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I Am Pregnant and Single

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    My ex boyfriend has already started another

    relationship, and I feel like he is doing all of this just to hurt me... but I don't understand, because I didn't do anything wrong. I am eight months pregnant (32 weeks), and having to deal with everything alone. My ex has caused me so much pain and sadness throughout the...
    crm8908 crm8908 22-25, F 4 Responses May 9

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    I live with my boyfriend

    but he's addicted to drugs, we became pregnant and he wanted me to have an abortion. I told him, just bc he has a drug problem doesn't mean I have to give up our baby. especially since I've had some issues, reproductively, and was told I couldn't have children. he has gotten...
    jennjenn072 jennjenn072 26-30, F 3 Responses May 9

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    I am 21 weeks pregnant I broke up with the

    father because he is emotionally abusive I really don't feel like I have anyone that I can confide in since im so busy staying strong and getting everything ready for my princess. I have some support but this boat feels pretty empty.
    dwill1992 dwill1992 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    I never imagined I'd be in this situation at my

    age. I'm 35, almost 9 months pregnant with my first baby. I thought I'd be married, happy and content, not single, lonely and afraid. All I ever wanted to be in life was a wife and mother. Seems everywhere you look, people are cruel. No one believes in being faithful...
    ARealSweetheart79 ARealSweetheart79 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 24

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    He Chose Alcohol Over Family

    So, here is the story I have been too embarrassed to tell: after dating my ex for a little under a year and being constantly told how much he wanted to marry me and start a family, I got pregnant for the first time ever at 32. You would think he would have been excited when I...
    Lyrah81 Lyrah81 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    How do you cope w/ being single and pregnant? I Want The Rest Of My Pregnancy To Be Joyful But It's Not Easy Doing It Alone.

    Well here's my story... I am 23, recently laid off due to company being sold along with many others. I have always been hard working but decided I would use my savings to go to college full time and complete my degree in elementary education. In the last weeks of being laid off...
    yserrano7 yserrano7 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    I am just upset. I want to find someone to talk

    to not just tonight but just to start talking to. Things get hard and emotional. I get confused. Usually I am pretty level headed. I don't have any "pressing issue" that I am upset about, just kinda wish I had someone to talk to about things.
    morainevalley morainevalley 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    20 Years Old and Pregnant.

    I am 19wks pregnant & doing this alone. My son's father is 30 & absolutely wants nothing to do with us. I moved from Idaho to Oregon & met this "dreamy, amazing" man. Or so I thought the first three weeks of knowing him. That is all it took & I was living with him, taking care of...
    ImaleeCosta ImaleeCosta 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I can't stand men or boys

    who think it's ok to get a girl pregnant then dump her cos they can't handle it there p.... Really men stay with the girl and look after love her and the kids or kid I would love a kid or kids inbox me girls if you need to chat about anything I'm here
    matthewomahoney matthewomahoney 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I'M Pregnant And Having A Broken Heart

    I'm feeling so lonely and so sad now. I have just got pregnant for a few weeks and I wanna keep my baby. The father of my baby didn't want me to keep it, told me to abort and I refused. Then he said it was not from him His words broke my heart so badly. I didn't ask him to do...
    diemnicole diemnicole 26-30, F 47 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Single And Pregnant... And Happy!

    I am 29 years old with no kids. I met a guy on a dating site 3 months ago and we had one of those whirlwind romances that took off very quickly. I was told a few years ago by my doctor that I couldn't have kids, and in the past I had a 5 year relationship with a man where we didn...
    ElmersGlue ElmersGlue 26-30 8 Responses May 13, 2012

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    I was dumped today...

    . I'm 34 weeks pregnant with another guy's baby. When I was dumped by the father of my baby, he came along and treated me so well when most of my exes were abusive. He's the only guy I've ever loved... Today, he suddenly said he didn't love me anymore... I'm so upset and...
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 8 Responses May 27

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    I'm 7 weeks with an unplanned pregnancy

    and just broke up with the dad and am having a very hard time emotionally.
    sdysart sdysart 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 25

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    I don't even know where to start.

    . I feel so alone.. I am 16 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. When I first found out I was pg my boyfriend begged me to get an abortion. I thought about it, but could not go through with it. A couple of weeks ago I called it quits w/ him for alot of reasons. I am currently going...
    bpulse bpulse 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    Pnw U.s.a. Can We Help?

