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I Am Rejected By My Family

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    and I don't blame, but just

    because I don't have money I'm not in their good list.
    ohimjustagirl ohimjustagirl 31-35, F Jun 11

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    They've Turned Their Backs

    I used to love going to see my family. When me and my cousins were young we'd all play together all the time! But as we grew into our teen years it became clear that we didn't have much in common anymore. I've always been the odd ball in anything I do. I guess that's why they...
    jukeflin jukeflin 22-25, M Sep 6, 2012

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    Still Am a Reject.......

    I have always been a black sheep of my family since I was a teenager, I took over the role once my only brother left home.   Today, in my 50's I still am.  But my older brother has earned brownie points the last year or so.  He has been my best friend all my...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 7 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    Profound Rejection

        My father was rich. Key word…was. He was upper middle class and  engaged to marry a lower upper class women. Then he got my mother pregnant. They should have gotten an abortion. He should have paid my mother off and kept it on the qt. No, he had...
    Dewduster Dewduster 66-70, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Today, I was told that my only "support" system

    "forgot" my graduation ceremony and instead she scheduled a plumber to come to her house. When i angrily explained that a plumber can be rescheduled but my grad ceremony cannot, I was told in very clear terms that i was narcissistic and to get over myself and that I have no...
    spcegoast2 spcegoast2 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    I've been told my brothers don't love me.

    We were all adopted as babies, but I was adopted last, after my brothers were older. I don't remember any other family. Several years ago my sister-in-law told me I should find my family elsewhere. She said my brothers have no natural feeling for me and don't love me. What...
    LovesWhimsy LovesWhimsy 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I have never regretted anything

    as much as I have regretted moving back home. This is coming from someone who has made more bad decisions than I can count. I've lost most all of my friends and my family exclude me from practically everything. Some of them actively dislike me and try to make every day of my...
    SocialFuckingParasite SocialFuckingParasite 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5, 2014

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    The Cylce Of Trying To Please, And Realizing Failure

    I don't even know where my story starts... I don't know that my mother even wanted to have me. At the least, she holds it against me that she was so sick when pregnant with me. But she was able to breastfeed me, and not my brother, so she tried to force it on me as long as she...
    rainbunnie rainbunnie 31-35 2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Family Reject

    It was my choice to separate myself from my family. I didn't like the sorts of things they did (including drugs, heavy drinking, and I didn't like their thoughts or opinions) but I always managed to at least get along with a few of them, if not all of them. However, to be...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    a year ago my mother

    and i had a huge fight which resulted in me being kicked out/leaving . my father and I have always been close and knows me and my mother have never gotten along, (he is married to her) and was really upset with my moving out and said some very hurtful things when i was grabbing...
    alexis102 alexis102 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2014

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    Today, the matriarch of my family,

    my aunt, is being interred. Not only was I not told that she was ill; I was not given any details as to where the funeral was going to be held or where the shiva will take place. The only person who even advised me she had passed was my brother-in-law. This is probably for...
    tjharrison tjharrison 51-55 Jul 29, 2014

