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I Am Sad About My Mother

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

    Changing Residences

    I am sad about my mother because in less than two weeks I will be placing her in a residential Alzheimer's care facility. I don't know how I'm going to manage this. Mama has been with me 24/7 for the past two years. I've taken about five days off so I could do things with...
    jw812 jw812 51-55 1 Response Oct 3, 2009

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    I Get Sad

    i get sad bout my mom that she is not livin her life the way she should be, that she limits herself that she doesnt have more outlets, i think of this a lot, i just want her to be happy
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 14, 2008

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    Loss of More Than Just a Mom, a Friend

    My mom was a super wonderful lady. She passed away a few years ago from a car accident. Here's the thing I was thirteen and had just started my period and we didn't have any feminine hygyiene products in the house so she went to the store to buy me some along with a few other...
    teenmania teenmania 16-18, F Aug 15, 2007

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    Family Crazyness

    Salvation comes to me from the strangest places.  I was listening to a radio program, "Coast To Coast AM".  The host was interviewing Dr. Barbara Oakley.  She had written a book, "Evil Genes".  Presto.  I had a clarification about what...
    gardenbug gardenbug 70+ Nov 30, 2008

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    Dog Pee

    It smells it's on their floor it doesn't get clent everyday it makes me feel so sad mum is getting older but can still use a mop why doesn't she keep it clean?! it makes me feel sad...............................    
    mysticmum mysticmum 36-40, F Aug 10, 2007

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    The Downward Slide

    I got word from my father that my mother injured herself "falling out of bed."  Evidently he was the only one home when this happened at 4:00 pm.  Additionally my mom required stitches and it is believed (my father's belief) that her hand was cut on a...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2007

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    My Mother's 78th Birthday....did She Know What It Was About?

    July 1 is my mother's birthday.  This year she turned 78.  Her life is a horror of sorts given that she is being robbed of her faculties by Alzheimer's disease. I love her, and yet I wasn't there.  I feel sad but I am sure seeing her would have made me sadder...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2007

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    We Just Don't Get Along...

    We just don't get along. It has been harder since i married Kirst, but lets hope xmas brings us all closer.
    tamkeen tamkeen 18-21 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    My Mom And Me

    When I was little I was so terrified of my mother because she had a really bad temper.  I feel like her temper was a very destructive force in my life, it affected everything and everyone.  She got mad about everything.  And I mean really mad.  I spent the year of grade 12...
    satelliteoflove satelliteoflove 22-25, F 1 Response May 5, 2012

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    Sad and Angry......

    because she has been ill since january, and after many doctoe hospital appointment's we have only just been told she has live cancer, i am sad because sine febuary i have ask'ed repeatedly if she could have cancer because of the symtoms my mum has been showing.. all have said No...
    mini1 mini1 41-45 Jul 12, 2008

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    I've only been married 1 year and 1 month. We were friends for 2 years, then together for 2..you think that would be the set up for something amazing. Today I find out that he is...
    twilightbutterfly twilightbutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Going through a tough time in my marriage. Counseling is next, need help dealing with stepchild and working as a team to raise our children.
    saltyc123 saltyc123 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Any other daughters of narcs have this? My mother never asks how I am or cares about I feel. Talk about my problems, she doesn't listen and switches it to be about her (common...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 days ago

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    My mom hits me, pinches me in the head, slaps me, pinches me, slaps me on my arm, lies about me to others, mocks me, makes fun of my skin tone and black people in general, says my...
    ImaPrincess344 ImaPrincess344 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    So she briefly just growled him (sort of) about how he shows her no affection and love. She moans about it sometimes. They never have had sex. It lasted only about two minutes the...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 days ago

