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I Am Recently Going Through a Divorce

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    My Only Birthday Wish This Year..................

    My only birthday with this year is fix what I have broken. I know I ask for the impossible, but if only for one day......................
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    Well,it's Final.

    My divorce is now final and you know it's funny but I really can not tell you how I feel about it I feel like I am numb.After 37 years I am now single.I keep saying it to myself so it will sink in.The other night I just wanted someone to talk to so I got on single-net some man...
    shackleforddeb shackleforddeb 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    The Big "D"

    I have been with my husband since 2003.   We have a son that is 3 1/2 years old that we both dearly love.  My husband took a job in another state and things have went south every since.  I believe that it takes to to make or break everything.  We are both...
    sunshine29aj sunshine29aj 26-30, F 5 Responses May 28, 2009

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    been married 25 years to my first love

    and the father of my 3 young adult children and now find myself going through this terrible divorce. Found out he has a drug addiction and the terrible part is he is leaving me and I still very much love him. How do I let go?
    biggirl47 biggirl47 46-50, F Jul 21, 2014

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    Why Do I Still Hurt?

    My husband of 7 years, been together for 10 years, have been seperated for 5 months now and going through divorce.  He was abusive, did drugs behind my back (I'd find them all the time)... NOw I've been told that he's cheated on me before and before our initial split, his...
    CaliGirl637 CaliGirl637 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I'm terrified of this divorce.

    I'm a stay at home mom who hasn't been in the workplace in 10 years. I'm scared about the future and retirement. I scared about my kids and their future plus mental and emotional health. I'm devastated.
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    Starting Over.

    Hi,I am a 54 year old woman,I have been married to the same man for 37 years. Well on Oct 6,2009 our divorce will be final.I feel scared and confused. After so many years together you don't think about divorce,but here I am. I have 2 daughters and 5 grandchildren I don't...
    shackleforddeb shackleforddeb 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    He Still Crosses My Mind

    I am currently going through a divorce.. which I guess can be considered obvious with the title of this forum. We were married for 2 years, together for 3. My ex was an abusive alcoholic and a drug addict. So I find myself confused on why I still can't get him out of my mind...
    KristiAnn24 KristiAnn24 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    PhantomPower PhantomPower 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I'm also going through a separation, I didn't appreciate my husband when I had him, I allowed my insecurities to over power my emotions. It been 2 months and he hasn't called me...
    Skinnyguru45 Skinnyguru45 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    He doesn't want to be with me and our kids. He doesn't call to talk to them or ask to see them, he obviously wants nothing to do with the kids. I've had to do all the legwork to...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    My name is Scott. Over the last 8 years I've been with an emotionally abusive partner. When we met, he asked me to quit my job and move with him for his job. I foolishly agreed...
    KidQ2 KidQ2 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Hello, me and my wife are about to get divorced and i am quite depressed at whats happening in my life. I really love her and we have 2 kids. I just dont know who to talk to so...
    verastra verastra 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Today is going to be the day I will hopefully look back upon with positive and loving thoughts. I had a very powerful experience this morning (about 30 minutes ago), where I woke...
    life4love life4love 18-21 15 hrs ago

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    When you think you know someone but you don't know the person at all. I think every girl can relate to the fact that your first break up hurts the most, it feels like someone...
    Lynn237 Lynn237 18-21, F Mar 2

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    I just don't understand where things went wrong, I'm searching for closure and facing the fact that I'm probably never going to find it.
    Clayboy1993 Clayboy1993 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    My husband left me in 2013. He was suffering depression and PTSD. He came back after 6 months and I supported him through his illness. In early 2014 he was on the road to recovery...
    Rachbclough Rachbclough 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Well I've nearly completed day 6 of ending my relationship an I see everyday as a goal may sound stupid but I love this guy just know he's no good for me any advice on getting...
    crazycakes1 crazycakes1 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My dad has cancer. And he has been fighting this aggressive invader for more than a year. Just this week, two of my friends' dads passed away. One from cardiac arrest, and the...
    VoiceInYourHead VoiceInYourHead 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I have been taking to this guy for a little over a year now and in the beginning everything seemed to be going great. you know how everyone starts out talking every day and all...
    erinnicole03 erinnicole03 22-25, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    I been through to many storms In life to not be made to weather greatness!!
    Hypnobud Hypnobud 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Last Saturday, 3/14/15, my husband if 8 years and I decided we need to move on. We both tried and tried and we are both good people. However, we can not get along. Just another...
    purpletearsfall purpletearsfall 36-40, F Mar 16

