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I Am Pro Choice

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    ... Because I love children

    and believe that it is a woman's right to have a say in her reproductive health. ~Adelaide. *I have reached my limits. Even someone who has such a loooong fuse as mine would of blown up by now. I am going to delete these comments. Why? I do not have to give a reason. Funny...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    I have been pro choice

    since I was a youngster. My adopted mother explained the difference to me about pro choice and using abortion clinics to kill a little baby who cannot fight for themselves in this fight to live. I have seen the statistics about the number of abortions by women of all ages. Go...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 3

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    There was a time when I was pro-life,

    and looking back I was so naive. I was really pro-birth not pro-life, if I was really pro-life I would have looked at the life that was already being lived, no one should be 'punished' with carrying a baby for nine months unless they are willing to make the decision themselves...
    nicky411 nicky411 18-21, F 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I just found that I have the opportunity to be

    a woman's health advocate and speak to women about abortion to destroy that social stigma. I clicked on that job offer faster than a pig to his slop tray. If I can make a career out of helping women make the best decision for their lives and educating as many as possible about...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 1

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    I believe everybody should have the choice to

    have an abortion what if a young girl gets raped and she's not capable of giving birth I've seen this happen before and the mother and the child both died because she was not able to have a child . If it goes against your religious beliefs then don't have one . But don't let...
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 19 Responses Jun 21

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    If abortion is murder,

    then oral sex is cannibalism, miscarriage is manslaughter, and planting an acorn and then digging it back up is chopping down a tree. Doesn't really make much sense when put into perspective, now does it?
    MidsouthGuy MidsouthGuy 22-25, M Aug 3

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    A few years ago I was with a man

    who was emotionally abusive and he got me pregnant. When I told him he accused me of cheating on him and said he would have nothing to do with the child. Distraught, I called my stepmom, whom I'm very close with, for advice and she confided in me that she herself had an abortion...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 10 Responses Jul 4

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    EVERY woman should have the right to choose

    what to do in a hard situation without being looked down upon. Their bodies their choices
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    It's absolutely horrible

    that there are people that refer to women who make decisions on what to do with their bodies as "murderers." That's a very harsh word to throw around, and the people that do it most, most likely don't understand what murdering is. When someone shoots someone without any...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 22

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    It really irks me when people tell me

    since I don't want kids to just get my tubes tied. Believe me, I'd love to. But not only do I not have money, I more importantly don't qualify. That's right. I either have to have 3 children already or I have to be married at 25 and have my husband's permission. Unfortunately...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 23 Responses May 29

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    I am trying to hold back with polite

    conversation (not so polite) in an @bortion debate on FB, from sharing this gem with the woman that insisted on sharing pro-life bible verses with me when I already told her I'm an atheist: "Since you felt the need to spill a collection of bible verses at me last time we had...
    frostyflower frostyflower 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    "There are women in this world

    that have inserted coat hangers into themselves in order to induce abortion because men in government care more about the words in the bible than the health of and the rights of women." Illegal abortions have taken the lives of countless women due to infection and horrific...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 8

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    but I support the Hyde amendment.

    The right to choose does not include the right to force others to pay for that choice (except under dire circumstances). I find it rather odd that the same people who think 'the government should stay out of the bedroom and out of a woman's uterus' also want the government to...
    BlotOutTheSun BlotOutTheSun 22-25, M 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Why is there a greater concern

    for a unborn fetus, than for the thousands and thousands of children without a home, going hungry, no family, no one to love them, no sense of hope, no chances. What about the children being abused, the children being sold into human trafficking. Why do we completely ignore...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 14 Responses May 21

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    I may be a guy, but I'm not stupid enough to

    think that guys should decide what women do with their bodies. Pro-life guys are insane - then again, so are all pro-lifers. These people say that a baby is what women get for opening their legs, and in the next second they'll say that a baby caused by rape is a blessing. Look...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses May 2

