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I Am Sad About My Marriage

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    Wow. Just Wow. - My husband was arrested for unlawful sexual contact and harassment on his female barber, but he says it was a consensual, sexually charged conversation. We've been...
    missmetz missmetz 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I don't feel loved by my husband. We have been married for almost 11 years and have 2 beautiful children. He is at home tonight in another room and I feel lonely and typing this...
    Nasstasia Nasstasia 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 11

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    Sometimes I'm Just Sad - I took care of my husband for five days while he had the flu.  I waited on him hand and foot while I worked from home.  Now that I'm sick, he's...
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    I truly don't know what to do anymore. We fight all the time. She always seems annoyed by what I say. What the hell do I do now....
    denver19 denver19 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Feeling Unappreciated - Several years back I decided to return to school, and get my nursing degree. My husband took on another job to help out till I was out, all was fine till I...
    tellingtales tellingtales 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2012

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    Dreading Our 10th Wedding Anniversary - I've joined this group because this topic is not something I'm ready to share with people around me yet. I have been married for almost 10...
    10LY 10LY 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Strange Husband - last night me and my husband are so happy while chatting.were miles apart because of our jobs.but its not big deal at all to me but when the time goes by i felt...
    msconfuse1216 msconfuse1216 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    I feel in love at first sight, never believed in it until then. We were best friends for 2 years, dated for a year and then got married. 5 total years we've known each other. 3...
    ReeseThompson0424 ReeseThompson0424 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My Husband Breaks My Heart - My husband and I have been together for 19 years. When we met he had three girls I had one and together we had a boy. There is a 15 year difference in...
    jrdnmuso73 jrdnmuso73 36-40, F Nov 10, 2011

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    When I was growing up, my mother always used to tell me - "When you get married - it will be to a man who will love you for you. A man who really loves you won't try to change you...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Who Knew 15years Ago It Would Be Like This!! - Really! I sit here in front of my computer wondering if I should go on and on as I stared at the Title section for 15min, as I flash...
    busy559women busy559women 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Hope - One of the few things that keep me going is hope in things getting better. My marriage has been rocky ever since the beginning. I am certain that I can remember our...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I'm Meant to Live Alone - I've been married for 14 years and I think now that maybe it was a mistake. I'm too selfish to be a good husband and father. Everything was ok but then...
    SRayne SRayne 41-45 4 Responses Sep 25, 2008

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    Stuck In a Marriage -  My marriage has taught me many things about myself. I now realize that the person you get engaged to and the person you marry are two very different...
    cbr600f4 cbr600f4 36-40, M 6 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    New Life - I think all the time about what my life would have been without my husband. I dream of things me and my imaginary partner would do, and it's all opposite to what we have...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    I have been married to the greatest guy for 8 years this weekend but we have been together for 13 years. in September he said he would never feel intimate feelings for me ever...
    egnste egnste 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    Shattered Dreams -   Once long ago in another lifetime I sat in an office practice just practicing my typing. My mind began to drift as I began as usual to daydream. I imagine...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 3 Responses May 31, 2010

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    Don'T Know What To Do - I am saddened and stressed in my marriage, I have been with my hubby for 9 years and I had two kids before I met him and we have two together and one on the...
    stacyloaks stacyloaks 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Sad when I was single. I didn't have anyone I could be with to hug, kiss, to experience life with together. Now I am married. I feel trapped. I still feel sad but now it is...
    beedio beedio 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    Yes I Am Sad, Very Sad - Marriage isn't suppose to be about struggling for something that is suppose to be a natural and integral part of marriage. It has really distorted what...
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 5 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Not The Way It Should Be - I am the "Wicked Step Monster" We have been married 8 years and I have never had the respect of my step kids coupled with an ex wife who has done all she...
    Irishshanni Irishshanni 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    I'm a Terrible Person... - I don't know what's wrong with me. Last night I was so SURE that he was wrong, that I had every right to be angry and say the things I said, but today I...
    babybelly babybelly 31-35 2 Responses May 30, 2008

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    I Dont Love Him Anymore - i got married 5yrs now. ma husband didnt tel me de truth aba his lyf.he has two grown up children& a woman in abraod.now my problem is that,he sometimes...
    ladygifty ladygifty 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Not A Story For The Faint Of Heart - My story begins 17 years ago..... I met my wife and was madly in love with her. Her parents forbid our union and on Christmas day as I am in...
    Shiver8u Shiver8u 41-45 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    The Trust Is Gone - I've been married nearly 20yrs. now and have been trying to feel good for some time now. About three years ago I started noticing that my wife had been texting...
    indianaman42 indianaman42 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Tired of Crying... - I hate being miserable.  At first I thought that it was our lack of mutual friends that was the cause of our mutual existence instead of a marriage. ...
    ghostgirl ghostgirl 36-40 4 Responses Jun 17, 2008

