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I Am Recently Seperated

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    Are These Irrevocable Differences Or Should I Try Harder? - Hello I'd love if anyone can relate to this and give any advice please. Sorry it's so long. Been married for 26 years...
    Irish46 Irish46 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    The Deepest Journey Incomplete - When I met her I saw a pure heart, the deepest love and endless potential. She was the person in the songs I had been writing. Together we...
    wantsgoodforall wantsgoodforall 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 11, 2013

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    My Nightmare - October 2007 I met my best friend. September of 2011 he asked me to marry him. Uprooting my two boys and myself I moved hour and a half away. June 19 2012 we were...
    Blondie0619 Blondie0619 36-40 Dec 9, 2012

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    Marital Separation And Changes - Since my separation, I've gone through many positive changes, spending a lot of time with my kids, changing many negative things about who I was...
    Jar92380 Jar92380 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Now What - I have had a long lasting relationship with the man i truly believed i was going to spend all eternity with....boy was i wrong! My x is an addict I dont truly know why i...
    ROUGE79 ROUGE79 26-30, F Jan 17, 2009

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    Confused - my wife is going threw midlife crisses, she does not what to do, stay with me or be on her on she says she does not know what to do my question is how long do I wait for...
    ucremi65 ucremi65 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2011

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    Lost Now - I'm lost now, after my husband of 8 years has decided to leave me. Taking away not only my marriage, he's taking away my future and my dreams, everything I have worked...
    Nejc24 Nejc24 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Like the Title Says... - My girlfriend and I have recently separated. It's too bad really, even if I wanted us back together, I think we have both done and said too much, at least...
    RuMoR RuMoR 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 14, 2007

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    My First Love Is Over - why he promised me a thing he couldn't do he knows i feel pain everthg was perfectly right , just the way i wanted we fell in love so quickly & we began to...
    utopialover utopialover 22-25, F Jan 10, 2013

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    Quite Lost... But Stronger... - Well, I took my kids and left my husband about 7 weeks ago. There was a lot that led me to leave. It started with just being tired of being the...
    lauhau lauhau 31-35, F Nov 3, 2013

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    Its Been A While - As I have said me and my husband have been separated for a couple of months now. I have been so heartbroken over the situation.It has been so hard for me that I...
    LilMama5150 LilMama5150 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    Hurt, Lonely, And In Need Of A Friend. - My husband made me leave 4wks ago today, because I was so depressed this last year and the last couple of months. He wont tell me he loves...
    csmithcds43 csmithcds43 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Broke Up With Him Hoping He'd Wake Up To What He Had. He Married Someone Else Within 7 Weeks! And She's Pregnant! - I wonder if I will truly get over what has happened to me. I had...
    evonjohn evonjohn 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    I Can'T Let Go! - Me and my husband have been married for 8 years now. We have recently separated in November of last year. It has been 4 months and I still can't let go. He just...
    LilMama5150 LilMama5150 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    Split After 17 Years - My wife and I split after 17 years of marriage. I thought it was the love of a life time but I guess it was not. It has only been 2 weeks but an it really...
    Compengineer Compengineer 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Only The Lonely - I really would never suggest splitting from a marriage unless every alternative was exhausted. There are a lot of very good reasons to stay in any permanent...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 19, 2012

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    My Marriage Is Over, Still Finding It Hard. - Hi everyone, I have been married for 27 years, and we were together for 30. My husband and I have been separated since Nov 22/12. The...
    js4liz js4liz 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    Loved And Lost.... - I am recently seperated after 5 years of mariage. I was married for 16 years before that. So I guess I am damaged goods. :( I guess I am not that great at...
    Michelle0423 Michelle0423 41-45, T 1 Response Jun 19, 2012

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    Separation - don't know how this works. anyone to talk too?
    cheath cheath 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I Must Have Been So Awful! - I spent 8 years of my life completely devoted to my partner and our children, i gave up pretty much everything! I took care of everything, our children...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 23, 2013