    Need to talk or have the 'give-up' option? We would love to chat, mail, meet or talk? Lil dirty, preemie or no support, luv to hear it...
    jayandlib jayandlib 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    This is not something I planned

    nor ever wanted for myself or my child(ren). I wasn't even sure I could carry a pregnancy, after so many miscarriages I assumed I couldn't. So I let my loneliness and desperation get the best of me and here I am. I did start a group for 'lonely pregnant women', I notices that...
    GoldMishra GoldMishra 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I am really sad, the father left me with no

    explanation. :( I'm really caring and I would love for someone to talk to.
    MissDeathKitty1992 MissDeathKitty1992 22-25 10 Responses Feb 25

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    Heartache Sometimes Brings Something Beautiful

    This year has brought great pain and great change. Back in December, I found out I was pregnant. With my fourth child. As a single mother, this news was as devastating as it was beautiful. I didn't think I wanted any more children. When I told the father, he said he wanted the...
    butterflibabe butterflibabe 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Pregnant And Alone

    My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, when I wasn't there - he simply left a message on Facebook to disappear out of my life, knowing we wouldn't be together for 2 months still, because I had to go to my home country to settle a few things. While I was on the plane not being...
    Moonlightdancer Moonlightdancer 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    i have 3 babies in side of my tummy

    and i was due 5 days ago.
    KateKids KateKids 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 28

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    Never In A Million Years I Know Its Lengthy But Just Hear Me Out!!!

    I can completely sympathize with all of you beautiful women and what your going through! This journey alone has definitely given me thick skin and a kick *** and take names attitude. I am the mother of a 8yr son and expecting another son Dec 17, 2013. My first son I got pregnant...
    MissB2u MissB2u 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Italia5 Italia5 22-25, M 1 Response May 17

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        *I tend to ramble

    and rant more than I should but I am hoping by the end of this "vent" session things will kind of tie in together. Sorry if i leave any confusion. :) *So, this is more of an update to an experienceI had shared previously about being pregnant again and finding out I was having...
    bandelt7 bandelt7 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    My ex and I live in the same house together

    but have different rooms and don't talk. If we talk we fight, he is emotionally abusive and an alcoholic. He has threatened to throw me down the stairs to get rid of the problem and cops have been involved. I feel trap living with him, however, our lease isn't up until Feb. I...
    Chantal83 Chantal83 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm currently 5month pregnant to my 3rd child

    I'm writing this with a really heavy heart. Im always looking for love outside of home and end up falling in love with the wrong men and who are older than me yes all my 3 children have different father's including this one I'm carrying now I had my first child at 18 years old...
    zaratina zaratina 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I met D through a mutual friend

    and new right away that I would have a relationship with him. He promised me the world. Telling me that he wanted me to be his wife, mother of his other children (2 other kids, separate mothers) and telling me he wanted me to have his baby. I believed him instead of trusting my...
    tinapunk tinapunk 26-30, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Need Advics

    im 20 and my boyfriend left me when i told him i was pregnant i dont know what to do
    chel1200 chel1200 22-25, F 27 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Are there any pregnant women in New Jersey

    that would like to be waited on hand and foot. Your wish is my command
    Lovethembig Lovethembig 18-21, M Jun 28

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    Single, Pregnant And Lonely

    Three words that I never thought would describe my life all at once. I'm 25 and pregnant with my first child. My last pregnancy ended in miscarriage around 9weeks so I was excited when I found out also a little scared. I had just ended a relationship in May and found out I was...
    arm5702 arm5702 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Pregnant From Casual Relationship...

     I am currently 9 weeks Pregnant from a very casual relationship. The father and I dated briefly about a year ago and ran into eachother recently and hooked up, bad I know, however we are here now. He has made it very clear that he only wants  remain friends, which in a way...
    sarah787 sarah787 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    My boyfriend found out I'm pregnant

    and left. :/ Typical guy
    LonelyPrego122 LonelyPrego122 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm 14 weeks pregnant

    and the baby's dad and I were together for a year, but we split up in August and have been "hooking up" ever since because I honestly thought he would want to be with me if I kept having sex with him. It definitely did not work. When I told him I was pregnant, he told me to get...
    Prgntnscrd Prgntnscrd 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Im 6 months pregnant

    and ive been alone most of it. Not only am i single i have no friends. it gets really lonely and depressing sometimes i feel like i cant enjoy my pregnancy the way i would like to.
    jessi920 jessi920 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 16

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    New Here....Pregnant And Single!