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    Lata - I am married for 8 years. I loved him so dearly..how quick all the fun goes and the love is taken for granted. It is now a turmoil and bitterness but despite our sad...
    latabeb latabeb 41-45, F 2 Responses May 3, 2012

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    My husband is a great guy but not so as a husband. I feel so sad that ever since we got marry he has not done anything to make me feel happy and love. When he comes home from work...
    rikuxiong rikuxiong 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I have only been married for a little over a year and it was almost love at first sight, had no problems, just head over heals and wasn't even looking. It has progressed (and I...
    GinaDivine GinaDivine 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    Spinning My Wheels - I've been married over 20 yrs. I've been lied to and played like a fool for over a year and felt like my heart was ripped out. I had to leave for a couple of...
    islandbound islandbound 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Well, long story short! The other day my Wife who I loved with all my heart told me she's been feeling that she isn't 'In love' with me any more. 16 years together, just over 10...
    anotherlostguy anotherlostguy 36-40, M Mar 8

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    Get A Job - I know that this is a tough Economy, and I really do love my husband but if he doesn't get a better job, I might have to reconsider. Hes currently a waiter at a...
    Hair4wear Hair4wear 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    What To Do? - I concider myself to be a happy positive and kind  person. I have a lot going for me. 2 successful buisnesses, healthy, friends, etc...but my marriage has been so...
    pclsplove pclsplove 36-40 2 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    After The Denials - Today - jan 4th - very confused. I feel seriously under pressure. Like he marked my card. He says that unreasonable behaviour is a deal breaker for him. I...
    Corylus Corylus 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    Ungrateful - Being a player in my early days, I probably deserve being in a marriage that lacks love, affection, sex, etc.  How I try but it seems the more you try, the less...
    sadgenius sadgenius 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2007

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    It Seems Hopeless - My husband and I were planning to make a drive to fort worth tonight to visit his sister.  We didn't get to go because I went to the ER for chest pain (it...
    eromreven eromreven 26-30 6 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Did Not Want To Have Marriage Like That,,,, - I am not sad because my marriage is not going well, I am sad about my marriage didn't work how I dreamed.... But however my marriage...
    haveadrink haveadrink 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    You Creat Hell For Me - People becomes happy after their marriage because they are going to change their whole life .But but this is not true for some unlucky people like me.I...
    Deeptrust Deeptrust 26-30, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Growing Apart Rather Than Together - It's been such a rough year financially, emotionally, and physically. We came into 2011 knowing that so many changes had to be made yet...
    OctaviaM OctaviaM 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    I Want To Leave - We've only been married for 9 months. The first couple months were ok and these last ones have been horrible. After we got married, he decided to get "comfortable...
    GenevieveRohn GenevieveRohn 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    My husband and I have been married 2 years this month. We are a blended family as well. Prior to marrying, we knew we would face challenges. We have had much counseling on...
    ef25 ef25 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Young Mother, Not Happy In Marrige! Advie Welcome... - So here is my story, not sure if I will get any responses, but here goes nothing... I'm 21 years old. When I was 17, I met...
    lynnnicolemedina lynnnicolemedina 22-25 4 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Sad And Frustrated - I want so desperately to be in love with my husband. Every now and then I think, "Maybe I could try and fall in love with him again" and then he responds to...
    celticcuttie celticcuttie 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    Stuck In A Life I No Longer Want - My husband is a good man, good husband and a good father. The problem is he is not the one for me, not sure he ever was. He does not know who I...
    04bobbie16 04bobbie16 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    Disappointed - I have been married for 5 yrs.  Me and my husband have had our share of arguments.  Our marriage has been like a roller coaster, with many ups and downs...
    Grettalee Grettalee 31-35 1 Response May 18, 2009

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    I Really Hate My Husband...for Real! - I'm so frustrated with my life since the moment I said "I do" to him. Instead of making me happy as his wife, he is busy talking about how o...
    goodfornothingwife goodfornothingwife 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    Sad & Lonely But Married - I have been married 18 years to my husband but am sooooo lonely and sad. It really started 3 1/2 years ago. I was diagnosed with breast cancer and...
    coach33 coach33 41-45 3 Responses May 6, 2011

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    My Husband Loves Me Conditionally - He's 20 years older which I don't mind, but he really stays on me about what I eat and if I gain a few pounds. Keep in mind that he's overweight...
    Peters2012 Peters2012 26-30 2 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    Time to Finally Give Up? - Lately, all I feel is sad about my marriage. I dont know if I was ever really truly happy, but there was a time that I felt loved and had a sense of...
    jinkies65 jinkies65 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Not Great,Not Terrible - Lonely,very much so. It's not like other troubled marriages where we fight all the time but not what it was or should be,either. It's like the marriage in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Desperate - I feel like I married him to stop him destroying himself... not because I love him.  And now I feel like he is destroying me...
    Oregano Oregano 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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