear there reactions and they would think differently of me...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I don't really like to judge people especially those I do not know. If somebody made mistake, particularly to the show business, people will accuse and bash them and even...
    JancenDC98 JancenDC98 16-17, M Sep 5

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    I have a friend, who I will call Melissa (not her real name) who has more than her share of challenges in life. I have known her most of my life as we attended the same grade...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I like to know everything about everybody. Not for any real reason, I just like to know what makes people tick. I guess it makes me sort of a hypocrite bc I don't like to open up...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to begin this by saying that I was once a completely normal girl. I grew up in a house with a yard, two parents who were hard workers and a lazy pet dog. I never got into...
    Naivegirl0963 Naivegirl0963 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    Closed doors leave you in a locked room... I've always been a "go with the flow" kind of person I'd like to believe everyone has their own story to tell and has been effected by...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I have been reading a lot of these posts about passive aggressive mothers and I am shocked to see that I am not alone. I cannot speak to my friends about my experience because they...
    karineka karineka 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Recently I have tried opening up to people about my experiences and been disappointed with their responses. I feel like they judge me negatively based on how people are supposed to...
    lucysnowe lucysnowe 22-25, F 28 Responses Sep 13

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    Yeah... that's right. I'm tired of being the one doing all the talking in private message on EP. I'm tired of always being the one to break the ice. I'm tired of opening up to...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M Sep 21

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    And I need your help. This is for a school class, but I want to do it, and I want to do a good job at it too! The chances of it being of any help are small, and the chance that he...
    colorstone colorstone 31-35, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    What I see in me is a man who has gone through some considerable losses and pains and who has picked up his hammer and sword anyways. I am resilient. I am forged of a steel my soul...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    How did we tiny creatures living on that spec of dust, ever manage to figure out how to send spacecrafts out among the stars of the milky way? Only a few centuries ago, a mere...
    OdeSlinger OdeSlinger 26-30, M 4 days ago