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I Am Recently Going Through a Divorce

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 27 People

    My Only Birthday Wish This Year..................

    My only birthday with this year is fix what I have broken. I know I ask for the impossible, but if only for one day......................
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    Well,it's Final.

    My divorce is now final and you know it's funny but I really can not tell you how I feel about it I feel like I am numb.After 37 years I am now single.I keep saying it to myself so it will sink in.The other night I just wanted someone to talk to so I got on single-net some man...
    shackleforddeb shackleforddeb 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Starting Over.

    Hi,I am a 54 year old woman,I have been married to the same man for 37 years. Well on Oct 6,2009 our divorce will be final.I feel scared and confused. After so many years together you don't think about divorce,but here I am. I have 2 daughters and 5 grandchildren I don't...
    shackleforddeb shackleforddeb 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    He Still Crosses My Mind

    I am currently going through a divorce.. which I guess can be considered obvious with the title of this forum. We were married for 2 years, together for 3. My ex was an abusive alcoholic and a drug addict. So I find myself confused on why I still can't get him out of my mind...
    KristiAnn24 KristiAnn24 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    Why Do I Still Hurt?

    My husband of 7 years, been together for 10 years, have been seperated for 5 months now and going through divorce.  He was abusive, did drugs behind my back (I'd find them all the time)... NOw I've been told that he's cheated on me before and before our initial split, his...
    CaliGirl637 CaliGirl637 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    been married 25 years to my first love

    and the father of my 3 young adult children and now find myself going through this terrible divorce. Found out he has a drug addiction and the terrible part is he is leaving me and I still very much love him. How do I let go?
    biggirl47 biggirl47 46-50, F Jul 21, 2014

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    The Big "D"

    I have been with my husband since 2003.   We have a son that is 3 1/2 years old that we both dearly love.  My husband took a job in another state and things have went south every since.  I believe that it takes to to make or break everything.  We are both...
    sunshine29aj sunshine29aj 26-30, F 5 Responses May 28, 2009

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    I'm terrified of this divorce.

    I'm a stay at home mom who hasn't been in the workplace in 10 years. I'm scared about the future and retirement. I scared about my kids and their future plus mental and emotional health. I'm devastated.
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    You know when you get those gut feelings that the man in your life is cheating? Then all those hints that make you go hmmm? Then those habits and abusive sessions. Cause he has...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F Jan 14

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    Been best friends 20 years, together 16, married 11. We have a 5 and 8 year old. On NYE we talked through divorce arrangements. I initiated but am devastated and don't want this...
    differentdrummer78 differentdrummer78 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I am 27 years old and think that what I'm going through is a midlife crisis, although I believed that that usually happens later on In life... I wake up depressed and feeling...
    ingridmir44 ingridmir44 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Dear every human on the planet, Just because I have dark hair, tattoos, and listen to metal, it does not give you the right to assume I'm just going through one of those "phases...
    ashlaace ashlaace 18-21, F Jan 22

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    I am not a particularly religious person but at this point I just wanna belt to the sky HALLELUJAHHHH! I am RELIEVED. I have been in this hell of a relationship for the last 2...
    xsparklex xsparklex 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am going through a break-up and although it hurts, it is for the best. When he had me, he didn't appreciate me for the woman that I am. He took me for granted, thinking that I...
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    Tomorrow will officially 2 weeks. My heart still hurts. My mind has tons of unanswered questions. I feel like I've been trapped in a horrible nightmare. Someone please wake me up...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I was the first one who filed the divorce after too many years together. I am surprised at his audacity to want to fix things now. In fact, he wants to drag the divorce out....in...
    heartache123 heartache123 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Update to my divorce Well I have moved out. As the process continues. We have put our house on the market. We have been meeting to sign papers regarding the sale of our house. I...
    thelefthandedboy thelefthandedboy 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    My husband and I have been separated for to long, I am working my way towards a divorce. He helps with zero for our 2 kids always says he's broke. No phone calls for Christmas or...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Indeed. I am being captured by a moment that can not return. I have been wondering around the empty streets , like some short of ghost that can't let go of past. My life is a joke...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jan 1

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    I just went through a surgery and I was a bit expectant of my boyfriend to support me emotionally and to be present. I guess I was asking too much. He went out partying and when I...
    dreamsofdoom dreamsofdoom 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Hi guys. I would like to tell u my side of how our marriage ended. I am 32 hubs 42 we have been together 11 years, married 7. Hubs has a son from a previous and we have two...
    disclosure31 disclosure31 31-35, F Jan 7

