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I Am Probably Not Going 2b The Black Female U Were Expecting

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    Fighting Styles...

    (scenario 1)Sister #1: I'm telling Mom, then.Me: Tell her, then ! What are we, five ??Sister #1: Kiss my---Me: BITE me ! (leaves)(scenario 2)Me: It doesn't make sense, and it's not fair...Sister #2: Why are you attacking me about this ? (Bursts into tears)Me: Aww, crap, I didn't...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Scenes from a family---at a party recently,

    my father was helping himself to some food, when a little boy came up to him. "You're old !" My father, who's always patient and good-humoured, almost no matter what, smiled gently and replied, "Yes, I guess I am." The boy asked, "Were you ever a sl*ve ?" I facepalmed and...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Cliché.

    i am not horny, hot, stupid, obsessed with sex or oppressed... and i don't have a big ***.......bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    A Different Type Of Sistah...i Am....

    I am far from your 'typical' Black woman that is portrayed on television....and in film.... I don't come from the hood....I don't have children with different and mutiple  fathers....I speak properly.......listen to bands like Radiohead...Fall Out Boy..and U2....don't wear...
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    Actually...

    Further to this point, I am probably not going to be the female of anything you expect me to be. I like what I like without limitations related to my 'race', class or gender. No matter where I go or what I do, I will always have an assumption made about me and quite frankly, I...
    ollifer ollifer 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Nope, Sorry

    Nope, sorry,Not me,I'm sorry,I'm a man!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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