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I Am Recently Going Through a Divorce

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    Why Do I Still Hurt?

    My husband of 7 years, been together for 10 years, have been seperated for 5 months now and going through divorce.  He was abusive, did drugs behind my back (I'd find them all the time)... NOw I've been told that he's cheated on me before and before our initial split, his...
    CaliGirl637 CaliGirl637 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    The Big "D"

    I have been with my husband since 2003.   We have a son that is 3 1/2 years old that we both dearly love.  My husband took a job in another state and things have went south every since.  I believe that it takes to to make or break everything.  We are both...
    sunshine29aj sunshine29aj 26-30, F 5 Responses May 28, 2009

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    been married 25 years to my first love

    and the father of my 3 young adult children and now find myself going through this terrible divorce. Found out he has a drug addiction and the terrible part is he is leaving me and I still very much love him. How do I let go?
    biggirl47 biggirl47 46-50, F Jul 21

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    He Still Crosses My Mind

    I am currently going through a divorce.. which I guess can be considered obvious with the title of this forum. We were married for 2 years, together for 3. My ex was an abusive alcoholic and a drug addict. So I find myself confused on why I still can't get him out of my mind...
    KristiAnn24 KristiAnn24 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    Well,it's Final.

    My divorce is now final and you know it's funny but I really can not tell you how I feel about it I feel like I am numb.After 37 years I am now single.I keep saying it to myself so it will sink in.The other night I just wanted someone to talk to so I got on single-net some man...
    shackleforddeb shackleforddeb 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    My Only Birthday Wish This Year..................

    My only birthday with this year is fix what I have broken. I know I ask for the impossible, but if only for one day......................
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    I'm terrified of this divorce.

    I'm a stay at home mom who hasn't been in the workplace in 10 years. I'm scared about the future and retirement. I scared about my kids and their future plus mental and emotional health. I'm devastated.
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Starting Over.

    Hi,I am a 54 year old woman,I have been married to the same man for 37 years. Well on Oct 6,2009 our divorce will be final.I feel scared and confused. After so many years together you don't think about divorce,but here I am. I have 2 daughters and 5 grandchildren I don't...
    shackleforddeb shackleforddeb 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2009

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    MyLifeIsNow MyLifeIsNow 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm going through a break up and it's the worst ever. Not the first time as I was in a on/off relationship of 5 years. What's hurting me is that my ex is behaving like I was such a...
    Sunshine009 Sunshine009 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I received a letter last week that we have a final court date for the divorce. It's really on my birthday. I don't celebrate my birthday much so that part doesn't bother me. I did...
    jaylow13 jaylow13 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I have recently been struggling to come to terms with a situation I couldn't have envisage one bit. So here's my story from the very beginning and viewed from my side of the fence...
    ACC77 ACC77 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    It's not really me it's my parents . I am not heart broken over it because I hate my step father. He has done nothing but cause me pain and suffering mentally and then he moves my...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm in a very sad place in my life. Currently in the divorce process and feeling very alone and lost.:-( Just looking to find others that share my experience and find comfort from...
    kluann25 kluann25 31-35, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 11 years in a relationship that wasn't like a marriage it was more like we were friends he did his own thing and I was at home alone with my daughter who I...
    tammy7836 tammy7836 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    It hurts to go through the memories to write this post. A friend of mine recommended it to get my emotions out. Recently, I've been battling my ex's infidelities. He's been...
    roeypoo1 roeypoo1 26-30, T 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I am in a same sex marriage. My wife left me last week and won't speak to me, won't return my calls or texts, has blocked me and all of our mutual friends on Facebook. I have asked...
    comradestudent comradestudent 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My ex & I dated for almost a year. We broke up 2 months ago & haven't spoken since. Last time I checked - which was a month ago - she was seeing someone. At that time, they weren't...
    alegarde0 alegarde0 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    Stalker: Are you awake? You were talking recently about the meaning... of our... life... unselfishness of art... Let's take music... It's really least of all connected; to say the...
    RasinBoy RasinBoy 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    This could be long. I met this friend whom I am now dating, about 10 months ago. We'll call her D I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 and a half years to do so, we'll call her Monk...
    SoulSurviva93 SoulSurviva93 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I date for a girl for 2 months, she was doing Erasmus here and i met her in my college ! When she moved for her country i was terrified because she wanted to live with me and I...
    caduh caduh 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    It's been 3 months since my husband told me he didn't want to be with me. After almost 8 years of being together, 5 of marriage and a 6 year old son he just walked out my life and...
    MelyssaLee MelyssaLee 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    It's so weird, I was looking through my old phone and went on my saved voice notes and then I found a voice recording, I heard my own voice then I heard some guys voice talking...
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I don't even know what to write here but I feel the need to get my feelings out. Once again I'm sad, alone and I just don't want to go out and face the world right now. I can't put...
    chuhulil chuhulil 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    So my Marine has been gone for about a month now and I got word of confirmation that he would be returning for the fact they needed his MOS back here. So the plan was that he was...
    angelbaby187 angelbaby187 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I really am ..it is so hard and all i can do is to pray nobody goes through this ever...i have a health issue and undiagnosed which doesnt seem to go away and ... nobody around...
    allthewaysaround allthewaysaround 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    After 20 years, it has come to this. Most of it my fault. I understand the issues that I must work on. (anger, verbal abuse.) We are in counseling, both individually and as a...
    querried querried 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    "24 7" I have a whack of things going threw my mind, it frustrates and confuses and drives me crazy! at times it's insane I lose my mind, when will my Brain ever shut down a little...
    purple567 purple567 13-15, F Aug 20

