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I Am Really Insecure

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    Especially at school.

    ..so many thoughts that seem to be too much for me.
    LexiMory LexiMory 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    theresajanelle theresajanelle 16-17, F Oct 21, 2015

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    I don't want to have to worry about being

    who I am. I don't want to have to worry about the love of my life falling out of my arms. I don't want to feel hopeless. Everyone leaves me. I can't have the greatest person in my life leave. Why do I feel so insecure and hopeless? I am pathetic.
    hope92520 hope92520 13-15, F Dec 4, 2015

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    I am really insecure about my body,

    smile, and laugh. I hate my laugh because some boy in my one of classes said I laugh weird.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    Its ok. They're prettier,

    smarter, nicer, and skinnier. I wouldnt pick me either. I'm nothing special.
    Dontlookbackk Dontlookbackk 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I'm really insecure about some parts of my body,

    I get really jealous of other girls that at some points I have looked into surgery, the only reason I haven't is because of the cost
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I am really insecure about men,

    it is not easy for me to trust, and if I can't trust, I can't allow anyone to get closer. Sometimes I feel I will be incredibly hurt, damaged, my life will be ruined, by the first one I trust. Sometimes I look at my life with satisfaction, I am actually satisfied with it, I mean...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    Starting to really feel insecure about myself.

    I feel like I'm not fully understanding who I am nor what I want. It's very confusing.
    Dgresham Dgresham 31-35, M Dec 11, 2015

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    And So Not Worth Anyones Time

    I always compare myself to other people and wish i looked more like them. I guess i'm not like other girls. I don't want to be, but sometimes i get really frustrated i'm not ''as good or as cute or have this or have that''. I see people, happy, kissing, in love. Why can't i have...
    Shyone2 Shyone2 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    I look at other girls sometimes & think

    why am I not that pretty ?
    Yourfavnextdoor Yourfavnextdoor 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    Something you need to know about me

    before talking to me. I take insults way too hard. Scroll down on my profile and you'll see what I mean...
    Maddie2000 Maddie2000 13-15, T 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I have been insecure about myself

    for a very long time. However, my thoughts towards myself took a dramatic fall when I was in year 6 and my "friend" started teasing me about how I looked. She was one of the only friends I had in primary and when I did try to end the friendship I was pretty much bullied back...
    Thisblobfishtho Thisblobfishtho 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    I think insecurity is the root cause of all my

    problems. If I can get over this, then I will feel as though I can overcome anything.
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 22-25, F Apr 22, 2014

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    I can't even explain how much I hate my body ?

    ?.I'm So Fat and Ugly. I try so hard to lose weight. But someone discourages me which just causes me to give up. I always say to myself if I lose weight then I'll be pretty. But here I am overweight and Fat...And there is nothing I can do about it.
    Jess0313 Jess0313 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2015

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    I hate the way i look,

    i feel like crying when i think about, even when a person says i am beautiful
    brokenandbi brokenandbi 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2015

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    I Hate The Girl In The Mirror

    I am insecure. I can never be satisfied with myself, I try to lose weight, hate my appearance, and actually believe I am not good at anything. Maybe it was because when I was in middle school I was severely bullied. Everyone including some teachers, called me ugly. I was the...
    onelittlecat onelittlecat 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2013

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    I have really bad self-esteem

    and I feel like I'm not good enough. I'm always really scared to go out because I feel so ugly and repulsive that I probably disgust other people. I'm so sick of feeling this way and nothing helps. I'm on anti-depressants and I go to therapy, but my self-worth hasn't improved. I...
    Liviaaaa Liviaaaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    I'm going to a party today,

    and I'm reeeeally reeeeally nervous.. My anxiety is sky rocketing right now. I'm gonna get all dressed up and put makeup on and everything, but I know I won't look good no matter what I do.. It just makes me so much worse. I have changed my look so much since I've started high...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    You can't trust everyone ,

    you can't let people too close, which is kind of sad in a way , but it's completely true
    Toriwho Toriwho 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    I immediately think that people just see me

    as fat. I feel fat all of the time. I can't help it, either! It's like I'm sabotaging myself from being okay with how I look
    klingesm klingesm 26-30, F 3 Responses May 26, 2015

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    shout out to the guy

    who puts up with all my insecurities and is always there for me...he is the best thing that has happened to me in a really long time and I love him so ******* much
    huntersveil248 huntersveil248 16-17, F Nov 8, 2015

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    tbh I hate everything about myself I've never

    really felt confident like ever
    ilovesomanybandsicant ilovesomanybandsicant 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2015

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    It's just been happening lately,

    I'm Not normally like this. I just hate my body.
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 4, 2015

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    When hornee Or lonely.

