I Am Rejected By My Family

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    I have never regretted anything

    as much as I have regretted moving back home. This is coming from someone who has made more bad decisions than I can count. I've lost most all of my friends and my family exclude me from practically everything. Some of them actively dislike me and try to make every day of my...
    SocialFuckingParasite SocialFuckingParasite
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014

    Family Reject

    It was my choice to separate myself from my family. I didn't like the sorts of things they did (including drugs, heavy drinking, and I didn't like their thoughts or opinions) but I always managed to at least get along with a few of them, if not all of them. However, to be...
    Dimples87 Dimples87
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

    The Cylce Of Trying To Please, And Realizing Failure

    I don't even know where my story starts... I don't know that my mother even wanted to have me. At the least, she holds it against me that she was so sick when pregnant with me. But she was able to breastfeed me, and not my brother, so she tried to force it on me as long as she...
    rainbunnie rainbunnie
    31-35
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    They've Turned Their Backs

    I used to love going to see my family. When me and my cousins were young we'd all play together all the time! But as we grew into our teen years it became clear that we didn't have much in common anymore. I've always been the odd ball in anything I do. I guess that's why they...
    jukeflin jukeflin
    22-25, M
    Sep 6, 2012

    I was sexually and physically abused

    as a teenager by my mother's very young husband...he was 21 I was 15. My mother is the Queen of Denial...when I told her about his advances all she said was..""well did he get inside?" her implication was that if hadn't raped me that he wasn't being sexually abusive... and...
    laurie52 laurie52
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    Today, I was told that my only "support" system

    "forgot" my graduation ceremony and instead she scheduled a plumber to come to her house. When i angrily explained that a plumber can be rescheduled but my grad ceremony cannot, I was told in very clear terms that i was narcissistic and to get over myself and that I have no...
    spcegoast2 spcegoast2
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2015

    Today, the matriarch of my family,

    my aunt, is being interred. Not only was I not told that she was ill; I was not given any details as to where the funeral was going to be held or where the shiva will take place. The only person who even advised me she had passed was my brother-in-law. This is probably for...
    tjharrison tjharrison
    51-55
    Jul 29, 2014

    a year ago my mother

    and i had a huge fight which resulted in me being kicked out/leaving . my father and I have always been close and knows me and my mother have never gotten along, (he is married to her) and was really upset with my moving out and said some very hurtful things when i was grabbing...
    alexis102 alexis102
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2014

    and I don't blame, but just

    because I don't have money I'm not in their good list.
    ohimjustagirl ohimjustagirl
    31-35, F
    Jun 11, 2015

    I've been told my brothers don't love me.

    We were all adopted as babies, but I was adopted last, after my brothers were older. I don't remember any other family. Several years ago my sister-in-law told me I should find my family elsewhere. She said my brothers have no natural feeling for me and don't love me. What...
    LovesWhimsy LovesWhimsy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    Profound Rejection

        My father was rich. Key word…was. He was upper middle class and  engaged to marry a lower upper class women. Then he got my mother pregnant. They should have gotten an abortion. He should have paid my mother off and kept it on the qt. No, he had...
    Dewduster Dewduster
    66-70, M
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

    Still Am a Reject.......

    I have always been a black sheep of my family since I was a teenager, I took over the role once my only brother left home.   Today, in my 50's I still am.  But my older brother has earned brownie points the last year or so.  He has been my best friend all my...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    7 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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