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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    I had nowhere to post this.

    .i don't know in what kind of group it should belong..but I liked the idea of the title..Back to the point.. Dear Whoever, I've been feeling lonelier and lonelier these days. I feel as if i am living in a ghetto full of uneducated and misbehaving people..ignorant about learning...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Judging me do sent define me it only defines you

    and don't try and define me your life just might depend on it.
    ptbl ptbl 13-15, F Feb 5

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    Someone here called me selfish

    when I posted I was taking friends out of my circle as they no longer logged in.I make exceptions though.I don't like to look at their profiles thinking over the happy times we had and feeling sad.They have moved on and I must too.I am no celebrity.So ,no one knows what I go...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Well here's the deal. I have a relatively new friend that I've been hanging out with for a couple months now and he's a heroine addict. Now I knew this going in, and believe me in...
    goatonicon goatonicon 36-40, M 4 hrs ago

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    I'm writing this really upset. Maybe because it's raining and I stood in the rain, upset. Please don't judge me. Hear me out. I posed as this random woman on tinder. I guess I...
    jenniferking123 jenniferking123 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    You'd think I'd be used to people looking at me crazy by now; but I'm not, may never be. They take one look at you and what you hold important in your life and walk away, no...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I am very open minded about my liberalism but there is a limit to me being liberal. I am a non-judgmental woman because I am not perfect. I absolutely have a problem with others...
    blondemomathome blondemomathome 36-40, F 9 hrs ago

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    If you don't know me don't judge me
    nrogel nrogel 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    Only God can judge me -2pac quote
    nrogel nrogel 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    I hate when people judge me according to my relatives or when they judge them according to me
    warmada warmada 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I want to get married some day but I don't trust myself to commit for that long. And therefore I don't attract the kind of love that leads to building anything with anyone. I have...
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    Thank You God for the experiences of life that help you change.
    AlonsoCar1996 AlonsoCar1996 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    People come and go. Some people will come into your life to give you a lesson, to open doors/ opportunity. There are happy times and sad times. Some days are sunny and sometimes...
    heyjan heyjan 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just lost the love of my life due to money His family puts money before everyone. I had a stroke, couldn't contribute towards the expenses and they decided I was a burden...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    After much consideration based on the people I've met recently I guess that I really do expect too much. Honesty, openness, acceptance, trust, communication, mutual understanding...
    BrandysGood BrandysGood 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are people that are so uncomfortable with their own sexuallity that they feel the need to pick on others! It drives me insane. If you are sad and down and need someone to...
    Declanx Declanx 13-15, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Some people mistake this experience for something sexual. However, broad-mindedness is the thing that has to do with sex. Open-mindedness has to do with a healthy approach to...
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm finding it more and more difficult to date women closer to my age, once they find out that I've dated and had pleasant relationships with women between the ages of 18 -25. I'm...
    C00LDaddy C00LDaddy 41-45, M Jul 19

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    Dear future husband, I don't want to meet you. I like the idea of a good looking friend I can drool over but not touch. I'm not interested in getting to know you. I don't think...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Jul 19

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    Hey Everyone I'm back 💗😄 I'm Rachel I'm 18 years old I live in Ireland I'm in a wheelchair since a baby can't walk never will 😔I used to self harm but have been clean for...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 18

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    I see many options and I dont judge others because I know it is unfair and wrong...I wouldnt want someone to judge me but in all honestly i am not effected by the world's view on...
    SMLMystery1 SMLMystery1 13-15 2 Responses Jul 17

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    But, tabloid journalism is just trash. There's no real desire to inform, just hurt, create a wave and do anything to help the bottom line. In this day and age, privacy is for sale...
    Longpatrol90 Longpatrol90 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    Which you couldn't/can't, so stop with the judging already. I feel what I feel, do what I do, say what I say... Cuz I'M ME. I'm ME, okay? Not You. And I Won't Do Things the...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I am dealing with the sudden loss of my boy friend and his best friend. I still don't know how I am making it through the days. It was 8 weeks ago today. I still think I'm going to...
    jcd87 jcd87 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm around irrevocably narrow-minded people who judge people based on the way they prefer to dress themselves, who considers shaving eyebrows a way to attract men ( wtf ), judges...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F Jul 15

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    I really like true open minded people. Some claim claim to be so open minded but if I don't participate in the same behavior they call me narrow minded, trying to use reverse...
    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Ever since I was younger I wondered how it would feel like to be a boy and I use to pretend to be one because how men are looked at as leaders. I know realize I am gender fluid and...
    lolitaxSweetie lolitaxSweetie 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I love that at every turn and around every corner we come across something different and experience something new...I just wish that more people were OPEN to allowing themselves to...
    Micky7288 Micky7288 56-60, M Jul 14

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    Lmao, I'm posting this here because the person im attempting to reply to made it so I can't say anything. So here you go: I was not looking to brag when I posted this. I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    I think personally from what I've experienced recently and mostly of what I've opened myself up to this year particularly; I consider myself as a person who doesn't judge people...
    rachelcookie rachelcookie 16-17, F Jul 12

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    Everyone is different and special in their own way. It doesn't matter what you think about your self or what people say about you, Ohh trust me when I say there are people out...
    olivia102 olivia102 18-21, F Jul 12

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    hard to come across,the truth never hurts me
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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