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    Rightwing stupidity at it's finest

    finest https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNQauxDsVCw Pro - rape is now a political contention now cuz muh propertz rights. Big gubmint try'n take muh freedumbz away.
    BlotOutTheSun BlotOutTheSun 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    A woman had asked a question looking

    for advice on her 7 week pregnancy, stating that while she wanted another child in her early thirties, she's reached her late thirties with a host of medical pitfalls such as arthritis and having weight instability on top of an older child. (8-10 years old, I can't quite...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 19

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    If you're willing and have the time to read

    this, then here goes nothing... "You could always give the baby up for adoption!" -First of all, sometimes women don't want to get pregnant because they don't want to have to give birth. What would be the point of adoption, if you still have to give birth? Secondly, there are...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    Questions for pro lifers against abortion

    and against homosexuality.... If you knew that your baby would be born gay, would you abort it? Or wait until after it is born, to abuse and abandon it?
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    "I cannot understand anti-abortion arguments

    that centre on the sanctity of life. As a species, we've fairly comprehensively demonstrated that we don't believe in the sanctity of life. The shrugging acceptance of war, famine, epidemic, pain, and life-long poverty shows us that, whatever we tell ourselves, we've only made...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 36 Responses Feb 19

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    My boyfriend and I just watched a video titled

    "We asked children how they felt about abortion and their answers shocked us." We were weary but decided to watch it. My boyfriend has a bachelors in Psychology so whenever he sees a study or survey done, he sees if they follow certain rules that is set up for such things. This...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 34 Responses Jun 18

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    "So if having a heartbeat means nothing,

    at what point does it become a baby you wouldn't abort? There's no way around life at conception!" At what point would a comatose individual become a person that you WOULD abort? Since it all hinges on subjective reasoning for personhood... I'm certain that there really is no...
    WytW0lf WytW0lf 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    So many arguments are just made complicated,

    when they could easily be simplified by understanding the topic at hand.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 28

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    You can be pro choice

    and pro life too .... You can support the women who have made a hard decision to abort a fetus because of certain circumstances ...No one knows what a person is going through or their circumstances . I'm not for abortion in terms as a form as birth control . I'm just saying...
    Chernobylplayground Chernobylplayground 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I think you should decide

    if you want an abortion or not. But really only writhing the very first few weeks... I mean I have protected sex 95% of the time. (I know it should be 100%! 😁) but if I were to be pregnant, as much as I would love having a child someday, now is not the time. I'm college and...
    bandybanderbandest bandybanderbandest 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Someone posted "Pro-choice should be: do I

    choose to keep and raise this baby or do I choose to give it up for adoption" and I just wanted to punch them. Being pro-choice does not include restrictions or limitations. It doesn't include our personal feeling or thoughts or beliefs. It's about understanding that each woman...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 1

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    So, how come pro life people will say things

    against abortion like "you can't make that choice for the baby" Like yes you can. If you have a child you are responsible for signing all the consent forms if the child needs a medical procedure. If the child needs surgery and there's a 99% chance the child will die and you sign...
    ThinspirationNation ThinspirationNation 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm getting a little bit sick

    and tired of being told what to think by anti abortion extremists who've decided it's their right to bully complete strangers. Each person who decides to make this final and traumatic choice is going through their own individual set of circumstances of which no one else has...
    AmalfiLimoni AmalfiLimoni 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    HOW TO END ABORTION 1) Easier access to

    contraceptives 2) More sex education with an unbiased outlook. NOT BY HARASSING WOMEN OUTSIDE CLINICS AND CALLING THEM NAMES.
    LetMeBeBlunt LetMeBeBlunt 26-30, M 10 Responses Feb 4

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    Lol so my philosophy class almost unanimously

    voted that pro life was the most correct point of view... Now I, a strong pro choice supporter, must write an essay explaining the correctness of pro life. Can I go to the dean to explain why that's not a right thing to do or the professor to appeal for a pro choice essay? Can...
    layneMac layneMac 18-21, M 17 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Is Not About the Children....