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    lovingCuteSmartGirl lovingCuteSmartGirl 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My wrestling team is more to me like a family than my actual family and yesterday one of them passed his name was cooper I'm crying my eyes out because he was my friend and more...
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    When I was younger I always saw my parents as happy. Little did I know they were really far from happy. I'm an only child, and from a fairly wealthy family I always thought that...
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    Hell yes! When everything else is ******** away, what is left, but family. Yes, family is very important. Some families are screwed up to the gills, and people may have to find...
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    The Family Albums....This winter while chillin' out in Florida, my Grandfather asked me to take on the task of transferring his many photo albums from Film to Digital, after he...
    LucyLutz LucyLutz 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't speak to most of my family. I am one of 7 children. Every single one of my siblings have been scarred by my dysfunctional parents and it's bizarre that they know our...
    silvercoatedbrass silvercoatedbrass 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I have family that I really dislike (I don't like to use hate) and prefer not to speak to even when they try to reach out because its either fake or a set up for some more bs...
    shericka1992 shericka1992 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    This past weekend my husbands family had a big get together for his grandmothers 81st birthday. It was wonderful to see everyone on his dad's side since we barely ever get to...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I foster animals from the shelter I volunteer at. Even though I only had them for a few weeks, they really become a part of the family. It's a bittersweet moment to see them go to...
    TinyBabyPrincess TinyBabyPrincess 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am grateful that they provided me with a house to live in and everything else to live off from but other than that I really don't like some my family. Some have made it clear...
    rcmh171822 rcmh171822 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So I'm not trying to write a sob story, I guess I'm just looking for some kind of motivation or support or even coping strategies that may have worked for some people. So this is...
    HippieRose HippieRose 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I get horny sometimes. Mostly/especially at evening time whereas my husband is mostly in the morning. I don't understand. When he is, but I'm not he never pushes. But whenever I am...
    CrossfirexCaught CrossfirexCaught 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm the youngest child of my family. My father left us for another woman, and my mother is a single parent. I only have one sibling. I love my family, but because I was the...
    sylviaplath01 sylviaplath01 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I believe family is very important but I don't think it is everything. Family can be dangerous and toxic if they preach hate to each other. But I love my family because that's...
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    My boyfriend is a second generation Indian. I have been with him for almost 8 years, but I haven't found much acceptance from his family members. I don't hate Indians, I just hate...
    littlecoley88 littlecoley88 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I just got rejected by my crush but she said I would just like to stay friends at the moment. What do I do ask her out again wait for her to ask me out. I am just really upset and...
    alantheassassin123 alantheassassin123 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I was rejected by my peers as a little girl at the age of 4-10 for being happy and then at the ages of 11-14 for being depressed and a bisexual, but they only focused on me liking...
    personalldemon personalldemon 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    My whole family from my mother's side is broken. Everyone of them. Out of all my mother's 4 siblings, all of them have suffered, including her. I honestly think it's just like a...
    IAmJustMyself IAmJustMyself 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    please dont judge me for my grammer or lack of proper writting skills. I write as I speak you can say. Ill try to remember puntuation and all but might miss alot. Anyway here is my...
    feelinghopless feelinghopless 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    My parents rejected me for having a baby with a man from a different race. Its been 6 years since I spoke to them..
    Teegar Teegar 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    meh, you just rejected awesomenes. that's your problem not mine B)
    Azeazal Azeazal 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Strangely. The worst thing that can happen is you'll be rejected. If that happens, you'll feel relieved and can move on. It's better than not ever asking and always having a...
    Jebugo Jebugo 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I came out a few months ago to my mom and family . my granny and some of my friends excepted me .my mom went into a rage and hit me a lot . the rest of my family was just as bad...
    timjusttim123 timjusttim123 16-17, M Jun 23

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    Seems to be an ongoing thin even from people who say they are open minded. So much for integrity. But I wont change me. Ill be the same. One day I may not be rejected for me being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 23

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    to everyone: just know that i have a personal EP family group. and sometimes people like to join without my permission and they don't know what my family is all about. just know...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I was familiar with rejection but wasn't prepared for the massive level of it I would get in bars and nightclubs. I was so naive that I thought I could step into a crowded bar and...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 Jun 22

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    In my eyes blood don't make you family. Yes, it makes you related, but loyalty make you family. All family can't be trusted. My husbands family stole, lied and cheated him (well us...
    MayhemsTreasure MayhemsTreasure 26-30, F Jun 22

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    Many families have cracks. Some have small dents, chips, or polished scrapes. But broken families do exist. The pieces have been blown off and are so far from each other and so...
    Annaelaine Annaelaine 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I love my family very much. I have a mom, dad, and a brother. Even though I have a very small family, it is filled with love. Love is very important in my family and each family...
    collegecomputerwiz collegecomputerwiz 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 21

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    I grew up in what could be called a 'Narcissistic Family'. The parent agenda, took priority over the needs of my sister and me. Everything revolved around what my father decided...
    ILAMA2 ILAMA2 41-45, F Jun 20

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    I have a big family and my dad remarried and I don't know half the people in my family and I barely know anyone in my step mother's family. I've either met them and know them, met...
    Lcy2472 Lcy2472 13-15, F Jun 19

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