I Am Ready For a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    I am 21 and I have never been in an official

    relationship. I feel that i am ready to be loved and give love in return. No games, I am too mature for that. I have trouble forgetting the hurt in my past, so that is an internal struggle. I want the person who would support my feelings as I would there's. I do not have many...
    b4eyecu1s b4eyecu1s
    22-25, F
    Feb 16, 2014

    Maybe

    Maybe I am ready, at least to try to trust enough, and risk once again the pain of loss. Not just the loss of a love, but the loss of trust, the potential loss of safety. I may get really hurt again, but I'm ready, and at least I know I can heal if my worst nightmares come true...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2012

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