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    Recently Separated - after reading so many stories, i've decided to share...i recently separated from my wife because i couldnt stand cheating on her anymore. i couldnt stand the...
    nbt69 nbt69 41-45, M 7 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    Struggling - A week ago my husband left me after 27 years of marriage. I am barely holding it together. In Ft. Lauderdale now with my 21 year old daughter and her boyfriend...
    ssherwood85 ssherwood85 46-50 Jun 23, 2013

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    Shes Gone, I Don'T Want To Move On - My wife of 4 years (5 years together) has just decided to end it with me. I understand why, not because I was a bad husband, I was just not a...
    daryl999 daryl999 26-30, M Mar 11, 2013

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    Finally Found The Courage But Still Feeling Guilty - for the past twelve years I have been married and given up my life for my husband to pursue his career. I have taken pay cuts...
    Silkphi1 Silkphi1 41-45 Nov 18, 2013

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    Trying To Survive - On May 1st, 2011 my wife of almost 13 years locked me out of our home. We had a fight and I walked out but when I tried to return the next day she denied me...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M Oct 23, 2011

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    How Do I Find Myself - Its been almost a month and I have sacrificed me for him... I do not know how to find who I am.... I recently heard on the radio: look in the mirror... do...
    volley505 volley505 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2010

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    When The Door Closed... - ...for what I thought was the last time, I didn't even cry. I cried out all of my tears for the many years we were together yet living separate lives...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    Seperated From The Love Of My Life - I've been separated from my child's father for 2 & 1/2 months now. At first it was very difficult. Quite frankly I can't remember the...
    cherryslady cherryslady 18-21 3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Separated 9 Months - I have been separated for 9 months now. My husband and I were married had been married almost 18 years when he decided he wasn't happy in our marriage any...
    imjustme369 imjustme369 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    The Pain Wont Go Away - As you know I separated with my husband back in December of last year. He was also deported to Mexico in January of this year. Well I went to go see him in...
    LilMama5150 LilMama5150 31-35, F Oct 6, 2013

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    Just Dropped My Kids Off... - ...and can someone please tell me what the hell am i meant to do with myself now? "There's this emptiness, this utter loneliness, and you ask, What...
    JimmyWinston JimmyWinston 41-45, M 6 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Need Opinions On What To Do - I am 37 and my wife is 22...we got married just after her 20th birthday. She is very mature and has been on her own since she was 15. When I say on...
    LifeIsUnpredictable LifeIsUnpredictable 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    After 19 Years Of Marriage This Is Not Where I Thought I Would Be. - Here I am, separated from my wife after 19 years of marriage. I can see now the odds were against us from the...
    jfromss jfromss 41-45, M Apr 23, 2012

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    Twice! In One Lifetime! - I stumbled across this website by typing I am lonely. First let me thank all contributors for their heartfelt stories. I am about to be separated for the...
    Scottish57 Scottish57 51-55 3 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    Finally Out In The Open After 22years Of Infidelity By My Husband - I married the man of my dreams, thoughtful, respectful, adoring, giving, kind, sexy, handsome and a man who had...
    BJT59 BJT59 51-55 Oct 8, 2012

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    A special lady allowed me access to her lovely breast loaded with milk. I'm still trying to put this into words. All I can really say is WOW. The search for a partner continues.
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    Okay it's been one month or a little over. It still seems like yesterday that she was sitting right here with me. The long lonely nights make it worse. I know there was a lot of...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M Mar 25

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    It's the 31st today. I suddenly realized that it's been 2 months. And it doesn't feel any easier.. What to do? When will I feel better? I'm thinking 6 months and then a year, 2...
    Tisimi Tisimi 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    My grandmother passed away early this morning, and her last words to me were, "I love you too, sweetie." Nana, I love you so much, and though it hurts so badly that you've passed...
    iCaii iCaii 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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