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I Am Posting An Open Letter to All Who Judge Me

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    ENOUGH

    This is to the self appointed manners Nazis, attitude police passing out lectures sermons and social fines for non smiling faces, the ambassadors of "happy town" where whining and so called "pity parties" are not only against the law...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Yes, I Am Who I Am

     That's right, I am who I am. And, I am not sorry if you don't like it. I say what's on my mind,and do what I like to do, sometimes this gets me into trouble. But, then that's life. I have done some things that I can say I am not proud of, but then who hasn't ? The last I...
    tjsgirl tjsgirl 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Bring It On!

    This is a letter for all you empty profile people who feel the need to judge me.  You fill my in box and hijack my stories with messages of judgment and hate. If you have a problem with what I have to say, or  how I feel about a particular subject, bring it on baby...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 27 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Writing It Is Half the Fun and the Start of a New Headache

    If you write an open letter to those who judge you then it is also an open invitation for those same people to respond. If you can handle the comments and insults that will come then it can be a very freeing experience or a very frustrating one. But it seems to me that writing...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    ...

     Hmm... okay. Everyone judges everyone. You're lying to yourself if you think you don't. Judge me as you wish, that's fine. But if you're going to be hmm... mean spiritedly vocal about your judgments, then... I will have to stand up for myself. Yes? Yes.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    You Know Who You Are.

    I am not afraid of being who I am. I am not afraid of having my opinion,and knowing what is right from wrong. I do not cry myself to sleep every night because you call me a ******* ginger ****,or when you say that my dress looks hideous,or that I'm destined to...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    I Ask Only One Thing.

    If you're going to judge me, at least be sure your facts are straight, not just some blind assumption of my character. Other than that, I could care less. Thank you.
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    Guilty Until Proven Innocent

    So!You have appointed Your self My judge and found Me wanting and guilty.I hope You're sitting down because I have some Earth shattering news for You.I dont care.Your bad opinion of Me just dont rock my world.It most likely wont matter to the next person You judge either.My...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Joining the Club

    I'm joining, too.  Isn't Ep supposed to be a place you share experiences with others who are similar?  If you don't like it, you don't have to be a part of it.  Go find someone who thinks and believes the way you do, but keep your rude and obnoxious comments to...
    darknight darknight 46-50, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Want to Judge Me? Well, Guess What?

    You don't know JACK CRAP about me, and I'm sure not trying to know you. I'm living my life, I care about others who care about me. I'm generous, loving and smart. If you want to throw away your time and energy judging me, guess what? I don't give a flying you-know-what. I...
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I don't judge others. I really try not to. I feel like i understand what people go through when they are discriminated against for something. For reasons such as what they believe...
    IndoSavior IndoSavior 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I myself am open minded and I never judge anybody I dislike when people are like that it just bothers me a little I'm tired of being a round the people who are complete opposite
    BrookeDuchanne16 BrookeDuchanne16 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    All my life I have been judged by people. First let me explain why I was judged. My mother is the victim of Rape. I am a product of Rape. The religion she is in thought that the...
    Lilique Lilique 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Judge Me Not EP is the biggest offender of this. They censored so much on this site that people can't even share their experiences anymore. So the biggest judgmental 'persons' on...
    SilviaAnnGinger SilviaAnnGinger 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    NORMALLY I am, but I think I've used up all of my sympathy and empathy and caring on this site that when I read certain experiences I'm just thinking: "Get over yourself" or...
    JFergS94 JFergS94 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I wear make up every day if i go out. I wear make -up cream, then do my brows with a pencil, then i add powder, then i add gloss or lipstick. I dont wear mascara and eye shadow...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I don’t place a high value on material wealth, the quality of someone’s personality is much more important to me
    TimEP TimEP 56-60, M Jul 22

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    I call Him Father ,,,and He calls me son ,,, I am asked all the time what I think we will be when Christ comes ,,,I don't know what I will look like but I am sure like the Hebrew...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    The ignorant are the irresponsible and the narrow minded. The judgemental are the weak and the cowards. These elements together lead to apathy, which is the cruelest element...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M Jul 13