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    I have been away from my desk for a loong time. At least it seemed so.Anyway I have been real busy and Happy New Years to all.I know this will be a good year.My life will never be...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F Jan 3

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    We BROKE UP because of religion, we still deeply love each other and believe me at that time we did a lot. Because of her religion we had to break up and we had many talks about...
    ShaneTom1 ShaneTom1 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 4

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    The lose of my dad passing has to be the worse feeling anyone has to feel taking care of my mom the pass two days is just killing me watching her go through this and not being able...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I'm happily married . I have met a friend on Ep who is now missing . I miss him. I am in albany now and I could meet up but it seems I'm going to have to settle for possibly...
    heavenlyflower123 heavenlyflower123 36-40, F Jan 16

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    well tomorrow I'm going to another rehab facility this time with an open mind hope the **** helps me
    jitterbug9 jitterbug9 18-21, M Jan 20

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    Something just came to me, that I felt I had to write down. Love is love, no matter what. I finally understand love without degree, or ownership. Beauty is beauty, but no two...
    RoyalCrystalPalace RoyalCrystalPalace 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Is there just any advice someone could give me on moving on? I'm feeling so empty right now and it scares me. I know breakups are something everyone goes through, but right now I'm...
    hayleydarien hayleydarien 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I almost drove to our house, After dinner with my family. I almost turned right instead of left, A mistake that I keep making. I almost forgot I'm no longer welcome, In the house...
    SmilesAwaitYou SmilesAwaitYou 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's health related and has me knocked for a loop and I admit I'm pissed at the universe.
    WillieGee1996 WillieGee1996 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    feeling lonely................
    aditya3751 aditya3751 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    I don't know how to move on. Everyone keeps telling me to. Its hard when everything I do and see reminds me of him. I can't find any other man attractive. I've been trying to talk...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    It feels weird not having someone to talk to. You kinda just feel lonely. Used to having someone you can call and now, you realize she was the only one you talked to because her...
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138 18-21, M Jan 6

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    Last night I dreamt about my ex boyfriend. We broke up two weeks ago, and he was my first love. he had his arm around me and we were walking and laughing. We touched heads but didn...
    Katiebug7 Katiebug7 13-15, F Jan 6

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    Monday was my first day back to school after winter break, and it went pretty well for the first day at school after my breakup. Yesterday was a snow day. Today was not so good. I...
    Katiebug7 Katiebug7 13-15, F Jan 7

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    I am again on EP . I always use to come when i am depressed. Now i think its a part of my life. Right now i am in my office.Trying to hide my tears. I met him in 2012 . We use to...
    kathhyv kathhyv 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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    Last night I dreamt about him again. We both performed at a concert last night, so in my dream he texted me later saying, "hey babe, nice job! I like the boots and legs, keep it up...
    Katiebug7 Katiebug7 13-15, F Jan 8

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    So I just kinda need to vent about this. I was dating this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. After about 5 months she announced on facebook that she was in a...
    cws122 cws122 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    It's not necessarily sleepless nights more like late night sleeping and I'm talking 5/6am with college the next day, any tips on how I can get to sleep earlier? No stupid answers...
    immyn123 immyn123 18-21, M Jan 11

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    I broke up with him because I felt he didn't love me as much as I love him.... I'm a little proud of myself yet I'm heartbroken. want a cigarette but I know I shouldn't... the...
    Vnaturaldisaster Vnaturaldisaster 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I am missing my friend from albany , I wish he would write to me .
    heavenlyflower123 heavenlyflower123 36-40, F Jan 16

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    I wake up every night around 5:30am. The shock of suddenly falling back into consciousness is getting worse the more it happens. I feel like I'm being ripped back into my body.
    Iahmose Iahmose 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    It's gonna start soon. I quit 11and a half hours ago. Wish me well. Pray if you can.
    VeniceTheMenice VeniceTheMenice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Why every time when I talk about marriage with my fiancé he keeps changing the topic or ignoring me??? Men advises please !
    Asb21 Asb21 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    There has been an absence of coffee and coffee making at my house and the lack of caffeine has been giving me these killer migraines. I need to start growing me some of those...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Jan 17

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    I still miss my ex . It was a long distance relationship. He cheated, lied, and broke up with me after I called the other woman. He says he loves me but I'm too dangerous and will...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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