I Am Proud to Be a Virgin

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    Everyone likes to put me down

    for being a virgin. Well, here is why I am proud. -I don't have any possible STDs -I can save it for someone special someday. -There is no possibility of me having a kid just yet.
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    3 Responses Nov 18, 2015

    I'm proud because I'm saving it

    for that special someone
    silentguy300 silentguy300
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I don't need to have sex to be in a

    relationship, I just love talking and learning more about her.
    FarrelTaylor FarrelTaylor
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    People usually assume

    because ( not to sound arrogant) I am pretty, I am not a virgin. But looks have nothing to do with the status of one's virginity. It a choice and i choose to wait for someone, anyone, other than a highschool boy that I grew up with for 18 some odd years to do it with. Id rather...
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    6 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I like to think my virginity gives me strength.

    I don't have much of an urge to have sex. Maybe I'm asexual?!! But until I find someone I feel connected to and want to have sex with, I'm staying a virgin. There isn't anything wrong with not having sex. I'm happy I'm more educated on sex compared to the people I know who have...
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    2 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    Am Proud to Be a Virgin.

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    1 Response Jun 21, 2015

    People keep telling me I'm too old to be a

    virgin. Wtf, I'm 18. How is that too old... Whatever I'm not in no rush
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    5 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    Yes I am. I am proud to say

    that I don't go sleeping around with wrong people. That I have preserved something that other people would just give to anyone out of curiousity or pressure or maybe even the want of pleausure. I am going to wait till marriage. Yes. I'M OLD FASHIONED. But hey, it'll be the best...
    Missnobody2580 Missnobody2580
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    I don't want to lose that.

    So don't try to make me, I'll never do it.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    When someone ask if I'm a virgin,

    I've never been ashamed to say yes I am. People act like virgins are an endangered species or something. I could understand if I was over thirty and people looked at me strange, but I'm still young. I did want to be the stereotypical girl that lost her virginity to some loser in...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2014

    Virgin Pride.

    People are always surprised to find that I have yet to be deflowered. There have been many occasions where I could of had sex but just choose not to. Where I live especially in this day and age its normal for teens to have sex. In fact all of my friends before I graduated had...
    Cheygirl1889 Cheygirl1889
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Aug 27, 2011

    And I hope I can stay one

    until I get married :)
    nadinmagdy2000 nadinmagdy2000
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2014
    ILoveBacon23 ILoveBacon23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2014
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    1 Response Mar 28, 2015

    I never understood why it's cool to have sex

    with someone at my age. Maybe it's the school, and city I live in, but a lot of girls at my high school are pregnant, and its kinda weird. I don't know, pretty sure there is more to having a relationship with a girl (or vice versa) than simply sleeping with her constantly.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 4, 2014

    I'm 22 and I've never had sex!

    It's something I believe in and I want my husband to be my first:)
    anders56 anders56
    22-25, F
    May 15, 2015

    I'm proud to be a virgin.

    I don't tell anyone because then they start asking questions and it gets really annoying. I don't care that I haven't lost my virginity yet.
    TimidGrl01 TimidGrl01
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2015

    Yes, you can expect that from any Indian girl

    of my age, but you won't get those girls unless they are in any foreign Country.I don't want to lose it now, keeping it for that special someone, with whom I want to spend my entire life with.
    111rosy560 111rosy560
    13-15, F
    Sep 26, 2015

    It honestly really doesn't bother me

    that I am. I'm just disappointed that I'll more than likely never be in any loving relationship ever again that way I don't have to face anymore unnecessary pain.
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2015

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with waiting

    for the right guy and the right time. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
    purpleiza purpleiza
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2015
    Marieeby Marieeby
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2016
    haze18 haze18
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

    I am 17 year old girl

    and I am proud to be a virgin. I haven't ever kisses a boy. Nowadays, 16 is the age were people lose their virginity? I am born and raise in the Philippines. I have a very conservative family. They don't want me to hang with guys or even my friends. They're so protective. Some...
    QueenThylee QueenThylee
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 11, 2014

    never noticed this group

    til I saw someone's else story. but damn i sure am proud , I could die Happily as a virgin and I wouldn't care. and I'm so damn glad I never got to have sex with that stupid ex I had it would be lame losing it to someone worthless tbh.
    bloodyzombie19 bloodyzombie19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    im 19 proud to be a virgin,

    although my bf thinks other wise and pushes me to have sex nah im savin myself for marriage bruh ??
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    1 Response Oct 21, 2015

    Well I'm not, I have been married

    for 10 years, but I did wait for marriage and I would like to encourage all of you who are standing up to all the pressure of society and peer group and saving yourself for your husband and your marriage. Pride may be a sin, but in this immoral sexualised world I think you...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 3, 2015

    I wish, ... truth is,

    I've been fuhked by the stale repose of my own shadow. Inside the high of imatriptyline there lie recollections of you. Though stagnant I stand, undivided and slowly fading into the only wholeness of me, a complete depth of dark, Ive found the pits end. My only feeling itches...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter
    Nov 15, 2015

    I don't care if I'm the only teen that's a

    virgin. I'm proud of it :D
    Staycreativesailor Staycreativesailor
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2014

    IM ONLY 15. Girls at my school always brag

    about how many times they've had s.e.x , and how great it was and stuff . But, I'm glad I haven't had it . I want to wait , wait for someone special. I thought some of the people in my life were special enough for it at one point, but I look around and those same people are no...
    gxddesss gxddesss
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Feb 23, 2015

    I plan to stay one for the rest of my life.

    I just don't find it very comforting to have some dude's junk inside of me....
    FlowerFollower FlowerFollower
    16-17, F
    8 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    I've been pressured before to have sex.

    I always say no. Because no means NO. I will not do it to be "cool" because it's something that is supposed to wait until I'm ready. No one can decide one, except me.
    EmiTru EmiTru
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    I am proud, I just am always horny

    and ready to lose it.
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    Jun 24, 2015

    I have lots of friends

    that are doing it. But i don't believe i'm ready. not for a long time. I think it's fun doing the other stuff anyways.
    BoredClara BoredClara
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2015

    I'm proud to say I'm a virgin

    because I plan to save myself til marriage instead of just losing it to some guy who is only temporary in my life.
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    I think I am finally am

    because it's not like I could be influenced by the society/media or some random guy who makes stupid remarks. I was insecure because of such people, but honestly there's the benefits I'm not constantly thinking about it anymore and I think if there's reincarnation I could be...
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    3 Responses May 19, 2015

    I am very proud, just more

    than ready to lose it
    Alycat05 Alycat05
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2015

    I'm not sure if I'm proud about it .

    . At 35 i'm thinking more like a looser now ;) ha ha ha ... But I'm not sorry :) .. Still waiting for that special girl :)
    ddanny80 ddanny80
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Honestly I join this group to see

    if there are still 20 something Virgins like me out there, I don't regret being this way because I don't want to sleep around with jus anybody am waiting for someone who would like to settle down get married, but it bothering me most of the time especially when I get those...
    Nice4 Nice4
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    It's sometimes sad when talking to other young

    girls with boyfriends; I have a coworker who is 17 and she is in love with her boyfriend, like she can't wait to have his baby (she literally told me this), but she will yell about him a lot too. When I told her my boyfriend and I haven't had sex, nor do I plan to, she freaked...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit
    18-21, F
    May 22, 2015

    I tell people I'm a Virgin

    and they're like "Wow.. You're 15.. That's old to still be a virgin.." Like um. I'm not like those girls. I didn't pop out the womb and hop on a ****. I don't want stds I don't even want to kiss anyone, let alone THAT. For the love of God, people, what is happening!? 15...
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    6 Responses Oct 5, 2015
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa
    22-25, F
    Dec 23, 2013

    Honestly all of my friends talk about loosing

    their virginty to people who could care less about them. I am proud for not putting myself through that hurt. What's wrong with waiting until marriage? Nothing at all. Ladies and guys you can wait, and don't let anyone discourage you. And if you've already lost it, you still...
    Dezarre Dezarre
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    Am Proud to Be a Virgin.

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    1 Response Feb 20, 2015

    I personally am more interested in finding the

    person I am meant to be with and will marry. I have never had a boyfriend and that is just fine with me. :3
    TigeroftheOcean TigeroftheOcean
    18-21, F
    May 25, 2015

    I'm proud to be a virgin

    and I'm not ashamed to admit it. I think everything is very very sexualised these days and that's a great pity, because there is firstly a lot more to the world than having sex. Also and much more importantly it's a sin to do it except inside marriage. So I firmly intend to...
    RogerLeahRoger RogerLeahRoger
    18-21, F
    Mar 23, 2016

    Though I'm not sure that is true anymore.

    I am still a virgin, and I just told my boyfriend that I'm waiting until I'm 18 before I go all the way with anyone. He says he still loves me, but he can't sort out his feelings, and now the mystery is gone in our relationship. I don't know if he is going to dump me or not...
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    1 Response Oct 18, 2015
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