    Met a guy online. Dated for about 3 month's. Slept with him once and got pregnant. The dad begged me for an abortion. Haven't heard from him since the day I told him. I was 5 weeks pregnant and now I'm 19 weeks. Scared to death but I know I can do it. I'm 33 so I'm not a kid...
    stephaz stephaz 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    So I have always known

    that I am attracted to girls, it's just something about them is so beautiful. I labelled myself as Bisexual. while dating a good guy friend I realized that I honestly don't have feelings for guys anymore and even bedroom life with a male just didn't feel good anymore it felt...
    unsurefeelings unsurefeelings 18-21, F 1 Response May 23

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    It has been a life long dream of mine to treat

    a pregnant woman like the queen she truly is. If your pregnant and feel you deserve to sit back a relax while I make you feel like the most beautiful woman ever
    Lovethembig Lovethembig 18-21, M 1 Response May 22

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    I had a very close friend

    that I didn't realize I was so crazy about.. we became friends with benefits for only about a month and I became pregnant. Now he wants nothing to do with me or my unborn son... Sometimes I just have no idea what to do anymore. My life is literally upside down with nobody to...
    EmilyTheMonster EmilyTheMonster 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    We'Re Not All The Same

    Pregnancy is beautiful and special, and no woman should have to experience it alone. I'm sorry that there are so many ******** out there that treat their girlfriends and wives like trash, especially after they become pregnant. Asking for an abortion or leaving your significant...
    Radification Radification 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    I am 22-years-old, I am almost a college

    graduate. I recently found out I am pregnant by my "ex" if you can even call him that. We dated for barely a week, we had sex ONCE and I got pregnant. Our relationship has always been rocky, he's lied and used me multiple times over the 6 months I have known him. Now that I am...
    kholb112 kholb112 22-25 4 Responses Apr 30

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    I am 30 years old, turning 31 in 2 days.

    I am 25 weeks pregnant. I am pregnant with a married man's child. The man was my boyfriend for almost the past two years. Since I've gotten pregnant, he's made my life a living hell. He's a monster. I haven't spoken to him in almost a week because the last time we talked...
    KMC2727 KMC2727 31-35, F 5 Responses May 1

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    I'm 23 years old and 13 weeks pregnant.

    As of October of 2013 I was a virgin, by the end of December I was pregnant. The father is the only one I've ever been with. I couldn't take anymore of his on and off again attitude. One minute he's happy and want's to be there for me and the baby the next he's telling me that I...
    LadiRenee LadiRenee 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 16

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    My oldest daughter and I are

    both pregnant and single. We both are very happy about being pregnant together and looking forward to meeting our kids very soon. I am due in September with twins and my daughter is due in December with a son.
    janisandcindy janisandcindy 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 12

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    My second unplanned pregnancy

    and he left again. Same father. First time he was too busy partying to care. We didn't have much in common besides drinking and when I got pregnant I stopped. He never did. I was alone during my entire first pregnancy. He got involved after the baby was born. Straightened up a...
    morainevalley morainevalley 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 12

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    I had a **** father but I love my mother to

    death and back and she did it own here own so women you don't need men but if there's a guy out there that does love you and your kids if have some already then go for it cause trust me a boy needs a father but only if his Ganna be a proper father ha and if you're keen to talk I...
    kerw94 kerw94 18-21, M Jul 7

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    I found out today after 2 + tests.

    ... I'm 21 and I'm really scared I don't know what to do... I don't know if I'm capable of killing my own baby... I think I wouldn't be able to forgive myself... But I can't have a baby, my mom is catholic and would kill me ((at first... then she'll be all supportive...
    gabscaussigh gabscaussigh 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    lsmith17 lsmith17 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    newxnewx newxnewx 22-25, M Jul 8

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    Alone

    I am 23 about to be 24. I have two kids, a 6yr old boy, and a 4 yr old girl. Im no longer with their father. We divorced almost two years ago. Im now 15wks prego. I was with the man that i met from work. He was so amazing the first few months we was together. Then he turned into...
    6 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    At The End Of The Day

    I loved you and still yeah thats true. But now that i'm pregnant I realize that you're not actually someone I want to be with forever. I know this sounds so terrible but I don't think we are prepared to handle a child together at all. We are arguing all of the time. I'm not...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    hi there i am looking

    for any girls in the Michigan area or another close by state. i am friendly and honest guy who talk about anything and be here for you. if you are interesting please message me
    wheelchairdavid35 wheelchairdavid35 36-40, M Apr 25

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    ... Exhausted From The Lies... I Dumped Him At 8 Weeks Pregnant

    There really is no short version to this story... so please bear with me... (also spell check is not working...yikes! sorry a million times over!)I am a 26 year old female, I am a mother to an amazing 5 year old girl. (Her father is not a part of our life by his own chooseing...
    ShastaGirl ShastaGirl 26-30 3 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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