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    I am 49 and in perimenopause. June will be one year will no period. I do experience cramps but that's about it. I am lucky in that I don't really get hot flashes or night...
    minuet1965 minuet1965 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I am empty inside. This is the worst experience in my life. I'm not allowed to speak to her. I will see her in court on Tuesday. I can't function
    whenwillthisgetbetter whenwillthisgetbetter 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    well, I'm new to this site......I don't know how it exactly works but anyway, I'm sharing my experience here. I'm a 20 year old male from India doing my engineering. I started to...
    alpha8994 alpha8994 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    FormulaZen4EverythingProject - An Intelligent, Logical Zen came over me 3rd week of Jan 2015 which began with tiny steps on Feb 4, 2015; Working on 90-Day Program; Built a little...
    thismo thismo 46-50, M Mar 7

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    Random stories about bein deployed. My platoon was doing a presence patrol on the outer perimeter of the FOB. We were greeted by little haji kids everywhere. They were some funny...
    famousstraps92 famousstraps92 22-25, M Mar 8

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    That's how I prevent myself from judging people too harshly, even if they say horrible things. I do not know their life, I don't know how they were raised or what they might be...
    thehanimal thehanimal 18-21, T 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I broke up with my boyfriend two days ago. In the night following we kissed and had sex the whole night. Why do I feel like leaving him is an error, that I am distancing myself...
    Banskirt Banskirt 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My wife informed me 5 months ago that she wanted a separation. We are still living in the same house. I do not want to separate and would like us to repair our marriage. We're...
    lifefromlemons lifefromlemons 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I can only stay strong for so long until it's finally time to let go and close doors.
    Kkgunny Kkgunny 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    i loved my gf even thought she treat me like i am a stranger..hmm..
    syukyoo syukyoo 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I don't understand why u have grown so cold and indifferent towards me. I don't deserve it and it hurts. I want to be there for u but I don't know how anymore. I guess I ain't good...
    BeyondGreenEyes BeyondGreenEyes 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This will be my fourth entry. I haven't posted in a long time. I am coming up to the two year mark of my separation from my wife. I wish I could say things have gotten better...
    IntrinsicSpoon IntrinsicSpoon 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    Divorce is hard an affair is hard . This is what my life looks like for now . It's been a hard 2 years trying to see that I'm beautiful after my husband the man I loved for 8 years...
    amandalovee24 amandalovee24 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I've been going through a horrible divorce . Nothing left to write about . Nothing has changed in the 2 years without you . I'm fighting to stay alive . It's been lonely no one has...
    amandalovee24 amandalovee24 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    My spouse and I own a home and land together for many years. Going through this divorce, yesterday, he had locked me out. Someone please help me as he is also mentally and...
    Robin68 Robin68 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    I've been through hell and back over the past few years in my life.Everyone has a story honestly I'm not going to go deep into my harsh reality. Life is like a roller coaster with...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    It's my life not yours... Get that straight.... Your hands might have been pulling my strings... To confused to escape him... To broken to think straight.... I look back and pain...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Going through a break up after being together for 9 years. I'm devastated but need to find the strength to move forward. He's like an addiction to me. He won't leave me alone. How...
    Shill718 Shill718 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I like going through the house barefoot even though I have cold feet
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Food Food on my plate Why must i now contemplate Throwing you so far away i do not see you everyday But then i'd have an episode Like doctors i have seen have told Me when my sugar...
    shimmeringrose shimmeringrose 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago