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I Am Queer

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    I Am Queer, But I Haven't Acted On It.

    I never thought I was going to act on my queer feelings because I've been in a heterosexual relationship for the last 4 years and I want it to last forever. But lately my partner has introduced the idea of opening our relationship physically to same sex relations, especially for...
    marisatw marisatw 18-21 Aug 20, 2013

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    Can I Be Queer?

    I am going to lay it out there and see where the chips fall. I am a 24 year old man and have been with my partner (female) for 8 years. I enjoy sexual activity with her and I have fathered a son, for whom my love knows no end. However, I am living a lie. I am attracted to men...
    queeraz queeraz 21-25 3 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Panlady

    I am Bella. I identify as pansexual or queer, and i just got out of a long relationship with a man. Im starting college in the fall and I'm so nervous about creating an identity all over again. Im also craving someone with really positive energy who understands my casual way of...
    bella1james bella1james 18-21, F Mar 5, 2013

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    I Wont Say I Am

    but definatly different like how many guys do you know that dont own any guys trousers socks or underear? they are all womens and i love it
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T Jun 3, 2013

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    What Did I Do Wrong In My Life That I Am The Person I Am In This Moment?

    What is wrong with me? I had this new years that was and experience for me, I had encounter with a guy (FTM) and we hit it off , would walk away from dance floor to go kiss and make-out. Days later we are chatting to each other and I am trying figure out for me who i am as...
    AcadStudent AcadStudent 22-25 Jan 4, 2012

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    This Is How I Came Out ...

    So I guess when I start thinking about my sexuality and it's manifestations, I feel like I should have know when I was little that I was going to be a little weird. I remember being young (like a little little kid) and playing house/doctor, whatever it's called, with my little...
    Pachis Pachis 22-25, F May 8, 2013

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    Getting to be really pissed about how many

    LGBT+ areas are made to cater to cishets. Allies need to stop.
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 16-17, T 1 Response May 25

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    "queer"

    I always think it's funny when I get called "queer" because for me living any other way would be strange, and just disgustingly awkward. I have never even considered being with a guy, and have always felt attracted to girls. I am masculine and have always been...
    Blizzake Blizzake 22-25 Oct 21, 2009

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    Sounding The All Queer Signal

    Hi ladies, gents, womyn, bois, cis-, trans, and everyone who is not heteronormative! I'm queer. I'm out. I've been out since I was 14, so that's nearly twenty years now. If you want to get down to the three main categories of sexual attraction, I'm bisexual. I'm more...
    twelvetwelve twelvetwelve 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Being A Bit Left Out

    I am bisexual - I have interest in both male and female. Due to this, putting on comments to both sex is very natural for me, but things are bit conservative in my neighborhood. I didn't make a coming-out to anyone yet, so people look on me as a bit sensitive person, or sometimes...
    fraudi fraudi 22-25 Aug 18, 2013

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    Queer Little Me <3

    There's nothing in this world that i would rather be than queer little me! I remember juggling the labels around in this circus called my life and thinking to myself I would so rather be the bearded lady... but enough of that seriously college was the biggest coming out and...
    Nerd6986 Nerd6986 26-30, F Aug 25, 2012

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    Just Queer.

    Earlier tonight I opened up Word and started typing.  I want to understand myself, I want to learn to be happy, learn what I want in life and then find a way to make it happen.  Over the course of writing, I came to a lot of new conclusions.  Thus far, it's helping and I feel...
    themegaloo themegaloo 22-25 3 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Untitled

    Most comfortable with "queer" although the rest of the other qualifications we homos require of each other bore me. Who else would submit to such superficial identity tags. My  "story " is not too unusual; early bisexuality(like 6), paternal molestation(stepfather),art,drugs...
    ragreene ragreene 51-55 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile 16-17, T 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    THE Girl Gotta Girlfriend..pls comment..updated

    T o make a long story short...theres this girl at my job.... she was the 1st sexy female that I saw on my 1st day at work. I never said anything to her cuz everytime we walk past each other we're both on the phone n plus I dont get to see her that often cuz we work different...
    phillyzbossfemme phillyzbossfemme 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Christina Hendrickssssssss

    I used to play Sailormoon in grade 1 and I'd always be Tuxedo Mask. "Playing" included lots of making out with my best friend who happened to be a girl. When her mom found out, she told me go home and brush my teeth because kissing is gross. In middle school, I was often...
    aaureolee aaureolee 22-25 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    I'm Queer!