    Those against abortion are not looking out for the chidlrens best interests; if they are so devoted to saving littles lives that they will take away a womans control of her body, they would be out there saving the lives that already exist. If it was purely about saving the...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 37 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    Nobody likes abortion.

    Nobody wants to see it happen. But making abortion illegal is not the best way to decrease the rate of abortion!
    jackk225 jackk225 18-21, M 14 Responses May 15

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    Nothing irritates me more

    than people who marginalize how strenuous pregnancy is. Mentally, emotionally, and physically, pregnancy is absolutely horrible. It’s exhausting and most pregnancies have some level of problem, from high blood pressure, morning sickness, muscle cramps, swelling to necessary...
    WithoutChemicals WithoutChemicals 18-21, F 19 Responses Jun 17

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    I always have been, always will be.

    It's MY body, MY choice and definitely not for some old guys to decide for me.
    TerriCherry TerriCherry 26-30, F 43 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Pregnancy is hard, uncomfortable,

    painful, stressful, emotional, exhausting and often vomit-inducing. I couldn't imagine what it would be like to go through the pain and sickness not out of joy, but because you had to. Because someone else wanted you to and that persons wants and opinions matter more to the...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    My Weekly War Against Hatred

    I am an escort. No... not that kind of escort, lol. A volunteer patient escort at the Allentown Women's Center (www.allentownwomenscenter.com) in Pennsylvania. The AWC is a women's reproductive health center that provides birth control, routine gynecological exams, STD testing...
    OFFthecuff OFFthecuff 22-25, F 23 Responses May 22, 2008

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    No one asked to be born.

    There are "pro-life" people fighting for every pregnancy to end with birth. And yet people still have a huge problem with free healthcare. They have a huge people with food stamps. People don't care about homelessness. You demanded they be born and yet don't want assistance to...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 8

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    I wonder if pro lifers know

    that there are thousands of abortions happening right now and realize that their lives haven't been affected at all by the choice of someone else.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 31 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I'll say it because I am tired of "abortion"

    being a dirty word. It is not a dirty word. I am pro choice and pro abortion. Pro abortion doesn't mean you want abortion "all of the time" or even encourage it. This is what is known as an extreme and really all what the pro lifer is attempting to do is smear you. People, when...
    50shadesofexodus 50shadesofexodus 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Woman Dies In Ireland After Being Denied Abortion

    Source: The Guardian (UK) November 13, 2012 Health authorities in Ireland are investigating the death of a pregnant woman who's husband says she was denied an abortion after severe complications. Savita Halappanapar, who was 17 weeks pregnant, died of Septicaemia a week after...
    goodogstay goodogstay 46-50, M 8 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Sometimes the ignorance of pro-lifers makes me

    want to cry. Like, have you never fact checked anything in your life from a non-biased source? I desperately need you to educate yourself before you talk to me. It's a demand, not a request.
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 21

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    Oh my gosh. Pro-life logic: "you're an awful

    person for wanting to get/support abortion. Maybe you should have been aborted." Okay but I thought you just said you were against it? You can't pick and choose when it's okay when you get angry with me. That's not how it works!
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I just found out a few weeks ago

    that my big sister lied about her first pregnancy being a miscarriage. She got an abortion. I was honestly really surprised but it didn't change my opinion of her. Although I use birth control I'm always terrified of getting pregnant. If I got pregnant at this stage in my life I...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I am pro choice because a baby should never be

    a punishment. I'm pro choice because people are sexual beings and should not be denied one of the most intimate, human experiences we can have. I am pro choice because theology should never dictate my or any other woman's biology. I am pro choice because women deserve to have...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are men who think it's unfair

    that women get more "say" in whether or not they want to abort. They think their want for a child is more important than a woman's want to abort. I just want to take a second to let these men understand what their asking, or demanding I should say. You want a woman to give up...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 87 Responses Jan 26

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