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    I was angry and said some things I shouldn't have. You know I love you, very much. You're very important to me. I've never been in this situation before, so I'm learning too. I'm...
    christinazulon christinazulon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    It's sometimes so sad that life moves on and changes, and sometimes you don't want that. There is a guy I know who is very special to me, but he is from another country and an...
    Moonstar14 Moonstar14 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    You hear about mothers-in-law that aren't friendly or a little jealous that their baby boy is all grown-up, and I personally would love to have a mother-in-law like that! But noo...
    AnneMarie2245 AnneMarie2245 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    1. My name is Vivian. 2. I have ADHD. 3. I see numbers/letters with colors. 4. I am not straight. I don't know what I am, but I know I'm not straight. 5. I play the piano. 6. My...
    VivyLaVida VivyLaVida 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My father lost his job and my mother is out of work. I have to support myself and help them, alone. Its stressful and I have no one to share my burden with. I feel scared everyday...
    PButterCaramel PButterCaramel 22-25 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Really?You lie and cheat and rub your affair into my face and cause such grief and anger and confusion in our kids and NOW you want to be there for me cause my mother passed away...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    The guy I'm seeing is a single father veteran. He has a 4 year old daughter, but I find it very difficult to be the mommy she wants me to be. My past and my nature prohibit me from...
    xxxSissyGabriellaxxx xxxSissyGabriellaxxx 18-21, T 12 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    For Bertha Back when I was 14 I had a boyfriend (we will call him Ace). He was 18 (I know, I know). Anyway, he had a gf named Bertha. Bertha was very beautiful half Korean, half...
    LanaKane101 LanaKane101 31-35, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    You have no idea how much I have cried today. I have so much pain and she only concerns herself with that abuser and expects me to as well. Except she's mad at him, I should too...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 a week ago

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    It has been a while not to say that our relationship has become rosie, but rather the amount nor time I spend with the in-laws has dwindled to non existent. So I have had nothing...
    skip79 skip79 36-40, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Last year, on my first “official” trip out of Dakar (as a UN employee), I stopped at a market town about 100 miles east of the capital. My visit was not a success as the person...
    bethturner bethturner 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    I really don't like being around my mother, she is the most hurtful person I have ever met. the things she says are just unbelievable at times... I really don't know what happened...
    veezus veezus 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    I know this is long. I want to know if anyone else feels the guilt that I feel and depression or if anyone has similar experiences. Thank you so much for your support. I feel...
    interested0001 interested0001 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I know this is long. I want to know if anyone else feels the guilt that I feel and depression or if anyone has similar experiences. Thank you so much for your support. I feel...
    interested0001 interested0001 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I have two biracial kids. Sometimes when im alone with my son, a stranger will say something Just to find out if im his mother. Youre mommy must be so proud of you and then she...
    Glowygirl Glowygirl 31-35, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now and this past year I have started to see more and more of his mothers shady ways. See his mother is a meth addict and I...
    kaylaleean kaylaleean 18-21, F Feb 14

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    Ok, so here goes. If you are no stranger to my stories you might already know some of these facts about me. But if you are new to this site or just came across me and my story at...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Get up and the first thing I hear is her talking to him. In her loving tone. She just won't shut up. She is so busy absorbed with him I startle her when I walk to where they are...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Counting down! 12 weeks to go!!! Woo hoo!!! My husband, son, and I are finally preparing to move out of our apartment leaving his mother behind as we return back to our home state...
    zamlee zamlee 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    When i was a teen my mom was my Both a mother and a father to me ..i've always found her strong,brave,social and beautiful everyone compliments her about her beauty , she's a...
    leen94 leen94 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    My mother in law is a flip flopper. One minute she is acting like my friend and then the next minute she is undermining me about something. You see, I'm African American and my...
    antique10 antique10 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    4 years ago i could of said, "my mom is the most accepting person ever, all she wants is for my to be safe and happy" and be truthful about it. she let us be ourselfs, she used to...
    andylovesyou23 andylovesyou23 13-15, M Feb 12

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    I though about praying about it but last time I did that I ended up extremely angry at God for not doing anything. I ended up tossing my Christian books aside and wanting nothing...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response a week ago

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    I wrote a question about death out of curiosity wondering how the human body works when someone dies and why people who are claimed to be dead all of a sudden have reflex action...
    Xcinderella3 Xcinderella3 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 3

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    12 things I observed about my in laws: 1. Inability to recognize and accept change in family relations and dynamics. Your son/brother has new priorities; his wife has taken the...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    Hi, I hope others have some advice or comments. Hi, I hope others have comments or advice for me. Okay so let me give a general picture of my life. I’m in college I do online...
    Newmommy24 Newmommy24 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I couldn't be with him ,, because i sent him 5 or 6 month ago to a pension ,,i couldn't keep him in my house because of my mother's allergy , but we loved him so much,,i cant tell...
    CassieJess CassieJess 22-25, F Feb 22

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    I didn't know if it was just a dream or it was a mix of a nightmare. To be able to see him in person, and the fact that he was happy and didn't need me anymore. I remember it...
    JuicyLuck JuicyLuck 18-21, F 4 days ago