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    My recovering drug addict boyfriend and I have been planning to move together out of state. I have been about an hour away from him for a few months now and as much as the distance...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Other man. Yeah I'm done. Plan B is now in effect. The awesome husband and dad I have been working hard on..the "new vastly improved me" stays and the next beautiful woman in my...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    Finally got a PROPER break up with my ex boyfriend Haha No BS excuses, just plain feelings :) It doesn't feel "good", just different. Like breathing different air. What's the...
    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm going to try and make this short: I met this guy at school who is 16 (17 now) while I was 14 (I'm 15 now) and we went out for about a year. he and I were insanely close & he...
    goldfish121 goldfish121 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    My family have been telling to not stop my life and just leave my marine. But I love him and we are a family. So my family are just going to be negative and I know it. So I created...
    angelbaby187 angelbaby187 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's hard to understand. We broke up and it seems like I'm not sure why. She tells me it's one thing then it's no more like another thing. She says it's because she never gets to...
    simpsonexperience simpsonexperience 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    Anyone knows how to deal with this terrible pain? Share your experience.
    theaidana theaidana 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Ok I left my wife because I felt she was bitching all the time about everything and wasn't pleasing me sexually. Sex only came once a month or so. Now I feel like I want her back...
    garnettsnewlife garnettsnewlife 36-40, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It is the most annoying thing in the world for me, if I don't touch your things don't touch mine. I hate when people touch my things and don't put them back as I had them.
    AllThatGlitters29 AllThatGlitters29 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I don't think anyone does. It's an invasion of privacy.
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F Jul 29

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    My ex and I broke up a couple months back, and I'm having such a hard time moving forward from it. I feel as if it was my fault that we broke up. I was so angry at first, but as a...
    boomkimchaloy boomkimchaloy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    He moved on. He told me about her today. I didn't think it would hurt like this, but I feel like a part of me is dying inside. When does it stop hurting?
    Kayli90 Kayli90 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Can someone talk to me over the next hour or so
    Dms1282 Dms1282 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 1

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    I have not yet moved on from the relationship i had with my ex. Hurts a lot to be betrayed and abused by the person you truly loved. We have a daughter and he just didnt fight for...
    Shehshen Shehshen 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm bi, and I like this girl. She said she had a little feelings for me, but she likes another guy. They are gonna be together soon and whenever they posts photos of one another...
    greenflapper greenflapper 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Fell for a bi guy. We dated for 8 weeks. It's been about two months since we broke up but I still can't get over him. He's dating a girl now. I feel like trash. Everything tastes...
    dourpenguin dourpenguin 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I don't know what to do with myself. I want to sleep forever,to never wake up. I want to die,to be dead,not to feel. I want to travel back in time and never meet you. I want to...
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F Aug 4

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