    I'm just sitting in a Women's Studies class and got inspired. I've struggled with defining myself and finding where I fit in this world for a long time. At one time I thought maybe I'm trans, I said that I was bisexual for a long time, ecetera. Nothing ever felt right though...
    Callisto24 Callisto24 22-25 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Weird

    I am queer. I am not a homosexual because I have loving relationships with those who identify as male. I am not bisexual, because bi means two and there are more than two genders. Queer means many things. It has allusions to political activism, and it is a word that we had to...
    silvermoon silvermoon 31-35 2 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    Tried Looking For Support

    I tried looking for support from friends , from what i have been dealing with lately , but i really didn't help.... i am seeing a counsellor tomorrow, Hopefully it helps, my mind connecting to body it feels like a rainy guter. 
    AcadStudent AcadStudent 22-25 2 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    I recently came out to some of my closer friends

    as being nonbinary, more specifically as an agender demigirl. I guess I was surprised at how accepting they were and how readily they switched to they/them pronouns by my request. I just feel very loved and I'm glad I have them. I realize that as a dfab individual I won't...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 16-17, T 1 Response May 24

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    Happy Queer

    I love men and always have and I believe the its ok to be gay, because I was born queer and when I was little I liked boys and now I love guys, I believe same sex marriages, t our right to love who ever u want!! Also its so nice when two people fall in love for love,so I am...
    Happyqueer50 Happyqueer50 46-50 Jan 20, 2013

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    It Feels Rather Good To Say "i'm Queer"

    So, yeah. I'm queer. You know, the first time I openly acknowledged it was in the counseling office a few days ago. Weird, eh? Well, yeah, I told my counselor about my first--and so far only--relationship with a girl. It lasted all of two months, but I mean it was pretty friggin...
    alponder alponder 22-25 2 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    ATTENTION MEN! Please don't add me or send me friend requests. I'm here ONLY for FRIENDSHIP with others women and those in the LGBTQ community. (lesbians, gay, queer, trans, and...
    femmeme femmeme 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    Yuri is my fave. I want there to be more animes with yuri instead of queer baiting the whole damn time.
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    Throughout my short life, I have been very comfortable with my fluid sexuality and have always accepted myself for who I am. I identify as a demiromantic queer, queer as in the...
    Psychedelicbarf Psychedelicbarf 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    *clears throat* hey guys, everyone out there curious about gender queer people I am here to help! My name is Marley, though naturally that's just the name that I chose for myself...
    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile 16-17, T 6 days ago

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    Being proud of who I am, no matter my believes, no matter i,'m different, no matter I'm queer, be proud of who u are
    ricardo112 ricardo112 13-15, M Jul 7

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    Went to a show past night. The Dwarves and Queers killed it!
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening BY ROBERT FROST Whose woods these are I think I know. His house is in the village though; He will not see me stopping here To watch...
    Jakemulligan Jakemulligan 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Yehh, Of course, fuckk.. can someone at least make this Birthday something. that's all I ever wanted. I'm just sitting here, nothing else. Anyone else watch Queer as Folk? lol...
    Jakalope Jakalope 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Attention please! Attention please! 'Attention please! Attention please! Don't dare to talk! Don't dare to sneeze! Don't doze or daydream! Stay awake! Your health, your very life...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    The Rev. Dr. W.A. Spooner (1844-1930) - English academic: "I have in my bosom a half-warmed fish" (a half-formed wish) "Is the bean dizzy?" (Is the Dean busy?) "Mardon me padam...
    supersnipe supersnipe 56-60, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I came out of the closet as bisexual when I was 18 and I didn't understand what it meant...four years later I'm still bi and still proud! I'm glad I took the time to ask if I was...
    jimjammat jimjammat 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am currently in a relationship with a pre-op, pre-testosterone FTM. FTM, for those who don't know, stands for female-to-male, meaning that he is transgender as he was born with...
    Psychedelicbarf Psychedelicbarf 16-17, F 3 days ago

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