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    People are judgmental and it sucks. Now I'm only 13 almost 14 and I know pretty much everything about being judged which sucks. I want to punch every judgmental person in the face...
    canadaJuly1 canadaJuly1 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I need someone in real life who can almost be just like me someone I could talk to very openly and won't judge at all
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't like this saying, and the same with 'Don't judge someone before you know them', I agree somewhat. But if you find somebody who is licking a wall whilst wearing a cabbage...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I hate people who judge me when they have never met me and don't know me... Like, for example, on social media.... When people think they can judge me.. Telling me what I am and...
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I hate others who judge teen moms. I was a single teen mom at 16. I found it very hard to be a teenage mom and going to school. Two of my girls are single and pregnant. Melissa...
    bustymomanddaughter bustymomanddaughter 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 20

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    I use to think I was a lesbian. In fact I was positive but now I believe that you can't help who you like. If it's a guy or a girl you can help it, and nobody who judge you based...
    KylieLaine KylieLaine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm suffering from lack of focusing & doing things for a VERY long time. Till I left my family for my high school education, I was simply living in my bed. I was intelligent, I...
    tewkel59 tewkel59 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I have been through a lot and I am here as a listening ear and an advice giver to all who need it. I can understand you, I promise.
    IamSCARED123 IamSCARED123 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm afraid of posting my info .... I don't wanna end up getting judged for talking online about my life /:
    sf619 sf619 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I get rejected all the time. By family, friends, teachers, etc. and yeah it bothers me a lot sometimes that I'm being judge for something stupid like my appearance or the way I...
    KilljoyTillTheEnd KilljoyTillTheEnd 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I do not judge others for things they say/think/feel...i do not think anything is gross or weird...what i want right now is for you to message me and tell me what your secret is...
    MosBlccPhnix MosBlccPhnix 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    When I was eleven I went to boarding school, leaving my three year old stepsister, Molly, at home. I had always been short for my age, and she had been rather tall but she was 3 so...
    betsy92 betsy92 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I know that open minded means can always be open to new experience in life and not just the make love thing... As i can listen to other people opinion even if i disagreed with...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 2

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    i always like to keep an open mind about everything in life. i also take in evreyone POV and i just think that in life you need an open mind to survive. I really accept everything...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 10

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    We judge others instantly by their clothes, their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. The list is endless. What gets me is that most people...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I believe we all have a right as human beings to follow whatever path we choose in life, i believe we should all be able to live our lives how we see fit without judgement but...
    HowLongWillWeBeWaiting HowLongWillWeBeWaiting 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    im from new zealand, and i have a man in jail. he went in 2010. its now 2014 nd he still has 2 years to go. i find because i now dont have a job my life revolvs around waiting for...
    hannahpinky101 hannahpinky101 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    When people said "i wont judge you",i thought they are open minded & never judge people by the profile or by the cover. I hv told them if you want me to stop chat, then i will stop...
    dankko dankko 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    Someone who is very open minded, and has different perspectives of life, someone who isn't biased, but seems to know what exactly is going on, also someone who would not judge or...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 9 Responses Jul 10

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    My husband and I just got into a huge fight about the fact that I don't open up to him. I can understand why he would be upset about it - I would be too if I were in his shoes. But...
    roseblossom90 roseblossom90 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I hate when people are like "don't judge me unless you've walked in my shoes." I won't judge people based on what they've been through. I will judge people based on how they...
    derbygirl67 derbygirl67 22-25, F Jul 21

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    A guy like you is impossible to find <3 im sorry i ever doubt you honey. I glad that we become ‘us’ because you are the most special person in my life; you’re my...
    Brokenpiecesthatsmile Brokenpiecesthatsmile 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I am a 21 year old woman I work full time and live with my partner who is 23 and just finished a business degree, problem is I want to have a baby but I am so scared of being...
    TheEmpress14 TheEmpress14 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been told before many times that I'm open minded, but didn't really think of it that way. Maybe because I thought it's just my personality that I like to talk with people...
    Saoussen Saoussen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    people are fast to judge, and very slow to accept! because they have no idea what its like to walk in the path of thoughts who they judge
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I have my man whose in prison now three (3) years going on (4) I have been writing him like 4 letters per week, he use to call me on the phone, he use to sound so happy, positive...
    sweetladywilcox5 sweetladywilcox5 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I am 26 and have not had any meaningful relationships with a female. I am an inherently shy individual and I was a loner for most of my teenage and young adult life up until a...
    wmirten wmirten 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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