    Or suffering a crush.
    JustBipolarMe JustBipolarMe 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 7, 2015

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    My name is Jade I'm 21 year old I am really

    insecure about my face and my weight I feel fat but people say I'm not I don't believe them I want to but I can't and my face keeps breaking out and it's really hard because I can't face anyone without makeup and if I don't put it on I look horrible and I'm not proud of it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 23, 2015

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    Insecure

    I never liked anything I did.  Even when people gave me sincere compliments.  I just feel as though everything I do seems so substandard.  Even though I know I tried my best, and that people are actually giving me positive remarks, I still maintain that tendency to...
    privateeye privateeye 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2007

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    I'm super insecure. I always look in the mirror

    but i never like what i see. Its so hard for me to be like all the other girls.
    chipconyurson chipconyurson 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 5, 2015

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    I just ate a whole lot of waffles

    and now I feel like a big whale. I really need a weight loss buddy. anybody want to help?
    kiwitiwi14 kiwitiwi14 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2015

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    I get intimidated easily.

    I am insecure. I dont like an environment where I feel inferior to others. Hate situations like that.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2015

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    So since I'm having surgery in two days

    (tonsillectomy) I am gonna lose about ten pounds after and I'm just so happy and even tho it's going to be painful I'm really excited to lose weight. There's something wrong with me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 26, 2015

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    How many posh underwear sets should a woman

    have? I have 2 really posh ones, the embroidery has gone wrong on one of them.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    It's killing me. It just gets worse

    and I don't know what to do anymore. I haven't had friends for 7 years now, mostly because of my shyness and I have become very insecure about myself. People constantly talk about me behind my back and they think I'm not aware of that. I thought people would be more mature...
    museowo museowo 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    My aunt used to call me fat,

    everyone used to say "i'd be more prettier if i were thin", everyone used to laugh at my hair, now I almost never can feel good about myself, and because of this I started to be quieter and quieter. I wonder if I'll ever be able to feel good about myself the wat I did
    brzdreamer brzdreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2014

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    I can't accept the way i look.

    I feel like to everyone else i am just a fat ugly un human thing.
    megangibson megangibson 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2015

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    I'm not super overweight

    but I'm not as skinny as I wish I was. I'm trying to get fit but every time I can't do a workout I feel like such a failure and stupid for even trying. I don't have anything going for me...I just really wanna be happy with who I am but it's hard...I'm always try so hard to be...
    EmSkywalkerBB8 EmSkywalkerBB8 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I bring myself down way too easily

    but i can't help it, i'm so insecure about everything
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I'm stupid. I'm ugly.

    I'm fat. why can't I just look like other girls. they're so pretty. they're loved and liked. people actually want them. then there's me... no one wants me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    I am really insecure about my friend

    and I want to end thisss!! I am really insecure with her. I've been friends with her for two years and we almost hang out everyday. And everyday, I feel sad because I tend to be overlooked because she is always the girl that people look at, she is the girl that everyone notices...
    EmptyHuman EmptyHuman 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    Mostly because I have Asperger's Syndrome,

    and it makes me insecure.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999 16-17, M Oct 17, 2015

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    i wonder if i stay with my girlfriend just

    because I cant be alone for too long
    Nathanbrad Nathanbrad 18-21, M Sep 23, 2015

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    I am very insecure.. I've been through a lot.

    .I've been played,hurt,and heart broken,i just want to be happy!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 6, 2015

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    yesterday at school some boy i barely know

    called me ugly like really you don't even know me yet your judging me 😊👍
    theyidolozebee theyidolozebee 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2015

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    I have,been insecure about my looks

    and my body since I realized,omg I'm ugly af which was when I was 8, I struggle with people cause of How I think of myself as nothing....
    Pikachu1024 Pikachu1024 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2015

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    I don't feel pretty or what I'll ever be pretty

    and I will always be fat :( and my ugly red hair :(
    CrystalMuffins CrystalMuffins 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2015

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